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Marrying a wrong woman

Still hunting me till now

Risingblue008:
To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo

No, your biggest regret is not finishing with 2:1 bro. School no b scam.

Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria. There is no professional career now in Nigeria that will guarantee you financial freedom. You will just suffer and pay bills.

Sad thing it was never always like this APC is a real curse to humanity

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line

Risingblue008:
To me
Let me truthful,
I regret goin to university,studied economics with 2nd class lower.EKOPMA,graduated 2009,
Brothers
I for now whr i for dey by now.
School na scam
We have millions of graduates sunce 2003 and yet no work
I thank God for bet9ja oo

Make una stop this school-na-scam narrative joor.

There are people that have made great impacts with a similar degree.

Our stories no fit be the same, na to just pray to God for guidance and support.

Factcheck0001:
y?

Can u tell me what it looks like to b 40?
Let me know d experience n feeling even if it's brief
The gains, d losses, d regrets, the disappointment
Y no kids?

How old are you

Factcheck0001:
sorry about that nigga

I feel for u but at d same time u present it as if na u no want d girl

Yeah I been no want d girl. Which I have been given her red light from d beginning but love no gree her see road. She be dey think say she go fit use belle hold me down but no way. D love she had for me was 100% and my own to her no even reach 20%. Only that she never too expose and d puna still dey tight

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

being an introvert isn't bad... Just learn an online skill, create value and you will swim in money.... So many to learn

Losing millions of naira on ponzi schemes

Factcheck0001:
y?

Can u tell me what it looks like to b 40?
Let me know d experience n feeling even if it's brief
The gains, d losses, d regrets, the disappointment
Y no kids?

The feeling of being 40.
You can't run fast again.
In your mind, you're still thinking you are Ronaldo or Usain Bolt. But in real life,
You can't run. Even if you try it,
back pain, waist pain will follow, Daily.
Even without doing anything, body pains

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

I made a mistake by voting for Peter Obi.

Marrying the mother of my two kids, I regret ever setting my eye on her
Even in my next world I will never forgive her

I think my only regret would be listening to all those "Entrepreneurship Bullshit". Two years ago, I was doing fantastically well with my salary job. My life was simple and I had my future figured out.

Fast forward to when I entered the "Business World", everything has become a "mad race" ever since. I now have to work twice as hard, I practically don't have time for anything again. I've lost many social connections, some great friends and even my inner peace. Yes, I'm making money but at the expense of what?

My worries and fear of the future keep increasing every day. The uncertainty of life now freaks me out. I barely relax any longer. I'm constantly planning five steps ahead now. I wish I can go back to that my "simple life".

Olarewaju89:
Married a wrong woman

Still hunting me till now

Is the woman still available? I would like to experience marrying the wrong woman.

virginboy1:
1. Buying my virgin girlfriend BS of waiting for her till our wedding night, last last another sharp guy popped the cherry...She still blamed me instead... .. (women and accountability ehnnn)
2. Playing Virtual bets... omo ... I see shege promax.
3. Trusting pastor... , now if you tell me say you be pastor... na extra extra eyes i go use dey look you.
4. Selling my 2 plots of land...

For number one
Did you later marry her?


That shii can hurt so bad tho

Sirchiboy:
Being an introvert and staying indoors for years before realizing that I need to step out if I want to make it and succeed

Being an introvert is good. But there are times one needs to step out.

motionarena:
Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line

Unfortunately, students follow each other blindly.
You're supposed to have your connections in an industry, First, before writing jamb and going to school. So that once you finish, you go straight there to work.
But people will be reading course because their friend is reading course. Then they finish and have no idea where to work.

Not being able to provide the kind of comfort I have always dreamed of for my parents.

Choosing school over business after my high school

Still living in Nigeria is another biggest regret of my age

josh123:
being an introvert isn't bad... Just learn an online skill, create value and you will swim in money.... So many to learn

Learn cyber security but not making money.
Spend 300k to learn it in ph.
Not useful in Nigeria

NSK4U:
Not being able to provide the kind of comfort I have always dreamed of for my parents.

