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Sonnobax15:

What makes you think they aren't doing that after seeking the consent of his father in-law?

Abeg tell your friend to go and collect his bride price and let him count his losses.....

If marriage no favour you,at least make you dey bold enough to try single-ship..... maybe that one fit favour you.

ceejay80s:
hello guys
a friend came from port Harcourt to see me on 24th morning he was with me till 25th ,
we were at night gisting and I ask about his wife.....
to cut the long story short,

the father in-law is still alive but the wife, sister and her sisters husband called him that they will be coming to his place to return the bride price,
I asked him , who did u give the bride price to?
he said the father, I told him to ignore them until the father in-law calls u or ur father before u go and collect it.

Nairalanders I hope I am right?

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO U ALL

Coldrux:
You're the one involved here, not your friend. Be honest with us, so we can advise you

ceejay80s:
no be me now!!
I am happily married and my wife and kids are at my parents place ,
I pity my guy sef bought one canvass he was selling ,I no need the canvas cos it wasn't my designer Tommy Hilfiger is my spec , I felt really sorry for him but how can person wey marry elder sister dey return bride price if person wy marry younger sister

merits:
Return of bride price is none of my concern for your information nobody should wed this year 2025 hook up is the way out.

Teymanhenry:
Bride price is the least of it. What about the goats, cow, palm oil, beer and all the other things they listed that he should buy? Until they return all those things, them never ready

Coldrux:
You're the one involved here, not your friend. Be honest with us, so we can advise you

Teymanhenry:
Bride price is the least of it. What about the goats, cow, palm oil, beer and all the other things they listed that he should buy? Until they return all those things, them never ready

ceejay80s:
hello guys
a friend came from port Harcourt to see me on 24th morning he was with me till 25th ,
we were at night gisting and I ask about his wife.....
to cut the long story short,

the father in-law is still alive but the wife, sister and her sisters husband called him that they will be coming to his place to return the bride price,
I asked him , who did u give the bride price to?
he said the father, I told him to ignore them until the father in-law calls u or ur father before u go and collect it.

Nairalanders I hope I am right?

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO U ALL

Coldrux:
You're the one involved here, not your friend. Be honest with us, so we can advise you

ceejay80s:
call me on video call now to talk to my wife and kids if u get the mind, then wish them happy new year

Ogeneigbo1:
They have seen him finish maybe because they feel he has no body.That is why a Co inlaw wants to return bride price to another inlaw. They are both inlaws for Christ sake.

Tell him to stop entertaining such discussion from a fellow inlaw.

Let the father of the wife or any elder from the wife's family do his job if they actually want to return the bride price.

These things have procedures like wise implications.

Happy New Year

Celestialsword:
It is father of the woman if he's alive that is in position to return the pride price according to tradition, anything aside this is null and void

Emzedz:
Why are we even paying bride price ehnn.. selfish n greedy culture.

Celestialsword:
didn't they pay for your mum,when your female children are of age you can give them out for free

Coldrux:
Drop ur number

I'll also give gifts to dem

pocohantas:
If you don't want a marriage again, I wouldn't know why you will be dramatic over receiving your brideprice. The father doesn't have to call. Has your friend called his ex father inlaw in the period of separation out of respect or to see how things can be fixed? If no, then I fail to see why the father should extend same honour to him.

If they refuse to collect it. Then a lawyer can drop it off with their village head. It is not even compulsory you hand it over to the man or his family. Let alone it being compulsory the father calls or brings it back himself.

ceejay80s:
I don't judge....but it's not her position or her elders sisters husband,
my friend Joseph said he will collect it, if it was from the father, he took is no longer interested, no be by force but there should be a proper way,
if he collects from wife or etc and denied collecting it nko?

pocohantas:
The elderly man should travel to go return bride price to a young guy probably in his 30s. Even if the friend na orphan, e no get kinsmen wey fit advise am on due procedure? He is taking traditional advice from someone who doesn't know how they share kolanut in meeting.

ceejay80s:
hello guys
a friend came from port Harcourt to see me on 24th morning he was with me till 25th ,
we were at night gisting and I ask about his wife.....
to cut the long story short,

the father in-law is still alive but the wife, sister and her sisters husband called him that they will be coming to his place to return the bride price,
I asked him , who did u give the bride price to?
he said the father, I told him to ignore them until the father in-law calls u or ur father before u go and collect it.

Nairalanders I hope I am right?

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO U ALL

tiswell:
The father(if alive) is the sole eligible to receive or return the bride price

Bobodee09:
Nah why you never Marry cos you lack basic common sense.

Who did he pay the pride price to?? If the father collected it, then is common sense he should be the one to return since the union is dissolved.

Infact there suppose to be a meeting were this will done with witness present cos the marriage was done with witnesses .

It is stupidity for the wife sis husband to even involve himself cos of future reference.

djon78:
Lady doesn't want the marriage again
So they returned the bride price
Aw
not about her father returning the bride price
The bride price being returned na small token
More like a change
It's more just to fulfill culture laws

The young man don lose
That's why people should be very careful in wasting money to throw
Expensive wedding
To me is a very big waste

The day the woman you lavished money
To pay expensive bride price and wedding
Say she no do again
Her family will return paltry sum as bridge price


So for young men
Vet the person you want marry properly
Also avoid having high lavish wedding
But if you are lucky and you married right
The money spent won't be a waste
Because you got a good wife as bargain

Negroid001:
It's like buying a car and you a given a refund despite mileage used. You no lose my bro

Teymanhenry:
Bride price is the least of it. What about the goats, cow, palm oil, beer and all the other things they listed that he should buy? Until they return all those things, them never ready

Emzedz:
Stupid reply from u ofcourse.. slave mentality.

ceejay80s:
07032659200
I am interested in the gift sef not ur call

ceejay80s:
07032659200
I am interested in the gift sef not ur call