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GboyegaD:
Amlodipin without prescription? Isn't that the height of drug abuse?

AngelSlay:
The current is a TV, 2 ceiling fan and 10 energy saving bulbs.

LoneSoldier:
There is no where it is written that marriage is compulsory, if you want to die early then marry and face the music that follows.....


Bachelor i stand till thy kingdom come!

Jennyclay:
Why would he have 4 kids when he knows he’s broke and poor

Gone are those when people born as many as possible.

Take care of your wife and have just 1 or 2 kids that you can cater for without stress. Simple!!

OlawaleBammie:
Mumu...see this Chile man ooh...marry first before u blow speaker..and if satan wan punish you make u no do that vasectomy after two kids ursef

BTW, where do they do dna for less than 200k?? I want to do for a child. Now bn serious

peropoliet:
you didn't marry right

Bobodee09:
Is so bad that has a married man you can't even buy yourself new wears.

Throughout last year I couldn't get myself a new set of jeans trouser even tho I needed it badly despite having the money.
All the money I made last year 90% when into paying bills and household expenses.
It so crazy how you has a man you will have over 200k in your acc and you be scared to even buy yourself something of 10k cos of fear of the unknown.
In all of this my wife and kids still has many clothes they haven't worn I paid for you.

Last weekend my wife bought herself over 10 new shirt and when I saw it I reminded her how I couldn't even buy myself new jean....she told me nah me no wan buy nah.
It really hurt me cos whatever money I make the family expenses come first before my own personal needs but it isn't same for women.

I just feel marriage is design for men to suffer honestly.
People just taking from you and no one really care about what you need.

alakara:
Which language should a child of 10 - 13 years learn and what app is applicable here.

Whois:
Boss how many years minimum do you recommend?

Jennyclay:
Why would he have 4 kids when he knows he’s broke and poor

Gone are those when people born as many as possible.

Take care of your wife and have just 1 or 2 kids that you can cater for without stress. Simple!!

Acidosis:
Since it involves his health, I believe if he hears it from more people in his cycle, it might sink in more. What do you think? But honestly, you’re handling the matter well. Many don't see this as a problem so long as there is a steady cash flow. A lot of us have the mindset that we’re not working hard enough unless we’re physically and mentally drained.

Gerrard59:
You people always say this marry first as if we aren't part of families and see how other families fared. In fact, in most typical Nigerian families, the first child, whether male or female, is already a defacto parent. So, which one be"marry first"? Raising children is expensive, and I noted this almost ten years ago. Almost five years ago, I penned how certain acts cause poverty for most Nigerians: https://www.nairaland.com/6035550/nigerians-poverty-certain-acts-perpetuate

Life is hard already, don't make it harder. Some of us have seen how things went for many families and have vowed to be different. So yes to vasectomy and DNA. Life has to be intentional. One has to control things he can. Having children is within a man's control. Let's learn to take responsibility for our actions.

Gerrard59:
It was worse in 2015/6 when Buhari came to power. Nigerians were moving to Benin Republic to hustle as the country's economy worsened. That period marked the first social media japa frenzy. People left Nigeria to work elsewhere because Buhari rubbished the economy. They were alive then, so no excuses.

Idaytesj29:
Make the wife too take care of the man abeg. Take care of wife , take care of wife, who go take care of husband ? As you dey say take care of wife, add that the wife take care of her husband too.

OlawaleBammie:
when u born two pikin, go and cut off ur dick to satisfy ur woman.. nobody is holding you sir..

Me by myself a be firstborn

ibechris:
At age 40,80% of men should have been with less pressure economically.

Which when translated to what i just said here earlier,starting early is very much important such that 30 or 20 million saved over time would have help reduced or alleviate all the economic pressures
confronting almost every households today.

U might say it is very difficult to achieve this,then the question is,how much does one need to retire if that amount is too much for a 40 year old fellow.

Yes,I know everyone can't be lucky but many guys engage in frivolities when they are much more younger,hence the crisis confronting them at this present age and time in thier marriages

Free2Fly:
Stop saying rubbish you're not sure of, please!
Do you live in Nigeria?? Were you there during that period, and experienced life there? Nigerians were relatively comfortable till 2019/end of Buhari's 1st erm. When i left Nigeria in late 2019, the exchange rate was 360, and no one was dying or screaming of hunger.
My salary of 500k then could feed a family of 10 comfortably, unlike now when it can't feed 2 people.
If you're not sure of something, just keep quiet and stop supporting a useless Tinubu's government indirectly.

Gerrard59:
Actually, it is to satisfy myself so I enjoy as many women as I want without the possibility of impregnating any. The preek remains functional as it was pre-vasectomy, just that the man won't be able to fertilise an egg. For us Nigerian men who like to play away games, it is important aside from the risks of STDs.

