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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by OredoPikin: 9:25am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.

We understand all these u are saying bruh
Even bible talked well about wisdom.
Learn to apply wisdom here.
The best thing to do is to confront your dad and tell him you are not happy that he is cheating on your mom.
When Jesus wanted to settle the adulterous woman that was been chased, he could have just asked them to stone her to death since she commited the sin, but he asked anyone without a sin to first cast his or her stone.
That is pure wisdom

Telling your mom is not wise, rather confront ur dad

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by nairamaniac: 9:30am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to[b] sleep around like goat[/b]??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

Please do not insult goats. We men can be worse than goats.

U should be happy you saw used condoms. It limits the chances of him bringing diseases and children into the family.

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by eaglez(m): 9:32am On Dec 28, 2024

Read what you wrote and tell yourself you are a good son!!! SMH

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ojasweb(m): 9:36am On Dec 28, 2024

PeterObi4Presid:
Oga, I'm not a child or baby.....I don't have to reveal too much about my experience with women and use of wisdom to relate with ones father. See u will only understand the worth of your father when u are well grown into marriage or after u must have lost him to death......by then it will be too late cos I can see ur mother has brainwashed u soo much that u have little respect or consideration for your father...
The question is, why do u hate ur father and decide to always side with ur mother?
Wetin dat man do u? Does he beat ur mother? Din't he pay ur school fee or care for the family? Aren't u proud of his success and achievement? So wetin dat man do you that u believe telling on him is the best way to repay his fatherhood over u....
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U see the language I use? It's intentional cos I know ur type.....
Ur type re the ones who usually do mumu mumu to their girlfriend, who usually simp for women, who only learn the hard way..
Regardless of what ur father may have done, learn to forgive or learn to draw close to him to ask him question when he's still alive, at least to understand him and hear his side of things and also learn wisdom. ...
As a son u need more wisdom cos u are the husband and father to ur mother as well as ur dad's heir if paraventure he leaves u today.....so how will u show leadership btw ur mom and ur wife when u become their only husband?
Grow up....and stop seeing everything from ur mother's point of view alone. If u are a man and sad about ur father's behavior....FUCKING CONFRONT HIM RESPECTFULLY WTH WISDOM AS AN AFRICAN CHILD! .....and stop whining like a baby

You are wasting your time.

With his character you can tell that he could join his mother to beat his dad.

He might not even be the man's biological son. Simple wisdom he took anger. If he later got to know the story behind his existence he will be looking for sniper.

A good woman who wants their husband to live long knows that when she's above 50, she won't be able to meet his sexual desire again.

But here is a RUDE son lambasting his dad.

Anyway, the paternity seems questionable.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by eaglez(m): 9:36am On Dec 28, 2024

Very mature response, bro leave that boy he is just a toddler. I don't support his dad's behavior but as someone that caught his father, he should handle the case with maturity so as not to hurt the feelings of the mum the more, corrections from him to his father might make the man stop is illicit act but if he blew it open, baba go dey fire dey go and mama go be the one to the face the heat, e fit escalate her present health status leading to the unimaginable.

PeterObi4Presid:
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U are a foooolish son..lol
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I'm telling u what to do and the implications of what u are about to do, yet u are still capping
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It shows u are not even a man, and u don't understand men.. probably u are a mamas boy who has been brainwashed by his mom
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Wake up....ur father kmew what he did was wrong.....but u don't have to escalate the whole thing into disaster. even if he doesn't know its wrong the last thing he expects on a son is to tell on him.....u will lose the mans respect and love cos he will believe u are a very foooolish son...
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The best way to handle this issue is to confront him like a man, and he will respect u the more... Don't tell on him...what if he had done it in the hotels outside ur knowledge wud u have known?
Have sesne little boy.... don't be too emotional over women issues....u will grow up too and have better understanding of why men do certain things and the regret or torments they suffer from
Follow my advice if u are a man. A man don't gossip, they confront and resolve issues.....gossip is for little stvpid sisters..leave it to them...... don't complicate the life of that breadwinner u and ur mother still have....

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by holusormi(m): 9:38am On Dec 28, 2024

Go and report him , arindin !!! - if I were to be your father I’ll disown you , na leg you go take waka from village come Lagos and them no born your mama well to come me house again- stupid piece of shit!!

