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Its seems most men on earth are unattractive to women only a few are,I know very handsome guys who get rejected like trash and I also know handsome guys who women chase like flies,I know ugly guys who women despise like shitt and I know ugly guys women love like crazy infact leaving their handsome boyfriends for them my question is why is it so? are some guys more lucky with women than the others is there any mysterious phenomena attached to it?

After five years with benefits of hindsight's, the lucky guy today may no longer consider themself lucky.

As an introvert, I can't remember asking out any lady in my life, the ladies always make the first move on me. One time I was so embarrassed when I was stopped the next thing I heard was " Excuse me, you are very sexy" Those were her exact words while I was hurrying to catch my pane at a foreign airport. I was so embarrassed and at a loss for words.

Some guys, pigs usually, think their beauty and attractiveness is in how they look on the surface or the rich car they drive and the money in their wallet, and don't realise some women see the quality of your heart and your soul.

Goodmarlian:
Its seems most men on earth are unattractive to women only a few are,I know very handsome guys who get rejected like trash and I also know handsome guys who women chase like flies,I know ugly guys who women despise like shitt and I know ugly guys women love like crazy infact leaving their handsome boyfriends for them my question is why is it so? are some guys more lucky with women than the others is there any mysterious phenomena attached to it?

Confidence and humor with a touch of choco.

Confidence will attract, humor and small choco will retain.


Also when you are desired by many, you automatically become desirable by any.


And be good at something...and be known for it.

Nnamdipapa:
After five years with benefits of hindsight's, the lucky guys would no longer consider themself lucky.

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Explain further pls🙏

Goodmarlian:
Its seems most men on earth are unattractive to women only a few are,I know very handsome guys who get rejected like trash and I also know handsome guys who women chase like flies,I know ugly guys who women despise like shitt and I know ugly guys women love like crazy infact leaving their handsome boyfriends for them my question is why is it so? are some guys more lucky with women than the others is there any mysterious phenomena attached to it?

Confidence and humor with a touch of choco.

Confidence will attract, humor and small choco will retain.


Also when you are desired by many, you automatically become desirable by any.


And be good at something...and be known for it.

Fighting, playing instruments, making women orgasm, singing, academics, smooth talking..anything etc.

Women do not like ordinary men. Most men are ordinary and bland. Nothing exciting about them in any way.

otipoju:
Confidence and humor with a touch of choco.

Confidence will attract, humor and small choco will retain.


Also when you are desired by many, you automatically become desirable by any.


And be good at something...and be known for it.

I have never seen a summary this concise!

Well for the sake of knowing too many words lemme say this is aptly correct. Lol

stanvesco:
I have never seen a summary this concise!

Well for the sake of knowing too many words lemme say this is aptly correct. Lol

Lol. Even able to speak big English sef na asset.

Women love words...and you can use it to take them places deep inside them.

Long short be her safe space.

Nyascobar1414:
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Explain further pls🙏

Sorry for the cryptic writeup. I mean it's not that of a big deal to score on ladies.

I have a natural good look that turns head wherever I go, a pointed nose and square shoulder like a gym enthusiast.

When I was in primary 5 preparing for my common entrance exam, I could remember my elder bro telling me girls in the secondary school were gon be crazy over my looks and I didn't know what he meant at the time.

All through my life, ladies have constantly made remarks about my looks to my face both home and abroad.

I am a naturally shy person who will never ask a lady out but my conversation and spoken communication skills are top notch.

I carry myself with confidence and good with nonverbal communications like eye contacts, coy smile with a side of of the lips, head nods which usually encourages the ladies to make passes at me and I take it from there.

I also forget to add that I have signature haircut which fits my face so well that I have been stopped more than 10 times on the road and strangers had made remarks on my hair, some said they watched my movies and I laughed telling I was not an actor.

To summarize, I would say my looks, how I carry myself and my conversation skills have made it easy for me to hold my ground with them ladies.

Look before you leap

To me I call it grace, both genders always experience such, you will see some girls they are very beautiful but they are not having a good suitors, why some ugly ones"" you will see man with money and fame rushing them. It happens all the times, some people has good spirit, once you see them you will find yourself liking them for no reason.
Well don't be deceived though, some people's own are not ordinary, is a charm they always apply on their body, E.g soap, perfume, cream and some spiritual stuff.

otipoju:
Confidence and humor with a touch of choco.

Confidence will attract, humor and small choco will retain.


Also when you are desired by many, you automatically become desirable by any.


And be good at something...and be known for it.

Fighting, playing instruments, making women orgasm, singing, academics, smooth talking..anything etc.

