₦airaland Forum

Fineman2:
https://punchng.com/video-i-was-raped-five-times-iyabo-ojo-opens-up-about-abuse/

I don't know if this woman is recounting this story as someone that has been healed or she's just reflecting on her past as it's still hurting her but taking a look at her face, it's like she's still pained.

Madam, no one around the world can feel how you feel even if you all have the same encounter in life, the best food you can do to yourself is to move on and stop being hurt forever cuz I can't it's like you have made this your story an anthem and the it's still obvious on your face that you haven't moved on each time you are recounting the experience

CodeTemplarr:
You did not lie at all. She didnt rape herself.

Some Nairalanders are victim blaming and making excuses for the rapists

Emeskhalifa:
Sometimes fear of all this kind of thing makes me pray silently to have male children. Nna raising female kids ain't no joke at all. So many predators, pedophiles just brekete full everywhere.

May God protect every girl child out there

Amen in Jesus name. God has not given you the spirit of fear but of power, love and sound mind. Males are also been molested. Infact, mothers molest their male child more and corrupt their male child because they are careless. They are careless and dress anyhow, they sit without decorum.

Train your child, female or male not to keep bad friends and not to walk with ungodly people. Pray that God almighty should make them wise and smart

MamaOghenero:
Shameless woman

Lol. Why?

You must have made yourself so and available for such

Ishilove:
Some Nairalanders are victim blaming and making excuses for the rapists

It is very deliberate

Most of them have committed rape and have to make up different stories or scenarios so they can mentally absolve themselves of blame.

Sheistoopretty:
I'm not surprised

What else are Nigerian men known for, aside gambling, r@ping, k!dnapping, stealing, doing drugs and rituals?

Nigerian men are very us€less.. to be honest, all of them

Your papa inclusive!!!!

Emeskhalifa:
Sometimes fear of all this kind of thing makes me pray silently to have male children. Nna raising female kids ain't no joke at all. So many predators, pedophiles just brekete full everywhere.

May God protect every girl child out there

nah only woman dem dey rape, u guys like ass licking woman,
How are you sure she's not lying

Ishilove:
Some Nairalanders are victim blaming and making excuses for the rapists

Some are rapist themselves. I replied some already.

She's been unapologetical as some mofos would say.

Is this even necessary, private things should be off SM. But some of her ilks will praise her and even see strength or draw strength from her as the case may be, however, I can't relate to that kind of strength sha.

You don't seek closure on the internet space but then what do I even know, absolutely nothing. To each his own.

Sheistoopretty:
I'm not surprised

What else are Nigerian men known for, aside gambling, r@ping, k!dnapping, stealing, doing drugs and rituals?

Nigerian men are very us€less.. to be honest, all of them

I don't expect you to use your head, since you don't have any.
Her dad died early at 40, how old was she when they both disowned 'each other ' because she wanted to marry a man by all means?
Who are the rapist? At least she should be able to name names or the circumstances that led to the rape.
But she is woman so anything she said should not be questioned.

Raped 5 times?
Shey na only you get toto?

Epistasis:
I don't believe her story, she is always looking for attention.


Rape is terrible and traumatic.

One of our problems in Africa, is that: we easily believe any lie thrown to us - nobody questions or verify events. Though, I hate anything called Rape; her father died at the age of 40; how old was she then to make a choice of marriage? And she was raised by her grandmother. Her statement sounds ridiculous?

GloriousGbola:
It is very deliberate

Most of them have committed rape and have to make up different stories or scenarios so they can mentally absolve themselves of blame.

This is what CodeTemplarr has brought to my attention. I am shocked

CodeTemplarr:
Some are rapist themselves. I replied some already.

I am shocked, to be sincere. Perhaps somewhere in my mind I mentally view rapists as subhuman, so seeing them comment online has sharply reminded me that they walk among us and look like us

Tough life.
All obstacles are surmountable.

Ishilove:
This is what CodeTemplarr has brought to my attention. I am shocked

I have had a talk with my daughter more than once where I have told her you cannot trust anyone
It does not matter if the guy was a family friend from childhood.

It is also why I cannot leave her alone in the house with lesson teachers.

If you sit and talk with guys a large number of their sexual escapades are rape. Usually because a girl made the mistake of seeing them as responsible human beings.

