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Always choose your mother o!

Your wife does not love you and was why she wanted to make you choose. If she loves you, she will love your mother too.

I won't like to choose between my mom and wife because they are one and the same. I would rather prefer to choose my father.

She's testing if you are a simp or not

Me ,I will choose my Mother immediately she asked

Thunder fire her

Some ladies would rather not have mother-in-law unknown to them that they too will turn same in no time.


Ask the same lady how she would feel if in future, her own son(s) abandons her to dedicate themselves to their wives.

Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?

I will still choose my mother...wife can be replace,mother cannot be replaced!

Mumcy or nothing

Mum for life , ditch the hoe. No decent woman should ask you such a question. A mother's love is unconditional, a wife's love is transactional.

eleniyan2020:
I will still choose my mother...wife can be replace,mother cannot be replaced!

nice one

Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?

You are probably in the stage of life where you are just married or expecting to bag a spouse. After becoming a wife and having sons, your perspective will quickly change when they prepare for marriage. This is why arguing with a woman is pointless.

You simply said a lot in a short words. How can a man ask you to choose between your dad and him. Are we in a competition or what. Everyone have a special place they belong in our hearts....... importantly, no woman if she's sensible would ask her man to choose between her and the his mother.....if my wife ever make such a mistake of asking, my brother, I will make it so decorative in such a way that she would see herself as worthless and of no negligible importance to me except giving me babies.....but my mum is more and more than that.....I get bad mouth o and no woman would want to have a piece of it to erupt my anger especially over my mother.....it's incomparable, my mum and my wife are damn so incomparable......Take care my brother

Bahamas95:
Only foolish men do that, I don't waste my time on irrelevant things.


I respect boundaries. You respect my family, I respect yours......How she shows love to her father is not my business.

Okay, then start paying bride price for your mother.

eleniyan2020:
I will still choose my mother...wife can be replace,mother cannot be replaced!

Then go and argue with your fellow man.

Because I'm done here.

Amumaigwe:
You are probably in the stage of life where you are just married or expecting to bag a spouse. After becoming a wife and having sons, your perspective will quickly change when they prepare for marriage. This is why arguing with a woman is pointless.

Any day any woman in the name of wife asks or makes such statement, that's the end of the marriage.

Samantha125:
Then get married to your mother...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

She's beyond wife cuz only death can do us apart.
I'm trying to smell foul between you and your mum. Seems the bond is very weak. I will urge you to work with your mum cuz she's your paradise.

I have a great relationship with my mother, she's the one who's against the idea of mothers feeling entitled over their adult children.

In fact, she and her darling husband already have plans for this weekend...😅😅😅

latiephwald:
She's beyond wife cuz only death can do us apart.
I'm trying to smell foul between you and your mum. Seems the bond is very weak. I will urge you to work with your mum cuz she's your paradise.

I just realized I have been interacting with female child. Your mum knew you'll belong to another family just like her. I'm pretty sure she's not gonna be against mother feelings entitle over her male children.

Samantha125:
I have a great relationship with my mother, she's the one who's against the idea of mothers feeling entitled over their adult children.

In fact, she and her darling husband already have plans for this weekend...😅😅😅

I will choose my mother

She's against it all and she's also been advising my sisters against it, since they have sons.

My mother is not like your mothers, she knows when to mind her business and when to let go.

latiephwald:
I just realized I have been interacting with female child. Your mum knew you'll belong to another family just like her. I'm pretty sure she's not gonna be against mother feelings entitle over her male children.

kroger:
Where is A.Y and his wife today. Wife will come and go but your mum is irreplaceable.

Best comment so far

May God bless you sir

You get sense well well

hopedey:
Mother..... because you can always get another wife/husband but you can never get another mother.

Mother is supreme.

Nice one

Oil full your head baba

Samantha125:
She's against it all and she's also been advising my sisters against it, since they have sons.

My mother is not like your mothers, she knows when to mind her business and when to let go.

Truth be told, when you have your own children, you'll understand better. I guess you are still a kid under 30yrs I guess. You won't understand mother's feelings and love over children untill you start having yours.
Lemmi remind you again, NObody, I repeat NOBODY will ever love you till the point of incurable SICKNESS, SHAMEFUL situation and or DEATH except Your MOTHER. Even at some point, your father may step back but your mother will never leave you in that terrible period.