Women do not like ordinary men. Most men are ordinary and bland. Nothing exciting about them in any way.

You're right, you know.
I love confidence in men. Even if you are saying balderdash, say it with all confidence and candor.
My husband, when he was trying to woo me, was confident. He was a humorous person and still is. He was a smooth talker, very expressive, and the extra thing... He was exceptional with musical instruments. As we dated, I found other positives about him.

Ladies love men who are bold and daring surely!

Nnamdipapa:
Sorry for the cryptic writeup. I mean it's not that of a big deal to score on ladies.

I have a natural good look that turns head wherever I go, a pointed nose and square shoulder like a gym enthusiast.

When I was in primary 5 preparing for my common entrance exam, I could remember my elder bro telling me girls in the secondary school were gon be crazy over my looks and I didn't know what he meant at the time.

All through my life, ladies have constantly made remarks about my looks to my face both home and abroad.

I am a naturally shy person who will never ask a lady out but my conversation and spoken communication skills are top notch.

I carry myself with confidence and good with nonverbal communications like eye contacts, coy smile with a side of of the lips, head nods which usually encourages the ladies to make passes at me and I take it from there.

I also forget to add that I have signature haircut which fits my face so well that I have been stopped more than 10 times on the road and strangers had made remarks on my hair, some said they watched my movies and I laughed telling I was not an actor.

To summarize, I would say my looks, how I carry myself and my conversation skills have made it easy for me to hold my ground with them ladies.

I hope you are not exaggerating about your personality.
Your description fits into that of my favourite person Maurice Sam( a Nigerian actor).

I literally watch his movies all the time.

Ouchbabe:
I hope you are not exaggerating about your personality.
Your description fits into that of my favourite person Maurice Sam( a Nigerian actor).

I literally watch his movies all the time.

Nope.

Most people that stopped me were white people mostly and It occurred when waiting at departure and arrival lounges to catch our flights at international airports. I was always mistaken for a particular Hollywood actor because of my unique hairstyle. Lol

These started happening immediately I changed my hairstyle. Hehehehe

Nnamdipapa:
Nope.

Most people that stopped me were white people mostly and It occurred when waiting at departure and arrival lounges to catch our flights at international airports. I was always mistaken for a particular Hollywood actor because of my unique hairstyle. Lol

These started happening immediately I changed my hairstyle. Hehehehe

And your head will be swelling up as a fine bobo okwa ya?

Ouchbabe:
And your head will be swelling up as a fine bobo okwa ya?

No not at all as I am mostly busy. It is what I have to live with and at some point, it will fade away. Lol.

With everything, I don't think I was lucky with my wife though.

If I have a do over, I will make a different choice.

Nnamdipapa:
No not at all as I am mostly busy. It is what I have to live with. At some point, it will fade away. Lol

Enjoy it while it lasts.

Women are like fashion, you got different taste. If you want a woman, ask yourself what kind of person are mine?

Understanding the kind of person you are will help you know what you’re looking for in a woman. Just like how some men don’t know how to save for the rainy days, they end up being broke when it matters, they have misplaced priorities. That’s how it is with women.

Another thing to understand is that no woman is good or bad, it’s just that you guys are not compatible, you don’t understand yourselves. If you have the manual of a gadget, you will be able to use and install that gadget, that’s how women are.


Things I do when searching for a woman that will compatible with me are

1- I follow my instincts if my mind tells me to approach her I do, if not I back out

2- next thing after approaching her, i try to get along with her in order to get to know her birth day and zodiac sign

3- once I know her zodiac sign, that’s what will decide if I will move to the next level or abort the mission


With the zodiac sign of a person, you don’t need to ask someone to tell you about themselves, with it I already know what I’m expecting if I go further, zodiac signs never lie, in a matter of minutes you know what your fate is with this person.

A lot of people don’t believe in zodiac signs, of which I use to ignore and doubt it myself in the past until I started getting interested.

You’ll hear some guys saying that my girlfriend love material things too much, the sign was there in your face but you chose not to pay attention in the beginning.

Imagine an Aries marrying or dating another Aries, 2 fire elements that both have temper issues and are never patient, who will calm down for who?

Knowing your Zodiac sign is the manual for a healthy relationship and marriage

Nnamdipapa:
Sorry for the cryptic writeup. I mean it's not that of a big deal to score on ladies.

I have a natural good look that turns head wherever I go, a pointed nose and square shoulder like a gym enthusiast.

When I was in primary 5 preparing for my common entrance exam, I could remember my elder bro telling me girls in the secondary school were gon be crazy over my looks and I didn't know what he meant at the time.

