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I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 8:20pm On Dec 19, 2024

Without saying too much, I loved my mum dearly and I was providing for her and fending for her until she died recently, when she died I was the only one with her and no one cared, her husband is alive and he had beef with her, and I took her side while my other siblings took his side, when she died it felt like I lost the battle because they iced me out, said I bet on the wrong side and let me carry my cross alone, now she's gone I'm alone in this world and none of them talks to me, I feed myself, clothe myself and do every other things myself, difference is we still live together in a family house, he doesn't own the house though, I could be sick and indoors for a whole week and even die and no one would check on me, sometimes when I had nothing like I'm broke I'm left to get myself out of it alone, at some point I almost died before I could get myself to the hospital, point is I'm in my family house but basically alone in this world, now I'm planing to leave and never be seen again cuz there's no difference I'm basically on my own anyway, and yes I have considered reconciliation but this man is evil reincarnated, someone who stood in front of my door and cursed me for hours because of 400# that's how terrible he is and when my mum died he almost had a party to rub my nose in it, if I start talking about him it won't end, so reconciliation isn't an option, I'd like to cut him off as he's diabolic and the way he constantly talks about me and the anger and jealousy in him boils he's doing everything so I don't succeed, he keeps telling me life will always be hard for me, and I'll never progress in life, I feel I need to leave the hostile environment so I can succeed in life as nothing grows in the midst of such hate and diabolical actions, secondly I don't want to die suddenly like my mum who was okay in the morning and died in the evening from simple headache.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Righteousness2(m): 8:36pm On Dec 19, 2024*

If you are in Lagos, I invite you to attend this GREAT HEAVENLY ENCOUNTER COMING UP THIS WEEKENED SATURDAY AND SUNDAY 21ST AND 22ND OF DECEMBER 2024.

IT IS TITLED; ONLY GOD CAN DO THIS

Happening Live at the LORDS CHOSEN REVIVAL GROUND.
10 ODOFIN PARK BY IJESHA BUSTOP, LAGOS NIGERIA.

TIME IS 8AM DAILY.

Ministering Live is GOD'S Servant, Pst Lazarus Muoka

Whatever be the Matter ravaging your Life abd Destiny, that has Defiled all Human Intervention, ONLY GOD CAN SORT YOU OUT , GIVE U VICTORY AND MAKE YOU LAUGH!

DO NOT MISS FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE ON EARTH.

THESE 2 DAYS WILL SETTLE YOUR GENERATION.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Habbeyy(m): 8:42pm On Dec 19, 2024

This story no clear

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Habbeyy(m): 8:43pm On Dec 19, 2024

Righteousness2:
If you are in Lagos, I invite you tp attend this GREAT HEAVENLY ENCOUNTER COMING UP THIS WEEKENED SATURDAY AND SUNDAY 21ST AND 22ND OF DECEMBER 2024.

IT IS TITLED; ONLY GOD CAN DO THIS

Happening Live at the LORDS CHOSEN REVIVAL GROUND.
10 ODOFIN PARK BY IJESHA BUSTOP, LAGOS NIGERIA.

TIME IS 8AM DAILY.

Ministering Live is GOD'S Servant, Pst Lazarus Muoka

Whatever be the Matter ravaging your Life abd Destiny, that has Defiled all Human Intervention, ONLY GOD CAN SORT YOU OUT , GIVE U VICTORY AND MAKE YOU LAUGH!

DO NOT MISS FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE ON EARTH.

THESE 2 DAYS WILL SETTLE YOUR GENERATION.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by SoftSport(m): 8:46pm On Dec 19, 2024

