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Hello Nairalanders.

So, a very long time ago, I followed my mother to her church for general prayers. I was a very young boy then and the prophetess gave me a message to not marry a fair lady anytime I’m ready to get married. She didn’t really explain much.

Years went by and i have been with several fair girls ever since then. I had completely forgotten the whole thing. Even my mom didn’t remember.

Recently, i went for general prayers in another church. I’m in my mid 30’s now. The prophetess in this church mentioned this “don’t marry a fair lady” message again. I had already forgotten and suddenly remembered the first message. This second prophetess now further explained that I should not even have fair ladies as girlfriends not to talk of getting intimate with them. I asked her why and what could be done. She told me it is what my destiny/head says and that marrying a fair lady will make life journey hard for me. Like things will not work out well generally if I keep dating fair ladies or marry them.

I’d like to ask if anyone has been in this same condition before and how did you go about it. Suggestions and opinions are also appreciated. Thanks.

Babashifawu:
Hello Nairalanders.

So, a very long time ago, I followed my mother to her church for general prayers. I was a very young boy then and the prophetess gave me a message to not marry a fair lady anytime I’m ready to get married. She didn’t really explain much.

Years went by and i have been with several fair girls ever since then. I had completely forgotten the whole thing. Even my mom didn’t remember.

Recently, i went for general prayers in another church. I’m in my mid 30’s now. The prophetess in this church mentioned this “don’t marry a fair lady” message again. I had already forgotten and suddenly remembered the first message. This second prophetess now further explained that I should not even have fair ladies as girlfriends not to talk of getting intimate with them. I asked her why and what could be done. She told me it is what my destiny/head says and that marrying a fair lady will make life journey hard for me. Like things will not work out well generally if I keep dating fair ladies or marry them.

I’d like to ask if anyone has been in this same condition before and how did you go about it. Suggestions and opinions are also appreciated. Thanks.

Hmmm, all these prophetic churches shaaa


anyway, I HAVE obeyed and also DISOBEYED because I use my head many times.

see, if you like fair ladies, find the one that is genuine.... that is submissive while she has her own money... else OBEY and marry a brown skin lady who has good character and is not jobless or cashless.

MARRIAGE IS NOT BY SKIN COLOR.

I suspect these prophetesses may even be fair in complexion


IF YOU PERCEIVE they are not genuine prophetesses.... pls MARRY FAIR PRETTY LADY WHO GIVES YOU PEACE.

Last last, its still your choice

Hmm.
I will call this a coincidence although, I will not doubt the efficacy and primacy of the metaphysical over humans. However, in your context, skin colour has nothing to do with your downfall or progress. You claimed that you have dated fair girls in the past, what happened during those while? Are you not still alive and possibly doing well in your current state?

Success comes with hard work, dedication, and smartness. Irrespective of the skin pigment, you go suffer if you date the wrong woman. 💯

Shalom👐

Babashifawu:
■Recently, i went for general prayers in another church. I’m in my mid 30’s now. The prophetess in this church mentioned this “don’t marry a fair lady” message again. I had already forgotten and suddenly remembered the first message. This second prophetess now further explained that I should not even have fair ladies as girlfriends not to talk of getting intimate with them. I asked her why and what could be done. She told me it is what my destiny/head says and that marrying a fair lady will make life journey hard for me. Like things will not work out well generally if I keep dating fair ladies or marry them.
■I’d like to ask if anyone has been in this same condition before and how did you go about it. Suggestions and opinions are also appreciated. Thanks.

1. Did you at least ask any of them why you should stay away from fair ladies?
2. So do you intend to allow another to decide your fate?

Guy, if you don't want to regret your life or divorce latter, do as they told you.

I understood why.

Very very important message.

I hope say no be say u wan do like my friend Dami, after f*cking one yellow girl she dey carry that time baba say him prophet tell am make she no marry yellow girl, na so baba take leave the girl.

CYBERSOLDIERSre:
■Guy, if you don't want to regret your life or divorce latter, do as they told you. I understood why. Very very important message.

1. So, all the people wey don follow prophet's advice wey come regret am later, some even divorcing several times as a result, nko?

K

What if you get married to a black lady and she later bleach her skin?

To Live Long You Have To Survive This

Apostle Joshua Selman

Listen And Learn


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ln3Wvgomx8

yrhuhfy113:
Hmmm, all these prophetic churches shaaa


anyway, I HAVE obeyed and also DISOBEYED because I use my head many times.

see, if you like fair ladies, find the one that is genuine.... that is submissive while she has her own money... else OBEY and marry a brown skin lady who has good character and is not jobless or cashless.

MARRIAGE IS NOT BY SKIN COLOR.