But she can never be your wife!!! If you want, you can choose her and stay single for the rest of your life.

latiephwald:
Truth be told, when you have your own children, you'll understand better. I guess you are still a kid under 30yrs I guess. You won't understand mother's feelings and love over children untill you start having yours.
Lemmi remind you again, NObody, I repeat NOBODY will ever love you till the point of incurable SICKNESS, SHAMEFUL situation and or DEATH except Your MOTHER. Even at some point, your father may step back but your mother will never leave you in that terrible period.

Any wife that is asking this will get the right answer when her son get married.

This question again!

There is what we call Deductive Reasoning.
Just answer this question and stop writing this nonsense question:

Which of them can you NOT replace?

THERE! is your answer.

Samantha125:
But she can never be your wife!!! If you want, you can choose her and stay single for the rest of your life.

I can hire a wife. A wife that might even turn better than you: a "fully" married lady.

A wife who compares herself to her husband's mother is already setting herself up for disappointment. The sacrifices a mother makes for her child are unparalleled and cannot be replicated by anyone else.
From giving birth to nurturing him into a man, a mother's selfless love and devotion are unmatched. A wife should focus on building her own unique relationship with her husband, rather than trying to compete with the unconditional love and bond between a mother and son.

Mathewrichard99:
You simply said a lot in a short words. How can a man ask you to choose between your dad and him. Are we in a competition or what. Everyone have a special place they belong in our hearts....... importantly, no woman if she's sensible would ask her man to choose between her and the his mother.....if my wife ever make such a mistake of asking, my brother, I will make it so decorative in such a way that she would see herself as worthless and of no negligible importance to me except giving me babies.....but my mum is more and more than that.....I get bad mouth o and no woman would want to have a piece of it to erupt my anger especially over my mother.....it's incomparable, my mum and my wife are damn so incomparable......Take care my brother

Even before I got married my wife knows I'm very fond of my mum, so she'll be asking for trouble if she foolishly brings up that conversation.

Loving my mum doesn't mean I won't love her, my heart is big enough to accommodate whoever deserve my love.

My scale of preference years back was......

1. Mumsy
2. Siblings

I am now married with a lovely daughter so the arrangement has changed......

1. My daughter
2. Mumsy
3. Siblings
4. Wife

Whenever I send something to my mum I don't tell my wife, I also send to her parents without informing her. They tell her themselves and she would thank me, that's how I prefer to do my things. I don't monitor how she spends her money, it's none of my business.

Omg! We both have so many things in common. That's my policies too....my Mum first until I got my 2 kids but yet my Mum still maintain that her special position in my life......I must tell you the truth....wife comes last to me.....so funny that I actually do those stuff to her parents without telling her and they go over to tell her and she thanks me.....I don't take authority or something from her before doing things for her parents or even doing things for her siblings or my siblings.....in that aspect, I am one man soldier but I love my kids passionately.....also, I don't know how she spends her money,even when I give her money for her personal welfare, the house allowance etc.... cos i do my responsibility to the last and more ....i don't poke nose at all and still do the school fees etc.....clothings etc.....thanks bro....

Bahamas95:
Even before I got married my wife knows I'm very fond of my mum, so she'll be asking for trouble if she foolishly brings up that conversation.

Loving my mum doesn't mean I won't love her, my heart is big enough to accommodate whoever deserve my love.

My scale of preference years back was......

1. Mumsy
2. Siblings

I am now married with a lovely daughter so the arrangement has changed......

1. My daughter
2. Mumsy
3. Siblings
4. Wife

Whenever I send something to my mum I don't tell my wife, I also send to her parents without informing her. They tell her themselves and she would thank me, that's how I prefer to do my things. I don't monitor how she spends her money, it's none of my business.

When I can marry multiple, why should 1 woman tell me to choose between her and my mum. This is very laughable

Only a foolish woman would ask such.
Wisdom is profitable to direct. You guys should stop creating these Nur 1 threads in 2025.

I will choose my mother

Bahamas95:
No woman would try that rubbish with me.

Was she there when mumsy was nurturing me?

Why don't you marry your mom and save everyone the stress?