L1TTLE:
Without saying too much, I loved my mum dearly and I was providing for her and fending for her until she died recently, when she died I was the only one with her and no one cared, her husband is alive and he had beef with her, and I took her side while my other siblings took his side, when she died it felt like I lost the battle because they iced me out, said I bet on the wrong side and let me carry my cross alone, now she's gone I'm alone in this world and none of them talks to me, I feed myself, clothe myself and do every other things myself, difference is we still live together in a family house, he doesn't own the house though, I could be sick and indoors for a whole week and even die and no one would check on me, sometimes when I had nothing like I'm broke I'm left to get myself out of it alone, at some point I almost died before I could get myself to the hospital, point is I'm in my family house but basically alone in this world, now I'm planing to leave and never be seen again cuz there's no difference I'm basically on my own anyway, and yes I have considered reconciliation but this man is evil reincarnated, someone who stood in front of my door and cursed me for hours because of 400# that's how terrible he is and when my mum died he almost had a party to rub my nose in it, if I start talking about him it won't end, so reconciliation isn't an option, I'd like to cut him off as he's diabolic and the way he constantly talks about me and the anger and jealousy in him boils he's doing everything so I don't succeed, he keeps telling me life will always be hard for me, and I'll never progress in life, I feel I need to leave the hostile environment so I can succeed in life as nothing grows in the midst of such hate and diabolical actions, secondly I don't want to die suddenly like my mum who was okay in the morning and died in the evening from simple headache.

I'm really sorry you're going through all of this. From what you've shared, it's clear that your environment is deeply harmful, and wanting to leave makes complete sense. Protecting your peace and well-being should come first, especially when you're surrounded by hostility and negativity.

If you're planning to move, it’s important to approach it carefully. Try to save up as much as you can before leaving so you have something to fall back on. Think about where you’d like to go and choose a place where you see the most opportunities for growth. Finding a stable place to stay, even if it’s shared housing, will help you settle in smoothly.

Once you’ve left, focus on your goals. Building a new life is hard, but if you channel all your energy into your training and personal development, it’ll pay off in time. Surround yourself with people who genuinely care for you, even if they’re not blood relatives. Friends, mentors, and colleagues can become the supportive family you need right now.

As for your father and the toxic environment at home, it’s understandable that you want to cut ties. His negativity doesn’t define you or determine your future. Leaving could give you the mental space to focus on healing and proving to yourself that you can succeed. At the same time, it’s important to acknowledge the grief you’re feeling after losing your mum and being isolated by your family. Finding peace through faith, reflection, or even talking to someone you trust can help lighten that burden over time.

If you feel your father’s actions are spiritually or emotionally dangerous, take measures to protect yourself based on your beliefs. Stay grounded in what brings you strength and peace. By stepping away, you’re giving yourself the chance to grow in an environment that isn’t suffocating you. Every small step forward is progress, and over time, you’ll see how far you’ve come.

You deserve a life filled with peace, purpose, and success. Leaving might be the first step toward creating that for yourself.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by 2special(m): 8:48pm On Dec 19, 2024

At least build the relationship with your siblings then

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:48pm On Dec 19, 2024

You better leave that environment. Diabolic people are strong hearted and don't change for good. Even if you reconcile with them in future, you still have to be careful, because they can get close to you and kill you if they can. Even at death, he still hasn't forgiven his wife. As you leave that house, look for a strong prophetic church and join, a real church of God, if you don't sharpen yourself, they will still be able to link up with you spiritually no matter the distance. Ensure to have two sources of income.

L1TTLE:
I could be sick and indoors for a whole week and even die and no one would check on me, sometimes when I had nothing like I'm broke I'm left to get myself out of it alone, at some point I almost died before I could get myself to the hospital, point is I'm in my family house but basically alone in this world. someone who stood in front of my door and cursed me for hours because of 400# that's how terrible he is and when my mum died he almost had a party. secondly I don't want to die suddenly like my mum who was okay in the morning and died in the evening from simple headache.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Namaster: 8:58pm On Dec 19, 2024

First of all, your story needs more BACKGROUND.

Like what is the nature of the DISPUTE that fractured your family in such a way that MOST of your siblings took the side of your father, who sounds like a TERRIBLE person?

Next, be STRATEGIC before you leave.

Make plans on how to SUSTAIN yourself in light of the fact that you'd now be spending on your ACCOMODATION.

Plan in such a way that NOTHING brings you crawling back to your father in the future.

Live like an ORPHAN.

ANY father who lay ATOMIC curses on his own son like your father did to you is NOT worthy to be called a father.

He's DEAD to you!

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Ahmback(m): 9:10pm On Dec 19, 2024

Habbeyy:
This story no clear

Where are you finding it difficult to understand?

