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Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

What she's doing to the current boyfriend she can still do to u if care is not taken.

Be sure of the reason why she likes u and be sure its genuine enough.

Obviously she's young and just dating for fun but u are the one taking it seriously and feeling like don jazzy now. As she gets older her priorities will change or improve so it will be advisable to know her true character and values not just qualities or else thst time u may not be able to control her like u are doing now and feeling cool with urself.

if ure able to guide her development the right way and she accepts it with the right character then u might have some luck.

2 girls that are tricky to date longterm is a broke girl and a naive girl cos anything can change as time advances.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

Do you think she will let you double date? Pls use your head

Broski go and read about wanda nara and mauro icardi relationship,you will realize hoes are not loyal.A girl who is comfortable with double dating has zero principle. If she doesnt cheat on you now, she will cheat on you in the future.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

If any gal should tell you this, do the following
Never fucckk her raw
And never make love to her rather bangg the hellot of that pussyyyyy
Am sure you know she is not for keeps.

Snow2six:
U beg make she tag u for d relationship,now u wan jump front…na una type keziah go reach una hand,una go wan carry wholesale

Lol. U funny bro

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

Keep coping.

Let him be SIMPING AT 32,Very silly brother

Blitzking:
If any gal should tell you this, do the following
Never fucckk her raw
And never make love to her rather bangg the hellot of that pussyyyyy
Am sure you know she is not for keeps.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

I wanted to write that sense is far from you, but I realised that may bring tears to your eyes just like you're doing to the poor girl.
For your mind now, you dun arrive and you can be snatching people's GF because of the small 50k in your account. Okay oh. Kwantinuuu.

Bro, you got no good intention for the girl. Just be sincere with yourself. A serious cross examination of your conscience will show that you're only attracted to her beautiful body and not her soul. So just be mature enough and leave the poor girl to continue with her real love.
For the girl, she is only interested in the indomie and beverages she's enjoying from you (unto student level). The real test of her love will be known when you go broke or if the second guy picks some good cash.
Try the use your head sha.

Clap for yourself, you be really 32yrs small pikin

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

She is just 20 and you are 32,my brother no dey fall our hand na,na fun the girl dey have na,she is enjoying herself to the brim, eating from you,the 22 year old boyfriend,and so many other guys in her books.

Wise up bro ,una plenty wey she dey date

Bookhub:
Bro calm! She is just 20 and still In school I just want to wait for her to finish and plus I want to marry at 35 marriage no be rush.

Aje,leave female students for their fellow male students to date,just dey chop clean mouth,or else had I known will be the last comment of a fool

akube34:
my advice, don’t take her serious. For a girl to cheat on her bf with you, what makes you think she won’t cheat on you if you take her serious. She come Dey school for that matter. I have been down this path and I am 100% sure she will cheat on you. If you can tolerate it, then no problem. Just Dey use her Dey pass time. When time reach, find a lady don with school or doing handwork and marry. Leave students

In a million years you can never understand a woman...their minds are way out of line, so don't even start it

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

Marry her on ur own peril. A cheater will always be a cheater. She will still cheat on u in marriage.

Wetin give you mind to say 22yrs old boy never ready for marriage or no serious with his relationship?
See you wey come last won come drive person wey dey before you n at the end u go shout "over taking is allowed"..

Just play your part and in 3 yrs time move to marry her!

You are a mumu man.....A very stupid man that should be dealt with like a mad dog.....you are disgrace to the brotherhood out there......Infact, you re just a wasted fellow who doesn't know his direction in life..mtcheew

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

At age 32 you still don’t have sense. What a pity.

WhiteIverson:
Bold of you to assume she's dating only 2 of you

The OP is very naive at 32

You are too old for her, the guy she's dating is the right one for her, Haven't you seen two young class mates get married before? You have allowed beauty to blind your eyes. I wish she can drain you emotionally and financially, since at your age, you refuse to allow a young lady enjoy her youth/innocence.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

you're lying, this is a made up story

dettolgel:
I forsee a news headline ”A 36 years old man killed his 24 years old wife after finding out that he is not the father of her child. That the child belongs to her ex university boyfriend"

Just move on cos you no need those negativity around

Bold of you to call yourself a guyman while trying to wife a farmtool. Odoyo.