1Sharon:
Who cooks for him and serves him, who washes his clothes and cleans the house? Who nurses him when he's sick? Abeg!

Thomthom:
Are you saying parents should dispose of the remaining two, If they are four kids. You people should not be talking like this, unless the family is extremely poor I may suggest one or two kids. But if the parents are trying, four kids are good. I have seen a family that it's the last born that took the responsibility of his Age parents out of 5 kids. I have seen parent mourn the only son they have at old age. To cut story short, if extremely poor, no even bring children come life make them go suffer. But if they are trying, at least 4 kids no too much. Quote me anywhere

AngelSlay:
Going all alone, MEN Sha!!!

AngelSlay:
Going all alone, MEN Sha!!!

onyxo76:
bro ,the thing real o....no jokes at all. Na one of those things we experience here o. Na to dey preserve remain ,make God dey bless our hustle

Free2Fly:
You initially said in their 20s, now you're changing it to 40.

occfx:
Is it inverter only or with Solar?

Bobodee09:
Is so bad that has a married man you can't even buy yourself new wears.

Throughout last year I couldn't get myself a new set of jeans trouser even tho I needed it badly despite having the money.
All the money I made last year 90% when into paying bills and household expenses.
It so crazy how you has a man you will have over 200k in your acc and you be scared to even buy yourself something of 10k cos of fear of the unknown.
In all of this my wife and kids still has many clothes they haven't worn I paid for you.

Last weekend my wife bought herself over 10 new shirt and when I saw it I reminded her how I couldn't even buy myself new jean....she told me nah me no wan buy nah.
It really hurt me cos whatever money I make the family expenses come first before my own personal needs but it isn't same for women.

I just feel marriage is design for men to suffer honestly.
People just taking from you and no one really care about what you need.

Idaytesj29:
Caring for the hubby goes beyond all that alone, and we have been thought by you ladies that those things are no longer specific gender roles. We make money, you do too. Don't leave all the bills to your man all in the name of he is the man, while it's both of you who work and earn. Take it like he crashes under the burden and pressure. You go pay the bill tire o. And I know there is nothing else women hates more than paying endless bills, it only comes second to being accountable. So, it's more sensible to support than end up being the "strong woman or hard working woman".

spartachico:
Last year I had the chance to go to Abuja to work with some company and luckily I met this single lady and this was after I spent over 500k in June to change my wife phone and gave her money for household items and money for the kids and her personal needs... Omo within myself I believe say I get cloth not until the Abuja lady enter my life, she first spent her money to baff me up and me looking at the mirror I'm like God dam... Oh boy I ended renting an apartment for her oo after 3/4 months I came back to Lagos ... I pack all the clothes in my wardrobe and threw them in the trash .. if I dress up that am going out, my wife is always in awww and look at me one kind, mind you every week within that 3/4 months away from home, I always send 50 to 100k for my family as upkeep at the end of the week Dem go say money don finish, this Abuja girl was always in shock that what are they buying... Anyway to cut long story short, naso this Abuja babe changed my dressing code oo infact I don dey use ear studs on weekends outing.. making me feel young agan... And Abuja girl is still behaving normal and still takes good care of me, if Lagos tire me na to travel to Abuja for work even when there's no work ... Man must take good care of themselves and worse case scenario is when drink and flex with friends is when we think say we are doing well in taking care of ourselves or enjoying life ... Theres more to do for our longevity of life.

spartachico:
Last year I had the chance to go to Abuja to work with some company and luckily I met this single lady and this was after I spent over 500k in June to change my wife phone and gave her money for household items and money for the kids and her personal needs... Omo within myself I believe say I get cloth not until the Abuja lady enter my life, she first spent her money to baff me up and me looking at the mirror I'm like God dam... Oh boy I ended renting an apartment for her oo after 3/4 months I came back to Lagos ... I pack all the clothes in my wardrobe and threw them in the trash .. if I dress up that am going out, my wife is always in awww and look at me one kind, mind you every week within that 3/4 months away from home, I always send 50 to 100k for my family as upkeep at the end of the week Dem go say money don finish, this Abuja girl was always in shock that what are they buying... Anyway to cut long story short, naso this Abuja babe changed my dressing code oo infact I don dey use ear studs on weekends outing.. making me feel young agan... And Abuja girl is still behaving normal and still takes good care of me, if Lagos tire me na to travel to Abuja for work even when there's no work ... Man must take good care of themselves and worse case scenario is when drink and flex with friends is when we think say we are doing well in taking care of ourselves or enjoying life ... Theres more to do for our longevity of life.

AngelSlay:
Give quote for both.

ibechris:
U might end up marrying her finally congratulations in advance.