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Mummyfour:
Never!! Never . Infact he is the one that refuses to have any thing to do with the children. They call him to wish him happy father's day, merry Christmas and infact good wishes. But he refuses and rejects them. He doesn't want to be a part of their lives. God bless you really good for your kind thoughts and good wishes. And you voted? I am humbled and feel honoured too.
May God bless you and your family

Be strong,God will see you through. He will later regret it.
I pray it should not be too late for him.
Stay blessed

Sirchiboy:
1st girl: She said no sex and I asked her what does she has to offer apart from sex.
She couldn't say anything..
Very mumu girl forming big but she stay in one room with her married elder brother in Egbelu.
I like her sha and I thought I will marry her but
After I don knack her then we depart.

Second girl:Na through parole I meet her and we became friends .
One day out of the blues, she came to my house that her room mate chase out and I agreed to accommodate her but two weeks I have to chase her because she is stingy and wicked.
I gave her rules concerning food.
That we should be managing.
This girl will mix two soup together and eat.
Imagine cooking three pots of soup and within 5 days all the soup finished.
She will eat and wash plates so that I won't know .
Soap and paste will finish she won't bother to buy.
I have to chase her away. Some girls no just get sense.
Any girl i must I , must stay with me for sometime let me know her level of financial discipline and management.

Infidelity

She told me she's a born-again Christian and that there shall be no sex before marriage and I agreed because I wasn't spending much on her but one day, her boyfriend came to visit her and I asked her who he is in the boy's presence and she confessed he is her boyfriend.
That made me stop having any feelings for her.

imagrg:
She told me she's a born-again Christian and that there shall be no sex before marriage and I agreed because I wasn't spending much on her but one day, her boyfriend came to visit her and I asked her who he is in the boy's presence and she confessed he is her boyfriend.
That made me stop having any feelings for her.

You were meant to be a plan B, but everything played out too quickly and the Cat was let out of the bag. Too bad because she lost you and I'm certain the other man won't take her serious either

Samantha125:
That's nice... The world needs more guys like you.

rare breeds.People are commending my calm ness.I have only one friend since childhood till this moment.He is also as calm as I am.

Impressive ... I also have one best friend, we've been friends since the third grade in primary school... But she's more laid back than me...

hartson:
rare breeds.People are commending my calm ness.I have only one friend since childhood till this moment.He is also as calm as I am.

Jasix:
I've stopped loving. I will never love again. I can't bear the rigors, the betrayals, the lies, disloyalty, deciets and unfaithfulness.

Good call! In the future, when you are ready to have children, look out for viable partnerships. By that, I mean a woman who compliments your values and whose strengths can rub off on your weaknesses positively. Look out also, for character synchronisation. Once you find such a woman, marry her. Love is just a feeling. Love and hate are guarded (not completely) by the same hormones. So why risk eternity because of a feeling that can deteriorate to hate?

Lanretoye:
The end of her feelings for me is the beginning of the end of my own too,I can’t be feeling for who is not feeling for me.

Looks like you have gained mastery of detachment theory.

Samantha125:
Impressive ... I also have one best friend, we've been friends since the third grade in primary school... But she's more laid back than me...

Wow!interesting . it makes one refrain from too much wahala associated with human beings.I like your charisma.

tollyboy5:
Be strong,God will see you through. He will later regret it.
I pray it should not be too late for him.
Stay blessed

Amen. I pray it's not too late honestly. And like I would always tell his friends to tell him, he should not forget his old age. Because his children may be beyond his reach when he needs them as he has abandoned them now. I tell them to tell him that because he would definitely need his children later and as I have tried to make his children reach out to him even though he refuses, he may later regret it

Juliearth:
Infidelity

Yes ma

lendahand:
must a Yoruba person shout and write curses/abuses to prove a point? Disgusting!!

Ode ni daddy e.

yes

Ekstraz:
Are you still available?

Well, thank you for the compliment...

hartson:
Wow!interesting . it makes one refrain from too much wahala associated with human beings.I like your charisma.

[quote author=Jasix post=133334345]I've stopped loving. I will never love again. I can't bear the rigors, the betrayals, the lies, disloyalty, deciets and unfaithfulness.
Share please

Mummyfour:
. Me sef I no understand myself ooo. I was young and naive.it took a toll on me

Funny...

