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Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by correctyourself(m): 11:29am On Dec 24, 2024
dacillin:
It seems you like people to be insulting you. Why can't you read from the other comments.

The guy sell part of his portion with an agreement to the highest bidder. If his sister or girlfriend has money at that time, he would have sell it to them rather than stranger.

I know you are underage, probably in your 20's.
grin
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by delishpot: 3:04pm On Dec 24, 2024
004gist:
Anyone on dependant visa works unlimited. As at 2022 dependant slot was sold for 5m and above.

I believe the guy gave him a soft landing but she wanted to outsmart the guy.

Do u know that if u don't pass ur course u can't allow to stau back?

The guy struggled to pass and now she want to be tagged on the next visa for why?
Convert £18k to naira and tell me if it's same as #5million. Abeg let's call a spade a spade.
She contributed in the process from start till they got there. Gave him £2000 for support on school fees. Make she work till she die before he go know say £18 k is too much for her to pay?
Either she didn't know how hard she would have to work and save that £16k or she just agreed with him till she get what she wants. If he thinks she got off lightly, she can also pay him in kind by reporting him to the UK authority that he scammed his way into the UK.
They both effed up. He knew she was catching feelings for him, yet went ahead and saw her as business opportunity. Lol if a girl should receive a contract from an obvious admirer and later cries about him not wanting to continue with the deal cos she didn't play ball, shebi it's still the society that will ask her why she went ahead with the deal when she knew what he wanted after all?
I just believe they could have talked things over. The lady should explain her hardship in raising £16k and they resolve it some other way.
When she came with her £2k, he could have asked her to include half his school fees and continued with his life. Now that he kicked her out, what if she go ahead to report am?
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by ArcFresky(m): 3:27pm On Dec 24, 2024
correctyourself:
Wihy he didn't use her sister or girlfriend?
Bro, pray it doesn't happen to you.
The experience is bitter.

You can't use your sister because she is family, you can only use your partner/gf/wife.

Most likely his gf will not be able to raise the 8nitial deposit.

Please, talk about things you know, not things you don't know.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by dheilaw1(m): 3:29pm On Dec 24, 2024
Good for her.

But wait, cold no dey catch the guy? Abi he no like free kuntus inside winter?

Boya the babe is below standard sha..

if na me be the guy, I go tell her make she bring £10k, if she wan stay on my PSW. Mi o fe gbo paaa... Ka ma pade Mon ninu aye...
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by dheilaw1(m): 3:29pm On Dec 24, 2024
ArcFresky:
Bro, pray it doesn't happen to you.
The experience is bitter.

You can't use your sister because she is family, you can only use your partner/gf/wife.

Most likely his gf will not be able to raise the 8nitial deposit.

Please, talk about things you know, not things you don't know.
people dey use their siblings..
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by dheilaw1(m): 3:34pm On Dec 24, 2024
advanceDNA:
Sigh...!!.where and when did I say they were intimate??
he obviously lacks English comprehension
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist:
delishpot:
Convert £18k to naira and tell me if it's same as #5million. Abeg let's call a spade a spade.
She contributed in the process from start till they got there. Gave him £2000 for support on school fees. Make she work till she die before he go know say £18 k is too much for her to pay?
Either she didn't know how hard she would have to work and save that £16k or she just agreed with him till she get what she wants. If he thinks she got off lightly, she can also pay him in kind by reporting him to the UK authority that he scammed his way into the UK.
They both effed up. He knew she was catching feelings for him, yet went ahead and saw her as business opportunity. Lol if a girl should receive a contract from an obvious admirer and later cries about him not wanting to continue with the deal cos she didn't play ball, shebi it's still the society that will ask her why she went ahead with the deal when she knew what he wanted after all?
I just believe they could have talked things over. The lady should explain her hardship in raising £16k and they resolve it some other way.
When she came with her £2k, he could have asked her to include half his school fees and continued with his life. Now that he kicked her out, what if she go ahead to report am?
Oga what you don't know no put mouth. Work visa for Healthcare as at today cost over 30m n its difficult to even see as scamers are everywhere n uk government tightening the process.
School dependant visa was sold as high as 8 million as at last year and u pay all this money upfront.

The period they are talking about was 2022 September and pounds was sold then 540 browse ur Google.

