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Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by travelzcruix: 9:20am On Jan 17, 2025
Things dey occur. Who told this generation that life begins and ends in school. Go for outing with friends they will not, volunteer in church, they will not. Most students are snitches and when their lifestyle eventually flashes on them they'll be looking for the highest tree to hang themselves.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by BadNews(op): 9:20am On Jan 17, 2025
ArewaNightmare:
angry
Serious MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES Kill Faster ooo
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by shadrach77: 9:20am On Jan 17, 2025
Gbogbo nkan n sele nilu yi! cry
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Uranos: 9:20am On Jan 17, 2025
Baba use football age 😄
Babamide:
How does a 34 year old just complete NYSC?
Is it not supposed to be exemption?
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Dididrumz(m): 9:21am On Jan 17, 2025
Careente7:
I thought the age limit for corp serving was 30?
This life is just full with hurdles and troubles and pain. So help us God.




No comment; next question.
If your graduate before You turn 30, you will still have to go for NYSC even if You're 50.

The 30 years old age limit only holds if You graduate after you turn 30.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Fafesot: 9:23am On Jan 17, 2025
Jonathan:
It's not true
Don't say nonsense you know nothing about.
No one above 30 can serve by law. Unless the person criminally change their age.
If you're above 30, you will be excluded or exempted and be given exemption or exclusion letter, instead of discharge letter
The issue here is you're daft and have refused to take correction. If you graduate below the age of 30, you can decide to serve anytime you want, even if you're 50. NYSC doesn't reckon with your current age but the age you were when graduated from high institution. If you graduate at 25, and you decide to serve by 45, they have no business with that 45, it's that 25 at which you graduated from school they are concerned with.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by BItt: 9:24am On Jan 17, 2025
Life after NYSC can b very tough
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by abobote: 9:24am On Jan 17, 2025
Can one participate in NYSC after at 31years and above?
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Dididrumz(m): 9:26am On Jan 17, 2025
Jonathan:
It's not true
Don't say nonsense you know nothing about.
No one above 30 can serve by law. Unless the person criminally change their age.
If you're above 30, you will be excluded or exempted and be given exemption or exclusion letter, instead of discharge letter
You just showed a high level of ignorance on this matter.

Don't say nonsense You know nothing about Mr Man.

If you graduate before You turn and you don't go for service immediately, even if You turn 150, you will still serve. You're only exempted from service if you're already 30 at the time of graduation.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by authentic18: 9:26am On Jan 17, 2025
BadNews:
Why Will 34 Years Old Man, Kpai Himself 😢
I think doing that Is a selfish idea
There’s family that have invested or may care for you
Shouldn’t be doing that no matter the situation
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:27am On Jan 17, 2025
Families don't care what a male child goes through. Right from birth, we always takes care of our damnselves.
To make it worse, when we marry, some useless women would want to frustrate our life again.
So, Mrs ogah should shut the f up! They did nothing to alleviate his mental state.
Let Bryan go and incarnate so as to give his life a meaning
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by adeoyekay(m): 9:28am On Jan 17, 2025
Jonathan:
34 doing nysc?


How?

I THOUGHT NYSC RESTRICTS ANYONE ABOVE 30?

E DON GO DO FAKE AGE DECLARATION....
Nysc only work on the date of graduation,if you are not up to 30 before you graduate, you can go for service at any age even if you are 47
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by kasim155: 9:28am On Jan 17, 2025
Jonathan:
It's not true
Don't say nonsense you know nothing about.
No one above 30 can serve by law. Unless the person criminally change their age.
If you're above 30, you will be excluded or exempted and be given exemption or exclusion letter, instead of discharge letter
You are the one that is wrong here, if you graduate before 30 and did not go for service then, you can still go for service even if you are 50.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by abba190b: 9:31am On Jan 17, 2025
I am 30. I am thinking about doing thesame thing to excape this hunger nd starvation



I am hopeless and jobless
After spending 5years studying something that is useless

Here I am living pennyless and helpless
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Afrowits: 9:34am On Jan 17, 2025
Jonathan:
It's not true
Don't say nonsense you know nothing about.
No one above 30 can serve by law. Unless the person criminally change their age.
If you're above 30, you will be excluded or exempted and be given exemption or exclusion letter, instead of discharge letter
You are the one that don't even know what you are saying here. I know of someone who went for his service in his early 40s and he graduated since 2006. During my service year in camp, there are some persons in their mid or late 40s that we were in camp together.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by gforce5: 9:35am On Jan 17, 2025
That is a lie. I was 31 when I served. I was told that because I graduated before the age of 30, i couldn't get an exemption. The same with many of us who were above 30 at the time. That exemption only works if you graduated from uni from 30 and above.