But I still think there's a side of this story that you're not telling...

You couldn't have been all perfect, mushy and cuddly while he was all beastly, vile and evil...

Sounds like a fairytale... sorry to say

DAntivirus:
Funny...

But I still think there's a side of this story that you're not telling...

You couldn't have been all perfect, mushy and cuddly while he was all beastly, vile and evil...

Sounds like a fairytale... sorry to say

I have been expecting this. Nobody ever said I was perfect. Nobody is perfect. But at times our own imperfections pales out by a higher imperfection. Hope you understand what I mean?

And any imperfection that comes with physical, verbal abuse and all round domestic violence, it's not really worth it.

yarimo:
I am here to read Lies

EVERYBODY WON'T BE LIKE YOU.

Sirchiboy:
1st girl: She said no sex and I asked her what does she has to offer apart from sex.
She couldn't say anything..
Very mumu girl forming big but she stay in one room with her married elder brother in Egbelu.
I like her sha and I thought I will marry her but
After I don knack her then we depart.

Second girl:Na through parole I meet her and we became friends .
One day out of the blues, she came to my house that her room mate chase out and I agreed to accommodate her but two weeks I have to chase her because she is stingy and wicked.
I gave her rules concerning food.
That we should be managing.
This girl will mix two soup together and eat.
Imagine cooking three pots of soup and within 5 days all the soup finished.
She will eat and wash plates so that I won't know .
Soap and paste will finish she won't bother to buy.
I have to chase her away. Some girls no just get sense.
Any girl i must I , must stay with me for sometime let me know her level of financial discipline and management.

She doesn't return my call...she only call when she needs sex or need advice on laptop / car issues

She farted into my egusi soup.

I don't play with my food

Juliearth:
Good call! In the future, when you are ready to have children, look out for viable partnerships. By that, I mean a woman who compliments your values and whose strengths can rub off on your weaknesses positively. Look out also, for character synchronisation. Once you find such a woman, marry her. Love is just a feeling. Love and hate are guarded (not completely) by the same hormones. So why risk eternity because of a feeling that can deteriorate to hate?

Thanks so much for this advice, I really appreciate. God bless you so much

Mummyfour:
oga, sincerely there was no waka waka. I wasn't even going anywhere. No work, no business. Nothing. Just sitting down in the house for peace sake. It was just low self esteem that was worrying him. I never cheated. And besides it was not just about me. He had issues with women working and earning money. So he could have done same to virgin Mary.

I be good woman o. And I fine well well 😊 😊
Women like us are hard to come by, but we usually end up with terrible men. So maybe he was afraid to loose me, but yes he finally did because his approach was very bad and demeaning

You fine well well but no proof.. yinmu!!!

Oya send me your picture or you don marry?

Sorry o.. Grandma

Mummyfour:
it was the worst time of my life. No jobs, no business, no money, but my friends stood by me. I contemplated suicide severally, but the live if my children held me back. At a point I tried going to beg the same person that threw me out for the sake of being with my children, but my son and older daughter told me that if I did that,they would never forgive me because they preferred me staying apart from them than they seeing his violence on me. Eventually I went for my children when he began to deny me access to them. Even stopped them from going to school, so I would not be visiting them in school.

The day I went for my children with welfare people, he said that for the fact that I was taking the children away, he would never assist with their welfare or anything. And he stood by his word for years. My children were minors. I was tired of fighting. I was a wreck. We began to sleep in my brother's sitting room floor. Until some how God showed up through the people I had helped and we moved to a 2 bedroom.
I suffered ooo.
I really did.
The things I went through.
But God has been faithful.
I have the most wonderful children ever.
Good children who stood by me.
Tightly knit in love for one another. God fearing, devoted to the things of the lord and extremely smart.

