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Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

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Have you not been reading all the regret stories, here?

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

Hope u never 30

tobby20:
Hope u never 30

42 last month

Sirchiboy:
42 last month

God b with you and your kids
My greetings to your wife o

tobby20:
God b with you and your kids
My greetings to your wife o

How old are you

tobby20:
God b with you and your kids
My greetings to your wife o

No wife no kids

Sirchiboy:
How old are you

20 plus
God b with u o sir
How u dey cope without children

Sirchiboy:
No wife no kids

Why?

tobby20:
20 plus
God b with u o sir
How u dey cope without children

Na money I need to have

Good post @op:

> My regrets:

- Not being more outgoing and believing an FG job would just land on my lap. (Imagine a driver in my neck of the woods, had to involve an lg chairman just to get a job with fuor point.
- Betting.
- Not taking enough calculated risks.
- Indulging in alcohol. (Imagine blackbullet is now over 2k for one and a bottle of origin around 3500/4000) I guess I know why it's called spirit now.
- Not upskilling when the opportunity arose.
- SIMPing in my early age etc...

My insistence on reading Law in my early 20s. I was already a 200L Edu student but I decided to drop out so as to pursue a Law degree in another institution. Both my parents and a very close friend advised me against the decision but I was too stubborn. I regret it till today.

Also in 2016, I had enough money to japa but I decided to set up a private business. I thought Nigeria's economy will be better. Although the business is very much alive today, I regret not investing the money to japa to the US.

richiemcgold:
My insistence on reading Law in my early 20s. I was already a 200L Edu student but I decided to drop out so as to pursue a Law degree in another institution. Both my parents and a very close friend advised me against the decision but I was too stubborn. I regret it till today.

Have u been called to bar ?

Sucre6:
Have u been called to bar ?

I graduated in 2010 and went into business right away. I've got no time for Law School since then.

richiemcgold:
I graduated in 2010 and went into business right away. I've got no time for Law School since then.

You should have just gone to law school and be called to bar, u could pursue other venture afterward

richiemcgold:
I graduated in 2010 and went into business right away. I've got no time for Law School since then.

What business sir

Sirchiboy:
What business sir

Printing press and educational publishing

I'm here to learn.

richiemcgold:
Printing press and educational publishing

How much person need now to setup such business

Sirchiboy:
How much person need now to setup such business

Haaaaa! It is a multimillion naira investment o. Machineries are very expensive. For instance, a foreign used kord offset machine is currently over N10million and we have 2 sets in my press. Price of printing papers too are well above the roof. You should be looking at a budget of 5million+ to set up a small scale commercial printing press.

My biggest mistake is dating someone for 6 yrs.i dont regret any other thing

richiemcgold:
Haaaaa! It is a multimillion naira investment o. Machineries are very expensive. For instance, a foreign used kord offset machine is currently over N10million and we have 2 sets in my press. Price of printing papers too are well above the roof. You should be looking at a budget of 5million+ to set up a small scale commercial printing press.

So 1m cannot start something

...

Meeting a wrong lady at the right place at the right time

Wrong in the sense of "mamiwotally" deadly

it's the worst mistake especially if you are not into the dark underworld

Not being a Christian in my 20s.
Following the wrong crowd of womanizers
I'm happy I skipped marrying the wrong wife though. That would have been one of my biggest regrets cos i for divorce her.

To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo

I realized this fact late:

At 20s.... What will people say

At 30s..... I won't let what people say bother me much

Now at 40.... I realized it's all in my head, people are not saying anything because whatever they said about you yesterday, they have forgotten about it today and start saying another thing. So whatever they say is very inconsequential and should never let you loose your focus!

1. Not finishing with a 2:1 at least.
2. Not marrying early probably before 30.

1. Buying my virgin girlfriend BS of waiting for her till our wedding night, last last another sharp guy popped the cherry...She still blamed me instead... .. (women and accountability ehnnn)
2. Playing Virtual bets... omo ... I see shege promax.
3. Trusting pastor... , now if you tell me say you be pastor... na extra extra eyes i go use dey look you.
4. Selling my 2 plots of land...

Well, to every action there is a reaction.

Not everyone will be millionaires at 20 or at 30 nor 40.

Same as not everyone will live to 50.

Their is no manual for life, so focus on fulfilling you and forget about conforming to societal standards, pressure or view of a fulfilled life.


No one else will live a fulfilled life for you, it is yours to live, enjoy, build and experience.

Don't be a slave to people's opinion, yes!!

Don't regret anything, appreciate that you still have breadth in your nostrils and focus on the opportunities ahead of you.



Good morning