Choosing school over business after my high school

Which line of business you would have pursued to become one of Nigeria's wealthiest young people?

For me to defile the temple of God which is my body.

iCauseTrouble:
Is it still possible for you to go to law school?

Yes, but I doubt if I'll ever have time for it again.

richiemcgold:
Haaaaa! It is a multimillion naira investment o. Machineries are very expensive. For instance, a foreign used kord offset machine is currently over N10million and we have 2 sets in my press. Price of printing papers too are well above the roof. You should be looking at a budget of 5million+ to set up a small scale commercial printing press.

Please how then do people make money from this?

Find someone you love while you're young and build with her,it's very difficult to love someone after building alone for a long time.The scars and lessons you got on your way up will make you very weary of your feelings ,too mechanical.

When you start changing status,pull your woman up with you.You don't wanna be up there and she's still almost where you met her,all attraction you had for her will fade.

You don't need friends,you need brothers.That loyal motherfucker that'd fight first and ask questions later.Even if it's just one person.

Avoid showoff or largesse of any kind cos the people untop will get scared you're growing to fast and will wanna stiffle this growth if they can.
Be modest and calculative.

Trust no one with your innate issues or successes,this is meant for your partner alone.
That so called mentor might be jealous of you so shut it and tell this to either parents or wife cos they've got a lot to lose if they Bleep up with information that'd get you down or killed.

Support your family if you've got bank,especially your aging parents.
It's a great feeling to see the day you give back to the people who sacrificed a lot to form you into a refined human,
Definitely better than giving those who don't rate you cos you're trying yo impress.

Take good care of yourself and always look good and clean,it helps your confidence.

Avoid loud and gutter women,especially if you've built something too good to lose!!!
It's usually better to mingle with your social class at all times,so y'all can always meet halfway.
All that "person na person" talk na pure cap.

Not being a born again fervent Christian early in my youth

biaframaster200:
Is the woman still available? I would like to experience marrying the wrong woman.

Yes, she is. But we have a child together and she is just 3 years old.

The divorce decision came from her parents.

Bro, it a long story and it really hunt me because of my beloved daughter.

Justiceleague1:
Please how then do people make money from this?

Printing is a big money making investment bro and it is always on demand. Just take a look around you at wherever you are right now. I'm sure you can see different kinds of papers everywhere. And probably they are not plain papers, things are printed on them, aren't they? Even the biscuits sachets have something printed on them. Campaign posters of politicians and polical parties alone can get you a multimillion naira contract.

josh123:
being an introvert isn't bad... Just learn an online skill, create value and you will swim in money.... So many to learn

Please give examples, thanks

Sonofgod1990:
Using my life savings to carry holosho and using the remaining money to drink alcohol. I couldn't believe my self spending about 10 million on useless drinks and prostitutes

That's why it is said that any man who can control his third leg will go far in life.

motionarena:
Going to school in naija to waste time and money

Parents please do not allow your children pursue a career in Nigeria

Send dem to study abroad or push dem towards a business oriented line

Hmmmm

Some facts here

Sisqoman:
I had sex with a bad luck punna

How true is this?
I have seen a lot of men saying things started going bad for them after sleeping with some lady.

BigDawsNet:
Hmmm

I dint get the opportunity to lash enough in my 20s
Wasn’t willing to take risks in life
I dint mingle much with friends
I wish I got the opportunity to japa as early as 20

Having too much friends isn't good.

My regret is not getting married when I had the opportunity though I was very young then I tot marriage will stop me from enjoying and exploring life.... this guy really loved me and spoilt me with a lot of gift and money and he never disturbed me for sex in fact have always been the one demanding for sex when I need it.....we even did introduction b4 I scattered everything which made him travelled out am still in pain ooooo because all the guys have been meeting are for sex and money no real love talk less of marriage.