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Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by rajiedreez: 11:52am On Dec 04, 2024
So because you're married to a military personnel, every fight is worth fighting?
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by LordReed(m): 11:52am On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.
So you don't even love her, no wonder you are acting like a spoilt brat. I wish I know her to advice her to immediately leave your trifling arse.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by maziude: 11:54am On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
The army is not your personal security apparatus.

You have an issue, call the police.

Nigerians and hypocrisy- you berate people for using the army to settle discord, yet, you would use the army for your own gain.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Believeintruth: 11:54am On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.
She is a very professional soldier. Kudos to your wife.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by idahme(m): 11:54am On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:
Imagine his boy being attacked and next thing he has called his oga's wife. That is what they want to turn the woman to. A voltron abi na power rangers. 😃
Reverse the scenario if the man was a military officer and the woman's employee called the man as regards to this same issue will you say same thing? If yes then that's how issues should be handled but if no then you have a problem.

Irrespective of gender no one should call military personnel for civil matters, military are only deployed during crises period and not to settle civil matters, that's the job of the police and no other. People should desist from these acts that are antithetical to societal development.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by olisaEze(m):
I find it discomforting that u think it’s okay for ur staff to call ur wife without ur prior notice. I don’t care if she’s the first female field marshal of Africa, she expects to be protected by u & not the other way around! Tomorrow u go come follow men dey call yasef man when na woman power u carry dey boast! Let her volunteer assistance & stop making her feel like the bride price u paid is MTN BOGOF….. buy wife get bodyguard free. cool
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Hushpuppy20(m): 11:55am On Dec 04, 2024
So if you don't marry army woman you will not stand up to protect your family abi?
Foolish man how did that lady end up been with you sef.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by gigabyte13: 11:55am On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.
Oga read , what you wrote yourself here
Very very pathetic........
Na God say, make she be soldier, you for don show her shege...
But God no be your mate
God pass you.
Now l understand why she is doing what she is doing.
She saw through you very very well
If l tell you say
You get low self esteem nko
You go argue with your blood
But she saw through you perfectly well.
Let her go and meet someone that truly deserved her, not you Sir
She deserved better.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Ishilove: 11:55am On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow
Oga, nothing concern army for this matter. Go and meet the police
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by celestineteryim: 11:55am On Dec 04, 2024
So bitter obituary Pandora wife is jobless grin grin
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by ehissi(m): 11:57am On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
Your wife is wise & is protecting herself. The law gives power to the Nigerian police to even arrest her let alone sergeant.

Plus, she can be blackmailed and accused of using her influence as an officer meanwhile na you go look for soldier to assist you. That Could cost her her job & career in the military.

She is just being wise. Assuming you were in military for example, it would have been different
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Fecole: 11:57am On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.
u are a shameless boy. So u married her to fight for u and protect you. Well she already know whats on ur mind and ll never give it to u. Just wen u marry a woman because of her money.she ll never give u that money.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by elooma: 11:58am On Dec 04, 2024
Your wife will go far in her career.It;s her professionalism, integrity, exemplary and qualitative leadership she is exhibiting. Commend her.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Numerouno94(m): 11:58am On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.
U wan use hand scatter ur marriage. God give u better wife but u nor knw.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Ishilove: 11:58am On Dec 04, 2024
gigabyte13:
Shebi you be man
So because she be lieutenant, make she turn herself to MC oluomo because of you.
Act like Man
You are to protect her and her children not the other way round.....
Bro grow up Man
Take responsibility.
No be you go dey tell her when to fight for you , when it is time to, nobody go tell her.
Nairalanders get bad mouth. Kai
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by worldclass68(m): 11:58am On Dec 04, 2024
I like your wife.......
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Fecole: 12:00pm On Dec 04, 2024
Hushpuppy20:
So if you don't marry army woman you will not stand up to protect your family abi?
Foolish man how did that lady end up been with you sef.
is that one a man. He is just a boy.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by victorVIC1(m): 12:00pm On Dec 04, 2024
If you've ever spoken against those who abuse power then you should have an idea why your wife refuses to interfere in civil matters. If I was in the military, I would barely involve myself in family/ friend related issues. Except in cases where there is a threat to life then you go see the real meaning of madness
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by delpee(f): 12:00pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies
Assume that your wife is not in the military and be more wary of getting into trouble like the majority who have no one to run to. If you avoid getting into bad situations, no one will have cause to laugh at you. Disciplined officers don't get involved in civil cases which is under the control of the Police and Civil Defence. Let her be focused on her primary duty of protecting our nation from external aggression.

