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Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Newsblogger: 8:12pm On Jun 11
Nollywood Actress/Comedian, Calabar Chic as she turned 28 disclosed how she was mercilessly raped at the age of 14. she further disclosed how she lost her best friend to domestic violence.

See what she wrote;

So sometime Last month I opened up about my struggle with depression and managing it for years!
Struggling with ptsd from some of the worst experiences of my life!
From getting raped in the most humiliating way at Age 14
To attempting suicide a few times
To
Losing my best friend to Domestic violence
To
Surviving A house Fire in 2017
&
A Kidnap in 2018 wheeeew! .

Living through all of the trauma, the nightmares,the panic attacks has been a struggle!
You crave for peace but even sleep doesn’t afford that. It wrecks your dreams and turns your days into a living nightmare. It messes your head up, destroys your personality, your relationship with your family and friends, your work, your social life, it affects them all.
I decided to share some part of my story just to motivate some people here because I want people to know that they’re not alone
Truth is some of The people who appear strongest.. some of the people u look up to who you envy are fighting the toughest battles too
I can come out wearing the brightest smile but deep down be really sad. ,
But in all.... I’ve come to understand that living is an act of bravery
So , Today....I Celebrate me for never giving up! For holding me up regardless.
Now I know better....I love my life and how it is turning out.
I am grateful for it.
If I could shine a spotlight on it for everyone who's ever wanted to die, I would, because it's beautiful and amazing and I would do anything in the world to protect it. And I want anyone who might be suicidal to know how much better life can be.
Yes Emotional pain is real, and no matter how much it feels like it can't end, it can. It can get better. It does get better. Life gets better. And you get better with it.
ThankGod we don’t look like what we’ve been through!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY STRONG WOMAN

SOURCE: https://www.nightwatchng.com/2019/06/calabar-chic-steph-isuma-turns-28-years-old.html

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Newsblogger: 8:17pm On Jun 11
There are people whose lifestory can make you commit suicide, Calabar Chic is one of them...yet she never fails to put a smile on peoples face...Lalasticlala and Mynd44 please help

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by hisexcellency34: 10:32pm On Jun 11
Only you survive all this? Go for deliverance at Synagogue

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by MrKong: 10:33pm On Jun 11
Stunt lipsrsealed

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by SimSify(m): 10:33pm On Jun 11
ND after all this you still show your unclothedness to the public..
Tell me madam what did you learn..
seems you've been dressing down since age 14.

Sometimes the cause of what happens to people and and the solutions is not far from them..

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Randomshotzz(m): 10:33pm On Jun 11
Why is it that every fine girl was raped between the age of 10 and 16??

Just why

I honestly need genuine answers because my former and current girlfrange were also raped at that age range.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by koolaid87: 10:34pm On Jun 11
There but for the grace of God, go I


Respect Sis
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by purpleicious(f): 10:35pm On Jun 11
Is she a Calabarian.
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Joromi12: 10:36pm On Jun 11
I will quit SM soon

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Bbbwings(m): 10:36pm On Jun 11
Na wa o
shocked shocked
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by olassybaba: 10:36pm On Jun 11
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by thesicilian: 10:37pm On Jun 11
Joromi12:
I will quit SM soon
I feel you.
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by davillian(m): 10:39pm On Jun 11
shocked
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by BluePrincee: 10:40pm On Jun 11
Yet one nicompoo killed himself because he failed jamb. When people with BSC have no jobs. That guy should be raised from the dead beaten thoroughly for causing pain to his parents and family and then sent back to the world beyond. Anytime I remember that guy I just become angry. We all have that one thing that bothers/saddens us in spite of the smile.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by michaelcipher(m): 10:41pm On Jun 11
SimSify:
ND after all this you still show your unclothedness to the public..
Tell me madam what did you learn..
seems you've been dressing down since age 14.

Sometimes the cause of what happens to people and and the solutions is not far from them..

So you think not dressing properly is the cause for rape.

Smh

Say that to a girl of 14 yrs old raped by a 40year old man.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by taiwolomo1(m): 10:46pm On Jun 11
Randomshotzz:
Why is it that every fine girl was raped between the age of 10 and 16??

Just why

I honestly need genuine answers because my former and current girlfrange were also raped at that age range.

I think is because the girls attain puberty @ that age range...and they tend to get curious and go closer to any available man around making them vulnerable to those pathetic perverts to take advantage of them!!!

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Ijawwomaninoyo: 10:47pm On Jun 11
No be every cloth dem dey put for Sun.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by okeniti: 10:47pm On Jun 11
So how do you explain women who don't dress down (irrespective of age) and still get raped?

SimSify:
ND after all this you still show your unclothedness to the public..
Tell me madam what did you learn..
seems you've been dressing down since age 14.

Sometimes the cause of what happens to people and and the solutions is not far from them..

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Charelsz(m): 10:49pm On Jun 11
story that touches undecided
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by dingbang(m): 11:14pm On Jun 11
. Every girl I have dated came up with the rape story..what is the problem?

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by winnah(m): 11:23pm On Jun 11
purpleicious:
Is she a Calabarian.

This guy have broken my ribs

Its not calabarian... Its a crossiverian

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by chibike69: 11:23pm On Jun 11
dingbang:
. Every girl I have dated came up with the rape story..what is the problem?
stop dating oloshos

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by dingbang(m): 11:27pm On Jun 11
chibike69:

stop dating oloshos
so calabar chic is one of them? cheesy chei ..you are wicked o grin

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by BiggyB242(m): 11:28pm On Jun 11
Every girl now has a "rape or molest" story to tell all for sympathy.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by selfwife(f): 11:29pm On Jun 11
taiwolomo1:
I think is because the girls attain puberty @ that age range...and they tend to get curious and go closer to any available man around making them vulnerable to those pathetic perverts to take advantage of them!!!
we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.

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Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by bizhop01(m): 11:36pm On Jun 11
winnah:


This guy have broken my ribs

Its not calabarian... Its a crossiverian
crossiverian? grin grin
Re: Calabar Chic: I Was Raped At 14, Attempted Suicide -Comedian Marks 28th Birthday by Reelmii: 11:44pm On Jun 11
purpleicious:
Is she a Calabarian.
she is actually a cannabis




mumu

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