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JovialJune:
Olosho getting constantly serviced and getting paid for what they both enjoy lol 😆 pure wisdom and very smart 😂

The fool i see here is the married men cheating on their wives with women that were once married with kids, I'm sure they spend carelessly on them and their kids while neglecting their wives and kids at home, big shame.

That's not your business. Focus on using your toto to pay your children's school fees, since you were born broke and poor.

Your children lack a father and will never know what fatherly love is like you did. Deal with that.

Feldie:
Dating is different from marrying. She will not be expected to perform wifely duties. She gets sex from the married man and also get money. Doesn't have to wash his clothes, cook for him, carry his baby inside her womb, feed it with her breast, get scolded for not returning early from the market to come and cook. If you are a married woman and your husband is irresponsible and useless, divorce him and look for a rich married man to date

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JovialJune:
Lol why should I divorce my husband when there are no major issues to warrant such knowing that no human is perfect? You expect me to castigate people for their choice of getting a divorce when I do not know what transpired and I'm not in their shoes?

Only judgemental idiots cry more than the bereaved on what they know nothing about to feel relevant, focus on what is important which is the married men cheating on their wives.

Focus on using your toto to eat and not about the family of your sugar daddy. Its not your business harlot.

Sucks your children won't have a father figure in their life too whether perfect father figure or imperfect.

SmellingAnus:
so the divorced men made the wrong choice then... Do you think they were smart to make such choice?

I said divorce is because of the woman, men become divorcees because of women at least 80% of the time.
The women are mostly the ones seeking divorce most of the time.

So this means a single young man who is doing well financially has access not to only single ladies/girls, but single mothers, female divorcees, married women,, widows and who else?

Be like say to live for Nigeria good o

Proudlyngwa:
I said divorce is because of the woman, men become divorcees because of women at least 80% of the time.
The women are mostly the ones seeking divorce most of the time.

From what you just wrote, it means some percentage of men seek divorce meaning they regret making mistake about their choice of a spouse... Noted bro....

thesicilian:
Lol
It's one of the funniest ironies of life.
You divorced your husband because you couldn't bear the thought of him having a side chick, then you find out that the only option for you at finding love again is by becoming a side chick to a married man.

Most divorced women don’t want to marry again and live with a man. They feel they have fulfilled their obligations to society. It’s mostly men that run out to get married again cos they can’t take care of themselves.

Caleycash:
Whatever the outcome is the woman is held responsible for her ordeal, Do you know what it takes for a man to conclude to wife a woman out of thousands available??, think it deep!, it's a woman's responsibility to make good choice for herself!

yeah, you are right and the man seeing a bad choice accepts it because it's the woman's responsibility to make a good choice.... Noted bro...

Feldie:
Dating is different from marrying. She will not be expected to perform wifely duties. She gets sex from the married man and also get money. Doesn't have to wash his clothes, cook for him, carry his baby inside her womb, feed it with her breast, get scolded for not returning early from the market to come and cook. If you are a married woman and your husband is irresponsible and useless, divorce him and look for a rich married man to date

you are the most terrible person I have ever seen

SmellingAnus:
From what you just wrote, it means some percentage of men seek divorce meaning they regret making mistake about their choice of a spouse... Noted bro....

No

The remaining percentage just go their separate ways

They're looking for readymade men ,

Ladies in business and men in love

SmellingAnus:
yeah, you are right and the man seeing a bad choice accepts it because it's the woman's responsibility to make a good choice.... Noted bro...

Most issues many women will present to you in marriage is cheating that made them leave the man, not that he can't provide or doesn't love her again, check 80% of divorces and separations , it's mostly the issue.

SmellingAnus:
Does this apply to divorced men also?

It can't apply to divorced men,eg I'm divorced but it was my ex wife who initiated the it.Shr never believed in marriage and likes travelling and having fun, she's into man and woman (if you understand what I mean).Prior to getting serious in the relationship, my mother cautioned me about the possibility of the woman divorcing me (because her mother left her father because she was no longer interested in their marriage). This is exactly what she did to me,she still had the effrontery to steal my household property while I was in the village.

JovialJune:
And so what? Do you know why she divorced her husband in the first place? The married men dating them why are they not the bone of contention? They repeat the same circle of their own wives getting a divorce from them for cheating, yet the focus is not on the cheater but the woman that is not cheating on anyone, una go rest real soon.

Nope smart women don't divorce their husbands because of cheating... There are other ways they handle the situation. Most of those divorced women are shameless. Why can't they hook up with single men? Oh I forgot the single men don't want no failed marriage aftermath with a load of baggage and bitterness.

