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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Nicepoker(m): 8:27pm On Dec 21, 2024
A fair guy with pink lips. That number one sign of a useless boyfriend. grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Bendeco02(op): 10:30pm On Dec 21, 2024
Nicepoker:
A fair guy with pink lips. That number one sign of a useless boyfriend. grin
grin grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Psychopatheko: 11:38pm On Dec 21, 2024
Hmmm this is actually not true though some cases we can say that but let me tell you most ladies tend to like black guys because they believe liking them or dating them will actually reduce the competition they are getting from other ladies, while some love black guys because they find it weird to date a guy who shares creams with them to maintain their lightness either way get money if you wan get good girl if you like black light midnight or white like snow if you no get money for naija them go finish you.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by jaksmillioniar: 1:39pm On Dec 23, 2024
Animegirl:
I like fair guys but if I see sign of bleaching, I detach myself grin
u are so beautiful dear
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Anenehi: 2:19pm On Dec 23, 2024
YoungBTCxchange:
leave that guy make e dey talk anyhow
Fine boys dey get girls on a steady wether broke or rich
bros na lie you lie, fine boy must get money join else girls go use am kill boredom and show off.
Am not a fine guy but I have being to a place where no girls want to talk the the handsome guy when am around. them go dismiss all the fine boy when I show because I get small money.
I notice it but I kelp my cool, all the guys where envy off me. I nor get car, I nor get swag in terms of dressing. I just have two businesses I run that give me small change.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Samantha125(f): 3:32pm On Dec 23, 2024
I'm not a Nigerian, but I also prefer brown to fair guys... What I've noticed is that most people from my tribe are either just brown or fair in complexion to a point that there's this issue of colorism towards the dark ones... Immediately we see someone dark, we assume that he or she's either from the Venda or Tsonga tribe, or he or she is a foreign national...🤦🤦🤦

I once got in trouble back in high school for calling this other dark classmate of mine a black cat and she cried...🤦🤦🤦

My sister once dated this other dark guy and it didn't really sit well with our parents, they'd secretly call him "the dark cloud"... She's now engaged to a fair guy and they're happy...😅😅😅
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Prettygirl200(f): 5:08pm On Dec 23, 2024
Bendeco02:
I came across one post in this forum were someone asked between fair and dark guys the one women prefer. No girl mentioned fair guys while in reality the opposite is what i observe grin

Some were saying even white women like black guys bla bla bla. They just say this in order not to be seen as black hater. Let me clear this mindset, white women like black guys because they are in a white country and they are white as well. So black is unique and scarce there.

You hardly see a woman insult a guy for being fair in africa, but i have seen where women insulted guys for being black. Have you seen a fair guy without girl friend before? grin

Women likes what is unique or uncommon in the society. As we're in a nation where black color is common, they fall for fair guys. If 95% of men in Nigeria are tall, i can tell you that women will see short men as hot cake.

Guys that bleach to impress women, knows what they have seen and insults they received from women for their skin color before they start bleaching grin

Ask women what they see in that Equitorial Guinea Man (Baltasar Ebang) undecided
Majority don't, some only marry because of their skin, for example a dark lady will mostly want to marry a light skin guy bc of her kids and vise versa, but in the real sense they prefer dark skin guy's. Dark skin guys will always be the number 1 preference for ladies. So they didn't lie.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by DeeScan: 5:29pm On Dec 23, 2024
Anenehi:
bros na lie you lie, fine boy must get money join else girls go use am kill boredom and show off.
Am not a fine guy but I have being to a place where no girls want to talk the the handsome guy when am around. them go dismiss all the fine boy when I show because I get small money.
I notice it but I kelp my cool, all the guys where envy off me. I nor get car, I nor get swag in terms of dressing. I just have two businesses I run that give me small change.
oga dey play .. d go chop your money dey give you kpekus .. Fine boy no go drop shii shii.. e go still collect kpekus ..


dey play
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by koladata(m): 6:53pm On Dec 23, 2024
Just imagine !!! And you are even proud of what your racist family did to the innocent dark skin guy. South Africans no be human being
Samantha125:
I'm not a Nigerian, but I also prefer brown to fair guys... What I've noticed is that most people from my tribe are either just brown or fair in complexion to a point that there's this issue of colorism towards the dark ones... Immediately we see someone dark, we assume that he or she's either from the Venda or Tsonga tribe, or he or she is a foreign national...🤦🤦🤦

I once got in trouble back in high school for calling this other dark classmate of mine a black cat and she cried...🤦🤦🤦

My sister once dated this other dark guy and it didn't really sit well with our parents, they'd secretly call him "the dark cloud"... She's now engaged to a fair guy and they're happy...😅😅😅
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by koladata(m): 6:57pm On Dec 23, 2024
If you still doubt that women are weird. They like black guys but prefer fair children.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Samantha125(f): 8:12pm On Dec 23, 2024
How am I proud? How are my parents racist when they're also black? And what does this has to do with my nationality?🤔🤔🤔
koladata:
Just imagine !!! And you are even proud of what your racist family did to the innocent dark skin guy. South Africans no be human being
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Silentgroper(m): 8:19pm On Dec 23, 2024
koladata:
Just imagine !!! And you are even proud of what your [b]racist[/b]t family did to the innocent dark skin guy. South Africans no be human being
The same exact same word popped up on my head whilst going through the post ...