I suspect these prophetesses may even be fair in complexion


IF YOU PERCEIVE they are not genuine prophetesses.... pls MARRY FAIR PRETTY LADY WHO GIVES YOU PEACE.

Last last, its still your choice

Thank you for your contributions @yrhuhfy113. In all fairness, the second prophetess did explain to me that if eventually I meet a responsible fair lady that I’m sure of, we will need to make some prayers so as to make things work out well between us.

One thing she kept saying is that i should try to avoid sleeping with fair ladies generally.

Toneypen247:
Hmm.
I will call this a coincidence although, I will not doubt the efficacy and primacy of the metaphysical over humans. However, in your context, skin colour has nothing to do with your downfall or progress. You claimed that you have dated fair girls in the past, what happened during those while? Are you not still alive and possibly doing well in your current state?

Success comes with hard work, dedication, and smartness. Irrespective of the skin pigment, you go suffer if you date the wrong woman. 💯

Shalom👐

Thank you for your contribution @Toneypen247. Honestly, things have been somehow o. I have actually been dating fair ladies all these years 0 and things are looking more like a journey of 1 month is now taking 1 year to achieve. That’s part of the reason i even went for prayers sef.

bercarray:
I hope say no be say u wan do like my friend Dami, after f*cking one yellow girl she dey carry that time baba say him prophet tell am make she no marry yellow girl, na so baba take leave the girl.

Haha! Not all. That’s not the case.

LogicBomb8:
What if you get married to a black lady and she later bleach her skin?

Hmn, another angle. Anyways, I don’t think people still do such; Black skin bleaching completely to light skin.

Since you can attest to the fact that your life showed no improvement with them fair skinned ones, why don't you heed the counsel and avoid anything intimate with them?
Shun sexual immorality, and be serious with a black skinned gal.
A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips.

Babashifawu:
Thank you for your contribution @Toneypen247. Honestly, things have been somehow o. I have actually been dating fair ladies all these years 0 and things are looking more like a journey of 1 month is now taking 1 year to achieve. That’s part of the reason i even went for prayers sef.

Wow....
I wasn't gonna comment here, but I like cannot believe that this thread is serious?
I don't mean to be rude, but the red flags here are glaring.....so bright I can't see...
There are so many things wrong with this thread...

I'm wrong for laughing, but the poster above me was hilarious with the last line of his post..
"A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips."

Nigerians, really? Are you serious?
1). Believing anyone who says he/she is a prophet/prophetess without vetting them scripturally to even know if he/she is truly called?
2). Prophecies about discrimination against a skin color?

Folks, you've got to do better....

Ms. Eviana

Blue86:
Since you can attest to the fact that your life showed no improvement with them fair skinned ones, why don't you heed the counsel and avoid anything intimate with them?
Shun sexual immorality, and be serious with a black skinned gal.
A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips.

Thank you @Blue86 🙏

You are welcome sir

Babashifawu:
Thank you @Blue86 🙏

@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

I think you should be safe rather than being sorry at the end of the day.
I've heard similar about fair women before.

U1:
@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

Shifawu still dey with baba God. She never come down 😂

Can you share more about your experience so we can all learn ? Did they tell you not to get intimate with fair girls too ?

U1:
@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

@U1

Babashifawu:
Shifawu still dey with baba God. She never come down 😂

Can you share more about your experience so we can all learn ? Did they tell you not to get intimate with fair girls too ?

Not to marry one that is "pupa" (light or fair skinned). No further details provided as to the possible consequence(s) of marrying one.