Hope you didn't marry her so you can use her to oppress others. It's wise to teach your child to stand up to bullies or report as deemed appropriate in school or elsewhere.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Numerouno94(m): 12:01pm On Dec 04, 2024
Acidosis:
You should have married a tout, bro. Military women are kindhearted and adorable.
Lol.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by elooma: 12:02pm On Dec 04, 2024
She will go far.She has a target and vision of where she wants to be.She is a professional.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Samdede1984: 12:03pm On Dec 04, 2024
What's our businsess
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Gggjhhj: 12:03pm On Dec 04, 2024
U think you go about causing problems because your wife is a military personnel, one week one trouble, people get problem with people everyday, things that could even be settled easily, since you feel there is a backup you may still want to increase the tempo, I feel she did the best thing, you explained 3 situations where she did not use her power.

What would you have done if your wife was not a military personnel
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by idahme(m): 12:04pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d idiots that beat nd bullied my boy nd was nearly beaten to death. I don't need police to handle this, i don't even need any soldier to handle it, since she can't handle it, we are done.

I will snap d boy's pictures @d hospital tomorrow
You are a disgrace to sane society, people like you should never handle power.

When issues come up the best is to go the legal way, the police are there to do their job but you rather mobilize street which is illegal. You never sleep for prison for assault and attempted murder that's why you are palpitating
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by CaptainFM1: 12:05pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
Are you telling me that you don't know the police is the right security force for all internal and domestic affairs?

As a matter of fact, the only person that can deploy military personnel is the President or anyone acting in his capacity.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by idahme(m): 12:06pm On Dec 04, 2024
duduade:
Correct woman

You be weakling

You expect her to be fighting your battles for you because she's in the military

You be disgraceeee to our gender
Assuming it's the wife issues will you expect him to fight? If yes then you are a big problem.

No one should ever use the military for civil case issues whether male or female.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Fiscus105(m):
Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies
So u are causing trouble because, your wife is a soldier.


Yet you are one of those miscreants on faceless forum, wailing day and night about rots in Naija system.
.....they criticising and complaining about others, even, wen themselves would do worse if given opportunity.


Let me tell you a story that happened few years back,......I used to drink in Mami market then, soo, many soldiers normally came there, we used to drink and socialising together.

There was this particular soldier, that I sometimes buying beer for, since he saw my kind gesture, he himself, offered to give me his number, told me, incase, if I have any issue, I should call him, I declined initially, but wen he put pressure on me I collected.

Did u know why I didn't collect it, .......because, I might start misusing power, if I know I have a soldier that ready to fight for me,issues I supposed to resolve without degenerate to bigger problems, I would make sure, It degenerated.

The day I collected the number from the soldier, was the day I went to Maami market last to drink and I didn't even dial his number let alone calling him.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by SEGLIZ: 12:07pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
u don't know how it feels...

Marrying a woman that is a feminist and woke. Always right and wants to be in charge of u like u are a baby. Tells u how to do and undo things yet she can never stage an arrest for u.
you are one of our problems in this country, you lied about her clipping you with pregnancy. you intentionally married her so she can bully people on you behalf.
didn't you know she was a military woman before laying her and spreading her legs? didn't you know or tink twice she would get pregnant or something (hand don touch you).
you were happy laying a military woman but now she isn't doing your bidding she turns useless, oga check yourself.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by CaptainFM1: 12:07pm On Dec 04, 2024
elooma:
She will go far.She has a target and vision of where she wants to be.She is a professional.
With that kind of a man as husband, I doubt it he won't be a clog in that target and vision.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by JuanDeDios: 12:08pm On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Chinny024(f): 12:08pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.
🤣🤣🤣🤣..Forced marriage indeed..
You got married to her as ur defense?..otilor..
U must hv offended her somehow, ur write up shows u also verbally abuses her..Forced marriage indeed.
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