Feldie:
Dating is different from marrying. She will not be expected to perform wifely duties. She gets sex from the married man and also get money. Doesn't have to wash his clothes, cook for him, carry his baby inside her womb, feed it with her breast, get scolded for not returning early from the market to come and cook. If you are a married woman and your husband is irresponsible and useless, divorce him and look for a rich married man to date

This shows you're a useless woman as well, you're advising them to look for rich men to marry but you won't advise them to be useful for themselves and make the money.

IamHonourable1:
It can't apply to divorced men,eg I'm divorced but it was my ex wife who initiated the it.Shr never believed in marriage and likes travelling and having fun, she's into man and woman (if you understand what I mean).Prior to getting serious in the relationship, my mother cautioned me about the possibility of the woman divorcing me (because her mother left her father because she was no longer interested in their marriage). This is exactly what she did to me,she still had the effrontery to steal my household property while I was in the village.

Lol I know that type... Thank God for Ur life na heart attack and stroke U dodge so

Women are narsicisstic in nature

IamHonourable1:
This shows you're a useless woman as well, you're advising them to look for rich men to marry but you won't advise them to be useful for themselves and make the money.

Na them full everywhere now bro... Truly I come see say finding a wife in this country is very hard. Mostly hoes roaming about, calculating, scheming and plotting on the next victim

molas02:
U are definitely one of them. Sorry for the pains madam

I'm a man. How many women dey Nairaland. I have grown unbearably tired of this nonsense "divorced women dating a married man" talk.

They don't have sense now just greed.

OgaTheTop2:
The reason a woman was divorced is very important to know... Know this and know peace.

wisdom

No matter how dumb or crazy a Man is, he will never divorce a good, respectful and virtuous woman.

A good woman is a scarce resource and highly addictive ; they are like oxygen to Men. Once the supply is off- the man will exhibit withdrawal symptoms and will go all the way to reconcile with her.

Once a Man steps out of your life and files for divorce by himself, then questions need to be asked.

Please note: The most difficult decision for a Man is choosing who he will spend his life with (Marriage).

SmellingAnus:
Does this apply to divorced men also?

Lanruze:
No matter how dumb or crazy a Man is, he will never divorce a good, respectful and virtuous Woman.

A Good woman is a scarce resource and highly addictive ; they are like oxygen to Men. Once the supply is off- the Man will exhibit withdrawal symptoms and will go all the way to reconcile with her.

Once a Man steps out of your life and files for divorce by himself, then questions need to be asked.

Please note: The most difficult decision for a Man is choosing who he will spend his life with (Marriage).

you are right.... He will dump the bad woman he mistakenly married out of his poor judgement...

IamHonourable1:
It can't apply to divorced men,eg I'm divorced but it was my ex wife who initiated the it.Shr never believed in marriage and likes travelling and having fun, she's into man and woman (if you understand what I mean).Prior to getting serious in the relationship, my mother cautioned me about the possibility of the woman divorcing me (because her mother left her father because she was no longer interested in their marriage). This is exactly what she did to me,she still had the effrontery to steal my household property while I was in the village.

sorry for what you went through bro... It's sad.... My respect for your Mother cos she saw that you were about making a mistake but somehow you chose to marry her... Many women are bisexuals, as a man once you find out and you are not okay with it, it's better to leave her although some men are okay with it, at least I know of one man that his wife is bisexual and the marriage should be over 30 years now..

Caleycash:
Most issues many women will present to you in marriage is cheating that made them leave the man, not that he can't provide or doesn't love her again, check 80% of divorces and separations , it's mostly the issue.

but do you think cheating is a good reason for a woman to leave the marriage?

SmellingAnus:
so sorry to hear that... Marriage is not easy... So did your uncle make the right choice by marrying her in the first place?

so uncle made the wrong choice..
theres a definition for people that blame other people for all their woes and never take responsibility..

Proudlyngwa:
No

The remaining percentage just go their separate ways

But why will a man marry a woman that will seek divorce later? He obviously made a wrong choice cos there are men who got married to women that never asked for divorce in their marriages..

solla22:
so uncle made the wrong choice..
theres a definition for people that blame other people for all their woes and never take responsibility..

very true ... I concur

What is wrong with that? There has to be a second hand market for something.

SmellingAnus:
but do you think cheating is a good reason for a woman to leave the marriage?

NO!... naturally a man is polygamous, that's my own personal belive, then if we go by nature and religious standards, a non virgin shouldn't be married, paying bride price for her is a taboo, but 80% married women are not, men still love and marry them, spending millions on whats unacceptable, only VIRGINS have right to leave a man who's cheating💯