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How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? - Romance (4) - Nairaland

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Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by NovusHomo(m): 2:27pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.
You don't know what it means to[i] "double-date"[/i].
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by NovusHomo(m): 2:28pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.
Do you know what it means to "double-date"?
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Afolue(m): 2:36pm On Jan 16, 2025
purples25:
They are not good for each other. No honor amongst thieves.
left for me, she is good, but the guy is not. Women fall in love with words guys tell them and also judging from his appearance, every lady will fall for a guy that is at least independent financially to an extent. She was enticed which his normal. But yet still was sincere to him of her presence relationship status. How many lady will want to do that. If he was sensible isn’t that enough for him to have backed off and respect himself. There are many ladies out there

The guy is the thief. Putting himself in another guy’s shoes, how will he feel if his girlfriend friend is being taken away from him.

He is taking away the guy’s girlfriend outright. If for example that her original guy was a cultist, them go dey see am as a violent fellow. Who does that. !

Let us take it as reverse the case, no be women dey disgrace themselves for public for this kind thing as well.

Whoever says I can not fight for a man or I can not fight for a woman, hasn’t met with some situations. This is Nonesense!

This can lead to a big problem
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by TRAPLORD13: 2:42pm On Jan 16, 2025
I just fucck this bitches for free not minding who else she diccking.
I will only marry a woman that proposes to me.
Now that's special.
Any other chick,just fucck and pass on to the next.
Bitches ain't worth commitment
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Ubdavis(m): 2:48pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.
And u feel very sure that she will be faithful to u when u marry her?
So help u God
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by KORLAR(m): 2:55pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
Bro calm! She is just 20 and still In school I just want to wait for her to finish and plus I want to marry at 35 marriage no be rush.
32 year old man but na 20 years old girl you dey pursue, still dey drag am with 22 year old boy.
You no see girl wey near your age?
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by vikgreen01(m): 3:08pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
Bro calm! She is just 20 and still In school I just want to wait for her to finish and plus I want to marry at 35 marriage no be rush.
You're telling someone that outrightly told u she's in a serious relationship to stop going to the said guy house sometimes, that's what another that will have her soon will tell her to do to you....
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by IbrahimSola: 3:09pm On Jan 16, 2025
Don't be a mumu man. She's playing you both. There might be a bigger boy aside from you both. If she can do it to your knowledge, then one day she will do it with her knowledge because for now, it's more fun dating you since she's not hiding it from you.

For now, you're excitingly attractive to her because she's running a distant party with you.

She will always seek this level of excitement in the future when she's married to you. You better chop and uninstall. If you dare install her as your wife, you will come back to another advice.
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by purples25(f): 3:10pm On Jan 16, 2025
Afolue:
left for me, she is good, but the guy is not. Women fall in love with words guys tell them and also judging from his appearance, every lady will fall for a guy that is at least independent financially to an extent. She was enticed which his normal. But yet still was sincere to him of her presence relationship status. How many lady will want to do that. If he was sensible isn’t that enough for him to have backed off and respect himself. There are many ladies out there

The guy is the thief. Putting himself in another guy’s shoes, how will he feel if his girlfriend friend is being taken away from him.

He is taking away the guy’s girlfriend outright. If for example that her original guy was a cultist, them go dey see am as a violent fellow. Who does that. !

Let us take it as reverse the case, no be women dey disgrace themselves for public for this kind thing as well.

Whoever says I can not fight for a man or I can not fight for a woman, hasn’t met with some situations. This is Nonesense!

This can lead to a big problem
You said it, but my analysis is based on influences from this platform. Today you agree the girl is innocent, the next few months I only encounter male monikers who keep emphasizing on the ladies part but blatantly ignore the guys deliberate attempt to seduce and confuse the girl. So, to avoid annoyance and strain, I include the girl. Apart from few like you, most men don't wish to acknowledge purposeful deceit and coercion of ladies. They pick up the argument that the girl saw exactly what it was and entered it, which no sane and totally mature woman will do.
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by yemmit90: 3:59pm On Jan 16, 2025
Modernity is the reason for rate of divorce in Nigeria and Africa at large. It is High time we go back to old way that the parents/relatives would be the ones to find spouse for their children (especially the first one).

Alot of men don't have the wisdom to marry a good woman, imagine a full grown man coming to social media and proudly saying he wanted to wife a known cheater/unfaithful woman.
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Brilliancepower: 4:29pm On Jan 16, 2025
she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us