Now as I am writing this I realise I have to talk to my daughter about being wary also of older so called authority figures.

Her father died at 40...and the disowned each other when he was in his 30s... how old where u madam?? For her to be challenging her dad as a teenager to the extent that disown enter am... shows , no rape occurred... it was most likely regret sex after doing what she wanted to do ...and most likely, she had sex with older men and now that she is of age , she remembers that she had sex with older men as at her mid teens ... no that she watches what Americans call rape ... she decided to include her sex back then as rape ... madam, ur stubbornness due to ur fight with ur dad shows u no de hear word ... I'm sure they warned u many times, but u no hear word ... jow u don grow de call am rape .... useless woman ... look at how she was pimping her 18yr old daughter to old men for money

The way some of Una dey cap careless on this mata,na im make some Bani no dey open up for rape case,Una no get sympathy atoll, With this kind diongs,E no go good ooo

Ishilove:
I am shocked, to be sincere. Perhaps somewhere in my mind I mentally view rapists as subhuman, so seeing them comment online has sharply reminded me that they walk among us and look like us

We dared the girl to drink. We said she could not handle it. She drank git drunk and we all used her.

That is rape right there.

There is also an undertone - as these guys will take advantage of a woman who makes the mistake of letting her guard down around them - they will also do the same to their fellow man who leaves his phone open or does not hide his banking details. It is the same mentality and the same lack of a moral compass

Now that I mention it a serial rapist I knew in school had the same approach with money. He would almost be jovial about it. But when it was time to pay up he would become violent and threatening.

Basically a nice guy until he had you where he wanted you.

Ishilove:
Some Nairalanders are victim blaming and making excuses for the rapists

So because she said she was raped without proof or names ...we should now believe her ... woman wey de love-vendor her young daughter ... woman wey de sleep with married men... abeg make I hear word ....

Giving such information is ill.
VDM ll capitalised on this.

Fineman2:
https://punchng.com/video-i-was-raped-five-times-iyabo-ojo-opens-up-about-abuse/

Very touching to say the least...

No Wonder,No Proper Parental Upbringing

MamaOghenero:
Shameless woman

Dumb
Your IQ can't match hers

Basic123:
Attention seeker.

Your dad died at 40...yet he also fought you for marrying your first husband.

During the fight between you and your father,how old was your father?...Assuming your father had you at 20yro,you were probably around 17 or 18 when you insisted you wanted to marry a particular somebody.

Who were those 5 people that raped you 5 times and in what circumstances?

I see Iyabo Ojo as an attention seeker..VERY HISTRIONIC!

Go n watch the interview doubting Thomas. His father had her in his 20s same way she had pricilia n his brother in her 20s

She got pregnant outside wedlock

Sheistoopretty:
I'm not surprised

What else are Nigerian men known for, aside gambling, r@ping, k!dnapping, stealing, doing drugs and rituals?

Nigerian men are very us€less.. to be honest, all of them

Nigerian women rape too, my gender just don't come out to say it.

included urs

Sheistoopretty:
I'm not surprised

What else are Nigerian men known for, aside gambling, r@ping, k!dnapping, stealing, doing drugs and rituals?

Nigerian men are very us€less.. to be honest, all of them

BoldBrainz:
This story no clear. Five times on a spot or five different occasions? Is she a rape magnet? Abi this one na lamba for sensationalism?!

Dumb....watch the whole interview. She mentioned that it happened at 5 different occasions. Online lo wa...we understand

immortalcrown:
It is a pity that you found yourself in the midst of rapists.

Don't believe all these so-called celebrities. They can lie without remorse. Wetin dey her body wey den dey rape this one? All of them will be shouting rape to attract public sympathy and paint men as devils but na them go still patronize these men as Olosho.

free2ryhme:
Why has she not called out her rapists only mention the crime without mentioning names

Na people like you will ask for evidence after name calling.

Since no evidence, it's better she withheld name.


Though I don't believe her.

Attention seeker in this brand new year

Ishilove:
Some Nairalanders are victim blaming and making excuses for the rapists

Except she is seeking for attention there's absolutely no value in saying she was raped five times without naming the perpetrators so that they can face the consequences of their actions.

If you would not protect your son if he committed such a crime, why cover the names of your
rapist? Does she not want them to be accountable for their actions