Do u know what dependant visa is all about? In fact na u hold u real visa as the other person won't be able to work full time.

I am in UNITED KINGDOM right now and a day i get 110 pounds after tax which is 230k naira. I work 5 days per week which gives me 1.15 million naira per week and 4.6 million per month now calculate that for 2 years the girl stayed in uk.. But a student can't make this that's why people go with spouse to work full time.

If it didn't benefit her then why did she come back to beg with common 2k pounds when the guy will easily untagged her n bring in his relative or wife?

Me from September this year to this month i have been able to saved and repay back a loan of 7k pounds aside house rent and running my family cos i be family person.

The lady was asked to pay 50% of the school fees and fee was 18k for the two years program and they paid probably 2k from Nigeria remaining a balance of 16k which she will pay 8k and 8k pounds at when the deal was entered was about 5m

Currently see someon selling a spot of Finland dependant visa for 6k pounds.. Thats over 12m and it's payment upfront.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by delishpot: 5:23pm On Dec 24, 2024
004gist:
Oga what you don't know no put mouth. Work visa for Healthcare as at today cost over 30m n its difficult to even see as scamers are everywhere n uk government tightening the process.
School dependant visa was sold as high as 8 million as at last year and u pay all this money upfront.

The period they are talking about was 2022 September and pounds was sold then 540 browse ur Google.

Do u know what dependant visa is all about? In fact na u hold u real visa as the other person won't be able to work full time.

I am in UNITED KINGDOM right now and a day i get 110 pounds after tax which is 230k naira. I work 5 days per week which gives me 1.15 million naira per week and 4.6 million per month now calculate that for 2 years the girl stayed in uk.. But a student can't make this that's why people go with spouse to work full time.

If it didn't benefit her then why did she come back to beg with common 2k pounds when the guy will easily untagged her n bring in his relative or wife?

Me from September this year to this month i have been able to saved and repay back a loan of 7k pounds aside house rent and running my family cos i be family person.

The lady was asked to pay 50% of the school fees and fee was 18k for the two years program and they paid probably 2k from Nigeria remaining a balance of 16k which she will pay 8k and 8k pounds at when the deal was entered was about 5m

Currently see someon selling a spot of Finland dependant visa for 6k pounds.. Thats over 12m and it's payment upfront.
If you read my comment well, you will see that I didn't support her action neither did I support his action. The lady for reach out and discuss things instead of just disappearing. Plus the fact that you are lucky to earn good pay doesn't mean it's everybody's reality.
What he offered is it work visa? Can she use the year he spent in school plus the 2 years of post graduate visa to count for her ILR? Now wey sponsorship hard to find Naim person go waste that kind money for weyin no sure
Na mumu go pay that amount to go Finland if it's not a visa that would lead to residency.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist: 5:34pm On Dec 24, 2024
delishpot:
What he offered is it work visa? Can she use the year he spent in school plus the 2 years of post graduate visa to count for her ILR? Now wey sponsorship hard to find Naim person go waste that kind money for weyin no sure
Na mumu go pay that amount to go Finland if it's not a visa that would lead to residency.
Am just giving u a clue on how sponsorship visa is a hot cake.
Had it been i know na watin i for do leave school cos school na wahala.
The amount i quoted i earn is the minimum like its a crime for any employer to pay u that. Like jobs u do with a secondary school certificate not uni. So anyone working full time in uk that's what they earn

Back to the girl. The 2022 she came sponsorship jobs was everywhere so she knew she will get it with money saved or the place she was working promised her thats the reason she ghosted the guy but it turned out they eventually failed her or the huge amount she paid to get it was turn out to be scam like they ate her money she now have to fall back to her last option which is the guy she ghosted all those two years. The 2022 they came work was everywhere we heard companies move from street to streets looking for people to work with them unlike me that came in 2023 September. So she was in a better chance to earn and work than 2023 set

If u stay in this UK on full work visa no restrictions like spouse dependent visa my brother in that 24 month u can wipe poverty from ur lineage if u are prudent in savings... not to talk of getting sponsored thats another level. Nigerian are cunning and hardly keep to promises or a deal.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by delishpot: 8:04pm On Dec 24, 2024
004gist:
Am just giving u a clue on how sponsorship visa is a hot cake.
Had it been i know na watin i for do leave school cos school na wahala.
The amount i quoted i earn is the minimum like its a crime for any employer to pay u that. Like jobs u do with a secondary school certificate not uni. So anyone working full time in uk that's what they earn