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Solofresh2: 9:34pm On Dec 19, 2024

Comot from that toxic environment to protect your mind and body. Find steady work or money, look for people wey go support you, and plan well before you move. No need to argue or talk with the bad family member, just focus on taking care of yourself, staying safe, and growing. If you comot, better life go fit start for where love and support dey.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Kobojunkie: 10:02pm On Dec 19, 2024*

L1TTLE:
➜Without saying too much, I loved my mum dearly and I was providing for her and fending for her until she died recently, when she died I was the only one with her and no one cared, her husband is alive and he had beef with her, and I took her side while my other siblings took his side, when she died it felt like I lost the battle because they iced me out, said I bet on the wrong side and let me carry my cross alone, now she's gone I'm alone in this world and none of them talks to me, I feed myself, clothe myself and do every other things myself, difference is we still live together in a family house, he doesn't own the house though, I could be sick and indoors for a whole week and even die and no one would check on me, sometimes when I had nothing like I'm broke I'm left to get myself out of it alone, at some point I almost died before I could get myself to the hospital, point is I'm in my family house but basically alone in this world, now I'm planing to leave and never be seen again cuz there's no difference I'm basically on my own anyway,
➜and yes I have considered reconciliation but this man is evil reincarnated, someone who stood in front of my door and cursed me for hours because of 400# that's how terrible he is and when my mum died he almost had a party to rub my nose in it, if I start talking about him it won't end, so reconciliation isn't an option, I'd like to cut him off as he's diabolic and the way he constantly talks about me and the anger and jealousy in him boils he's doing everything so I don't succeed, he keeps telling me life will always be hard for me, and I'll never progress in life,
➜I feel I need to leave the hostile environment so I can succeed in life as nothing grows in the midst of such hate and diabolical actions, secondly I don't want to die suddenly like my mum who was okay in the morning and died in the evening from simple headache.

1. You have a free roof over your head, something that over 20 million Nigerians living in Nigeria cannot even boast of but your particular complaint is rather that no one pays attention to you?

2. Are you able to provide yourself shelter and everything else at this point? I am not certain how old you are but if you can hold off on wanting to move until you are well on your feet, then do so first before you decide to finally ghost your father for good. It will not help you at all to leave endangering your well-being in the process. Yes, your home does seem toxic but since it isn't physically dangerous, I see no reason for you to rush your move. Also, given the economic situation in the country, as well as widespread insecurity, try to get a place before you leave your home. undecided

3. There is no such thing as diabolical action... All attacks are either physical, social, or emotional. And if you can focus on growing yourself, then you should direct much of your focus on that which matters. undecided

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Sp1ritHusband(m): 10:41pm On Dec 19, 2024

Righteousness2:
If you are in Lagos, I invite you tp attend this GREAT HEAVENLY ENCOUNTER COMING UP THIS WEEKENED SATURDAY AND SUNDAY 21ST AND 22ND OF DECEMBER 2024.

IT IS TITLED; ONLY GOD CAN DO THIS

Happening Live at the LORDS CHOSEN REVIVAL GROUND.
10 ODOFIN PARK BY IJESHA BUSTOP, LAGOS NIGERIA.

TIME IS 8AM DAILY.

Ministering Live is GOD'S Servant, Pst Lazarus Muoka

Whatever be the Matter ravaging your Life abd Destiny, that has Defiled all Human Intervention, ONLY GOD CAN SORT YOU OUT , GIVE U VICTORY AND MAKE YOU LAUGH!

DO NOT MISS FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE ON EARTH.

THESE 2 DAYS WILL SETTLE YOUR GENERATION.

Op, The biggest mistake you will make in life is to listen to this person I quoted.

Lazarus Muoke is simply a businessman.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by chatinent: 1:53am On Dec 20, 2024

You need to get checked quickly before 2025. You are gone already mentally.

Righteousness2:
If you are in Lagos, I invite you to attend this GREAT HEAVENLY ENCOUNTER COMING UP THIS WEEKENED SATURDAY AND SUNDAY 21ST AND 22ND OF DECEMBER 2024.

IT IS TITLED; ONLY GOD CAN DO THIS

Happening Live at the LORDS CHOSEN REVIVAL GROUND.
10 ODOFIN PARK BY IJESHA BUSTOP, LAGOS NIGERIA.

TIME IS 8AM DAILY.

Ministering Live is GOD'S Servant, Pst Lazarus Muoka

Whatever be the Matter ravaging your Life abd Destiny, that has Defiled all Human Intervention, ONLY GOD CAN SORT YOU OUT , GIVE U VICTORY AND MAKE YOU LAUGH!

