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Please I need an advice,
I am in a relationship with this girl,
Very beautiful, tall and slim,
Infact she's my spec when it comes to physical appearance,
But I just noticed that she has little strands of beard close to her jaw,
This really turned me off, as I hate to see any masculine trait in a lady,
I googled more about girls that has beards, and found out they have excess androgen (male hormone) which is supposed to be lesser in a female,
Now I'm thinking weird, because whenever I try to make out with her, I just feel like I'm trying to make out with my fellow man, and this reduces sexual arousal,
I mean how can a woman have excess male hormone,
Please how do I really get rid of this kind of thinking, I really love this Gal, buh this male trait in her , turns me off sexually from her,

Check well, her clitoris might be a very small dick too...

🤭

This is like one of the funniest shiit I've read in a while . Hahahahahaha!!!

advanceDNA:
This is like one of the funniest shiit I've read in a while . Hahahahahaha!!!

Lol, am I just thinking weird...

Just imagine

Swiss92:
Lol, am I just thinking weird...

To be honest ... u are not thinking weird ooo.....lol....u have every right to feel a bit weird .....

...I will not lie...I don't like those type of women...

...but to be fair...there are plenty fine women that have it...and it doesnt make them less than a woman..

But if u can't look past it ...mayb u should just move on because with time she will get used to it and remove it less often which u may not like......
..but I also think it something u won't worry about with time... especially if she's a good woman that give u peace of mind, kind, team player...etc .

Lobatan,.. love? 💞👀

Ok

There’s someone for everyone. If she’s not for you, pls don’t waste her time. Kindly let her be so she can find love elsewhere

advanceDNA:
To be honest ... u are not thinking weird ooo.....lol....u have every right to feel a bit weird .....

...I will not lie...I don't like those type of women...

...but to be fair...there are plenty fine women that have it...and it doesnt make them less than a woman..

But if u can't look past it ...mayb u should just move on because with time she will get used to it and remove it less often which u may not like......
..but I also think it something u won't worry about with time... especially if she's a good woman that give u peace of mind, kind, trem player...etc .

Wow

Swiss92:
Please I need an advice, I am in a relationship with this girl, Very beautiful, tall and slim, Infact she's my spec when it comes to physical appearance, But I just noticed that she has little strands of beard close to her jaw, This really turned me off, as I hate to see any masculine trait in a lady, I googled more about girls that has beards, and found out they have excess androgen (male hormone) which is supposed to be lesser in a female, Now I'm thinking weird, because whenever I try to make out with her, I just feel like I'm trying to make out with my fellow man, and this reduces sexual arousal, I mean how can a woman have excess male hormone, Please how do I really get rid of this kind of thinking, I really love this Gal, buh this male trait in her , turns me off sexually from her,

Chances are high that even if she were to temporarily —hormonal issues of the kind you described are typically in the DNA—eliminate the problem now, you would still feel the same way about it if it were to become an issue again. And honestly, I would not advise any woman to undergo any medical stresses of this kind for any man. My suggestion to you is two-fold
➛ let the gal go so she can find someone to love her for how she is and who she is.
➛ update your red-flag list so you don't waste your or someone else's time on this sort of thing in the future.

cococandy:
There’s someone for everyone. If she’s not for you, pls don’t waste her time. Kindly let her be so she can find love elsewhere

Exactly!

cococandy:
There’s someone for everyone. If she’s not for you, pls don’t waste her time. Kindly let her be so she can find love elsewhere

Seems you guys don't understand that I do love her, I'm just seeking advice on how I should eliminate those weird thoughts

Swiss92:
■ Seems you guys don't understand that I do love her, I'm just seeking advice on how I should eliminate those weird thoughts

You don't seem to know or understand what it means to love someone! All the more reason why you should let her go now before you cause even more damage. 🤔🤔

You love her but strand of facial hair is getting in the way? Do you have lots of facial hair? ...long thick or fast growing beard? If not ... what if she has a weird feeling that it is because you have too much estrogen? ...female hormone? I would want to believe you do .... because a few strands of facial hair on a woman never gets to a real man ... he will notice it .. just like he would notice a pimple ... and keep it moving ... wouldn't lose a minute sleep thinking about it .....let alone go do research like you. It is clear you are looking for a perfect woman .... but the last perfect person period left this earth a bit over two thousand years ago ... a male ...but he said he will be back.

Nobody fit even give am solution...buy her clipper joor and shaving cream.

Or talk to a doctor or any specialist that can give you solution(s).

