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brain54:
You are interested in the money...

And not relationship. Yet na you dey call to find out if she got home safely.

Continue deceiving yourself!

You no even get orientation,how you expect make she give me again if I no show care at all.

Should we tell him?

Oga! You want to tarnish your professional image because of N10K. I thought I would read millions of naira, e come be only 10K. Even if it were millions? Tread cautiously Ooooo!

There is no difference between you and Olosho short time. Even Ashawo short time is worth more than you! Oga resist the devil and flee from all appearance of evil

Bookhub:

You no even get orientation,how you expect make she give me again if I no show care at all.

Which kind of advice is this? You want him to mix business with pleasure? Oga take this advice to your peril!

Oga you will not go far in business and in life, if you collect every gift and kpeus presented to you.

Be wise!

Jaycobbs:


I dunno how old you are but apparently, you're a young guy who's hustling to make money.

See free money! Lol. The girl likes you, obviously. But try not to get excited. Based on your hustle, it seems like to me looking to build a nest egg, like most young men in Tinubu's economy. Good plan, good vision.

You're not focused on finding a mate (I think) but it doesn't mean if a good one comes along, you'll ignore her.

As for the lady, the money is good, but gifts blind the eyes. It takes more than spending to build a good relationship (I assume a good relationship is what you want). Watch out for other things, based on what you expect from your ideal woman — character, personality, and yes, looks.

If it's not relationship you're not looking for, then by all means, avail yourself of the free knacks being presented to you on a platter.

If she gets admission, this your play-play love will end, so you can see this either as a golden opportunity or waste of effort. It depends on your perspective.

✌️

Goodluck.

Bookhub:
Money from women taste better because they hardly give..

I endorse this with 1000 bottles of Origin.

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Bookhub:
I am an educational consultant working in one of lagos prominent schools I work in a cafe ,I have two jamb whatsapp groups I control and I use it to get many candidates whom I help to get admission into their preferred school through my little connections so as a result I have come in contact with many parents young boys and girls,but I notice this trend among the young ladies in the group chats ,some seem to be make sexual advances on me like asking me personal questions and wanting to know more about me,I ignore it all because I am after their money not relationship i use my data to update them and I answer lots of questions and calls so I am always busy.
The admission season has ended only few schools are still available for now, so there is the very young lady that wants to gain admission into one Lagos polytechnics she is 20 years of age,so I want to use my connections to help her,but this lady does not let me rest with calls and calls she has visited my office more than 3 times and she always dash me money when she goes home,she seems to be from a rich background but I just want it to be strictly professional,she visited me yesterday and dropped 4k and said its for Christmas money I collected it and thanked her them no dey reject money this period na..
if I calculate total money she has dashed Mr its up to 10k,when she got home yesterday I called her to know if she reached home safely she thank me excitedly and said I am such a caring guy that she will return in the new year

Good evening brotherly, please kindly drop ur WhatsApp contact for me, i need to follow you reason concerning admission matter. Thanks

Bookhub:
I am an educational consultant working in one of lagos prominent schools I work in a cafe ,I have two jamb whatsapp groups I control and I use it to get many candidates whom I help to get admission into their preferred school through my little connections so as a result I have come in contact with many parents young boys and girls,but I notice this trend among the young ladies in the group chats ,some seem to be make sexual advances on me like asking me personal questions and wanting to know more about me,I ignore it all because I am after their money not relationship i use my data to update them and I answer lots of questions and calls so I am always busy.
The admission season has ended only few schools are still available for now, so there is the very young lady that wants to gain admission into one Lagos polytechnics she is 20 years of age,so I want to use my connections to help her,but this lady does not let me rest with calls and calls she has visited my office more than 3 times and she always dash me money when she goes home,she seems to be from a rich background but I just want it to be strictly professional,she visited me yesterday and dropped 4k and said its for Christmas money I collected it and thanked her them no dey reject money this period na..
if I calculate total money she has dashed Mr its up to 10k,when she got home yesterday I called her to know if she reached home safely she thank me excitedly and said I am such a caring guy that she will return in the new year

Please i still very much waiting for your reply to my my earlierention bro. I really need to talk you.

When someone consistently gives you money when they visit, it can have various meanings depending on the context, cultural background, and relationship dynamics. Here are some possible interpretations:

Emotional Support

1. Care and concern: She might be showing her care and concern for your well-being, especially if you're going through a tough time.
2. Appreciation: The money could be a symbol of appreciation for your hospitality, company, or support.

Cultural Significance

1. Cultural tradition: In some cultures, giving money as a gift is a common practice, especially during visits or special occasions.
2. Respect and gratitude: The money might be a way to show respect and gratitude for your relationship or the hospitality you've provided.

Personal Reasons

1. Guilty conscience: She might be giving you money due to feelings of guilt or obligation, perhaps related to a past situation or unfulfilled promises.
2. Investing in the relationship: The money could be a way to invest in your relationship, ensuring you have the means to spend quality time together or pursue shared interests.

Other Possibilities

1. Habit: She might have developed a habit of giving you money during visits, without necessarily attaching a specific meaning to it.
2. Generosity: Some people are naturally generous and enjoy giving to others, so the money might simply be a reflection of her kind nature.

To better understand the meaning behind her actions, consider the following:

1. Observe the context: Pay attention to the circumstances surrounding the visits and the money gifts. Are there any patterns or specific situations that trigger this behavior?
2. Communicate openly: If you feel comfortable, ask her about the reasons behind her generosity. This can help clarify her intentions and deepen your understanding of each other.
3. Reflect on your relationship: Consider the dynamics of your relationship and how the money gifts might be influencing it. Are there any power imbalances or expectations that need to be addressed?

Bookhub:
I am an educational consultant working in one of lagos prominent schools I work in a cafe ,I have two jamb whatsapp groups I control and I use it to get many candidates whom I help to get admission into their preferred school through my little connections so as a result I have come in contact with many parents young boys and girls,but I notice this trend among the young ladies in the group chats ,some seem to be make sexual advances on me like asking me personal questions and wanting to know more about me,I ignore it all because I am after their money not relationship i use my data to update them and I answer lots of questions and calls so I am always busy.
The admission season has ended only few schools are still available for now, so there is the very young lady that wants to gain admission into one Lagos polytechnics she is 20 years of age,so I want to use my connections to help her,but this lady does not let me rest with calls and calls she has visited my office more than 3 times and she always dash me money when she goes home,she seems to be from a rich background but I just want it to be strictly professional,she visited me yesterday and dropped 4k and said its for Christmas money I collected it and thanked her them no dey reject money this period na..
if I calculate total money she has dashed Mr its up to 10k,when she got home yesterday I called her to know if she reached home safely she thank me excitedly and said I am such a caring guy that she will return in the new year

And you think if she gains that admission, she go send your papa, dey play.

TheGreatIyaebe:
I pity the poor girl who does not know 98 percent of men are scum. Mtcheeww!

I thought it was 100%?

Please stay away from men this 2025 🙏