SMH. 😭😭😭😭
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by koladata(m): 9:00pm On Dec 23, 2024
Can you imagine , she doesn't even know what they did is wrong... I just pity Nigerians living in south africa, if they can do this to their own , imagine what they can do to you.
Samantha125:
How am I proud? How are my parents racist when they're also black? And what does this has to do with my nationality?🤔🤔🤔
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Samantha125(f): 9:06pm On Dec 23, 2024
Okay, bye.
koladata:
Can you imagine , she doesn't even know what they did is wrong... I just pity Nigerians living in south africa, if they can do this to their own , imagine what they can do to you.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Cousin9999: 9:07pm On Dec 23, 2024
koladata:
Can you imagine , she doesn't even know what they did is wrong... I just pity Nigerians living in south africa, if they can do this to their own , imagine what they can do to you.
They have no power in their own country (and apparently like it that way), so their views are irrelevant. And they have so much mixed blood that their ethnicities basically don't exist, they're cosplaying. And they're so mentally conquered that it's surprising their languages even survived.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by koladata(m): 9:29pm On Dec 23, 2024
Yes I think "mentally conquered" is the perfect word to describe them. I swear southafrican's needs serious therapy, I'm sure the last thing a Nigerian parent will reject their children's spouse for is dark skin color. For God's sake we are supposed to be dark, we are Africans !!!!!!!. the Samantha125 girl was even ready to defend her story.

Cousin9999:
They have no power in their own country (and apparently like it that way), so their views are irrelevant. And they have so much mixed blood that their ethnicities basically don't exist, they're cosplaying. And they're so mentally conquered that it's surprising their languages even survived.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Cousin9999:
koladata:
Yes I think "mentally conquered" is the perfect word to describe them. I swear southafrican's needs serious therapy, I'm sure the last thing a Nigerian parent will reject their children's spouse for is dark skin color. For God's sake we are supposed to be dark, we are Africans !!!!!!!. the Samantha125 girl was even ready to defend her story.
I don't think they deserve to be acknowledged or heavily analyzed honestly. They want to be losers, let them. Focus energy on people who are worth it.

I don't get why Nigerians keep discussing them and giving them attention. Bizarre. If you want to go to SA and get money, do so, but ignore them and don't date them (be polite though). If you have to deal with them in business, be respectful, but don't get involved with them.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Bendeco02(op):
Prettygirl200:
Majority don't, some only marry because of their skin, for example a dark lady will mostly want to marry a light skin guy bc of her kids and vise versa, but in the real sense they prefer dark skin guy's. Dark skin guys will always be the number 1 preference for ladies. So they didn't lie.
Then why do some dark guys bleach to impress them?

Nothing like No.1 preference.

They fall for average looking fair guys offline but come online to deceive themselves. Black guys have to look complete to attract them.

Am not referring to handsome black guys like Jim Iyke and so. Am talking of normal black guys on the street.

I can show you many broke fair guys that plays with women. But can you show me broke average looking black play boy in your area?

Only sex addicted women prefer dark guys because they beleive they're stronger. Forgeting that perfomance is not base on color. When they see the black guy finish they will still cheat on him with fair guy grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Prettygirl200(f): 1:27pm On Dec 24, 2024
Bendeco02:
Then why do some dark guys bleach to impress them?

Nothing like No.1 preference.

They fall for average looking fair guys offline but come online to deceive themselves. Black guys have to look complete to attract them.

Am not referring to handsome black guys like Jim Iyke and so. Am talking of normal black guys on the street.

I can show you many broke fair guys that plays with women. But can you show me broke average looking black play boy in your area?

Only sex addicted women prefer dark guys because they beleive they're stronger. Forgeting that perfomance is not base on color. When they see the black guy finish they will still cheat on him with fair guy grin
Like I said, ladies number 1 preferences are handsome dark skinned guy's, that has never changed. No body is deceiving anybody any guy that bleaches is because of his inferiority complex it has nothing to do with a lady. Shalom.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Lie That They Don't Like Fair Guys? by Bendeco02(op): 3:37pm On Dec 24, 2024
Prettygirl200:
Like I said, ladies number 1 preferences are handsome dark skinned guy's, that has never changed. No body is deceiving anybody any guy that bleaches is because of his inferiority complex it has nothing to do with a lady. Shalom.
Thanks for saying handsome black guys not just black guys.

Hausa guys would have been the most prefered if it's just average black guys.
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