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Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by tollyboy5(m): 2:41pm On Dec 17, 2024
Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him
How do you fall in love with someone this m@d. You're also a problem to have make such heavy mistake and give birth to four
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Minjim: 2:42pm On Dec 17, 2024
Staying in the relationship was very toxic .
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by MatrixCircle: 2:42pm On Dec 17, 2024
Farting multiple times all night the first night she visited and passed the night at my place.
Though I regretted ending the relationship because she was loving and kind hearted.
I missed her dearly. Even her contact I lost it.
I searched everywhere, on Facebook I couldn't find her again because she left with anger due to my unruly behaviour to start avoiding her.
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by jattopeter(m): 2:42pm On Dec 17, 2024
Hmmmmm , what was your wife's reaction?
nifemi25:
She is a divorcee while am married... We are into friends with benefits..... I couldn't believe it when she called my wife and revealed to her she is the second wife... Even told her she is a friend on Facebook and will like to meet her so as to be a friend.... I sharperly blocked her on all social media and also blocked her getting access to me...
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Remijuice: 2:44pm On Dec 17, 2024
Keep it coming keep it coming
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by dynicks(m): 2:44pm On Dec 17, 2024
Smithwilliams826:
na lust you fall in. Dem no dey fall in love
point bro.....What we call love is simply lust!!

The only one who's proven true perfection of love to us is JESUS CHRIST! and secondly maybe from family members...
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by tollyboy5(m): 2:47pm On Dec 17, 2024
Mummyfour:
oga, sincerely there was no waka waka. I wasn't even going anywhere. No work, no business. Nothing. Just sitting down in the house for peace sake. It was just low self esteem that was worrying him. I never cheated. And besides it was not just about me. He had issues with women working and earning money. So he could have done same to virgin Mary.

I be good woman o. And I fine well well 😊 😊
Women like us are hard to come by, but we usually end up with terrible men. So maybe he was afraid to loose me, but yes he finally did because his approach was very bad and demeaning
He was not matured and so insecure and you refuse to build his confidence.
You only picked fault.
Is that not what happened?
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Free2Fly: 2:49pm On Dec 17, 2024
nifemi25:
She is a divorcee while am married... We are into friends with benefits..... I couldn't believe it when she called my wife and revealed to her she is the second wife... Even told her she is a friend on Facebook and will like to meet her so as to be a friend.... I sharperly blocked her on all social media and also blocked her getting access to me...
grin
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Mummyfour(f):
tollyboy5:
How do you fall in love with someone this m@d. You're also a problem to have make such heavy mistake and give birth to four
see ehn!! I knew him when I was very young. He was so involved in my family and I guess I was too naive to notice the red flags then. A lot of things I saw then, I waved aside thinking that when we got older and more matured he would drop those things. Boy! I was wrong. It got worse. How does a man dish out 6 hot slaps on one side of a woman's cheeks because she confided in his elder brother to tell him to stop smoking cigarettes because of his weight. His anger was that I should not have told his brother he smokes. My face was swollen for almost a week
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Samantha125(f): 2:50pm On Dec 17, 2024
As for baby daddies, unless I also have children from a previous relationship, which I don't, I want nothing to do with them because I don't see myself being someone's stepmother and I certainly don't want any baby mama drama.
tollyboy5:
From your first statement of baby daddies. You've actually stereotyped them to having multiple partners and possibly becoming baby daddy to some other girls.
Now you're trying to be a bit nicer 😏
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Hotspurs: 2:51pm On Dec 17, 2024
hmmm well what can i say.. all the best
Mummyfour:
oga, sincerely there was no waka waka. I wasn't even going anywhere. No work, no business. Nothing. Just sitting down in the house for peace sake. It was just low self esteem that was worrying him. I never cheated. And besides it was not just about me. He had issues with women working and earning money. So he could have done same to virgin Mary.

I be good woman o. And I fine well well 😊 😊
Women like us are hard to come by, but we usually end up with terrible men. So maybe he was afraid to loose me, but yes he finally did because his approach was very bad and demeaning
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by jattopeter(m): 2:52pm On Dec 17, 2024
You did the right thing. Despite I am of the same faith with her , that's a big Red flag for me. Ladies that carries church for head , worship their Pastor , changes Churches like a cloth , thats a big red flag.
Sirseedorf:
I'm a Muslim though, but she as a Christian took the church going way higher than the people of Israel, I never quarrel or disagree of our differences on religion beliefs but she's too damn religious, and another thing is that she changes church like clothes, sometimes i asked if she's the only one with problems.

