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Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by top10villa: 9:04pm On Dec 23, 2024

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Life is 50/50 . Did the girl breakup with the ex before you stepped in ? How are you even sure she is the one for you ?

Maybe you enticed her to leave her with something.

If that girl still love the ex guy, baba there is nothing you can do about it.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by eepeepook: 9:48pm On Dec 23, 2024

You won’t take my advice so why bother? I’ll stay here and watch what decision you take in the end.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by femi4: 10:08pm On Dec 23, 2024

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Your loss if you break up with her....you're insecure. Every woman has an Ex , it takes a real man to format her hdd and install his own OS

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by frozen70(f): 10:14pm On Dec 23, 2024

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

I don't know if it's proper to blame her for saying the truth that he calls her

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by AutoChick4U(f): 10:23pm On Dec 23, 2024

GOFRONT:
Okafor's Law of Congoelasticity must take place if you go ahead and marry that your Gf

No zuzu yourself o Op

You lie here.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by top10villa: 10:23pm On Dec 23, 2024

Vikto17:
she is the one telling me all this things ,, l did not find out myself

What is the content of their discussion? You need to be sure if what they are talking about before you react. Or else if your babe still love him, she will upgrade her pattern of communication in such a way that you will never find out .

You said you're planning to get married to her? The question is this, have you proposed to her, is she really in love with or you used the ring to trap her down.

They might just be communicating without nothing serious between them.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by Uisolutions: 11:15pm On Dec 23, 2024

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Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by Harrynight(m): 12:23am On Dec 24, 2024

If you can confirm she gives her ex opportunity or attention Quit ASAP

Okafor's Law is Real

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by IamHonourable1: 6:59am On Dec 24, 2024

laivwire:
If you love her, why would you drop her because of a persistent ex? If no man is chasing your girl, it means you've been left with remnants rejected by everyone else. You should be comfortable only if you have confidence in her and know she truly love you. Some Ex can be so useless too.

Just let her be, she will chase him off herself but also keep an eye out so she's not playing you for a fool... and there's no need picking up a fight with him. Only if neccessary, talk to him when he calls when you're around and warn him to mind himself or you will treat his Bleep up. Simple.

Dey no dey love woman o

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by Fiscus105(m): 7:00am On Dec 24, 2024

TossTos:
I had to quote and I am sorry for that ..

I have similar this experience you stated above , I changed her phone , mobile number and piam, na him I saw the number called her again that beautiful day ..

She had forgotten she show me the number , I just have about 4 to 2 last digit of the number off hand ..

To cut the story short , she go her way after sometimes, I saw her with that same guy .. ( this damn true ) ..

She posted a picture of her on Facebook back then, I check the comment and saw the guy , go on to confirm if is another man or the same person I know only to found the same number she used for the Facebook as the number he always calls with ..

I no even know where the lady dey now ..

When I read where some guys said, he should cut off, I just laughed, if not ur comment I won't comment on such foolish advice, destroying SIM not solution but the girl herself, that girl only playing on his intelligent, by telling him, ex still calling her, maybe for the guy to be feeling frightened.

That girl still calling the guy and doing all sorts of romantic on and off phone.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by Fiscus105(m): 7:07am On Dec 24, 2024

Rechargeam247:
Lol, it's the plenty nonsensical comments here for me, women are more sensible and intelligent than men, take it or leave it.

Even your comment says alot about level of your intelligent.

I DOUBT IF YOU KNOW DIFFERENT BETWEEN INTELLIGENT & CUNNING.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by Eniitankorede: 8:31am On Dec 24, 2024

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! It is not his place to do all of that at all. OP already told you he has instead taking to warn her and stuff like that. That there already indicates that the relationship between them is not a healthy one. They should instead go their separate ways. She can deal with her stalker herself and he can find himself a woman who does not come with baggage he is unable to deal with.

You are talking like a weakling man!!! Any man should be in charge of his wife. Many women are looking for guidance and direction from their husband. Take the lead as a man and protect your woman. So long as she submits to you. Women are weaker than men in decision making, no matter what a fvcking feminist tells me. If you love her and want to be in charge, you need to take certain steps as a man. Merely advising and leaving everything to your wife is just being a weakling as the leader of your home.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by aswani(m): 9:45am On Dec 24, 2024

This story is not complete.

Girls know how to shut down a man, especially in that Nigeria, with their razor mouths. A Nigerian woman will finish you so badly in front of your family and friends, shame go chase you comot anoda town.

This girl is keeping her options open and op knows it if they want to be honest with themselves.

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by olabrad: 5:44pm On Dec 24, 2024

Kobojunkie:
All this because he wants to marry and live a life with this same person? Wouldn't it simply be best to move on and find someone else he wouldn't need to do all that for? 😩🧐😩😩

He should move on when he isn't sure if she's cheating or not?

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by RealityKings1: 12:03am On Dec 25, 2024

Kobojunkie:
All this because he wants to marry and live a life with this same person? Wouldn't it simply be best to move on and find someone else he wouldn't need to do all that for? 😩🧐😩😩

Merry Christmas ma

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by Nigeriadondie: 12:24am On Dec 25, 2024

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Good you found out before you married her. I was unfortunate to find out my wife was in contact with her claimed bf. I am planning to give her the shock of her life. She hid it from me until I searched her phone

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by seanery: 3:48am On Dec 25, 2024

OGA CHANGE HER SIM CARD.

I DID D SAME WITH MY WIFE THEN. NOW WATER UNDER D BRIDGE

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by seanery: 3:54am On Dec 25, 2024

femi4:
Your loss if you break up with her....you're insecure. Every woman has an Ex , it takes a real man to format her hdd and install his own OS

BUT HER SSD BACKUP STILL STRONG NAO

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by femi4: 8:22am On Dec 25, 2024

seanery:
BUT HER SSD BACKUP STILL STRONG NAO

Delete the back up

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by Rechargeam247(f): 9:35pm On Dec 25, 2024

Fiscus105:
Even your comment says alot about level of your intelligent.

I DOUBT IF YOU KNOW DIFFERENT BETWEEN INTELLIGENT & CUNNING.

This comment says it all, nothing else to add. Level of intelligent indeed
If you know the different indeed

Re: My Girlfriend's Ex Keeps Stalking Her!! Should l Quit? by imagrg(m): 4:23am On Dec 27, 2024

Impregnate her and that guy will zoom off fast!

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