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LADIES AVOID PEER PRESSURE WITH MARRIAGES

The past 2 years we have recorded a lot of youth divorces and a lot of youth engagement plus youth marriages and I have also noticed how these engagements and marriages have created some kinda of peer pressure in young women.

I know women love marriages and they love to be married plus no woman want to be 25 years and above without a man or without married, marriage is a big thing for women and I understand that but don’t let peer pressure make you ready before your time.

Women that are 25-30 are under pressure and they are in speed trying to be loved and this has created calamity and fear at the same time.

Ladies, RELAX marriage is a life time commitment and once you’re in it’s difficult to come out and it’s important that you take your time, don’t mind about your age or about who is getting married in your circle or family.

It’s okay to be 28 and not married, it’s okay to be 30 and not married, it’s okay to be 25 and not married what is not okay is finding yourself with a man who was not meant for you, if you find yourself with a wrong man life will frustrate you and marriage will not be sweet ohhhh.

Most of you women are rushing so hard and moving too fast just because the person you know got married and you feel like you’re behind and that your time will not come, no it will come baby girl relax and continue working on yourself to be a wife. Most of you rushing will come back running and never want to be married again and you are the same ones that becomes toxic and inflict fear in your friends.

Ladies, I urge you to remain calm, relax and invest your time in building yourself up. Build your careers, build businesses, build companies, build your finances and be there for your family, take time to learn more about marriage and family, learn more how it’s done, learn about marriage from women that have divorced and not wanting to be married again, learn more men that have divorced and never want to marry again, learn from men and women in successful marriages and this will help you to be equip as you wait for your man.

SEX fade away in marriage and everything else finishes and if you were not well equipped to take up that responsibility you will fail to stay and you will be back in the street again.

So don’t rush yourselves sisters
Age is just age.

Well written....it baffles me when pressure is put on women 25, 30, etc about marriage like that is old or something

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LADIES AVOID PEER PRESSURE WITH MARRIAGES

The past 2 years we have recorded a lot of youth divorces and a lot of youth engagement plus youth marriages and I have also noticed how these engagements and marriages have created some kinda of peer pressure in young women.

I know women love marriages and they love to be married plus no woman want to be 25 years and above without a man or without married, marriage is a big thing for women and I understand that but don’t let peer pressure make you ready before your time.

Women that are 25-30 are under pressure and they are in speed trying to be loved and this has created calamity and fear at the same time.

Ladies, RELAX marriage is a life time commitment and once you’re in it’s difficult to come out and it’s important that you take your time, don’t mind about your age or about who is getting married in your circle or family.

It’s okay to be 28 and not married, it’s okay to be 30 and not married, it’s okay to be 25 and not married what is not okay is finding yourself with a man who was not meant for you, if you find yourself with a wrong man life will frustrate you and marriage will not be sweet ohhhh.

Most of you women are rushing so hard and moving too fast just because the person you know got married and you feel like you’re behind and that your time will not come, no it will come baby girl relax and continue working on yourself to be a wife. Most of you rushing will come back running and never want to be married again and you are the same ones that becomes toxic and inflict fear in your friends.

Ladies, I urge you to remain calm, relax and invest your time in building yourself up. Build your careers, build businesses, build companies, build your finances and be there for your family, take time to learn more about marriage and family, learn more how it’s done, learn about marriage from women that have divorced and not wanting to be married again, learn more men that have divorced and never want to marry again, learn from men and women in successful marriages and this will help you to be equip as you wait for your man.

SEX fade away in marriage and everything else finishes and if you were not well equipped to take up that responsibility you will fail to stay and you will be back in the street again.

So don’t rush yourselves sisters
Age is just age.

They should just make sure they freeze their eggs before age 35 if they DON'T take this advice i.e. if they don't work on themselves while waiting.

Can't cheat nature unfortunately as women have limited number of eggs and conception becomes more difficult as they age and lose eggs.

God can do miracles though but in their young age they must work HARD on their character.

When your character is good, even if you stay in your house people will recommend you to good suitors abroad etc

https://smallbiztechnology.com/archive/2025/01/10-circumstances-in-life-where-a-persons-true-colors-always-come-out-according-to-psychology.html/

Wishing all women the best 🥂