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| Mental Torture by marakpa(op): 1:04pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Guys happy new year! Been married for 13 years, and I seem not to trust my wife most of the time. The traits are there, attitudinal traits, actions, talk and so many. Guys I have a short story of something that occurred yesterday that my instinct says she cheated on her girls trip out, but before i tell the story, is gut feeling or instinct accurate sometimes? |
| Re: Mental Torture by HandsomeSkeleto: 1:05pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
marakpa:Practically all of the times |
| Re: Mental Torture by immortalcrown(m): 1:08pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Tell the story first. marakpa: |
| Re: Mental Torture by Samantha125(f): 1:38pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Another drama king...😑😑😑 |
| Re: Mental Torture by AllBlack: 1:49pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
marakpa:13 years in marriage? What kind of delight would anyone get from that kind of old, rusted and overused pussy? |
| Re: Mental Torture by PerfectStranger(m): 3:05pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
AllBlack:Imagine she married at the age of 23,now she's 35. Is a 35yr old pvssy old and rusted as you've stated? ![]() |
| Re: Mental Torture by AllBlack: 4:42pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Greenlandz:Story. So you will leave fresh young babes of 21-27 and start spending time and energy chasing a cargo that has been married, pounded and plundered for 13 years with all the child birth scars and appalling stretch marks in the name of old berry. No wahala. |
| Re: Mental Torture by AllBlack: 4:47pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Greenlandz:You can whine for the whole of Tanzania. |
| Re: Mental Torture by EdenGlobalist: 5:50pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Greenlandz:Are you from Oshogbo or ogbomosho. |
| Re: Mental Torture by marakpa(op): 7:14pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
ok first off, I would really love for married person to join on this post to shed some sort of experience analysis here. Secondly I want to use this opportunity to warn any man residing in Nigeria or any other non European country/usa and canada never to bring your wife to those countries if you having certain issues with her before departure. If you dont have the mind or you risk losing your value as a man, dont try it, I have heard about this plenty attimes, but I risked it because of the children, but then what am facing now apart from traits of infidelity is however bigger than the risk I took. This may be a bit long, so yall should bear with me. So I noticed most times when she wants to go out with me or go out as a family, she doesnt dress sexy or at the sharpest, but if its with her friend or group of friends, na then she go pull out her best wig, take time on what she wants to wear, and making sure her lashes and make up is spot on as against if she's going out with me or with the famz. So last week she told me she was having a new year outing with her work colleagues, though one of the work colleage whom I know she goes out with on a suspicious outing works in another branch, and I have seen her like a home breaker but you cant do shiiit or advise anything here in this western country against such person as I have seen that she's stuck with this lady and listens to her even more than the husband. So yesterday, I noticed the un-sual which is always the usual, i.e bringing out the best of what she wants to wear, as for me oo, i dont hide my intuition and suspicion as I always stylishly and jokingly out it out to her sey me I know sey this una waka nor pure, sey this amusement park wey una dey go na just diversion, it must be something else. She will reply by saying well I know sey u go always doubt my movement but nothing at all etc. So that yesterday, took time on make up, first off pulled out one baggy jeans tried it in my presence, I know sey na reels she dey perform, as the tight leggins wey she wan wear to shoot out her big butt was already by the side, next thing she pull am off saying this is too big, next thing she dun wear the tights, una go think sey na jealous man dey type or insecure, but nobody dey live with me so I know the woman wey i dey talk about here. Before she comot, she dun come profess her love to me, trying to kiss me etc, something she rarely does, that alone was a red flag, come still ask if I wan do quickie, something she does though, but not on this kind of scenario, I found all these moves pre- guilty conscience moves but I just dey observe. To cut the story short sha, she enter living room BOOM, if una see wetin she wear, if na me and her dey comot like that i go too like am but the looks without me there is for the streets or for someones impression, this feeling felt somehow, I sha hail am sha as per normal, sey beauty as its best bla bla bla,sexylee! then she set out. You see where them go ehn! the place is stressful and its really cold here, so for that kind of journey they are spose to spend time there cos we went there together and the kids 2weeks ago, I sha notice sey as she reach, she dun quick call me for video call sey them dun reach i sey no P,this was around 2.45pm. So I sha step out to go see a friend of mine around 5.57, my daughter come call me sey she dey try reach her mama sey her phone nor dey go, I called her on whatsapp, immediately she switched the wasap to video, sey she dun dey inside train already, heading back to her best friends house to pick the car and start coming home, while this conversation was going on, she could not link to words together properly and her eyes were tinted, so I noticed she was somewhat high, I asked why she's sounding that way and why eyes are tinted, she replied she did the high roller coaster so it affected her,but I know sey she dun drink and this is something she would normally wouldn't do only if am there, anyways I said no P, delivered my message to her then she said her phone go soon off, make i give my daughter the new number she just got with the new phone. |
| Re: Mental Torture by marakpa(op): 7:14pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Daughter called back again saying she cant reach her, i called back, this time on normal call cos the other phone was off, she said she's still in the train even though it sounds like it isn't, sounded like she was somewhere quiet rather than a moving train, but i nor wan dey ask questions as these things are things I just want to stop doing for my peace of mind, I come deliver message then hang up. Fastforward and hour and the half later, she called that she's home, on getting home she was still stuttering and her eyes tinted, I still come ask am sey wetin u drink, she got defensive and said I should not ask her again, though she changed her black tights she wore out to a pink one while doing tiktok content, I come notice sey the pink tight wey she wear get stained mark on the middle butt part, I come ask her if she was doing menses, she said no, and why I asked, I come show am, then smelled it, I know sey una go come for me this on this one, but omo the smell was terrible and bad, and it was in the middle of her butt not underneath where veejay resides, and to me that is butt juice which normally she doesnt normally experience, never have I seen that in a long time, that just gave me away that this woman dun go do shit that yesterday, and these things are toturing me mentally, I wish I can have a gf by the side make i just use am dey forget all these traumas. In this UK, if them nor Bleep ur wife, no matter how faithful she is, then thank ya jah. |
| Re: Mental Torture by PapaNnamdi: 7:14pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Na mad people full this thread, |
| Re: Mental Torture by marakpa(op): 8:00pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
PapaNnamdi:example? |
| Re: Mental Torture by Sp1ritHusband(m): 8:12am On Jan 06, 2025 |
Samantha125:Calm down, Sister. Let's help a brother. Op, is your wife still complaining about your D size? |
| Re: Mental Torture by marakpa(op): 9:26am On Jan 06, 2025 |
Sp1ritHusband:Thats is a long gone thread, we have moved past it and NO she isnt. |
| Re: Mental Torture by Samantha125(f): 12:17pm On Jan 06, 2025 |
So she once complained about his D size? Lol... He needs to go and do enlargement surgery ASAP...🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sp1ritHusband: |
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