Hello guys! I purposely search this topic on google so i can see you guys advice. I also have similar message from my aunty, my spiritual father (a cherubim woli) and another celestial pastor my mom invited me to for prayer. I was told i can buy bleaching cream for my woman if i like a fair lady but i should not marry a naturally fair lady. Actually, before i started receiving the messages, i had a serious relationship with a dark skin lady but it didn't go well at all. She talks with authority, get aggravated so fast. She said it to my roommate face one that while he was helping us to settle a fight that she feel like slapping me. Thats for you guys to know the type of girl she was. She got me aggravated one day that i had to slap her to shut her up when she was shouting at 11pm. I was so upset because im a very cool headed guy. I felt so embarrased that people would be hearing us fighting. My landlord purposely sat with me and my roommate outside one night and gave us marital advice knowing fully well the sermon was for me. My street bro and my roommate knew we were not compatible but they couldnt tell me directly so my street bro decided to connect me with a fair lady whom i cheated with and disflowered. My dark skin ex caught me speaking with her one day so i decided to cut ties with the fair lady to save my two years relationship. It was a tough decision because i am not that heartless but i had to stick to my committed two years relationship. I did it through text and ghosted her. She was so heartbroken, she tried to reach me by all means but i refused to give her audience. Few months later, i went broke and fell sick that i almost died. That was my worst ever sickness in my entire life. Not like i was productive since i started dating the dark skin girl but things became worst that i couldnt even go out with my broken phone. Well, i survived the sickness. few months later, i summoned courage and broke up with the dark skin girl. Few weeks after the breakup, i was lonely so i called the fair lady again, we spoke and i asked her if i could come and see her and she agreed. I told my friend to follow me to beg her. We begged her then we started dating again. few months later, things started getting better, i started making money and changed my broken phone that I couldn’t even go out with. To cut the long story short, we are perfect match, we hardly fight nor argue, she gifts me and i reciprocate. We are both intentional. She never judged me with what i did to her. We discussed about our previous issue one day. I told her i saw her hand, that i nearly died. she told me she didnt do anything to me but she had a dream that two girls woke her up from her sleep and promised to deal with me on her behalf. She told me she used to be omo elegbe but she was delivered at a celestial church when she was young. She also told me she got a message from a cac pastor that i am the one for her, that i am omo ologo, even before i broke her heart. She said she wanted to tell me but she felt i would start misbehaving. We have been dating for the past 3 years and she is now my fiancee. We moved in together. We are both first born. She prays a lot and always tell me we need to be prayerful because we are both first born. She is not a cac member neither is she a celestial member. but the CAC pastor is her spiritual father and both she and her mom attend his program sometimes. I am not religious. Like i always say, no middleman between me and God. She has her own business and she is more like the bread winner of her family while i am also the one my family depend on as a guy from a very poor family with zero help from anyone. She is so supportive and understanding. I am not rich, i am average, i have a small car. Back to the prophecy, I started receiving the message after over a year that we got back together. But we have come too far, won’t i just die if i break her heart again? Her mother already know me and we have even moved in together. I explained to my mom and my spiritual father, he said she is the one the prophecy was referring to but i should not worry that there is something we can do but the two of us have to come to him. I AM FUCKING CONFUSED. She is the best i have ever had. And i think we have a bright future together. Even when i ignore her demand and send money to my mom, she wont complain. I believe such fair girl are good to their husbands as long as their husbands does not hurt them or make them feel sad. But the prophecy still baffles me.

Naijaboyydada:
....The message started coming in after over one year that we got back together. I explained to my spiritual father, he said she is the one the message was referring to but i should not worry that we will both have to come to him. I AM FUCKING CONFUSED. She is the best i have ever heard and i think we have a bright future together. Even when i ignore her demand and send money to my mom, she wont complain. I believe such fair girl are good to their husband as long her their husband doesnt hurt them or make them feel sad. ADVICE ME GUYS!

In the simplest way possible, your problem is that you are a mugu/mumuni...easily manipulated brain who is easy fodder for people who claim to be pastors and prophets... all of them merely con men/predators who prey best on easy victims. And you will probably remain one until you take your brain back from those people you call prophets and pastors and make decisions for your self based on common sense and solid evidence.

Pardon my grammatical blunder. I was rushing and i don`t have much time to read and edit it.

Bro a family friend who is like a sister to me and is not even a pastor told me same thing. I am actually a tough person. I am ready to move on with her and deal with the consequence if at all there is one because this relationship feels so good to me. She is very proud of me even with the little i have and i feel our stars work together like she said she was told because she is doing well on her own. She is the bread winner of her family just like i am the one all my family depend on. She gives me business idea and even told me to use her shop for a business which i did but later pull out because i dont want her mom to start looking at me somehow. Her mom is also good to me though, but as the bread winner of her family and as a very reserved person that doesn’t joke with my his self respect, i don’t want a situation whereby her mom will start looking at me somehow. Well, i will heed to my spiritual father since he said there is something we can do.

Naijaboyydada:
Bro a family friend who is like my aunty told me same thing. I am actually a tough person. I am ready to move on with her and deal with the consequences if at all it occur because this relationship feels so good to me. She is very proud of me even with the little i have and i feel our star also work together because she is doing well on her own. She is the bread winner of her family. she gives me business idea. She even told me to use her shop for a business, i had to pull out later because i dont want her mom to start looking at me somehow. As the bread winner of her family na, i dont want a situation whereby her mom will start looking at me somehow. Well i will heed to my spiritual father since he said we should come to him.

Liberate yourself from the hands of mind-diddlers who call themselves prophets, pastors, apostles, etc.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dm_fZVwrNIk?si=tNQGJqgW6V5t-3SO
Go on Youtube and listen to Rotimi Daniels for example. Many callers have been were you are, used and eventually dumped, miserable by these so-called spiritual con-men. Emancipate yourself!