All through my life, ladies have constantly made remarks about my looks to my face both home and abroad.

I am a naturally shy person who will never ask a lady out but my conversation and spoken communication skills are top notch.

I carry myself with confidence and good with nonverbal communications like eye contacts, coy smile with a side of of the lips, head nods which usually encourages the ladies to make passes at me and I take it from there.

I also forget to add that I have signature haircut which fits my face so well that I have been stopped more than 10 times on the road and strangers had made remarks on my hair, some said they watched my movies and I laughed telling I was not an actor.

To summarize, I would say my looks, how I carry myself and my conversation skills have made it easy for me to hold my ground with them ladies.

with all your looks as stated above..you cant be a natural shy person.

Same way some amazing women are single to stupor, or with beasts called men.

It’s called life.
It’s not black and white.

budaatum:
Some guys, pigs usually, think their beauty and attractiveness is in how they look on the surface or the rich car they drive and the money in their wallet, and don't realise some women see the quality of your heart and your soul.

I refer to it as grace. People of all genders experience this phenomenon. You may notice some girls who are very beautiful but don't attract good suitors, while others who may not be conventionally attractive receive attention from wealthy and famous individuals. This happens frequently. Some people have a positive energy that makes you feel drawn to them for no apparent reason. However, be cautious, as some individuals may use charms or special products, like soap, perfume, creams, or other spiritual items, to enhance their appeal.

Women love money go out and made some money and stop disturbing us

Nnamdipapa:
No not at all as I am mostly busy. It is what I have to live with. At some point, it will fade away. Lol. With everything, I don't think I am lucky with my wife though.

If I have a do over, I will make a different choice.

Not lucky with your wife? Please stop there. You made your choice so live with it.

A guy I really had deep feelings for way back felt I wasn't good enough for him. He made his choice and I moved on.

Years later, he started stalking me via every known means online and offline. Telling me missing me was a mistake. I gave him the warning of his life.

I heard his marriage crashed without any child ( I really felt bad for him because he was a nice person).

So Nnamdipapa enjoy NnamdiMama.
Compliments of the season

ruggedtimi:
with all your looks as stated above..you cant be a natural shy person.

I regard myself as shy because I have never in my life made a direct pass at all my girlfriends.

There was an incident when I was around 18, I told my elder bro I love a Rose, and I was going to make a pass at her. I was year one in the University and she was wrapping up Ss3.
Rose was the captain of the volleyball team, they practice together with my bro football team.

That evening, I dressed up, went to the field and ready to toast, unbeknown to me, my elder bro told all his friends about my plan and eventually, the lady got to know too. I arrived at the soccer field and everyone was looking at me with expectation, even the girl dey eye me expecting me to come say my mind na. It was supposed to be a surprise na.

I lost courage and ran back home I could not bring myself to talk to the girl.

Ouchbabe:
Not lucky with your wife? Please stop there. You made your choice so live with it.

A guy I really had deep feelings for way back felt I wasn't good enough for him. He made his choice and I moved on.

Years later, he started stalking me via every known means online and offline. Telling me missing me was a mistake. I gave him the warning of his life.

I heard his marriage crashed without any child ( I really felt bad for him because he was a nice person).

So Nnamdipapa enjoy NnamdiMama.
Compliments of the season

No, I am coming out soon. Time to flex again. HeheHehe

"Na money be fine bobo"

But when you have that money, don't be a woman please because you are going to have hordes or them around you, and they wouldn't really care if you are "handsome, ugly, short, defected etc "

otipoju:
Lol. Even able to speak big English sef na asset.

Women love words...and you can use it to take them places deep inside them.

Long short be her safe space.

I don't feel like writing much on this, although I'm also thinking of giving a book away in this forum. It will open men's eyes but it can be used to harm women.

Dear men, write and digest this guy's comment on this thread — it's nothing but facts.

ruggedtimi:
with all your looks as stated above..you cant be a natural shy person.

You're serious about this comment? Look, we all have insecurities no matter the amount of super glue we use to patch them up. You might not know about it, or try to lie about it to yourself but one day, you will encounter situations that will uncover them.

This is why people believe good-looking people have different partners.

Nnamdipapa:
No, I am coming out soon. Time to flex again. HeheHehe

If you try it eeh......inwaa ya anwaa eehh

Ouchbabe:
If you try it eeh......inwaa ya anwaa eehh

I have a woman who found true love in the third married. She had been married for 30 years with the third husband after two divorces.

I don't know why Nigerians are afraid of divorces. It’s really no big of a deal.