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ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

And so?

Just advice Ur dad

ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.

Young man.
There are some things that we see in this life, that we are suppose to take to our grave.

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

Imagine bringing your family secret affair here 🤔









You are a big fool

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

report him na bastard.

PeterObi4Presid:
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U are a foooolish son..lol
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I'm telling u what to do and the implications of what u are about to do, yet u are still capping
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It shows u are not even a man, and u don't understand men.. probably u are a mamas boy who has been brainwashed by his mom
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Wake up....ur father kmew what he did was wrong.....but u don't have to escalate the whole thing into disaster. even if he doesn't know its wrong the last thing he expects on a son is to tell on him.....u will lose the mans respect and love cos he will believe u are a very foooolish son...
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The best way to handle this issue is to confront him like a man, and he will respect u the more... Don't tell on him...what if he had done it in the hotels outside ur knowledge wud u have known?
Have sesne little boy.... don't be too emotional over women issues....u will grow up too and have better understanding of why men do certain things and the regret or torments they suffer from
Follow my advice if u are a man. A man don't gossip, they confront and resolve issues.....gossip is for little stvpid sisters..leave it to them...... don't complicate the life of that breadwinner u and ur mother still have....

Young man,

Follow the above quoted advice.

Your future path is the path of your father, not your mother's.

Do you know how many strangers are having relationships with ur mother too?

**** The only words you can utter in this case is to personally meet your father and explain your mind to him. That's all.

. WISDOM makes people WISE not DULL/STUPID. Young man,SHUT YO TRAP and face front. Wetin the Op go do the old man? Nothing.

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

Is it just me or did someone else wonder why the man didn't even bother to clean after himself before traveling to join the wife at the village. Who does that without worrying about the family returning to town to see the house in that condition?. Does he not share the room with the wife? I suggest OP takes caution before proceeding o.

Wetin go shock OP be say, im mama don already sabi say im papa dey cheat😂😂

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table....
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

sorry to say, In every relationship, 95% tends to cheat on their partners...isn't a new thing...I did advise u move on and just keep a close watch....But if u want the opposite side, check what this means on Google first..'' Si vis pacem, para bellum.

ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??

Tell us wetin u go do yo father ooo .Drag him like 🐅 GENERATOR and whooze him Karate kick/flog him like a 🐐 ?

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

Ignorance
Married people use condom now. What if he's using those accessories on your mum

I hate men who see everything and say everything they see.

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

Has your father been a responsible man to your mom, you and your siblings? If so, you will be a very stupid person to be cursing or reporting him to your mom. Who told you that you too will not cheat on your wife when you finally get married?

Meteng:
You didn’t catch him. You just saw condom and the rest in his room. Is that catching?

Hahaha, see poor cat 🐈 crying, hahaha 🤣

ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??

You are a cursed fool that places his mother above his father. You are really cursed. Wait until you get married and we will.see whether you'll cheat on your wife or not.

Idiot senseless fool.

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

Firstly, How old are you?
Do you know that your mum maybe aware but her hope is that she prioritize you guys growing up in a peaceful home. She may also not be able to keep up with your dad's sex demands. You think no one has seen your dad to report him to her or a man she shares the bedroom with, she has not come across those stuffs. Does your dad only get Hot on Christmas periods. Dey play. If I were you, the best idea would be to arrange a sweet babe for your dad that will get some money from him to give you too if he seems stingy. If he has the money to spend on a woman, that can be your emergency income in the time of severe sapa. Plus you need to start facing your life and how to start your family. It will shock you to know that if DNA is conducted you may not even be his biological son but that aside, boy focus on your life and make something good out of it. If you tell, you will be shocked to know that your mum knows but chose to be quiet about it.

ur mother went to d village quickly to receive some knacks.

u only never caught her cos shes way smarter

DLifeless1:
Do you know you are an idiot?
You are asking him of he is a saint?
No wonder you support someone such as tinubu and defend his directionless policies with impunity.
Why am I suprised, are you not a Yoruba man that has bastardised the sanctity of marriage with infidelity and promiscuity just cos you lack self control.

You see

I knew it

U must bring Tinubu here, fvck u and ur Osu mum...

MaziObinnaokija:
. WISDOM makes people WISE not DULL/STUPID. Young man,SHUT YO TRAP and face front. Wetin the Op go do the old man? Nothing.

This Chizzybuna Is one of the most senseless people I've ever come across. The idiot shouldn't be a man; he should be a girl.

He is a stupid mummy's boy ready to tell on his dad because his mom is more important to him than his dad. I won't be surprised if his dad plays his role as a father to this stupid childish fool.

Your mama fit be the cause self...
Most women old age no dey get joy again.
Na why it good for men's mental health to marry in every decade after first marriage till probably 60s

Just rush to your mother and tell her

Condoms alone aren’t proof. You saw nothing.

ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.

Ogbeni, kindly call family meeting on your Daddy jare.
Don't listen to those peeps discouraging you.
It is your cross to carry bro, abi


Wetin concern me if you stupidly destroy your home.

illicit:
Report your dad to your mum, for what exactly...?

If he has been doing all that and there was peace and harmony, you don't have a right to disrupt his life... And ur mums

Disrupt urs if u like..

will u say same if it was him mom engaging in extra curricular?

ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??

You're a very fuuulish man

Oga, men do not the cheat. It is the nature of a man to have as many women as he wants and sleep with them all , and heaven will not fail. David, Solomon, Abraham, etc all had numerous women in their lives and heaven didn't fall.

What you call cheating in a man is completely different from women's cheating. Once a woman cheats, the family is completely destroy

Noblechykk:
Stop being unnecessarily emotional dude. And if you find out that your mother is cheating too, what will be your reaction? Hate your mum?

Nope.... report to the father.

OP no get sense at all, he should go and buy wisdom where it's been put up for sale

ChizzyBuna:
I really regret bringing this issue to nairaland. God forbid!!!!

At this point
If any man complian of hypocrisy of women or complian about a woman cheatung.
Ogun and Amadiohia will strike you into pieces. Bastatds

No wonder u have no sense and training to respect ur father...
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See the rubbish u wrote here, disrespecting ur father cos of ordinary car dat can have accidents and spoil......because ur father talked to u..u had to insult him this way....u sound like a rotten bastard trained by a bad slutty woman....u need to sit with a man to treat u manners and stop behaving like a simpy goat..
What a foolish boy banning his father from his car.....

RodgersAkpafu:
will u say same if it was him mom engaging in extra curricular?

So u will report ur mum to ur dad...?

So that he can divorce her or what?

Men, these people are older than u, they have been doing their stuff before u turned up and u will do urs or doing it already...

So no go dey form holy holy

If your dad is the breadwinner of the family, he has nothing to lose.. highest your mom will vacate for the sugar girl or whoever it is your dad is knacking.

ChizzyBuna:
Now i know why nigeria is doomed
Imagine a society that sees nothing wrong with tbeir father sleeping with numerous women.

I pity the womb that carried you for 9 months. That is how you treat yiur mother by encoyraging your father

you're the one to be pitied here. Am a Christian but using this to scather your family is wickedness and stupidity at the same time.
Man wisdom is the principal thing, apply it here.

ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??

Cheating is definitely bad but you sound stupid because it appears you have already made up your mind. Someone is giving you reasonable answer to be more diplomatic and you are just ranting like a weak man.

Go ahead and report him then so that you will have peace of mind.

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

The funniest part is that, your mother fit know say papa dey cheat, make she look away.