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ovanda:
Have you ever associated with a complete idiot like you? It's the worst kind of pain you can imagine so,I do well to keep away from your kind as well. People who just open their mouth and begin to talk absolute nonsense. They form a very inane opinion of things they don't understand and expect me to be as stupid as they are so as to confirm to societal dictates. Mine is just 7yrs, there are other family members who have had nothing to do with him since 1999.

I’m sorry, I just don’t have any respect for anyone who CANNOT forgive their parents.
It means you can never forgive anyone in your life. Did your parents literally attempted and failed to kill you? I don’t get the anger and retribution.

PS: The difference between me and you is that I didn’t insult you. I just told you the truth.
Insulting someone you don’t know is the first sign that you’re not a nice person.
It is not too late for you to get help.

hakeemhakeem:
It's possible but know that the way you are trying to exclude your father, mother and siblings it the same way your children are going to exclude you when they come of age

Thoughtful talk. What goes around comes around...a vicious cycle...indeed.

Zackattack:
I’m sorry, I just don’t have any respect for anyone who CANNOT forgive their parents.
It means you can never forgive anyone in your life. Did your parents literally attempted and failed to kill you? I don’t get the anger and retribution.

PS: The difference between me and you is that I didn’t insult you. I just told you the truth.
Insulting someone you don’t know is the first sign that you’re not a nice person.
It is not too late for you to get help.

If you considered this line of talk,"I don't want to have anything to do with your kind", a compliment,I did not. Infact, it's obnoxious and insulting. And yes, you insulted me.

If you were asked to throw out a girl you have dated for 12yrs(I can only hope your Brain understans what this means.), simply because your mother doesn't like her, because she refused to be so unjustifiably humiliated and disgraced.
This led to the death of my twin boys. And what could be worse, till this day she's (my mother) has never asked me what happened.

This is just 0.01% of the whole story.
I am tempted to ask you how old you are and if you are even married. When people begin to draw conclusions about situations they know nothing about,it is the first sign of a very stupid person and as such,I ensure not to have anything to do with their kind.
It's not too I'll late for you,try and get common sense. Is even common these days?

Zackattack:
I’m sorry, I just don’t have any respect for anyone who CANNOT forgive their parents.
It means you can never forgive anyone in your life. Did your parents literally attempted and failed to kill you? I don’t get the anger and retribution.

PS: The difference between me and you is that I didn’t insult you. I just told you the truth.
Insulting someone you don’t know is the first sign that you’re not a nice person.
It is not too late for you to get help.

Sp1ritHusband:
I did. I got to work in the morning, had her come to meet me at work and we drove to the registry in the company's official car and within two hours, we left with a brand new marriage certificate and voile!, I was a brand new husband.

My mom was not very happy as the favorite child and in hindsight, would not have married when I did as I was barely coming out of my teen at the time. I was around 22, worked in a multinational with lots of cash to burn, and to be frank with you, I desperately wanted to have sex. I grew up in the church and It was a big sin before the wedding. I would have waited and listened to my parents and other family members, when you are in love/lust, you seldom think rationally and are susceptible to mistakes. I should have waited more than 10 years more, there is no rush in marriage, it is a journey and not a destination, I should have explored more.

I will repeat for the sake of emphasis, MARRIAGE IS A JOURNEY AND NOT A DESTINATION! A long journey that will determine how the rest of your life will turn out.

Legally, you only need witnesses to be married but there may be other important considerations too.

My two cents.

Hope you are still enjoying your journey.

"MARRIAGE IS A JOURNEY AND NOT A DESTINATION" Thank you for this food for the wise to chew on.

parkervero:
I want to ask if there is any married men in here who have formed their own families without involving their family members (mother, father, and siblings).

Is there any consequences for not involving family members?

I don't want to involve any of my family members in any of my affairs including the time of difficulty, sickness, even to the point of my death.

I want to stay on my own till eternity

OP, your post is ambiguous in many ways, I looked to see if anyone or you have made any clarification but saw none.

You need to give some background to your question before you can get "useful" advice if that's what you really need.

I BELIEVE EVERYONE CANNOT BE BAD IN A FAMILY THAT A PERSON WOULD NOT FIND ONE TO BE HIS FRIEND AMONG THEM EVEN AS SIBLINGS this is for a purely monogamous family.

Blood is thicker than water. Demography is destiny.

durentboi:
"Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are"

Nemesis0147:
Someone will just make small money and start feeling the world revolves around them.
Why didn’t you cut them off when you were still a teenager?

Lol and to think that some people support him says alot about how people think in a shallow way these days

Sp1ritHusband:
Not as i expected to be frank as I rushed into marriage but life is full of ups and down's and, I have gained a lot of valuable experience. I always advise individuals going into marriage how to get into it and be successful. I was 22 at the time and it was my first relationship. I mostly regret getting into it early and without my parent's consent because they love me and mean well for me.

If I had carried them along, I believe I would have a much more favorable outcome today.

It’s well

writeprof:
Hope you are still enjoying your journey.

"MARRIAGE IS A JOURNEY AND NOT A DESTINATION" Thank you for this food for the wise to chew on.

Nope. Though still married, I do not believe in marriage anymore. My only purpose is to provide for the needs of an adult while being seriously restricted. I will be coming out soon and I have plans.

ovanda:
If you considered this line of talk,"I don't want to have anything to do with your kind", a compliment,I did not. Infact, it's obnoxious and insulting. And yes, you insulted me.

If you were asked to throw out a girl you have dated for 12yrs(I can only hope your Brain understans what this means.), simply because your mother doesn't like her, because she refused to be so unjustifiably humiliated and disgraced.
This led to the death of my twin boys. And what could be worse, till this day she's (my mother) has never asked me what happened.

This is just 0.01% of the whole story.
I am tempted to ask you how old you are and if you are even married. When people begin to draw conclusions about situations they know nothing about,it is the first sign of a very stupid person and as such,I ensure not to have anything to do with their kind.
It's not too I'll late for you,try and get common sense. Is even common these days?

A stupid person will not ask you to make up with your parents regardless.
Not to justify what your mother did, but my undeveloped common sense also tells me that there’s no smoke without fire.
Peace is better than war. You cannot get it without a compromise.

It may or may not have its consequences but me I can't do without my family lol even in marriage I don't joke with my family