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"Good people don't have enough sense to marry another good person but bad people have sense enough to know they can't marry another bad person" - Cleric, Kingsley Okonkwo

Clergyman, Kingsley Okonkwo, is of the opinion that ‘’good people'' never end up marry others like them because they are naive and do not have the sense to judge a person by their character.

In a post shared on X, Okonkwo said unlike ‘’good people'', "bad people” usually have sense enough to know they can't marry another "bad person'' and work towards ending up with a ‘’good person''.

He said it is amazing when two good people marry, it's war when two bad people marry and it's sad when a good person marries a bad person.

The narrative is wrong.

Good people have the sense but can't stop being tolerant.

Kindness and tolerance do not mean foolishness.

Bad people are selfish and intolerant. That's why they insist on marrying good people.

A very accurate Truth here.

immortalcrown:
The narrative is wrong.

Good people have the sense but can't stop being tolerant.

Kindness and tolerance do not mean foolishness.

Bad people are selfish and intolerant. That's why they insist on marrying good people.

Wrong!
The sense is that they make the very big mistake of being with a bad person.
And make it worse by marrying such a person.

And then they suffer in tolerating that bad person till they themselves become bad.

And finally, they have a marriage of 2 bad people which means WAR and divorce hammers ringing

Dtruthspeaker:
Wrong!
The sense is that they make the very big mistake of being with a bad person.
And make it worse by marrying such a person.

And then they suffer in tolerating that bad person till they themselves become bad.

And finally, they have a marriage of 2 bad people which means WAR and divorce hammers ringing

How many of them have told you that they never knew about the bad side of their spouses before getting married to those spouses? Answer this question.

It will be a mistake if they didn't discover the bad side of the partner before marrying the partner.

immortalcrown:
How many of them have told you that they never knew about the bad side of their spouses before getting married to those spouses? Answer this question.

It will be a mistake if they didn't discover the bad side of the partner before marrying the partner.

That is the point Kingsley is making. We all know that they saw a bad person and they chose such person, which is the mistake.

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Anonymous about 1 day ago
He is correct because good people are not calculatively treacherous like the bad people who from the start of the relationship know they are coming into it for selfishness while tge good people will be selfless until they're are destroyed before reality dawns on them and some not fortunate sometimes even unto death. WORD !

Anonymous about 23 hours ago
He analyzed it well. Good people are usually naive and not to street smart. I am number one. I was so naive and liked my hisband because he was lively and left anither because i felt he was going to be boring even though he was a good Christian . I tegret my choice everyday because i am too peace loving . The boring one was even working at dpr. Na only nnpc, chevron, monil i thought were rich people. Not good when a child is not street smart. I will be very involved in my daughter's choice

Reply
hours ago
You're a gold digger and you fall under the category of bad people. Stop deceiving yourself.

It is called naivety. They do that out of their naive heart. They erroneously project their innocence on others because they dont know better & can't imagine any worse than they are.

CodeTemplarr:
It is called naivety. They do that out of their naive heart. They erroneously project their innocence on others because they dont & can't imagine better.

And most time because they are natural children of God and blessed and favoured persons their families alienate them especially as their families know that they are seriously God protected, no matter what evil is set up to befall them, so their families never teach them that people are mostly evil and they never get to learn that.

Meanwhile, like normal people they still have their own will and do not listen to God when His Will is different from theirs, this when God gives up on them, they always make this life shattering mistake.

Dtruthspeaker:
That is the point Kingsley is making. We all know that they saw a bad person and they chose such person, which is the mistake.

Learn to differentiate mistakes from sacrificial pains.

This your wrong ideology is the reason some of you maltreat some people and think they are stupid when they remain nice to you.

If a girl marries a drunkard without knowing that he is a drunkard, that is a mistake. But when she knows he is a drunkard and marries him for the sake of empathy and kindness, that is a sacrificial stress, not a mistake.

They will say love is blind

immortalcrown:
Learn to differentiate mistakes from sacrificial pains.

This your wrong ideology is the reason some of you maltreat some people and think they are stupid when they remain nice to you.

If a girl marries a drunkard without knowing that he is a drunkard, that is a mistake. But when she knows he is a drunkard and marries him for the sake of empathy and kindness, that is a sacrificial stress, not a mistake.

What mad thinking is this? You say person look fire enter na "sacrificial stress"? Notin wey pesin no go hear for Nayraland

Bookhub:
They will say love is blind

Actually, they did not know evil people too sabi pretend to love and day na dem, dem dey always dey love pass and pursue desperately wey go make the good person think say dem don find real love and God don do am again as He dey normally do for dem

Only for dem to see too late say dem don fall enter devil hand!

Dtruthspeaker:
What mad thinking is this? You say person look fire enter na "sacrificial stress"? Notin wey pesin no go hear for Nayraland

Many of the people you believe that they made a mistake in choosing their spouses will choose the same partners if given the opportunity again. But you are deceived by their crocodile tears.

Stop being an extremist. Try to balance your reasoning. Some of the good people that marry bad people do not do it mistakenly. That is my point. Some women who get beaten by their husbands started receiving beatings from such men even before the marriage started. How is that one a mistake? A mistake is when the beating didn't happen before the marriage and she couldn't detect that such a man would become a wife better in the marriage.

You sound this way because you lack in-depth understanding of human nature. Are you aware that some men who are still single will in future deliberately marry an abusive wife who has big bum bum rather than marrying a respectful wife who is not endowed? Are you aware that some single girls right now will willingly choose a highly abusive husband that gives them orgasm in bed rather than marrying a gentleman who doesn't satisfy her in bed? People make sacrifices based on the priorities they set for themselves. You need to understand this.

immortalcrown:
Many of the people you believe that they made a mistake in choosing their spouses will choose the same partners if given the opportunity again. But you are deceived by their crocodile tears...

Your delusions are super huge

Dtruthspeaker:
Your delusions are super huge

An excellent self description.

Dtruthspeaker:
Wrong!
The sense is that they make the very big mistake of being with a bad person.
And make it worse by marrying such a person.

And then they suffer in tolerating that bad person till they themselves become bad.

And finally, they have a marriage of 2 bad people which means WAR and divorce hammers ringing

You are right

When a good person tolerates a bad person in marriage..he/She will soon be bad too.

It's just a matter of time...the bad ones will bring out the beast in the good ones.


The best is When both partners are Tolerant, selfless and kind

Starz825:
You are right

When a good person tolerates a bad person in marriage..he/She will soon be bad too.

It's just a matter of time...the bad ones will bring out the beast in the good ones.


The best is When both partners are Tolerant, selfless and kind

Precisely.
But the deluded mortal Catholic guy can not be made to see just like the images he bows down to and worships.