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Making New Friends In A New Environment by Lectroz(op): 12:21pm On Jan 01, 2025
Happy new year guys.

So some months back, I left home and relocated to another state (Lagos). But since I've been here, I have been unable to make new friends ( both males and females).

I'm always on my own feeling really lonely sometimes. This is worsened by the fact that I'm an introvert.

How can I solve this issue guys? Your contributions will be highly appreciated.
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Jesuspistol(m): 1:02pm On Jan 01, 2025
You shod have asked before relocating. Ajegunle or oshodi is the best place for an introvert, not some housing estate
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Letmecum: 1:06pm On Jan 01, 2025
I'm a cronic introvert but I'm never lonely. I changed girls without going out. Just log in to those olosho app and see how you will get so busy all day with different girls. Life has really advance you can get anything now without living your house. Except you're broke.
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Samantha125(f): 3:57pm On Jan 01, 2025
Come on, there should be more to life than just sex.

Are you trying to tell me that the only thing you do during your spare time is have sexhuh
Letmecum:
I'm a cronic introvert but I'm never lonely. I changed girls without going out. Just log in to those olosho app and see how you will get so busy all day with different girls. Life has really advance you can get anything now without living your house. Except you're broke.
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Letmecum: 6:40pm On Jan 01, 2025
Samantha125:
Come on, there should be more to life than just sex.

Are you trying to tell me that the only thing you do during your spare time is have sexhuh
80 percent of my time is for grinding. Smoking weed and fighting hard to catch a life changing client. Sex is just little prime time to cool the body from pressure on the grind. Understand the situation
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Samantha125(f): 7:04pm On Jan 01, 2025
So you smoke weed? No wonder... I could be conversing with weed right now...😑😑😑
Letmecum:
80 percent of my time is for grinding. Smoking weed and fighting hard to catch a life changing client. Sex is just little prime time to cool the body from pressure on the grind. Understand the situation
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Ouchbabe(f): 9:42pm On Jan 01, 2025
Lectroz:
Happy new year guys.

So some months back, I left home and relocated to another state (Lagos). But since I've been here, I have been unable to make new friends ( both males and females).

I'm always on my own feeling really lonely sometimes. This is worsened by the fact that I'm an introvert.

How can I solve this issue guys? Your contributions will be highly appreciated.
If you need friends, you should also be friendly

Once in awhile, step out no matter how much of an introvert you are.

If you are on the island, go to the beach.
There is no way you will be playing in the water and someone will not say something to you. If the person is appealing to you, ask for his / her contact
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Ibkay32(m): 10:44pm On Jan 01, 2025
Samantha125:
So you smoke weed? No wonder... I could be conversing with weed right now...😑😑😑
Samantha, are you secretly trying to cook him with this aroma? Because I’ve been inhaling it like my rent depends on it! Whatever you're making must be illegal in some countries, it smells too good to be true! 😂
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Samantha125(f): 5:36am On Jan 02, 2025
I don't know what you're talking about...😂😂😂
Ibkay32:
Samantha, are you secretly trying to cook him with this aroma? Because I’ve been inhaling it like my rent depends on it! Whatever you're making must be illegal in some countries, it smells too good to be true! 😂
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by helinues: 6:53am On Jan 02, 2025
You better keep to yourself without coming back later with gory stories.

There are so many manipulators around
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Lectroz(op): 4:55pm On Jan 02, 2025
Thank you everyone for all your contributions
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Uchenna10(m): 4:56pm On Jan 02, 2025
Try de enter bet shop or football viewing center
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by TheFinesseKid: 5:07am On Jan 03, 2025
Letmecum:
I'm a cronic introvert but I'm never lonely. I changed girls without going out. Just log in to those olosho app and see how you will get so busy all day with different girls. Life has really advance you can get anything now without living your house. Except you're broke.
nawa
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by TheFinesseKid: 5:08am On Jan 03, 2025
helinues:
You better keep to yourself without coming back later with gory stories.

There are so many manipulators around
This right here.
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by Jaycobbs(m): 9:32am On Jan 03, 2025
grin

Cheap solution.

Find a nearby church and become a worker. Not just a member o. A worker.

That will compel you to talk to people and get to know them better. It would take more of your time, but every single time it requires from you would be spent in the company of people who will be talking to you and you to them.

If you're working in a visible place like usher, choir, media, it would also make you recognizable and people may approach you first to say hi, especially if you wear a smile.

If you're a worker, you might also have to go on assignments outside the church that would require you to meet people — for example, organizing an event in the church.

And of course, if you're meeting people, you have the chance to make friends.
Re: Making New Friends In A New Environment by helinues: 4:14pm On Jan 05, 2025
Jaycobbs:
grin

Cheap solution.

Find a nearby church and become a worker. Not just a member o. A worker.

That will compel you to talk to people and get to know them better. It would take more of your time, but every single time it requires from you would be spent in the company of people who will be talking to you and you to them.

If you're working in a visible place like usher, choir, media, it would also make you recognizable and people may approach you first to say hi, especially if you wear a smile.

If you're a worker, you might also have to go on assignments outside the church that would require you to meet people — for example, organizing an event in the church.

And of course, if you're meeting people, you have the chance to make friends.
One of the manipulators I was talking about. Religion is also part. They want people to be taken their time to be coming to church regularly, tithes and other levies are still there to pay. At the end of the day , no tax return, the messages are repeated yearly, so nothing new or inspiring
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