DO NOT MISS FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE ON EARTH.

THESE 2 DAYS WILL SETTLE YOUR GENERATION.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by chatinent: 1:55am On Dec 20, 2024

Quack.
If you've not experienced such types of fathers, your best advice should be giving a deafening silence.
^{Kobojunkie:
You have a free roof over your head, something that over 20 million Nigerians living in Nigeria cannot even boast of but your particular complaint is rather that no one pays attention to you?

2. Are you able to provide yourself shelter and everything else at this point? I am not certain how old you are but if you can hold on until you are well on your feet, then do so first before you decide to ghost your father. Otherwise, you will only be fighting a miserable battle against your well-being. Yes, the place is toxic but it does not seem that you are physically treated so no reason for you to run out at this time. Also, given the economic situation in the country, I don't see good reason for you to make the decision at this time. If you can, wait until you are better established.

3. There is no such thing as diabolical action... All attacks are either physical, social, or emotional. And if you can focus on growing yourself, then you should direct much of your focus on that which matters.}

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by chatinent: 2:00am On Dec 20, 2024

^{L1TTLE:
Without saying too much, I loved my mum dearly and I was providing for her and fending for her until she died recently, when she died I was the only one with her and no one cared, her husband is alive and he had beef with her, and I took her side while my other siblings took his side, when she died it felt like I lost the battle because they iced me out, said I bet on the wrong side and let me carry my cross alone, now she's gone I'm alone in this world and none of them talks to me, I feed myself, clothe myself and do every other things myself, difference is we still live together in a family house, he doesn't own the house though, I could be sick and indoors for a whole week and even die and no one would check on me, sometimes when I had nothing like I'm broke I'm left to get myself out of it alone, at some point I almost died before I could get myself to the hospital, point is I'm in my family house but basically alone in this world, now I'm planing to leave and never be seen again cuz there's no difference I'm basically on my own anyway, and yes I have considered reconciliation but this man is evil reincarnated, someone who stood in front of my door and cursed me for hours because of 400# that's how terrible he is and when my mum died he almost had a party to rub my nose in it, if I start talking about him it won't end, so reconciliation isn't an option, I'd like to cut him off as he's diabolic and the way he constantly talks about me and the anger and jealousy in him boils he's doing everything so I don't succeed, he keeps telling me life will always be hard for me, and I'll never progress in life, I feel I need to leave the hostile environment so I can succeed in life as nothing grows in the midst of such hate and diabolical actions, secondly I don't want to die suddenly like my mum who was okay in the morning and died in the evening from simple headache.}

Since I can verily relate to your situation based on real life experience, I will advise you:

1. Work and save money as soon as possible and relocate. Peace of mind is life.

2. Such types of fathers cannot change, esp when they have recruits of supporters backing their [bad] actions so they don't know when to stop.

3. About the curses, it won't work if you don't want it to subdue you. How? Get up and work! Can you write? Can you create websites? Can you program or design? What can you do that people would need to buy your time to do? I could teach you how to make money online for free so you can start earning for yourself and build a good life.

4. I'm sorry for your mom's demise. It's okay to grief, but face the reality and don't run away from it.

5. The best way to revenge is to be successful.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Verydarkhearted(m): 4:03am On Dec 20, 2024

They always start with a touching story then end it with begging..

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Smilleydr(m): 4:26am On Dec 20, 2024

chatinent:
[sup][/sup]

Since I can verily relate to your situation based on real life experience, I will advise you:

1. Work and save money as soon as possible and relocate. Peace of mind is life.

2. Such types of fathers cannot change, esp when they have recruits of supporters backing their [bad] actions so they don't know when to stop.

3. About the curses, it won't work if you don't want it to subdue you. How? Get up and work! Can you write? Can you create websites? Can you program or design? What can you do that people would need to buy your time to do? I could teach you how to make money online for free so you can start earning for yourself and build a good life.