@Naijaboyydada, This one comes recommended for you too!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BA4Cs6cyFuE?si=Jej9HPhARX8U_o78

I assume you understand the Yoruba language. Sorry, he speaks Yoruba in a lot of his videos but he is worth listening to if you can pick a thing or two here and there from what he is saying.

@Naijaboyydada, This one also comes recommended for you too!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REJvLwFmg-g?si=97zMGtmiS-ThEBIa

Now this isn't an attempt at getting you to switch gods or something but basically an attempt to get you to see no human is worth worshipping in the way you worship these prophets/pastors/bishops, etc.

Naijaboyydada:
Hello guys! I purposely search this topic on google so i can see you guys advice. I also have similar message from my aunty, my spiritual father (a cherubim woli) and another celestial pastor my mom invited me to for prayer. I was told i can buy bleaching cream for my woman if i like a fair lady but i should not marry a naturally fair lady. Actually, before i started receiving the messages, i had a serious relationship with a dark skin lady but it didn't go well at all. She talks with authority, get aggravated so fast. She said it to my roommate face one that while he was helping us to settle a fight that she feel like slapping me. Thats for you guys to know the type of girl she was. She got me aggravated one day that i had to slap her to shut her up when she was shouting at 11pm. I was so upset because im a very cool headed guy. I felt so embarrased that people would be hearing us fighting. My landlord purposely sat with me and my roommate outside one night and gave us marital advice knowing fully well the sermon was for me. My street bro and my roommate knew we were not compatible but they couldnt tell me directly so my street bro decided to connect me with a fair lady whom i cheated with and disflowered. My dark skin ex caught me speaking with her one day so i decided to cut ties with the fair lady to save my two years relationship. It was a tough decision because i am not that heartless but i had to stick to my committed two years relationship. I did it through text and ghosted her. She was so heartbroken, she tried to reach me by all means but i refused to give her audience. Few months later, i went broke and fell sick that i almost died. That was my worst ever sickness in my entire life. Not like i was productive since i started dating the dark skin girl but things became worst that i couldnt even go out with my broken phone. Well, i survived the sickness. few months later, i summoned courage and broke up with the dark skin girl. Few weeks after the breakup, i was lonely so i called the fair lady again, we spoke and i asked her if i could come and see her and she agreed. I told my friend to follow me to beg her. We begged her then we started dating again. few months later, things started getting better, i started making money and changed my broken phone that I couldn’t even go out with. To cut the long story short, we are perfect match, we hardly fight nor argue, she gifts me and i reciprocate. We are both intentional. She never judged me with what i did to her. We discussed about our previous issue one day. I told her i saw her hand, that i nearly died. she told me she didnt do anything to me but she had a dream that two girls woke her up from her sleep and promised to deal with me on her behalf. She told me she used to be omo elegbe but she was delivered at a celestial church when she was young. She also told me she got a message from a cac pastor that i am the one for her, that i am omo ologo, even before i broke her heart. She said she wanted to tell me but she felt i would start misbehaving. We have been dating for the past 3 years and she is now my fiancee. We moved in together. We are both first born. She prays a lot and always tell me we need to be prayerful because we are both first born. She is not a cac member neither is she a celestial member. but the CAC pastor is her spiritual father and both she and her mom attend his program sometimes. I am not religious. Like i always say, no middleman between me and God. She has her own business and she is more like the bread winner of her family while i am also the one my family depend on as a guy from a very poor family with zero help from anyone. She is so supportive and understanding. I am not rich, i am average, i have a small car. Back to the prophecy, I started receiving the message after over a year that we got back together. But we have come too far, won’t i just die if i break her heart again? Her mother already know me and we have even moved in together. I explained to my mom and my spiritual father, he said she is the one the prophecy was referring to but i should not worry that there is something we can do but the two of us have to come to him. I AM FUCKING CONFUSED. She is the best i have ever had. And i think we have a bright future together. Even when i ignore her demand and send money to my mom, she wont complain. I believe such fair girl are good to their husbands as long as their husbands does not hurt them or make them feel sad. But the prophecy still baffles me.

Wow! God is the Greatest. My brother, my eyes have seen terrible things with dark skin lady. First one cheated on me severally, the character of the second one is just like the description of your own dark skin babe. I’m tired.

Please let me know what you finally decided on…did you eventually go down the lane of “praying” about it to resolve the case between you and fair ladies?

I would love to do the same too @Naijaboyydada

U1:
@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

If you attend a sincere white garment church, count your self lucky!!