That reminds me.please guys help me vote my daughter to win this competition. Open the link and see how she wrote and recited this spoken word/ poem.
https://sageatwords.com/vote/spoken-word-contest/1449

😳😳😳
Nah...I refuse to believe this till I hear the man's side biko.

luminouz:
😳😳😳
Nah...I refuse to believe this till I hear the man's side biko.

no wahala. Truth can always be very difficult to believe. I really don't need to convince you. It's my truth and I am saying it for us all to learn our lessons and look out for red flags. Nobody is perfect, but there are things that should make you reconsider Your stands in a relationship. If I had died and maybe someone else was telling the story,guess, you would have still told the person it was a lie that you can only believe it if I came out of the grave to tell it. I am too matured to make up stories or even tell tales that would make me look like the heroine and the man as a foe, but seriously it happened the way I told it.

I spent all my love on chinenye

What stops my heart was that she's so insecure of her family's history, she plays victim hood, she refused to let her past go away and face a future, and at such started becoming uneasy at my innocuous questions

What again can we discuss when my simple questions where a threat to her

Every discussion start and flow with questions in my case it is reverse because my dearest chineye will become uneasy


I have to move on
My heart was neutered

And no doubt she loves me

luminouz:
You fine well well but no proof.. yinmu!!!

Oya send me your picture or you don marry?

Sorry o.. Grandma

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Vote my daughter in this competition to win abeg

🤣🤣https://sageatwords.com/vote/spoken-word-contest/1449

This thread made me remembered a lady I met about two months ago who I think was cursed with stinginess, lack of awareness and complaints.

Despite the fact that she was a working class like myself, earning well too, her 5 naira won't leave her hand. In fact, to spend on herself was a problem, tell her to buy you a stuff while coming, she wouldn't until you make a transfer despite knowing that you still gonna give her the money.

She asks unreasonable questions, I mean out of point questions, that was the first thing I disliked about her, in my mind I was questioning her sanity, if we go on outing, she'd always complain about how bad the fast foods taste, yet she can't and wouldn't cook. Her place was like junkyard, I suspected she could be on some drugs.

I cut her off the moment I was sick & I asked her to buy me somethings on her way to my place, and she feint forgetfulness till she showed in my apartment to get the cash, now I dislike her more than anything, I hardly respond to her texts & she's been begging to get back to me, I simply told her my wife is in the country now lol.

Lies
She can lie for Africa.
She can lie and wake the dead

nifemi25:
She is a divorcee while am married... We are into friends with benefits..... I couldn't believe it when she called my wife and revealed to her she is the second wife... Even told her she is a friend on Facebook and will like to meet her so as to be a friend.... I sharperly blocked her on all social media and also blocked her getting access to me...

u say ?

Sirchiboy:
1st girl: She said no sex and I asked her what does she has to offer apart from sex.
She couldn't say anything..
Very mumu girl forming big but she stay in one room with her married elder brother in Egbelu.
I like her sha and I thought I will marry her but
After I don knack her then we depart.

Second girl:Na through parole I meet her and we became friends .
One day out of the blues, she came to my house that her room mate chase out and I agreed to accommodate her but two weeks I have to chase her because she is stingy and wicked.
I gave her rules concerning food.
That we should be managing.
This girl will mix two soup together and eat.
Imagine cooking three pots of soup and within 5 days all the soup finished.
She will eat and wash plates so that I won't know .
Soap and paste will finish she won't bother to buy.
I have to chase her away. Some girls no just get sense.
Any girl i must I , must stay with me for sometime let me know her level of financial discipline and management.

She had sex with my junior after I had spent a lot on her after that I just moved on for good.

Mummyfour:
He kept on accusing me of witchcraft and adultery. Things I was never ever involved in in my life. Kept on using the things that he knew about my family to insult me. He also went as far as saying without him in my life, I wouldn't amount to anything. That was the last straw. And the final nail in the coffin was when he said women that work are all prostitutes and if I was not a prostitute, I should not ever contemplate working or doing any business to earn my personal money.

The verbal and domestic abuse even in the public space was enough too for me to cease loving him

after him don slice, dice, dive and swim inside ur toto taya
na who d chop ur kpekus now?
u don marry?

nifemi25:
She is a divorcee while am married... We are into friends with benefits..... I couldn't believe it when she called my wife and revealed to her she is the second wife... Even told her she is a friend on Facebook and will like to meet her so as to be a friend.... I sharperly blocked her on all social media and also blocked her getting access to me...

And why are you bringing the private chats I had with my co-wife on this forum?

Is this right? Or you think I would not know abi?