Hello Nairalanders.

So, a very long time ago, I followed my mother to her church for general prayers. I was a very young boy then and the prophetess gave me a message to not marry a fair lady anytime I’m ready to get married. She didn’t really explain much.

Years went by and i have been with several fair girls ever since then. I had completely forgotten the whole thing. Even my mom didn’t remember.

Recently, i went for general prayers in another church. I’m in my mid 30’s now. The prophetess in this church mentioned this “don’t marry a fair lady” message again. I had already forgotten and suddenly remembered the first message. This second prophetess now further explained that I should not even have fair ladies as girlfriends not to talk of getting intimate with them. I asked her why and what could be done. She told me it is what my destiny/head says and that marrying a fair lady will make life journey hard for me. Like things will not work out well generally if I keep dating fair ladies or marry them.

I’d like to ask if anyone has been in this same condition before and how did you go about it. Suggestions and opinions are also appreciated. Thanks.

Babashifawu:
Hello Nairalanders.

So, a very long time ago, I followed my mother to her church for general prayers. I was a very young boy then and the prophetess gave me a message to not marry a fair lady anytime I’m ready to get married. She didn’t really explain much.

Years went by and i have been with several fair girls ever since then. I had completely forgotten the whole thing. Even my mom didn’t remember.

Recently, i went for general prayers in another church. I’m in my mid 30’s now. The prophetess in this church mentioned this “don’t marry a fair lady” message again. I had already forgotten and suddenly remembered the first message. This second prophetess now further explained that I should not even have fair ladies as girlfriends not to talk of getting intimate with them. I asked her why and what could be done. She told me it is what my destiny/head says and that marrying a fair lady will make life journey hard for me. Like things will not work out well generally if I keep dating fair ladies or marry them.

I’d like to ask if anyone has been in this same condition before and how did you go about it. Suggestions and opinions are also appreciated. Thanks.

Hmmm, all these prophetic churches shaaa


anyway, I HAVE obeyed and also DISOBEYED because I use my head many times.

see, if you like fair ladies, find the one that is genuine.... that is submissive while she has her own money... else OBEY and marry a brown skin lady who has good character and is not jobless or cashless.

MARRIAGE IS NOT BY SKIN COLOR.

I suspect these prophetesses may even be fair in complexion


IF YOU PERCEIVE they are not genuine prophetesses.... pls MARRY FAIR PRETTY LADY WHO GIVES YOU PEACE.

Last last, its still your choice

Hmm.
I will call this a coincidence although, I will not doubt the efficacy and primacy of the metaphysical over humans. However, in your context, skin colour has nothing to do with your downfall or progress. You claimed that you have dated fair girls in the past, what happened during those while? Are you not still alive and possibly doing well in your current state?

Success comes with hard work, dedication, and smartness. Irrespective of the skin pigment, you go suffer if you date the wrong woman. 💯

Shalom👐

Babashifawu:
■Recently, i went for general prayers in another church. I’m in my mid 30’s now. The prophetess in this church mentioned this “don’t marry a fair lady” message again. I had already forgotten and suddenly remembered the first message. This second prophetess now further explained that I should not even have fair ladies as girlfriends not to talk of getting intimate with them. I asked her why and what could be done. She told me it is what my destiny/head says and that marrying a fair lady will make life journey hard for me. Like things will not work out well generally if I keep dating fair ladies or marry them.
■I’d like to ask if anyone has been in this same condition before and how did you go about it. Suggestions and opinions are also appreciated. Thanks.

1. Did you at least ask any of them why you should stay away from fair ladies?
2. So do you intend to allow another to decide your fate?

Guy, if you don't want to regret your life or divorce latter, do as they told you.

I understood why.

Very very important message.

I hope say no be say u wan do like my friend Dami, after f*cking one yellow girl she dey carry that time baba say him prophet tell am make she no marry yellow girl, na so baba take leave the girl.

CYBERSOLDIERSre:
■Guy, if you don't want to regret your life or divorce latter, do as they told you. I understood why. Very very important message.

1. So, all the people wey don follow prophet's advice wey come regret am later, some even divorcing several times as a result, nko?