4. I'm sorry for your mom's demise. It's okay to grief, but face the reality and don't run away from it.

5. The best way to revenge is to be successful.

pls can you also teach me, I will be glad if you can teach me 09039231211 WhatsApp

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Wealthoptulent(m): 6:13am On Dec 20, 2024*

L1TTLE:
Without saying too much, I loved my mum dearly and I was providing for her and fending for her until she died recently, when she died I was the only one with her and no one cared, her husband is alive and he had beef with her, and I took her side while my other siblings took his side, when she died it felt like I lost the battle because they iced me out, said I bet on the wrong side and let me carry my cross alone, now she's gone I'm alone in this world and none of them talks to me, I feed myself, clothe myself and do every other things myself, difference is we still live together in a family house, he doesn't own the house though, I could be sick and indoors for a whole week and even die and no one would check on me, sometimes when I had nothing like I'm broke I'm left to get myself out of it alone, at some point I almost died before I could get myself to the hospital, point is I'm in my family house but basically alone in this world, now I'm planing to leave and never be seen again cuz there's no difference I'm basically on my own anyway, and yes I have considered reconciliation but this man is evil reincarnated, someone who stood in front of my door and cursed me for hours because of 400# that's how terrible he is and when my mum died he almost had a party to rub my nose in it, if I start talking about him it won't end, so reconciliation isn't an option, I'd like to cut him off as he's diabolic and the way he constantly talks about me and the anger and jealousy in him boils he's doing everything so I don't succeed, he keeps telling me life will always be hard for me, and I'll never progress in life, I feel I need to leave the hostile environment so I can succeed in life as nothing grows in the midst of such hate and diabolical actions, secondly I don't want to die suddenly like my mum who was okay in the morning and died in the evening from simple headache.

Ti omo bati le da gbe inugbo, ati dete ki shey ogun.. (IF A KID IN NOT SCARED TO LIVE IN BUSH, LEPROSY IS NOT a DISEASE) sice u fending for ursef alone already, dont lose completely cut him off, its a WIN WIN tin... but first"ARE YOU DOING THE RIGHT THING?" did u WEDGE behind TRUTH when u THREW ur WEIGHT behind ur MUM? Marital matter no be wetin children delve into but only when u completey know, seen the TRUTH not HEARSAY or TALES read like night stories to bed.

Villa12:
ojo ale ni baba omo yi ma mo wipe itoju omo se koko..

hmm u are right but not all cases. World where I live today, we already planing our retirement, we continued to get paid by both my pensions Trust n government, I contribute 6% monthly, my Employee which according to National Uni Commission contributes 21% monthly =26% , when i retire Government add theirs (thousand of £).. so we only pray make children add theirs, but trust me if "NOT" we living Good till death. So u see it's a rare Case now.

Villa12:
NOT in Nigeria though. 90% of aged parents depends on their children

I KNOW, God dey

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Karleb(m): 8:11am On Dec 20, 2024

Don't you ever forgive him.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Karleb(m): 8:12am On Dec 20, 2024

Wealthoptulent:
Ti omo bati le da gbe inugbo, ati dete ki shey ogun.. (IF A KID IN NOT SCARED TO LIVE IN BUSH, LEPROSY IS NOT a DISEASE) sice u fending for ursef alone already, dont lose completely cut him off, its a WIN WIN tin... but first"ARE YOU DOING THE RIGHT THING?" did u WEDGE behind TRUTH when u THREW ur WEIGHT behind ur MUM? Marital matter no be wetin children delve into but only when u completey know, seen the TRUTH not HEARSAY or TALES read like night stories to bed

Please shut up.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Deelaw(m): 8:56am On Dec 20, 2024

Are you trying to rewrite the story of the prodigal son?

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Houseofglam7(f): 9:33am On Dec 20, 2024

So much toxicity in your write up. Just leave for your sanity.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by sulakishop(m): 12:00pm On Dec 20, 2024

Signs of maturity...
Try and be financially secured sha

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by Gloriagee(f): 12:07pm On Dec 20, 2024

Is he your biological dad or step dad?

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:43pm On Dec 20, 2024

chatinent:
[sup][/sup]

Since I can verily relate to your situation based on real life experience, I will advise you:

1. Work and save money as soon as possible and relocate. Peace of mind is life.

2. Such types of fathers cannot change, esp when they have recruits of supporters backing their [bad] actions so they don't know when to stop.

3. About the curses, it won't work if you don't want it to subdue you. How? Get up and work! Can you write? Can you create websites? Can you program or design? What can you do that people would need to buy your time to do? I could teach you how to make money online for free so you can start earning for yourself and build a good life.