Being religious is not my thing abeg.
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Mummyfour(f): 2:52pm On Dec 17, 2024
tollyboy5:
He was not matured and so insecure and you refuse to build his confidence.
You only picked fault.
Is that not what happened?
pick faults. Who born me to pick faults?.

My experiences have taught me to become more of a motivational speaker where relationships are concerned. What makes you think I never built his confidence. I used everything possible to build his confidence. Even people that knew me did same for my sake but he was not just matured like you said. And secondly, when you have a man that feels that women are lesser animals ( I said animals) not humans,you can't ever satisfy them
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Free2Fly: 2:53pm On Dec 17, 2024
TableLeg:
Ori e ti Daaaru, pelu thread oponu yi!
Foooool.
Will you get out of this forum and do something better with your life?
Stop writing any stupiid, terror-like language here
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Mummyfour(f): 2:54pm On Dec 17, 2024
Hotspurs:
hmmm well what can i say.. all the best
😀 Thanks. I will advise young people to look out for red flags. They are always there.
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Remijuice: 2:55pm On Dec 17, 2024
Pls some people should stop asking unnecessary questions. Wetin happen don happen. Abi u wan go bring d relationship back huh
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Remijuice: 2:58pm On Dec 17, 2024
Mummyfour:
😀 Thanks. I will advise young people to look out for red flags. They are always there.
They won't. As you didn't. It's nobody fault. D more d kids come in d more u see clearer.

It takes special grace of God for one to see and abide by such signs.
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by stasius: 2:59pm On Dec 17, 2024
Sirchiboy:
1st girl: She said no sex and I asked her what does she has to offer apart from sex.
She couldn't say anything..
Very mumu girl forming big but she stay in one room with her married elder brother in Egbelu.
I like her sha and I thought I will marry her but
After I don knack her then we depart.

Second girl:Na through parole I meet her and we became friends .
One day out of the blues, she came to my house that her room mate chase out and I agreed to accommodate her but two weeks I have to chase her because she is stingy and wicked.
I gave her rules concerning food.
That we should be managing.
This girl will mix two soup together and eat.
Imagine cooking three pots of soup and within 5 days all the soup finished.
She will eat and wash plates so that I won't know .
Soap and paste will finish she won't bother to buy.
I have to chase her away. Some girls no just get sense.
Any girl i must I , must stay with me for sometime let me know her level of financial discipline and management.
Your question does not correlate with the response you gave.

Firstly were you madly in love with them? NO
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by NOETHNICITY(m): 2:59pm On Dec 17, 2024
Foul pussy smell
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by mrkenny05: 3:00pm On Dec 17, 2024
Mummyfour:
oga, sincerely there was no waka waka. I wasn't even going anywhere. No work, no business. Nothing. Just sitting down in the house for peace sake. It was just low self esteem that was worrying him. I never cheated. And besides it was not just about me. He had issues with women working and earning money. So he could have done same to virgin Mary.

I be good woman o. And I fine well well 😊 😊
Women like us are hard to come by, but we usually end up with terrible men. So maybe he was afraid to loose me, but yes he finally did because his approach was very bad and demeaning
We, nice man still dey,
But your 'kind' hardly see ...

NOTE : KIND ...

without being self delusional but with pure clarity of purpose,
You meet us,
But we are far a rare gem,
Hard to come by,
Often misjudged by outward..
But we know who we are,
Silently living life,
Contented with little we have,
Praying for more to come ...
Living a crime free life, cos we never force things to our way....

We are serious commiter to any relationship,
Business, partnership and love life....

Ohh,

Where would you meet us....huh
With this our yearly comment...

E-mail for an enquiry.....
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Remijuice: 3:00pm On Dec 17, 2024
NOETHNICITY:
Foul pussy smell
It might be infection. Sorry.



