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Baronthecelebri:
I support her on this, if you're worth 5k when single, after marriage you're should be worth 15k. That's importance of marriage

TheFreshVanilla:
Coming from a gold-digger who married a white man old enough to be her father. Maybe already calculated man won't live long. He died, only for her to inherit his property.

Baronthecelebri:
I support her on this, if you're worth 5k when single, after marriage you're should be worth 15k. That's importance of marriage

idahme:
If as a man when you marry and it doesn't uplift the man financially hope you will also support the man to take the next exit? A man can loose financially for the sake of the family and a woman shouldn't , delusional people walking the streets of the world. Provider man , that term was only relevant when the woman weren't capable to provide for themselves, only delusional women remain in this cycle.

You have been educated given everything that will expose one to achieving greatness in life and you want me that has same opportunities and even less to provide for you? let women continue in this delusional mindset that as an adult they shouldn't be responsible for themselves and should live life with zero responsibility and accountability that's their business, not a soul with such zero accountability and responsibilities will I allow close to my precinct. Provider man so that when my money gets finished you run to another provider man

The attitude of women to never accept accountability and responsibilities for their actions is sickening, see how she otherwise blamed the husband of the thief instead of blaming the thief. Which man has ever stolen and they blame women who push these men to stealing before? Provider men aka mumu man will be pushed to provide and he goes into armed robbery and gets caught who is to be blamed?

The attitude of women thinking once they get married they can afford not to contribute a single dime for the rest of their life is sickening, that man who does this for them can never be me. I can't be yoked with an irresponsible woman for any reason.

Fahvvy:
idahme

You took the words right outta my mouth ...

A man was made to be the sole provider in the era where women were not allowed to work, NOT ANYMORE! ...

Some women are indeed very delusional:

You went to school, I went to school
You graduated and I also graduated
You got a job and I got a job
The opportunities that are out there for you, are the same (or even less) for me

And yet, somehow, after we meet again in 5 years, I'm expected to carry the entire financial burden of a full-grown adult who isn't in any way handicapped? ...

And worse still, I have to do that together with putting up with disrespect and ingratitude, all in the name of being a "real man"? ...

You must be joking! ...

The results of my efforts are for me, myself and I. Any woman coming into my life to share in it must either come with value or bounce ...

idahme:
If as a man when you marry and it doesn't uplift the man financially hope you will also support the man to take the next exit? A man can loose financially for the sake of the family and a woman shouldn't , delusional people walking the streets of the world. Provider man , that term was only relevant when the woman weren't capable to provide for themselves, only delusional women remain in this cycle.

You have been educated given everything that will expose one to achieving greatness in life and you want me that has same opportunities and even less to provide for you? let women continue in this delusional mindset that as an adult they shouldn't be responsible for themselves and should live life with zero responsibility and accountability that's their business, not a soul with such zero accountability and responsibilities will I allow close to my precinct. Provider man so that when my money gets finished you run to another provider man

The attitude of women to never accept accountability and responsibilities for their actions is sickening, see how she otherwise blamed the husband of the thief instead of blaming the thief. Which man has ever stolen and they blame women who push these men to stealing before? Provider men aka mumu man will be pushed to provide and he goes into armed robbery and gets caught who is to be blamed?

The attitude of women thinking once they get married they can afford not to contribute a single dime for the rest of their life is sickening, that man who does this for them can never be me. I can't be yoked with an irresponsible woman for any reason.

Fahvvy:
idahme

You took the words right outta my mouth ...

A man was made to be the sole provider in the era where women were not allowed to work, NOT ANYMORE! ...

Some women are indeed very delusional:

You went to school, I went to school
You graduated and I also graduated
You got a job and I got a job
The opportunities that are out there for you, are the same (or even less) for me

And yet, somehow, after we meet again in 5 years, I'm expected to carry the entire financial burden of a full-grown adult who isn't in any way handicapped? ...

And worse still, I have to do that together with putting up with disrespect and ingratitude, all in the name of being a "real man"? ...

You must be joking! ...

The results of my efforts are for me, myself and I. Any woman coming into my life to share in it must either come with value or bounce ...

dawnomike:
She has spoken...

DyshApp:
Reality TV star and entrepreneur Ka3na shares a shocking experience of betrayal by a longtime staff member, attributing a theft incident to the employee’s recent marriage.

In a heartfelt post on her Instagram story, the former Big Brother Naija housemate revealed that the staff had worked loyally for years without any issues.

However, her story changed recently when she duped her out of a small amount of money, triggering a deep sense of betrayal.

Ka3na noted that the behaviour change coincided with the staff member’s recent marriage and pregnancy.

“A staff who had worked with me for years and never stole from me has recently duped me of a small amount of money. This happened shortly after she got married and is now pregnant,” Ka3na narrated.

Using the incident as a cautionary tale, Ka3na advised women to be intentional about their choice of partners.

“Ladies, when choosing a partner, marry someone who is a provider—someone who will uplift you, not drag you down. If you’re thriving as a single woman, marriage should enhance your life, not diminish it,” she added.

Baronthecelebri:
I support her on this, if you're worth 5k when single, after marriage you're should be worth 15k. That's importance of marriage

G0Oodharddick:
Which one is ladies should Marry someone who will uplift them?

Dear men,

Don't uplift any woman. You're not her father. Uplift yourself and Invest on yourself that a woman will be afriad of leaving u, rather than uplighting her and she'll dump you immediately she sees a man who's richer than you. And when you say anything to her "she'll ask you what have you done for me? Did I force you to do any of that for me?

Be wise