Back to the girl. The 2022 she came sponsorship jobs was everywhere so she knew she will get it with money saved or the place she was working promised her thats the reason she ghosted the guy but it turned out they eventually failed her or the huge amount she paid to get it was turn out to be scam like they ate her money she now have to fall back to her last option which is the guy she ghosted all those two years. The 2022 they came work was everywhere we heard companies move from street to streets looking for people to work with them unlike me that came in 2023 September. So she was in a better chance to earn and work than 2023 set

If u stay in this UK on full work visa no restrictions like spouse dependent visa my brother in that 24 month u can wipe poverty from ur lineage if u are prudent in savings... not to talk of getting sponsored thats another level. Nigerian are cunning and hardly keep to promises or a deal.
I understand you now. Mehn she wicked o. Karma got her real fast.
Yes the average Nigerian is a user. They can pretend till they get what they want. I thank God that I fear God and naturally hate to ne the reason anyone would cry if not, I know I would have become a user too grin grin
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist: 10:31pm On Dec 24, 2024
delishpot:
I understand you now. Mehn she wicked o. Karma got her real fast.
Yes the average Nigerian is a user. They can pretend till they get what they want. I thank God that I fear God and naturally hate to ne the reason anyone would cry if not, I know I would have become a user too grin grin
Currently i have or know 3 Nigerians that removed theie husbands as dependants. This is husband that paid for everything saw them through school... Paid 100% school fees and immediately after school theu chased the man out from house.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by correctyourself(m): 7:14am On Dec 25, 2024
ArcFresky:
Bro, pray it doesn't happen to you.
The experience is bitter.

You can't use your sister because she is family, you can only use your partner/gf/wife.

Most likely his gf will not be able to raise the 8nitial deposit.

Please, talk about things you know, not things you don't know.
Brother, you make sense,
Some people insulted me just because I made my opinion, i pray for us and our Nation Nigeria.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by written007: 12:10pm On Dec 25, 2024
004gist:
Currently i have or know 3 Nigerians that removed theie husbands as dependants. This is husband that paid for everything saw them through school... Paid 100% school fees and immediately after school theu chased the man out from house.
My God! Heart of a man!. Isn't that enough to make any caliber of man depress or suicidal? Chaii
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by delishpot: 1:46pm On Dec 25, 2024
004gist:
Currently i have or know 3 Nigerians that removed theie husbands as dependants. This is husband that paid for everything saw them through school... Paid 100% school fees and immediately after school theu chased the man out from house.
I know one currently o. Lord have mercy. I thought the stories I was hearing were mere fiction until it happened to my guy. Omo she took their 3 kids, called cops on him and is looking for aduro.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist: 2:45pm On Dec 25, 2024
delishpot:
I know one currently o. Lord have mercy. I thought the stories I was hearing were mere fiction until it happened to my guy. Omo she took their 3 kids, called cops on him and is looking for aduro.
It's a common practice. I was asking the lady how far ur previous oga. She said she don't have any idea where he is. She just mail home office n they got him removed.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist: 2:47pm On Dec 25, 2024
written007:
My God! Heart of a man!. Isn't that enough to make any caliber of man depress or suicidal? Chaii
The one very close to me i don't know if the man is still in uk. While the other one entered the European country to seek for aduro rather than going back to naija.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Jetland(m): 7:28pm On Dec 25, 2024
Beuberry:
You think you are smart. I hope you get hooked one day and I happen to know you or be friend to ya spouse. I will personally drain you.
Lol on what basis are you going to drain me?
Shey I sent you my nude ni?
I don't have any spouse for now, so I don't know how you'd get me drained. 😊
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Beuberry(f): 7:41pm On Dec 25, 2024
Jetland:
Lol on what basis are you going to drain me?
Shey I sent you my nude ni?
I don't have any spouse for now, so I don't know how you'd get me drained. 😊
Okikiolu don't know you so getat
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by frozen70(f): 8:56pm On Dec 25, 2024
KingintheNorth:
What's your Advice and opinion about this.
This is actually true life scenario and I'm posting for someone anonymously.