The one wey drop comment before me na weyrey
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by id4sho(m): 3:01pm On Dec 17, 2024
Date your class, don't settle for less. Love is blind but marriage will open your eyes 💯🤣😅😂. Stop playing 🏃🏃🏃
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Sp1ritHusband(m): 3:02pm On Dec 17, 2024
Mummyfour:
pick faults. Who born me to pick faults?.

My experiences have taught me to become more of a motivational speaker where relationships are concerned. What makes you think I never built his confidence. I used everything possible to build his confidence. Even people that knew me did same for my sake but he was not just matured like you said. And secondly, when you have a man that feels that women are lesser animals ( I said animals) not humans,you can't ever satisfy them
It was not your duty to build his confidence.
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by DemonSlayer:
Madly in love with? Naah, too old for that sh!t.

However, if the question were what turned you off from someone you fancied, I could pull out a fairly recent instance. I could list a bunch of things that turned me off, but here are the top seven.

1. She has a habit of interrupting. I'd be right in the middle of a sentence expressing my thoughts, and she'd just interrupt and hijack the conversation. I find that rude and off-putting because this attitude has to sit on the assumption that what she has to say is more important than what I'm already saying. I'm not used to struggling to put a word in, or having to raise my voice in a perfectly civil conversation just to be heard. Along the same lines is:


2. She talks too much. We could be on the phone for an hour, and she'd have talked for 55 minutes. I understand the stereotype of the talkative female and their need to air out the entire content of their mind, but a conversation is supposed to be a dialogue, not a monologue, for a reason. I tend to think this behavior signals a self-centered person.

About 3 weeks in, I knew virtually everything about her—down to the marital issues of her parents' neighbours back home. She doesn't even know how many siblings I have or what their names are, I asked her which State I'm from and I swear she guessed the wrong one. Leading us to:


3. She's always on the phone with her mom or sister, sharing the latest gossip—be it about an extended family member, a church member, a neighbour, etc. Every 10 or 15 minutes, the phone rings—mommy is calling. Even informing her mom of my presence when I visit. Not far from this is:


4. She shares secrets of mutual friends/acquaintances without being asked. I literally have a big sack of people's secrets that I'm taking to my grave and I don't understand why people just volunteer other people's private business when there isn't a pew-pew 🔫 pressed to their temple.


5. She talks about her own beauty too much. If it's not her luxuriant, long black hair, it's her spotless fair skin, and the list of people who fell for her because of these features.

🎼So if you like
The way 🎶
🎵 you look that much
Oh baby you should go and fvçk yourself 🎶


6. She fakes virtue. Always talking about acts of kindness and generosity that she and her family have done.


7. And finally, the most scary thing—the straw that broke the camel's back—is: she once gave me 32 missed calls in a single day. Maybe it's a joke or something, but to me, it was absolute psycho!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oyEuk8j8imI?si=_vnk-But-QOXCCbB
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Houseofglam7(f): 3:04pm On Dec 17, 2024
tollyboy5:
I was loving you. But you don marry 😭
Okay
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Lanmonfishery(m): 3:05pm On Dec 17, 2024
I was broke and couldn’t keep up
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Remijuice: 3:07pm On Dec 17, 2024
Lanmonfishery:
I was broke and couldn’t keep up
Was she broke too
Sorry.
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by TableLeg(m): 3:07pm On Dec 17, 2024
Free2Fly:
Stop writing any stupiid, terror-like language here
You are insane, bloody cretinous troglodyte!
Who are you? Abi oya weyrey ni? O fe soriburuku wo inu odun tuntun ni?
Basta....rd!
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Lanmonfishery(m): 3:09pm On Dec 17, 2024
Remijuice:
Was she broke too
Sorry.
All I can say is she was better than I was
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Dogalmighty17: 3:11pm On Dec 17, 2024
Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him
Are you still with him?
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by Remijuice: 3:12pm On Dec 17, 2024
Lanmonfishery:
All I can say is she was better than I was
And she let u go? Maybe she was not in love.
It's fine.
Re: What Ended Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In LOVE With by NACE13: 3:13pm On Dec 17, 2024
I wasn't in love but was crushing on her at first but I killed it off because of two reasons:
We work in same organization but different department. So, I don't sh*t where I eat.
She feels like she's the holiest of all. Kai! Very pretentious as well
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