4. I'm sorry for your mom's demise. It's okay to grief, but face the reality and don't run away from it.

5. The best way to revenge is to be successful.

I really appreciate your input. Yes I can design websites with website builders like elementor but that's just the limit of what I know, I don't have anything to fall back on, just the will to survive at all cost because they're waiting for me to die as well, I'd appreciate if you can teach me, I'm ready to learn whatever it is to support myself, thanks in advance.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:47pm On Dec 20, 2024

Gloriagee:
Is he your biological dad or step dad?

biological, he once told me that before I was born he hated me, I didn't understand how you could hate an unborn child so I asked my mom what he meant and she said her pregnancy with me was one of the most difficult times she experienced as they was so much challenge back then, he used to beat her up even though she was pregnant, until I grew up and he saw I'm now capable of beating him up as well so he stopped using her as a punching bag, so it didn't start today, but yes he's my biological dad.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:48pm On Dec 20, 2024

sulakishop:
Signs of maturity...
Try and be financially secured sha

Thanks, I'll learn skills while at it.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:49pm On Dec 20, 2024

Deelaw:
Are you trying to rewrite the story of the prodigal son?

I know it's hard to believe but trust me the little I mentioned here is a slice of heaven compared to the full story, I live in denial myself because I don't understand this level of wickedness.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:51pm On Dec 20, 2024

Wealthoptulent:
Ti omo bati le da gbe inugbo, ati dete ki shey ogun.. (IF A KID IN NOT SCARED TO LIVE IN BUSH, LEPROSY IS NOT a DISEASE) sice u fending for ursef alone already, dont lose completely cut him off, its a WIN WIN tin... but first"ARE YOU DOING THE RIGHT THING?" did u WEDGE behind TRUTH when u THREW ur WEIGHT behind ur MUM? Marital matter no be wetin children delve into but only when u completey know, seen the TRUTH not HEARSAY or TALES read like night stories to bed

Right, it was fair to watch him torment a defenseless woman until she died, not like she ever cheated or stole, he's just a man who derives pleasure in maltreating women when he has concubines outside, say whatever you want I don't regret standing by my mom.

Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:53pm On Dec 20, 2024

Verydarkhearted:
They always start with a touching story then end it with begging..

Maybe begging online is what you do with your life, I don't do that, so stop projecting your lifestyle onto others, I didn't ask anyone for a penny talk more of you.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:56pm On Dec 20, 2024

chatinent:
Quack.
If you've not experienced such types of fathers, your best advice should be giving a deafening silence.
[sup][/sup]

The reason he's saying this is because he thinks life revolves around having a roof over your head, but at this point I don't care if I sleep under a bridge as long as I'm safe, my siblings who are backing him are afraid of loosing the roof over their heads, they're also scared of being cut off like he cut me off so they witness his injustice and keep mute, I'm the only one resisting him and that's why I'm an outsider, he will also stop paying their school fee if they stand up to him so I can't really blame them, and if you're his minion you must hate whoever he hates even if you don't have personal problems with the person, if you don't follow him to hate the person he will cut you off.

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Re: I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home And Moving Faraway From My Dad by L1TTLE(op): 9:59pm On Dec 20, 2024

Kobojunkie:
1. You have a free roof over your head, something that over 20 million Nigerians living in Nigeria cannot even boast of but your particular complaint is rather that no one pays attention to you?

2. Are you able to provide yourself shelter and everything else at this point? I am not certain how old you are but if you can hold off on wanting to move until you are well on your feet, then do so first before you decide to finally ghost your father for good. It will not help you at all to leave endangering your well-being in the process. Yes, your home does seem toxic but since it isn't physically dangerous, I see no reason for you to rush your move. Also, given the economic situation in the country, as well as widespread insecurity, try to get a place before you leave your home.

3. There is no such thing as diabolical action... All attacks are either physical, social, or emotional. And if you can focus on growing yourself, then you should direct much of your focus on that which matters.

First off, I don't care about his roof, I prefer sleeping in the streets to his roof whatever it is, second yes I was fending for myself and my mum and I still am, If you actually read my post it's not a cry of struggling to survive because he cut me off, it's about getting away from him and making sure he never sets his eyes on me again, so roof or no roof I don't care, I pray you don't meet someone this evil, because you'd be damaged for life.

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