A guy and a lady planned to travel to the UK on a student visa together they contributed and paid the deposit. The plan and agreement was that the guy will study then the lady will work to help with the tuition fee payment of £18k 50-50. then after school everyone will go their way.

Before they traveled, the lady was subtly catching feelings for the guy but the guy was having none of it because it's just contract for him.

When they got to the UK last year, they both moved to different cities , the guy started school and she got a job and started working.

When it was time to pay the balance of the tuition, the lady refused to contribute to the payment. Claiming she doesn't have money and if she must pay it, she will have to move in with him and start acting like his wife.

The guy refused and reminded her about the agreement. She insisted on her own ideas. When she saw that the guy was not bulging she blocked him on all social media so he was not able to reach her for sometime.

When the pressure from school became too much , the guy started hustling day and night breaking his back and still covering his lectures and assignments.

The guy was tempted to remove her from his visa because he's the main visa holder and she's the dependant but he didn't , hoping that she will still fulfill her own part of the agreement.

She remained incommunicado untill the guy managed to pay off all the tuition, passed all his courses and finished school.

Few months after he finished school , she reached out and was acting all friendly. Apparently the company she was hoping to get a sponsorship from disappointed her so she was trying to buy her way into jumping on the 2 years post graduate visa the guy was about to apply for.

Remember, out of the £18k tuition , she only contributed £2k for the deposit and refused all further payments. Now she wants to give the guy £2k to take him on his post graduate visa.

The guy refused and removed her from his visa because of her wickedness and untrustworthiness.
Her visa expired and as she was not able to see a sponsor,she was asked to leave the country .now she's in Nigeria swearing for the guy. Threatening to report him to her village juju etc.

Do you think he did the right thing??
She faulted an agreement, so let her go and report, the juju will attack her not the guy

Juju also know how to judge issues with out talking
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Atk1nson(m): 7:21am On Dec 26, 2024
KingintheNorth:
What's your Advice and opinion about this.
This is actually true life scenario and I'm posting for someone anonymously.

A .....
If this is true, the guy is very lucky.

At the point where he took her off his visa, she could have also reported him to the home office for the past misrepresentation of their relationship which would adversely affect him.

Even if they did on the paper, the substance of their relationship was false. They didn't live together and the lady can easily pull together other information and records showing it was a financial arrangement rather than marriage.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Atk1nson(m): 7:33am On Dec 26, 2024
eazzzy1:
I don’t know how UK immigration works, but the fact they didn’t live together and she was removed from the visa after he graduated is sufficient backup.
The lady was either ignorant, forgiving or a cooked up story.

The lady could have easily dragged the guy along when her visa was cancelled. They fact that they live apart would have been a strong indication to HO that it was an arranged marriage and the HO is aware of such schemes.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Atk1nson(m): 7:47am On Dec 26, 2024
004gist:
Let me be frank with u.. Same uk i de in less than 1 year i earned over 25k pounds... Before rax though..
Come talk of person weh stay 2 years... Make u na de reason.

Even the 50% then it was less than 4.5m when pounds be 540...
This guy, after lamenting bitterly about UK even when we told you to chill and see things are not as bad as you claim.

Sorry for those people that listened to you and decide to wait for Tinubu's era.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Atk1nson(m): 7:57am On Dec 26, 2024
delishpot:
I know one currently o. Lord have mercy. I thought the stories I was hearing were mere fiction until it happened to my guy. Omo she took their 3 kids, called cops on him and is looking for aduro.
This is plain stupidity.

She has no idea how hard it is to raise 3 children in a country like the UK without public fund and spousal support. The career sacrifice She will have to make as a single parent of 3 children.

She would need at least a 2 bedroom apartment. If they are less than 10 years old, she will have to drop and pick them from school, pay for after school of She can't pick them by 3pm, ensure there is always someone at home with them with no recourse to public funds for at least 5 years.

She is also unlikely to find anyone willing to shoulder than responsibility in a country where people love to live their best life.

She just set herself
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist: 8:50am On Dec 26, 2024
Atk1nson:
This guy, after lamenting bitterly about UK even when we told you to chill and see things are not as bad as you claim.