Edit : apparently this idiot just posts to trigger people , please pay him no mind , na lie full him mouth

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by nairamaniac: 9:42am On Dec 28, 2024

I don't know if I have a problem.

But I see it very strange for me, as a man to be even that close to a mother to the point of talking about private habits and private escapades of fellowmen to her.

What in the world would ever make me that close to my mother or a sister?

Maybe I have a serious problem.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Starhearts: 9:59am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me

Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

And u dey use diz kind sense cross road

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Dannyilo(m): 10:08am On Dec 28, 2024

After reading all comments and your reply, I can confidently say you don't need advice as you already made up your mind to report your Dad to your Mom. First of all, you be mumu sha to think reporting your Dad to your Mom will bring peace. Except if you are tired of your father staying married to your Mom and you intend to make them divorce or you want a step Mom, that's the logical reason to think this way. If you are male, it's either you are a teenager or a spoilt Mommy's boy. Men reason logically and not with emotions. Keep your emotions aside and do the thinking logically.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Cheeryfeet: 10:08am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

Be careful. When the time comes too, you will do worse. But You will say it's a lie.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Rodinat: 10:17am On Dec 28, 2024

PeterObi4Presid:
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U are a foooolish son..lol
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I'm telling u what to do and the implications of what u are about to do, yet u are still capping
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It shows u are not even a man, and u don't understand men.. probably u are a mamas boy who has been brainwashed by his mom
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Wake up....ur father kmew what he did was wrong.....but u don't have to escalate the whole thing into disaster. even if he doesn't know its wrong the last thing he expects on a son is to tell on him.....u will lose the mans respect and love cos he will believe u are a very foooolish son...
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The best way to handle this issue is to confront him like a man, and he will respect u the more... Don't tell on him...what if he had done it in the hotels outside ur knowledge wud u have known?
Have sesne little boy.... don't be too emotional over women issues....u will grow up too and have better understanding of why men do certain things and the regret or torments they suffer from
Follow my advice if u are a man. A man don't gossip, they confront and resolve issues.....gossip is for little stvpid sisters..leave it to them...... don't complicate the life of that breadwinner u and ur mother still have....

Nice idea,the man can open up to him and let him know the reasons why he did it.
Probably his mum has not been allowing him for months.I am a woman I know what my gender can do.
He should zip his lips on the matter,he shouldn't tell his mum at all.
Very soon he will understand that it not easy to manage woman by the time he start the practical.
Though I didn't support what your dad did and only you can correct him or ask him to continue depends on the case.Men are seeing a lot in the hand of my gender vis a viz

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Kingluqman(m): 10:18am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

The thing wey you dey find, you go soon see am. Just go report your Dad, you go know sey you be bastard grin

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by wahles(m): 10:21am On Dec 28, 2024

AirBere:
Even the mama will be disappointed in his/her mumu move....leave the kid(boy/girl) 😂😂😂

What I'm expecting is that, this week, someone will create another similar post....this time will be how the mum was caught with similar actions.

The whole idea is to check the reactions of the people. Just like this one.

So this week, or next....expect a thread titled...

"I Caught My Mother Cheating On My Father" 😂😂😂😂

You are right actually

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by chuksjuve(m): 10:24am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me

Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

Wasn’t it the same you that banned your father from entering your car because of the way he cautions you while speeding ??

Today’s it’s your father martial affair that’s is the issue today.

You Seem to have a deep seated disdain and unresolved issues with your dad ..

My instinct tells me you create these topics for engagement purposes.

Hence can’t go any further, the myriads of opinions from others is enough for you to choose from..

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by ibinaboonline: 10:26am On Dec 28, 2024

Abi o. So, make him reason am well before concluding. Because e sure me say a plotting cheater like that suppose sabi how to get rid of all evidence before leaving the scene of the crime.

Factcheck0001:
e fit b say na him mama him papa use am for self

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Originalsly: 10:28am On Dec 28, 2024

Do you know if the condoms and gel were used by your father? Do you know if your father was using the house as a brothel to get extra money to settle his workers? Do you know if he rented out the house or his room? Do you know if your father and mother were having wild sex before she left? ..and he promised to clean up after but he didn't? For a guy... you think and act like a busy body... that's what they do ... assume ... then go about talking as if it's fact. That's unbecoming of a man.

Transgender loading .

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Ashirioluwa: 10:29am On Dec 28, 2024

I would like to know what you intend to gain from destroying a peaceful home.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by kamaldin(m): 10:30am On Dec 28, 2024

O boy!

