₦airaland Forum

iLegendd:
We tend to emulate foreign cultures excessively, but if our women must imitate, they should adopt the "Miss Independent" ethos and the industrious, skillful mindset of Chinese women.

Unfortunately, many focus instead on embracing the more superficial and destructive aspects of Western culture—obsessing over Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs), skin lightening (often tied to a misguided sense of superiority), and other damaging trends. "Miss independent" wey dem suppose emulate, 98% of them no fit.

Nigerian men, on the other hand, are complicit in this by financing these pursuits, often in a desperate bid to earn affection or love.

I no talk say make you no spend o. It’s fine to spend on a woman if you have surplus wealth, like Burna Boy perhaps, but never as a transactional effort to secure love. The chat of that ₦500k man in tears is a cautionary tale—he "invested" emotionally and financially, expecting love in return, only to be left heartbroken by a 25 kpa rendezvous.

Wise men, however, have already distanced themselves from such illusions. Even before entering a relationship, they harbor no expectations, recognizing the cultural shift that has normalized the Americanized "my body, my choice" mantra. This mindset has made emotional commitment increasingly precarious.

When a woman eventually acts in ways that align with these expectations, the wise man isn’t surprised. He either disengages or relegates her to a non-primary role, all while encouraging her to explore other relationships. Such men are detached from materialism, physical desires, or the pursuit of romantic validation.

If you aspire to live a long and stress-free life, adopt this pragmatic approach. Free yourself from overblown expectations, for unmet expectations are the root of heartbreak—a slippery slope to emotional devastation and even physical ailments like depression and hypertension.

Starboytwo:
bros, mine is 3k max. Honestly speaking.

Anything wey pass 3k, you wan gimme high blood pressure be that.

Bendeco02:
Stop showing yourself.
Most guys always say this but not actually true.

If you send only transport for your babe. You may actually assist her in other things. Abi you pays rent for her?

otherway:
You are fvking low value women or hookers.
We are talking about high value women.

iLegendd:
Most of our men from age 16 to 35 have no business with relationship wisdom. Even if you tell them the truth, they'll go and tell her what you said.

It's not a man's job to fall in love, but to provide protection, but men won't listen.

Stay away from emotional attachment from both women and money and watch how you'll have peace of mind.

A woman operates based on emotions. Whatever you've done for her doesn't matter. In fact, the less you want her, the more she wants the little you have to offer over the might goodies the person who wants her offers.

Starzo:
Omo truly ehn,as a Nigerian man you need to look outside to experience love in it's true and purest form.

Naija girls dey truly love o(rarely) but e nor dey pure like that.

BABANGBALI:
Awon bunch of modafokas


Please If you're looking for a wife material, go for a lady above 35 years because their senses have come back to normal.
🤔

iLegendd:
A woman operates based on emotions. Whatever you've done for her doesn't matter. In fact, the less you want her, the more she wants the little you have to offer over the might goodies the person who wants her offers.

Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

Howmuch has he sent for his Mum's birthday

Bendeco02:
Stop showing yourself.
Most guys always say this but not actually true.

If you send only transport for your babe. You may actually assist her in other things. Abi you pays rent for her?

faceland:
how does emotions apply to ₦25k?

She did it for the money, zero emotions.

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

illicit:
Sometimes it goes down for free...

iLegendd:
We tend to emulate foreign cultures excessively, but if our women must imitate, they should adopt the "Miss Independent" ethos and the industrious, skillful mindset of Chinese women.

Unfortunately, many focus instead on embracing the more superficial and destructive aspects of Western culture—obsessing over Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs), skin lightening (often tied to a misguided sense of superiority), and other damaging trends. "Miss independent" wey dem suppose emulate, 98% of them no fit.

Nigerian men, on the other hand, are complicit in this by financing these pursuits, often in a desperate bid to earn affection or love.

I no talk say make you no spend o. It’s fine to spend on a woman if you have surplus wealth, like Burna Boy perhaps, but never as a transactional effort to secure love. The chat of that ₦500k man in tears is a cautionary tale—he "invested" emotionally and financially, expecting love in return, only to be left heartbroken by a 25 kpa rendezvous.

Wise men, however, have already distanced themselves from such illusions. Even before entering a relationship, they harbor no expectations, recognizing the cultural shift that has normalized the Americanized "my body, my choice" mantra. This mindset has made emotional commitment increasingly precarious.

When a woman eventually acts in ways that align with these expectations, the wise man isn’t surprised. He either disengages or relegates her to a non-primary role, all while encouraging her to explore other relationships. Such men are detached from materialism, physical desires, or the pursuit of romantic validation.

If you aspire to live a long and stress-free life, adopt this pragmatic approach. Free yourself from overblown expectations, for unmet expectations are the root of heartbreak—a slippery slope to emotional devastation and even physical ailments like depression and hypertension.

Bro you sabi cap 🧢 walahi. #hatsoff #truth

Silentgroper:
My Way na 1k ... Any money wey pass 1k , I no dey give ...

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If she baby this this this and that that that ... Na only 1k I get .. I get future to build .. me sef wan get empire like dangote...

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

Soneh:
Dem nack mine for free. She even fetches my food and take to the bast*d

Bendeco02:
Stop showing yourself.
Most guys always say this but not actually true.

If you send only transport for your babe. You may actually assist her in other things. Abi you pays rent for her?

Starboytwo:
bros, mine is 3k max. Honestly speaking.

Anything wey pass 3k, you wan gimme high blood pressure be that.