Sorry for those people that listened to you and decide to wait for Tinubu's era.
.
who are u calling boy?


Do u know what student saw in uk

Do u know how many of my colleagues was sent back to Nigeria?.
Do u understand or know i sold my only family house? To offset school fees and alsi borrowed.

Or u just want to identify the Victory after long battle of struggling

My advice remain the same if u don't have 70% of ur school fees or know how to raise it at this point forget schooling in UK AS YOU ARE GAMBLING
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by hammed71(m): 8:53am On Dec 26, 2024
004gist:
.
who are u calling boy?


Do u know what student saw in uk mugu

Do u know how many of my colleagues was sent back to Nigeria?.
Do u understand or know i sold my only family house? To offset school fees and alsi borrowed.

Ot u just want to identify the Victory after long battle of struggling
Am glad things worked out for you in the end
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist: 9:00am On Dec 26, 2024
hammed71:
Am glad things worked out for you in the end
Thanks jarri

Anyone that came to UK with over 10k debt even with dependant knows how difficult it is to clear debt with school locking ur portal, withdrawal of admission and letter of deportation by home office ... With all experience i still advice anyone coming not to gamble if they dont have a meand to clear 70% at least from outside the British economy.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by Atk1nson(m):
004gist:
.
who are u calling boy?


Do u know what student saw in uk

Do u know how many of my colleagues was sent back to Nigeria?.
Do u understand or know i sold my only family house? To offset school fees and alsi borrowed.

Or u just want to identify the Victory after long battle of struggling

My advice remain the same if u don't have 70% of ur school fees or know how to raise it at this point forget schooling in UK AS YOU ARE GAMBLING
The majority of Nigerians that came through the study route, did not do so having paid their full tuition and the bulk of them successfully did so and stayed lawfully in the country. You are not the first or an exceptional case.

The difference is many of them manned-up and took on the challenge with a positive attitude while you opened a thread singing like a canary, claiming there is no job in the UK and it was near impossible to do.

You also complained about the landlord asking for 3-6 months' rent upfront. You were informed to get someone as a guarantor. You complained that Nigerians would not help as a guarantor. Did you think we all came into the country with 6 months' rent at hand or relatives living here?

You're a very negative person, one that people looking to move forward should definitely avoid.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by 004gist: 10:26am On Dec 26, 2024
Atk1nson:
The majority of Nigerians that came through the study route, did not do so having paid their full tuition and the bulk of them successfully did so and stayed lawfully in the country. You are not the first or an exceptional case.

The difference is many of them manned-up and took on the challenge with a positive attitude while you opened a thread singing like a canary, claiming there is no job in the UK and it was near impossible to do.

You're a very negative person, one that people looking to move forward should definitely avoid.
Mugu said negative person.

Do u know that i received letter to go home from office? 60 days to leave.

Do u know that it was God's mercy i scale through with the help of two immigration lawyer?

How many people have u seen that have that come back?

If i had not complained using every media i would be in Nigeria. People i didn't know helped me with immigration lawyer n how to tackle the school

ITS BEST U KEEP QUIET AS U CAN'T rather than involved ur mouth what u no nothing about.
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by bknight: 10:37am On Dec 26, 2024
written007:
Chai.. Na this kind maturity you take dea cross 4 lanes Road? Go for thanksgiving
*Falls off chair!!!!!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I laughed until I struggled to regain composure
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by ArcFresky(m): 12:04pm On Dec 27, 2024
dheilaw1:
people dey use their siblings..
Okay oh, use your own sibling naa
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by PeachtreeReside(f): 1:30pm On Dec 27, 2024
The best time to have removed her was when she blocked him on social media....


I'm happy he removed her as his dependent eventually and did not give into her wicked cunning wiles.



All those curses she is hurling at him won't catch him.... even curses need to apply for visa too.... grin cheesy
Re: She Refused To Fulfill Her Part Of This Agreement. by dheilaw1(m): 6:30pm On Dec 27, 2024
ArcFresky:
Okay oh, use your own sibling naa
ask questions if you are not sure of something, stop displaying foolishness. My neighbor came with his elder sister as his wife. They are both here in the UK right now.
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