This sentence alone shows that you are irresponsible and so is she, and you still have the effontery to bring it on Nairaland because you assume everyone here is an irresponsible human being.🙄🙄🙄
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Bishopwizzy(m): 4:31pm On Jan 16, 2025
from your post and response to comments its obvious youre only catching cruise..., a real man will never wish to settle with a cheat for its obvious she will cheat on you in marriage with the other guy. you'll end up being the one who will be made a laughing stock
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Afolue(m): 4:40pm On Jan 16, 2025
purples25:
You said it, but my analysis is based on influences from this platform. Today you agree the girl is innocent, the next few months I only encounter male monikers who keep emphasizing on the ladies part but blatantly ignore the guys deliberate attempt to seduce and confuse the girl. So, to avoid annoyance and strain, I include the girl. Apart from few like you, most men don't wish to acknowledge purposeful deceit and coercion of ladies. They pick up the argument that the girl saw exactly what it was and entered it, which no sane and totally mature woman will do.
yes. I agree. Good you used the word “matured”. In which obviously I wouldn’t include this lady because according to him she was about 22yo and a “student” on that grounds of “sane” you also mentioned. So this comes up to be the guy’s fault all the same. He simply went for such young age that could be prone to such deceits! He was much lucky her guy wasn’t a cultist..! Too many irresponsible men everywhere who think they can eat their cake and have it with every skirts out there
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by severee(m): 4:56pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
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grin maybe na when person pour you hot water yout eye go clear
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Mrexcell(m): 5:32pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
Bro calm! She is just 20 and still In school I just want to wait for her to finish and plus I want to marry at 35 marriage no be rush.
Still no guarantees she might meet a guy better than u within those 3yrs.
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by malvisguy212: 6:33pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.
don't be too full of yourself, she actually love the guy more than you. If she did not love him, she would have boldly break up with him. She like you because you can take care of her need .
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jan 16, 2025
Lmao😂 what did I just read
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Inobeyourmate: 7:46pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ha! One mumu is about to go down, imagine, make 32 year old man mumu reach this level, what a pity, your mama don waste toto ou 😪😪😪
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Inobeyourmate: 8:16pm On Jan 16, 2025
Snow2six:
As u toast she gre,wetin com b u wan hold her as ur own? Na una de train pikin wey no b una own.For ur mind now u b sharp guy?dem de toast Alan shearer?
leave the were Arindin, no follow am argue, him mumu nah original 😂😂😂
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Inobeyourmate: 8:17pm On Jan 16, 2025
Fiscus105:
And you too? Haven't you sounded stupid?

Meanwhile, you deliberately not mention how you have been bombarded her with cash and gifts, that made her staying longer in ur house than original boyfriend.

Dnt you being foolish for spending higher money for hole that two of you sharing? Your own is even worse, while original boyfriend not aware, you, that have detailed knowledge of her waywardness still begging and spending more, just to give you ordinary attention.
perosn wey d mama don waste toto born, no follow d were talk, he go cry blood soon 😂😂😂😂
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Inobeyourmate: 8:20pm On Jan 16, 2025
BabaCommander:
32 and still reasoning like a teen?
That geh is wiser than you.
You said you have a better future for her? She would be laughing behind your back.
Leave the were, person wey b mumu, I sha hope say the mama get another son, course if nah only this one d mama born, she don waste toto, imagine, at 32 😂😂😂
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Inobeyourmate: 8:21pm On Jan 16, 2025
Maysdevices:
Take your share and move on or get ready to raise children that are not yours

Don’t be an unfortunate son to your father and mother

Are you sure you’re up to 32? You don’t even sound like a man with two balls, one must have been cut off at birth

I’ve never read anything more brainless

Don’t piss me off this morning
Ajeh, he need better 2by4 decking
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by VaginaAcademic: 8:28pm On Jan 16, 2025
Collect your share of whatever she offers good and bad if you can't cope move on you don't have control over who she gives her toros to.
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Samajogs: 9:36pm On Jan 16, 2025
MyVILLAGEpeople:
Lol women are not hard to understand. Especially these southern Nigerian girls. One main thing with most of them. They lie a lot and see their pussyy as a means of survival. Lol
You dey learn work
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Teejaney88(m): 11:10pm On Jan 16, 2025
You don't.
You move on...
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by MrDoGood(m): 11:21pm On Jan 16, 2025
Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 months now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us, as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend, meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.

I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22, I told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together, she has been crying over it since yesterday.

Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me, this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home, one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.
Op your head dey shake. You sure say you be 32 yes so?


I don't have anything for you because you're not thinking straight
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Abee79(m): 10:02am On Jan 17, 2025
That girl belongs to the streets. Don't waste your time or emotions. Speaking from experience . . .
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Fearurcreeator: 11:14am On Jan 17, 2025
Bookhub:
I ready for anything and I got nothing to loose no be today dem born me
Small boy ... Dey deceive yourself... She go mess you up you go cry
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Fearurcreeator: 11:16am On Jan 17, 2025
advanceDNA:
nigga is weirdly naive at 32.....
Mumu at 32
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by tnerro1(m): 11:17am On Jan 17, 2025
Find Another boo too
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by jattopeter(m): 11:20am On Jan 17, 2025
Dont mind the naive guy. Very Dump in reasoning. He will be a victim tomorrow. Who commits to such fellow.
Namaster:
Even bedecked in JEWELS and doused in PERFUME, a pig is STILL a pig!

An UNFAITHFUL woman has NO redeeming quality.

ANY woman who can WILLFULLY deceive a person she claims to LOVE is NOT a good person.

It takes an UNFATHOMABLE level of undiluted WICKEDNESS to say to one man "You are the LOML" and then hop on a cab to go suck another man's dicck.

Today, she's lying to her school BF about you.
Tomorrow, she'll lie to YOU about her office BF.

Cheaters NEVER change!

Today, you are the BENEFICIARY of her infidelity.
Tomorrow, you'll be the VICTIM of her infidelity.

Bleep her, if you must.
But NEVER commit to her.
Re: How Do You Cope With A Double Dating Girlfriend? by Ki11YurSev: 12:42pm On Jan 17, 2025
Ashewo dey work you and her bf

Enjoy bros
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