₦airaland Forum

Bendeco02:
Stop showing yourself.
Most guys always say this but not actually true.

If you send only transport for your babe. You may actually assist her in other things. Abi you pays rent for her?

iLegendd:
... Every woman should have a skill and fend for herself or the man who brought her into this world should do it.

He's only obligated when she has a child for him and DNA has proven it....

PissInside:
I pity nigerian men a lot....Some men in this country have never experienced true love.

Relationship here is transactional and women manipulate men a lot in this country.

I experienced true love when I travelled to Gambia in 2005....It was a pity I couldn't marry the lady back then cos of circumstances.

THE SIMPING IN NIGERIA IS DIABOLICAL.

People come from America,Uk,Canada to marry brothel hoes....Not to talk of Online Simping where you see high vibrational,high valued men complimenting, praising and hyping a hoe who's not only available for anybody but don't give a fvck about them.

SIMPS are irredeemable in this country so just let women use them anyhow.

Sonofgod1990:
After you go come dey beg for 1k from the betting money. Yeye man

BABANGBALI:
Awon bunch of modafokas


Please If you're looking for a wife material, go for a lady above 35 years because their senses have come back to normal.
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iLegendd:
We tend to emulate foreign cultures excessively, but if our women must imitate, they should adopt the "Miss Independent" ethos and the industrious, skillful mindset of Chinese women.

Unfortunately, many focus instead on embracing the more superficial and destructive aspects of Western culture—obsessing over Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs), skin lightening (often tied to a misguided sense of superiority), and other damaging trends. "Miss independent" wey dem suppose emulate, 98% of them no fit.

Nigerian men, on the other hand, are complicit in this by financing these pursuits, often in a desperate bid to earn affection or love.

I no talk say make you no spend o. It’s fine to spend on a woman if you have surplus wealth, like Burna Boy perhaps, but never as a transactional effort to secure love. The chat of that ₦500k man in tears is a cautionary tale—he "invested" emotionally and financially, expecting love in return, only to be left heartbroken by a 25 kpa rendezvous.

Wise men, however, have already distanced themselves from such illusions. Even before entering a relationship, they harbor no expectations, recognizing the cultural shift that has normalized the Americanized "my body, my choice" mantra. This mindset has made emotional commitment increasingly precarious.

When a woman eventually acts in ways that align with these expectations, the wise man isn’t surprised. He either disengages or relegates her to a non-primary role, all while encouraging her to explore other relationships. Such men are detached from materialism, physical desires, or the pursuit of romantic validation.

If you aspire to live a long and stress-free life, adopt this pragmatic approach. Free yourself from overblown expectations, for unmet expectations are the root of heartbreak—a slippery slope to emotional devastation and even physical ailments like depression and hypertension.


I too like this write up. U be poet?

U are properly educated.

Chidolalar:
Pls can u explain in details d true love u experience in Gambia with d lady and why u couldn't Marry the lady.

femi4:
You can never make it from betting, know this n know peace. You ve already started the year on a wrong note

iLegendd:
Have you dated foreigners before? When you tell these local fowls info they jump in with Nigerian mentality. This is why they feel Nigerian girls' hungry attitude is universal.

How far has Nigeria grown with our mentality? We're the smartest, but look at how we suffer in almost everything, except music.

We're still among the most struggling nations. That should tell you a lot that we need a mental shift. Every woman should have a skill and fend for herself or the man who brought her into this world should do it.

He's only obligated when she has a child for him and DNA has proven it.

Have I given women money? Foreign women, no. Naija women, yes. Out of pity, not to buy love or induce her to love me.

When you have money and a living thing (women or men) needs help, you give, but most of you are giving in exchange for sex or to be loved.

That is what I'm against.

maasoap:
You are giving money to Nigerian women but not for sex or love and at the same time, you believed that other men doing that for women for sex or love. I guess other men are the only ones who need sex and love but you don't . Nonsense

johnog4sure:
Just yesterday a lady(I know, its been long we see) came to my office and gave me hot Mouth Action, just like that, we did not even call each other prior to that, she did not ask for anything as a matter of fact the last time I sent her money was 2 years ago and it was 5k. Only foolish boys with low-self esteem want to impress ladies with money.

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

Bendeco02:
But why would a sane person send 500k for a woman's birthday that is not his Wife?

Howmuch has he sent for his Mum's birthday

Sonofgod1990:
D money I make through betting I'm very sure you have never seen it in ya life. You think I'm d one dat bet 200# to win 20million? I pity ya life and ya senseless mindset

Bendeco02:
Stop showing yourself.
Most guys always say this but not actually true.

If you send only transport for your babe. You may actually assist her in other things. Abi you pays rent for her?

FORWARDEVERLY:
Shame on you for not bending her over and Fokin her hot doggy style... 😏😏

femi4:
Like the yahoo money from the Asia client you used to buy this....

We will look for you, and we will find you....and put you in prison.



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Your high value woman is considered low value by some men!
Recently, I almost fall mugu for one. I like her, just at the talking stage, she requested for money. She wanted me to pay her daughter's school fee and give her feeding allowance. That the father (civil servant) is unconcern about her. Me wey still dey hussle, I noticed that this lady hasn't moved on, whenever he wants to Bleep her, he will just call her to come with his daughter, she rush to him. But she want give me condition!

Z115:
Mine is 2k and she will appreciate it..

iLegendd:
Most times self. The only thing I pay is transport and giving her WiFi connection. I feel as if I'm the loser for even paying her TP. Why? The pleasure is hers, 80%. So, I'm supposed to be paid.

emperor4love:
drop code next bro na over I de play for that game the no too dey play over mostly getafe but u fit risk am,I played juventus over yesterday 1.5 giving me 1.52 odd

Z115:
Mine is 2k and she will appreciate it..

Sonofgod1990:
Yeah e letter come

emperor4love:
abeg try drop another fr me ,just tag me,wen u do, but the played 0.0 first half

tfelicityk:
Hmmmmm...m
This is called Billing...

I would rather used it to establish her than sending it to her account...

If she doesn't like it. I will tell her to go and bill her FATHER instead.

Guys please pay attention to your legally married wife than all this side chick or girlfriends...

Sonofgod1990:
D money I make through betting I'm very sure you have never seen it in ya life. You think I'm d one dat bet 200# to win 20million? I pity ya life and ya senseless mindset