I like your papi already. Definition of a matured fellow, unlike the otondo wey dey shout for nairaland up and down as if he be SAINT himself.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by kamaldin(m): 10:32am On Dec 28, 2024

Sucre6:
My papa nah serious guy man, when I was 20 years old, I took a girl out to a lounge, we where there for more than 30 minutes just gisting without ordering anything, I was clueless 😂

Until the waitress brought us a grilled fish with chill Hollandiaa and two glasses, I was surprised because I didn't order anything, she said the bill has been taken care of by that man, she pointed and I saw my dad chilling with his friends eating fish and drinking Arabian tea. I went and greeted him and his friends and he said

You this boy, you don't have sense oh, you don't know how to treat a lady, why u go carry your girlfriend come for lounge and for more than 30 minutes u no order anything for u guys to eat and drink, next time if u no get money stay at home and help your mummy in the kitchen 😂😂😂😂

O boy!

I like your papi already. Definition of a matured fellow, unlike the otondo wey dey shout for nairaland up and down as if he be SAINT himself.
His friends bust out serious laughter. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I miss my papi seriously

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Goodlyhrt(m): 10:35am On Dec 28, 2024

Carry this rubbish enter X make them dissect you for free. A very foolish somebody indeed

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by trumpcoat(m): 10:52am On Dec 28, 2024

Oga suit yourself,if the advice here is not good enough for you

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by dannex4adx(m): 10:54am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me

Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

It doesn't concern you. Don't create problems for yourself and your family. Let it die in your mind. Cheating is very bad but you have not right to report your father to anyone, don't put curse on your head.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Uwaiwe: 10:56am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

It's only a bastard child that will report the father for such when there's peace at home. Please check closely if you are truly his child. Tread carefully to avoid unravelling some family secrets that may hurt you forever

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by michigang: 10:58am On Dec 28, 2024

Sucre6:
Me too oh, my dad nah very cool guy man 😂

e sabi nack your mama wella?

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BluntCrazeMan: 11:24am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me

Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??

If they both lived in that house in town,, you cannot conclude who it was that used those things..

It could even be your mom.

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BluntCrazeMan: 11:25am On Dec 28, 2024

MondayOmoAdugbo:
How your brain don't think about talking to your father first about it baffles me 👀

He has this deep hatred for the father.
He sounds as if he had been suspecting the man for long.

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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BluntCrazeMan: 11:29am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again

You have found what you were looking for.

You can wisely help them both and make their sex life stronger and more spicing, so that he can stop looking elsewhere for sexual satisfaction..

Or you can blow it all up carelessly, and have your loving home chattered to pieces,, and it might affect you too in the future.

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BluntCrazeMan: 11:31am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
So the fact that he is a good provider means he is allowed to sleep around like goat??

Imagine if it is your own father
Will you be saying this nonesense

Stop all these tantrums and find out from him why he is doing this..

UNLESS YOU'RE NOT A MAN...
THEN,, YOU'RE FREE TO TREAT IT THE “WOMAN” WAY.

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 11:31am On Dec 28, 2024

michigang:
e sabi nack your mama wella?

Normally,
Them suppose enjoy their marriage nah

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BluntCrazeMan: 11:33am On Dec 28, 2024

ChizzyBuna:
If your father dey sleep around with all these gen z girls.
You will be clalping for him
As a useless son you are to your mother.
You mean you will support your dad cheating on your mother??

BRO,, DO WHATEVER YOU LIKE ABBEGG.!!

REMEMBER TO KEEP GIVING US UPDATES HERE..

WE ARE NOW YOUR CONCERNED ONLINE FAMILY..

WE NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED NEXT..

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BluntCrazeMan: 11:37am On Dec 28, 2024*

ChizzyBuna:
Now i know why nigeria is doomed
Imagine a society that sees nothing wrong with tbeir father sleeping with numerous women.

I pity the womb that carried you for 9 months. That is how you treat yiur mother by encoyraging your father

Oga,, nobody is saying that what he did was right..

We are more concerned about you here.
You just have to handle this situation with WISDOM and Caution -- so that it won't repeat again.

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Kayluka100: 11:49am On Dec 28, 2024

[quote author=ChizzyBuna post=133464759]My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer. [/quot
e]
Please go and report him to your mom and be ready for the implications good or bad

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