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MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

with till old age or civil war. We will review then

MsIjeoma:
It's difficult for both genders. Make Una rest.

Even In marriage, women are useless. Balthazar open Una fishy nyansh

Gistmedia10:
Social media user ThatBlessedGirl stirred online conversations with her post:

"Girls will think men are easy and cheap to get. Until it’s time to get married. You’ll realise that commitment from men might even require you to go to Shiloh."

This statement highlights the challenges women face when seeking long-term commitment from men, particularly in the context of marriage. The mention of Shiloh, a well-known annual Christian prayer retreat, implies the level of spiritual dedication some may feel is necessary to secure a serious commitment.

Netizens flooded the comment section with divided opinions. Some agreed, sharing personal experiences of how men often hesitate to commit, while others felt it unfairly placed blame on women.

Only a girl assumes men are cheap and easy to get. The men who are cheap are just playing.

A real man doesn’t settle for a girl. He’s looking for a woman—and women? Oh, they’re a rare find.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

I respect those who see marriage as overrated—everyone’s journey is unique. But here’s what I’ve noticed. Many who feel this way never fully confront their own role in the experience.

Marriage isn’t overrated; self-centeredness is. When two people prioritize 'me' over 'we,' even the best union will fail.

It’s not about rushing in but about learning, growing, and valuing the right kind of partnership.

It is men who are to blame....

It isn't that women think men are easy to get when they are ready to marry. Rather, the wild imagination of men, and their ungentlemanly way in relationship scare women, keeping women to take caution and their time.

Well, demands women may often make is not what should push men to become adverse.

Yankee101:
Absolutely

They think the number of men that want to sleep with them will also want to marry them

Then it’s time to marry and almost all of them they’ve slept with are not interested

A woman who preserves her purity is a hot sell anytime any day

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siofra toast me I agree,,she come dey tell her useless friends say I dey cheap. last month the werey buy cheap ring wan propose marriage I tell am say "I will think about it"the werey got angry



Did I do anything bad?

RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys

Men just don't find it easy to get good wives, so It's difficult to find one when you want to settle down. The reason is, you have studied them so much that you don't want to be committed anymore. Those above 30 or mid 30s don't want to settle down.

ZolotuaLorenzo:
Even In marriage, women are useless. Balthazar open Una fishy nyansh

Thanks for the information. I'm sure your mother who raised you would be thrilled to know that she's useless to you.

MsIjeoma:
Thanks for the information. I'm sure your mother who raised you would be thrilled to know that she's useless to you.

Women who are quick to insult other people's mothers never respected theirs.

Any logical person would concentrate her attacks on the guy rather than his family but you ain't logical

luminouz:
Women who are quick to insult other people's mothers never respected theirs.

Any logical person would concentrate her attacks on the guy rather than his family but you ain't logical

Let's do some logic then. Shey you did syllogisms in Logic 101?

Premise 1: All women are useless (as claimed by ZolotuaLorenzo)
Premise 2: ZolotuaLorenzo's mother is a woman
Conclusion: ZolotuaLorenzo's mother is useless.

If you can prove that this is not a solid deduction based on the available premises, then your objection stands and the conclusion is wrong. If not, then I'll have to assume that you are just a pretentious and dishonest individual possibly hiding his misogynistic tendencies behind his fraudulent understanding of "logic".

At any rate, I don't care what anybody here thinks about men or women. Personally, I think it's stupid to make blanket statements about any gender. I just wanted to show the boy the implications of his argument, in case he didn't realize, that he just wilfully insulted his own mother.

felixzo1:
the solution is simple, only date who is good enough for marriage, this will make one very selective but it pays.

And that person that is "good enough for marriage" doesn't or wouldn't she have a choice to date you or not?

Just like you decide to choose her, she will also decide to choose you or as the case may be, accept you.

MsIjeoma:
Let's do some logic then. Shey you did syllogisms in Logic 101?

Premise 1: All women are useless (as claimed by ZolotuaLorenzo)
Premise 2: ZolotuaLorenzo's mother is a woman
Conclusion: ZolotuaLorenzo's mother is useless.

If you can prove that this is not a solid deduction based on the available premises, then your objection stands and the conclusion is wrong. If not, then I'll have to assume that you are just a pretentious and dishonest individual possibly hiding his misogynistic tendencies behind his fraudulent understanding of "logic".

At any rate, I don't care what anybody here thinks about men or women. Personally, I think it's stupid to make blanket statements about any gender. I just wanted to show the boy the implications of his argument, in case he didn't realize, that he just wilfully insulted his own mother.

K

luminouz:
K

Good. You're welcome.

MsIjeoma:
Good. You're welcome.

K