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Verytallman:
My wife knows she dare not ask us to go buy groceries together. It's either i go buy it myself or she goes herself. We used to go together when we first got married but not anymore. Women don't respect time and schedules at all. If I plan to spend 3 hours for shopping?, with her, I am sure it's going to be 6 hours.

I feel attacked 😞

Ishilove:
SHIKENA

A no get cash na. You Want me to give my card pin number?

femi4:
Get used to it, they are wired that way. It's the "buy buy" hormones working

Shey you get

Nnamdipapa:
A no get cash na. You Want me to give my card pin number?

When there is no money, we can still window shop na. Feast out dainty eyes

in the abroad you have hardware stores and men in the abroad do most home repairs by themselves
you have different computer hardware stores as well and men also frequent these

it just happens that Nigeria is a different environment

Order bolt or Indrive go the supermarket

Ishilove:
I feel attacked 😞

So you do it also? Here was I thinking you're different oh. Lmao.

joseph1832:
So you do it also? Here was I thinking you're different oh. Lmao.

We are wired that way so how can I be different?

Ishilove:
Shey you get

I ve stopped complaining long time ago

How will they stop ..when you know that its in their blood

Ishilove:
You cannot understand. You cannot understand at all...

You cannot understand the richness of the colours of the commodities. When you feast your eyes on the wares, something calls to you and as a woman, you must respond. E dey our DNA. You cannot resist that call. YOU MUST ANSWER.

I fit stay for supermarket 3 hours, window shopping and touching things. Don't let me start on perfumes. When I am in that section, I must sniff ALL the perfumes on the shelves before my body go come down. The ones I can't sniff because they are sealed will have their ingredients and properties thoroughly scrutinised, and the day e enter my head, I stand there and google them online.

See, make I no write too much long story. Men will never understand jare

Oh you totally get it!

I personally don't even like shopping. I don't fancy it, it doesn't freak me. I dislike going to public places. The thing is some ladies see shopping as fun but to me it's not.

Ishilove:
We are wired that way so how can I be different?

Oh em Gee. Lol

Dpharisee:
There's a saying that men go to the market with a budget of N20k and end up paying N20k for items worth N15k that they need, but women go to the market with a budget of N20k and end up paying N20k for items valued at N50 that they don't need

The last time this was true is 2010 😕

Ishilove:
We are wired that way so how can I be different?

Ishi, if I say what is on my mind now, all the ladies on NL will come for my head with a noose and a pitchfork.

Ok, I will say it.

Not all women are wired like that. My mum, Mama Anyi, was different, she even helped my dad managd his budget.

Now, I need to wear my helmet in anticipation of barrage of attacks.

BluntCrazeMan:
I don't know between you and Governor Soludo who STINGY Pass..

I think you should direct your comment to the OP.
If it wasn't a big issue for him, he won't create a thread about it to complain about ladies
when the real culprit is his wife.

And what is the point of suffering in silence when there is a simple solution?

I don't make list for the girls I'm with.
They cater for themselves and still give me the best. I don't call them my girlfriends but they give me benefits of girlfriends

We will go shopping together, I'll buy my things and after picking a juice for them, we move.
Every guy needs to learn how to lead and handle a woman, else...