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Samajogs:
In a million years you can never understand a woman...their minds are way out of line, so don't even start it

Lol women are not hard to understand. Especially these southern Nigerian girls. One main thing with most of them. They lie a lot and see their pussyy as a means of survival. Lol

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

Ones found myself in this mess, till I drove to work one day and deleted anything connecting us together.

And that was how I found peace till date.
Check yourself well, you are losing something, you will understand later.

You can't wife such a cunning lady. YOU WILL REGRET if you do.

She is just your FWB.

They ain't loyal, they never gonna be loyal bro.
I can relate.
Best you do the needful: chop and clean mouth, or forget about her totally and move on with your life. It's difficult, seeing as a bond is in there somewhere, still, remember that you were living life fine when you didn't know her from Eve.
Truth is she is still very young and only trying out her options. She never ready for that kind commitment wey you dey find. Tomorrow it will be another person, and you will just try to dive into the Bermuda triangle when you see her living life and having fun with someone better than you. There always are people better than you, believe me. And that's what she's on to, the ascent to the top of her fantasies.
Don't give water to someone who is not thirsty, they will never value it. A lady looking to settle down will appreciate you more than those who think the world revolves around their beauty.

Hope u r not nigha raw fan?

I know how guys always want to exempt themselves from blame and give the woman double blame, but actually both of you are wrong.

It may be painful but she has to make a clear choice about what and who she wants. And give that person a timeline so that she can leave cleanly and find another partner if it doesn't work.

Though I wouldn't advice her to pick you. Your relationship with her is already tainted by the way it came about.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

just listen to yourself. Ain’t you the one who began the complex relationship of a thing.? You speak as if it was her fault. Just as you have manipulated a girl to yourself in which you know very well she’s hooked already, same as someone will do same to you as well… what goes around comes around. Leave the girl alone and go for the one that is searching or simply contend with what you have put yourself into. Why now tagging the young lady names as if you are the saint here. What kind of a fellow are you? Left for me, the lady is smart and intelligent, as she doesn’t want to be at the loosing end afteral

Munzy14:
Ones found myself in this mess, till I drove to work one day and deleted anything connecting us together.

And that was how I found peace till date.
Check yourself well, you are losing something, you will understand later.

You can't wife such a cunning lady. YOU WILL REGRET if you do.

She is just your FWB.

It's not so easy I am still enjoying the young pussy but I want more than that.

purples25:
I know how guys always want to exempt themselves from blame and give the woman double blame, but actually both of you are wrong.

It may be painful but she has to make a clear choice about what and who she wants. And give that person a timeline so that she can leave cleanly and find another partner if it doesn't work.

Though I wouldn't advice her to pick you. Your relationship with her is already tainted by the way it came about.

sincerely, as a guy I won’t advice the lady to pick this very guy in question. He has nothing to offer, same way he got her, he could go get someone else in not time as well. He may even have them numerous. Imagine him saying he is looking out on 3 years time to wife her. Does that make sense. As far as 3 years..! He is not a good person, knowing fully well that she was open to him about her status, he still went ahead to show affection. If the girl marries such a guy, Aswear she will regret it. He is a red flag! A clear sign of mistakes ladies make. Not all that glitters that is gold. I hope she has someone to advise her.

Afolue:
sincerely, as a guy I won’t advice the lady to pick this very guy in question. He has nothing to offer, same way he got her, he could go get someone else in not time as well. He may even have them numerous. Imagine him saying he is looking out on 3 years time to wife her. Does that make sense. As far as 3 years..! He is not a good person, knowing fully well that she was open to him about her status, he still went ahead to show affection. If the girl marries such a guy, Aswear she will regret it. He is a red flag! A clear sign of mistakes ladies make. Not all that glitters that is gold. I hope she has someone to advise her.

They are not good for each other. No honor amongst thieves.