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We have seen and heard too many times how a poor man struggling and managing his life is often pressured and forced into marrying.

And we have seen that some families go as far as even forcing a girl to marry him.

If it is not wickedness and an attempt to throw him into more torment, so why?

What is the rationale for this wickedness?

And it is not that these families will always be there for them O.

And why do the girls/women they bring to him not have sense to run away from him?

And this is also why there are too many poor people, baby mamas and homeless children in the land living in shanties waiting and praying to live their lives out before one rich man with guns comes to remove them while taking their beautiful daughters and wives as his sex provider.

I believe that wicked and evil people and family members just tortured and tormented him till he was compelled to kill himself.

If he is poor for too long, wont they marry for him instead of him going to bed every night without the comfort of a woman who may be a comforter.

PresidObi:
If he is poor for too long, wont they marry for him instead of him going to bed every night without the comfort of a woman who may be a comforter.

Comforter with empty belle

PerfectStranger:
Comforter with empty belle

Comforter na comforter o

PresidObi:
Comforter na comforter o

Be like hunger never wire u before make u even forget say u get active preeq

Dtruthspeaker:
I believe that wicked and evil people and family members just tortured and tormented him till he was compelled to kill himself.

Life is about planning. People with good sense don't enter serious life decisions like marriage or procreation anyhow.

Booked for nukes

PresidObi:
If he is poor for too long, wont they marry for him instead of him going to bed every night without the comfort of a woman who may be a comforter.

Who may be a comforter or a tormentor .

Poor people can marry but should not produce offspring in poverty. It i morally wrong to bring an innocent child into the world to suffer. Irony is tha na poor men get the biggest gbola and want to lash everytime.

Nnamdipapa:
Poor people can marry but should not produce offspring in poverty. It i morally wrong to bring an innocent child into the world to suffer. Irony is tha na poor men get the biggest gbola and want to lash everytime.

Surprisingly and unfortunately, this is not common sense amongst many. Pragmatic procreation is just not a thing with many people.

Martinez39s:
Surprisingly and unfortunately, this is not common sense amongst many. Pragmatic procreation is just not a thing with many people.

Two can manage to combine expenses and pull themselves out of poverty compared to one person struggling alone but no child should be involved. I have white couples married for 5 years and on family planning and just bought the second home. Jayz has few kids, Cena is even refusing to have any child.

Poor people are poor because they make poor decisions.

Misery loves company
When Africans are pushing you into anything, don't do it. It is never for your own good.

Anything that would be benefiting to you, they will have you beg for it or you go figure it out with little or no support.

Because dem need Bleep.

Nnamdipapa:
Two can manage to combine expenses and pull themselves out of poverty compared to one person struggling alone but no child should be involved. I have white couples married for 5 years and on family planning. They just bought the second home. Jayz has one kid, Cena is even refusing to have any child.

Poor people are poor because they make poor decisions.

Another JayZ? 🤔

Abi the Carter we all know?

ItisWell22:
Another JayZ? 🤔

Abi the Carter we all know?

With his wife abi you know secret kids?

PresidObi:
If he is poor for too long, wont they marry for him instead of him going to bed every night without the comfort of a woman who may be a comforter.

Or better still give him a good job. No, they didn't. They pressured him to death. Perceived they also mocked his miserable condition. For crying out loud, how can one survive in this miserable and hopeless country without a good paying job? Isn't that a hell?

Nnamdipapa:
Two can manage to combine expenses and pull themselves out of poverty compared to one person struggling alone but no child should be involved. I have white couples married for 5 years and on family planning. They just bought the second home. Jayz has one kid, Cena is even refusing to have any child.

Poor people are poor because they make poor decisions.

That doesn't work in Nigeria. The same people who mocked you for not being able to get married, would still mock you for not having a child.

Truvelisback:
That doesn't work in Nigeria. The same people who mocked you for not being able to get married, would still mock you for not having a child.

They will for sure but a part of being an adult is not allowing the opinion of others influence your decision.

Just live your life because no matter what you do, people will complain.

purples25:
Just live your life because no matter what you do, people will complain.

One bottle of chilled ogogoro for you this morning..

If you do o,they will talk,if you refused to do o,they will still talk. So just do what will make you happy,and give those noise makers your middle finger,if need be. Fvck em all..

instead of struggling alone in poverty, you could find a partner to build and grow with. If you're earning 60k per month and she's earning 40k per month, that's a combined income of 100k per month. By cooking at home instead of eating out, you can save money. You also don't need to have children immediately; you can wait until your finances improve and reach a stable level.

Padipadi:
Life is about planning. People with good sense don't enter serious life decisions like marriage or procreation anyhow.

Sure.
And we can all see that these people stay on their own managing their lives only for people around them to start pressurizing them. And then some give him a girl or woman to marry in spite of his objection.

PresidObi:
If he is poor for too long, wont they marry for him instead of him going to bed every night without the comfort of a woman who may be a comforter.

Why would you people do that?

Did he ask you people that he needs comfort at night?

Is it not that he even asks you people to help him so that he can come from his poorness, but you don't?

And after you marry for him, you people then abandon him re-abusing him again to take care of his family.

You Obi people do this a lot.
Note o, you people are Wicked when you do this!!!

And you people are another contribution to why there are too much poor people, single mothers and homeless children.

Nnamdipapa:
Two can manage to combine expenses and pull themselves out of poverty compared to one person struggling alone but no child should be involved. I have white couples married for 5 years and on family planning. They just bought the second home. Jayz has one kid, Cena is even refusing to have any child.

Poor people are poor because they make poor decisions.

jay z

Remijuice:
Misery loves company
When Africans are pushing you into anything, don't do it. It is never for your own good.

Anything that would be benefiting to you, they will have you beg for it or you go figure it out with little or no support.

Exactly oo.
And they can push till you start to feel the ground move under your feet.

And this is where I like stubborn people. Those ones they would not even disturb them at all.

Nnamdipapa:
Two can manage to combine expenses and pull themselves out of poverty compared to one person struggling alone but no child should be involved. I have white couples married for 5 years and on family planning. They just bought the second home. Jayz has one kid, Cena is even refusing to have any child.

Poor people are poor because they make poor decisions.

Is jayz trying to come out from poorverty? I think you speak like one who is suffers partial madness, sorry no vex

Dtruthspeaker:
Is jayz trying to come out from poorverty? I think you speak like one who is suffers partial madness, sorry no vex

I went to the extreme to show rich people are even trying to control childbirth. Poor people should try more.

koladata:
instead of struggling alone in poverty, you could find a partner to build and grow with. If you're earning 60k per month and she's earning 40k per month, that's a combined income of 100k per month. By cooking at home instead of eating out, you can save money. You also don't need to have children immediately; you can wait until your finances improve and reach a stable level.

A person earning N60k per month is not poor, compared to the normal poor we know who praise God for earning up to N20k in one month.

Nnamdipapa:
I went to the extreme to show rich people are even trying to control childbirth. Poor people should try more.

Oh ok. Sorry.

But don't blame them too much sha because sex is the only joy and play they get at home after days and days of pains and sorrows.

And on this rich people wanting no children, i believe there is something more to it. It makes no sense. Infact new thread

Dtruthspeaker:
Oh ok. Sorry.

But don't blame them too much sha because sex is the only joy and play they get at home after days and days of pains and sorrows.

And on this rich people wanting no children, i believe there is something more to it. It makes no sense. Infact new thread

You are right. Imagine poor man and his wife in a small one room apartment and the wife always tying wrapper all the time at home. What do you think the man will be thinking about all day long. Hehehehe