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ukaface:
See as Una mind just Dey like nonsense

Topic say forced to sit, how is she being forced to
Did she disagree and then made to sit against her own will?
The groom no complain, papa no complain, her own papa no complain na Una wey no know their names Dey complain

This thing called culture is as old as time
Make Una chill

Na because Una no fit control Unaself na why Una thing go stand if you were in the father in law position. I sure say some of Una don release sef by just watching the video

Ishilove:
So many twisted and perverted minds running amok

dkidd:
Na my tradition u say make them abolish?

joseph1832:
FrOM tHE video I just watched, that might not be the groom's father, but the groom himself. It's the custom of Esan people when giving their daughter out for marriage, that her father makes her sit 11 times on her husband's laps.

So, if that is indeed the groom's father, perhaps the groom isn't around and the father is standing (that is) marrying for his son.

Ishilove:
So many twisted and perverted minds running amok

GloriousGbola:
there is a tribe from the uganda/kenya axis whee the father must test the bride and confirm she is intact. full penetration testing. i read it in one of those african writers series books. a nomadic tribe.

Gistmedia10:
A wedding ceremony in Edo State has stirred online discussions after a video surfaced showing a bride sitting on her father-in-law's lap multiple times. This act, rooted in Edo tradition, symbolizes the bride being handed over to her new family. The father of the bride typically sits her on the groom’s father’s lap seven times as a ceremonial gesture of transfer and a plea for the groom’s family to care for her.

While many defended the practice as an integral part of their culture, some netizens expressed discomfort with the method, arguing that it might not resonate well in modern times. One user commented, "Some things need to change. Not because the intention is bad, but because the method is."

Others passionately upheld the tradition, emphasizing its symbolic value. Another commenter wrote, "This is normal in our tradition. It’s called handing over; it’s not just symbolic but a heartfelt gesture to ensure the bride is received with love and care by her new family."

The video has sparked a wider conversation about balancing cultural preservation with evolving societal norms.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaxtYs0Q7Yg

Caaz:
And if the father Inlaw gets an erection,how the heck is he Gon suppress it?

Okortor:
During my time, my wife na from esan Edo State. nA my laps Dem do am 7 times not my papa own o..he only paid the bride price on my behalf as tradition demands.......gaskiya

ukaface:
Are you obsessed with me?
Did I mention your name in my comment?

Carry your d!ckless self out of my mention this cold Wednesday morning

Even the ladies wey get big nyash go wash you

Silentgroper:
Hahahaha .. now you can't take a joke ..

You joked about mine, I joked about yours ..

Now you're getting worked up .

Hahahaha 😂😂😂 ..

These girls sef .. They can't take what they dish out .. 🤣🤣🤣


Aunty, na joke i dey oo .. before you go smashing your head on the wall.. 😂😂

Gistmedia10:
A wedding ceremony in Edo State has stirred online discussions after a video surfaced showing a bride sitting on her father-in-law's lap multiple times. This act, rooted in Edo tradition, symbolizes the bride being handed over to her new family. The father of the bride typically sits her on the groom’s father’s lap seven times as a ceremonial gesture of transfer and a plea for the groom’s family to care for her.

While many defended the practice as an integral part of their culture, some netizens expressed discomfort with the method, arguing that it might not resonate well in modern times. One user commented, "Some things need to change. Not because the intention is bad, but because the method is."

Others passionately upheld the tradition, emphasizing its symbolic value. Another commenter wrote, "This is normal in our tradition. It’s called handing over; it’s not just symbolic but a heartfelt gesture to ensure the bride is received with love and care by her new family."

The video has sparked a wider conversation about balancing cultural preservation with evolving societal norms.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaxtYs0Q7Yg

joseph1832:
FrOM tHE video I just watched, that might not be the groom's father, but the groom himself. It's the custom of Esan people when giving their daughter out for marriage, that her father makes her sit 11 times on her husband's laps.

So, if that is indeed the groom's father, perhaps the groom isn't around and the father is standing (that is) marrying for his son.

XAUBulls:
Insightful.