Swiss92:
Seems you guys don't understand that I do love her, I'm just seeking advice on how I should eliminate those weird thoughts

You can’t

illicit:
Check well, her clitoris might be a very small dick too...

🤭

Hian

So it happen that the girl visited me ,
We got into intense romance,
But I noticed that my bulge wasn't strong enough to penetrate her,
I mean those thoughts of she has hair like a man caused this,
At a point the girl was begging me to penetrate her but I don't actually know what to do,
I found it difficult to,
I noticed the sad look on her face tho,

I'm really angry at myself,
This girl is very beautiful and every man's desire ,
I even plan on coming to see her people by new year to finalise marriage,
But I don't know why my sexual feelings towards her isn't aligning,
I feel like I need a therapist , I'm kind of tired,

Swiss92:
So it happen that the girl visited me ,
We got into intense romance,
But I noticed that my bulge wasn't strong enough to penetrate her,
I mean those thoughts of she has hair like a man caused this,
At a point the girl was begging me to penetrate her but I don't actually know what to do,
I found it difficult to,
I noticed the sad look on her face tho,

I'm really angry at myself,
This girl is very beautiful and every man's desire ,
I even plan on coming to see her people by new year to finalise marriage,
But I don't know why my sexual feelings towards her isn't aligning,
I feel like I need a therapist , I'm kind of tired,

Let her go, you are obviously not matured enough to be in a relationship with a girl like that.

Swiss92:
So it happen that the girl visited me ,
We got into intense romance,
But I noticed that my bulge wasn't strong enough to penetrate her,
I mean those thoughts of she has hair like a man caused this,
At a point the girl was begging me to penetrate her but I don't actually know what to do,
I found it difficult to,
I noticed the sad look on her face tho,

I'm really angry at myself,
This girl is very beautiful and every man's desire ,
I even plan on coming to see her people by new year to finalise marriage,
But I don't know why my sexual feelings towards her isn't aligning,
I feel like I need a therapist , I'm kind of tired,

how the fvck is she Everyman's when you cant get rock solid to penetrate her

Tell her to cut it regularly. Problem solved.

Silentgroper:
how the fvck is she Everyman's when you cant get rock solid to penetrate her

Very funny shit

Know she is igbo

The love you have for her should make u know u need to get a clipper and barb the trash off her beard

The unfortunate thing here is that she is dating a child and a mentally immature individual. She deserves better than you.

Lol, interesting😂, okay, other commentators have answered you, you will be fine.

Dogalmighty17:
The unfortunate thing here is that she is dating a child and a mentally immature individual. She deserves better than you.

I feel like you're senseless

Silentgroper:
how the fvck is she Everyman's when you cant get rock solid to penetrate her

Apart from the strands of hairs, she's very beautiful

Tayorshd87:
The love you have for her should make u know u need to get a clipper and barb the trash off her beard

Okay the thing here is that majority of you don't actually know what I'm passing through,
It's not really just about the strands of hairs,
It is about what makes those hairs to be there,
Which is excess "male hormone " in a woman,
And then it turns me off sexually, knowing that she has excess male hormone in her,
This makes me feel like she's not feminine enough and leading to low sexual attraction towards her,

It's common with my ppl and doesn't mean anything.
But pls leave her this morning if you have any reservations about her.

Swiss92:
Please I need an advice,
I am in a relationship with this girl,
Very beautiful, tall and slim,
Infact she's my spec when it comes to physical appearance,
But I just noticed that she has little strands of beard close to her jaw,
This really turned me off, as I hate to see any masculine trait in a lady,
I googled more about girls that has beards, and found out they have excess androgen (male hormone) which is supposed to be lesser in a female,
Now I'm thinking weird, because whenever I try to make out with her, I just feel like I'm trying to make out with my fellow man, and this reduces sexual arousal,
I mean how can a woman have excess male hormone,
Please how do I really get rid of this kind of thinking, I really love this Gal, buh this male trait in her , turns me off sexually from her,

Lol. Tells you that love goes beyond physical appearance. Even if she doesn't have that beard, after 4 years of constant knacking and having 2 children, your spec mentality will be damaged as her shape would have changed, breasts might have fallen, vagina may have slackened due to the two-time delivery.

You should also know that having excess androgen as a lady goes beyond the physical. Attitudinally, she's likely to have domineering and anger mentality which is associated to males. Sexually too, you may not be enough to satisfy her as androgen is a form of testosterone.

It's not her fault however, it's you who should understand that loving a woman forever and physical beauty are two things that should not overlap.