K

What if you get married to a black lady and she later bleach her skin?

To Live Long You Have To Survive This

Apostle Joshua Selman

Listen And Learn


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ln3Wvgomx8

yrhuhfy113:


Hmmm, all these prophetic churches shaaa


anyway, I HAVE obeyed and also DISOBEYED because I use my head many times.

see, if you like fair ladies, find the one that is genuine.... that is submissive while she has her own money... else OBEY and marry a brown skin lady who has good character and is not jobless or cashless.

MARRIAGE IS NOT BY SKIN COLOR.

I suspect these prophetesses may even be fair in complexion


IF YOU PERCEIVE they are not genuine prophetesses.... pls MARRY FAIR PRETTY LADY WHO GIVES YOU PEACE.

Last last, its still your choice

Thank you for your contributions @yrhuhfy113. In all fairness, the second prophetess did explain to me that if eventually I meet a responsible fair lady that I’m sure of, we will need to make some prayers so as to make things work out well between us.

One thing she kept saying is that i should try to avoid sleeping with fair ladies generally.

Toneypen247:
Hmm.
I will call this a coincidence although, I will not doubt the efficacy and primacy of the metaphysical over humans. However, in your context, skin colour has nothing to do with your downfall or progress. You claimed that you have dated fair girls in the past, what happened during those while? Are you not still alive and possibly doing well in your current state?

Success comes with hard work, dedication, and smartness. Irrespective of the skin pigment, you go suffer if you date the wrong woman. 💯

Shalom👐

Thank you for your contribution @Toneypen247. Honestly, things have been somehow o. I have actually been dating fair ladies all these years 0 and things are looking more like a journey of 1 month is now taking 1 year to achieve. That’s part of the reason i even went for prayers sef.

bercarray:
I hope say no be say u wan do like my friend Dami, after f*cking one yellow girl she dey carry that time baba say him prophet tell am make she no marry yellow girl, na so baba take leave the girl.

Haha! Not all. That’s not the case.

LogicBomb8:
What if you get married to a black lady and she later bleach her skin?

Hmn, another angle. Anyways, I don’t think people still do such; Black skin bleaching completely to light skin.

Since you can attest to the fact that your life showed no improvement with them fair skinned ones, why don't you heed the counsel and avoid anything intimate with them?
Shun sexual immorality, and be serious with a black skinned gal.
A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips.

Babashifawu:


Thank you for your contribution @Toneypen247. Honestly, things have been somehow o. I have actually been dating fair ladies all these years 0 and things are looking more like a journey of 1 month is now taking 1 year to achieve. That’s part of the reason i even went for prayers sef.

Wow....
I wasn't gonna comment here, but I like cannot believe that this thread is serious?
I don't mean to be rude, but the red flags here are glaring.....so bright I can't see...
There are so many things wrong with this thread...

I'm wrong for laughing, but the poster above me was hilarious with the last line of his post..
"A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips."

Nigerians, really? Are you serious?
1). Believing anyone who says he/she is a prophet/prophetess without vetting them scripturally to even know if he/she is truly called?
2). Prophecies about discrimination against a skin color?

Folks, you've got to do better....

Ms. Eviana

Blue86:
Since you can attest to the fact that your life showed no improvement with them fair skinned ones, why don't you heed the counsel and avoid anything intimate with them?
Shun sexual immorality, and be serious with a black skinned gal.
A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips.

Thank you @Blue86 🙏

You are welcome sir

Babashifawu:


Thank you @Blue86 🙏

@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

I think you should be safe rather than being sorry at the end of the day.
I've heard similar about fair women before.

U1:
@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

Shifawu still dey with baba God. She never come down 😂

Can you share more about your experience so we can all learn ? Did they tell you not to get intimate with fair girls too ?

U1:
@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

@U1

Babashifawu:


Shifawu still dey with baba God. She never come down 😂

Can you share more about your experience so we can all learn ? Did they tell you not to get intimate with fair girls too ?

Not to marry one that is "pupa" (light or fair skinned). No further details provided as to the possible consequence(s) of marrying one.