Jonathan:
It's not true
Don't say nonsense you know nothing about.
No one above 30 can serve by law. Unless the person criminally change their age.
If you're above 30, you will be excluded or exempted and be given exemption or exclusion letter, instead of discharge letter
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Afrowits: 9:36am On Jan 17, 2025
abba190b:
I am 30. I am thinking about doing thesame thing to excape this hunger nd starvation



I am hopeless and jobless
After spending 5years studying something that is useless

Here I am living pennyless and helpless
Please don't, just keep on striving. It will get better some day. I know the country is hard for now, but please just keep pushing.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by abba190b: 9:39am On Jan 17, 2025
Afrowits:
Please don't, just keep on striving. It will get better some day. I know the country is hard for now, but please just keep pushing.
Its,hard to wake up everyday hopeless and with nothing to eat
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by spencekat(m): 9:43am On Jan 17, 2025
Careente7:
I thought the age limit for corp serving was 30?
This life is just full with hurdles and troubles and pain. So help us God.




No comment; next question.
May be he reduced his age to serve, now, his real age cropped up.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by spencekat(m): 9:43am On Jan 17, 2025
Afrowits:
You are the one that don't even know what you are saying here. I know of someone who went for his service in his early 40s and he graduated since 2006. During my service year in camp, there are some persons in their mid or late 40s that we were in camp together.
Age falsification.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by spencekat(m): 9:45am On Jan 17, 2025
adeoyekay:
Nysc only work on the date of graduation,if you are not up to 30 before you graduate, you can go for service at any age even if you are 47
Ok
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Judolisco(m): 9:46am On Jan 17, 2025
Jonathan:
It's not true
Don't say nonsense you know nothing about.
No one above 30 can serve by law. Unless the person criminally change their age.
If you're above 30, you will be excluded or exempted and be given exemption or exclusion letter, instead of discharge letter
oga uno dey listen... If you graduate under 30 yrs of age you will be compelled to serve even if you're 50 yrs
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Afrowits: 9:47am On Jan 17, 2025
spencekat:
Age falsification.
It is not age falsification, funny enough, he use his real age of 40 plus in his NYSC application, it is the year you graduated from school and the age you were then that is what NYSC will looks at.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by MrOwonikoko: 9:50am On Jan 17, 2025
BadNews:
Why Will 34 Years Old Man, Kpai Himself 😢
You no read wetin the op post ni? U just wan comment first and fast. Abi u no sabi read ni? angry
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Afrowits: 9:50am On Jan 17, 2025
Judolisco:
oga uno dey listen... If you graduate under 30 yrs of age you will be compelled to serve even if you're 50 yrs
Seriously, I don't know where most of them are getting this false information from that if you graduate before 30, you can't go and serve even if you are in your 50s. Is like most of them here have not even gone for service sef that's why they are ignorant and given false information.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Mrexcell(m): 9:55am On Jan 17, 2025
Too many deaths in nigeria every day even in war torn countries people don't die in these high numbers.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by FireUpNow(m):
Babamide:
How does a 34 year old just complete NYSC?
Is it not supposed to be exemption?
I wanted to ask the same question. 34 yes old is supposed to be exempted from NYSC. Rip to him. Times are hard but suicide isn't the way out. Some mother's can drive their children crazy with complains and too much talks
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by Tradepunter2: 10:02am On Jan 17, 2025
Careente7:
I thought the age limit for corp serving was 30?
This life is just full with hurdles and troubles and pain. So help us God.




No comment; next question.
There are exemptions
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by YOUNGHAJJI(m): 10:07am On Jan 17, 2025
[quote author=abba190b post=133753383]I [am 30. I am thinking about doing thesame thing to excape this hunger nd starvation



I am hopeless and jobless
After spending 5years studying something that is useless

Here I am living pennyless and helpless


[Please brother don't do that..... Better days ahead.... This period wil soon become history in ur life.... And u might b closer to ur success in which u don't know..,....

After hardship enjoyment will follow.... Just strive and go out and be doing something no matter how small it is..........]
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by naturefellow(m): 10:09am On Jan 17, 2025
BadNews:
Why Will 34 Years Old Man, Kpai Himself 😢
mental health challenge.

Read, will you. And stop asking dumb questions.
Re: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by SeriouslySense(m): 10:19am On Jan 17, 2025
sad and touching, what a lovely family, they supported him and were there for him.

Although they tried their best, it was not enough sadly.

“But as a family, we kept encouraging him to be strong. We told him that despite his health issues, he should stay with us because we are not complaining about his challenges. We also told him that even though he does not take care of us, seeing him alive gives us joy.”
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