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I'm Not generalizing this assertion. Of course, it is a hypothesis. It may be True, it May Not. But it's my personal observation.

I observed closely and noticed that women(mothers, wives and girlfriends) aren't really comfortable seeing their sons, husbands and boyfriends being generous. I know of many husbands who cannot help out financially when their wives are around, while some husbands would seek permission and approval from their wives before they can help. There are some men that you can't call on the phone to ask for help at the time they are together with their wives because they might not pick since they already know the reason for the call, and even if they pick, they wouldn't say anything sensible or in that direction.
For mothers, they would prefer you help your siblings instead of an outsider. There was a time I wanted to give out my clothes to someone, but my mum refused when she found out. She said I should give them to my younger brother. She suggests who I can help. Maybe it's maternal instincts, I don't know.
For girlfriends, it's either you're helping them or their families. You don't dare tell some of them that you want to help a friend who is in need cos they will discourage you. They would rather think of milking you off that money. I know women feel they own their men just as mothers feel they own their sons no matter how old they are. They like to domineer...
Personally, I am a man of myself. My mum can't stop me from helping whoever I want to help, even my prospective wife won't dare.

Quarterpast:
I'm Not generalizing this assertion. Of course, it is a hypothesis. It may be True, it May Not. But it's my personal observation.

I observed closely and noticed that women(mothers, wives and girlfriends) aren't really comfortable seeing their sons, husbands and boyfriends being generous. I know of many husbands who cannot help out financially when their wives are around, while some husbands would seek permission and approval from their wives before they can help. There are some men that you can't call on the phone to ask for help at the time they are together with their wives because they might not pick since they already know the reason for the call, and even if they pick, they wouldn't say anything sensible or in that direction.
For mothers, they would prefer you help your siblings instead of an outsider. There was a time I wanted to give out my clothes to someone, but my mum refused when she found out. She said I should give them to my younger brother. She suggests who I can help. Maybe it's maternal instincts, I don't know.
For girlfriends, it's either you're helping them or their families. You don't dare tell some of them that you want to help a friend who is in need cos they will discourage you. They would rather think of milking you off that money. I know women feel they own their men just as mothers feel they own their sons no matter how old they are. They like to domineer...
Personally, I am a man of myself. My mum can't stop me from helping whoever I want to help, even my prospective wife won't dare.

lol . its totally dependent on the woman don't generalize.

Because women are the ones in charge of the house while men are the providers... An unhappy woman can make the house very unpleasant to live in.

One of my brothers in law refers to my sister as the CEO of the house...😂😂😂... If you call him requesting for something in the house, he'd tell you to go to the CEO.

Samantha125:
Because women are the ones in charge of the house while men are the providers... An unhappy woman can make the house very unpleasant to live in.

One of my brothers in law refers to my sister as the CEO of the house...😂😂😂... If you call him requesting for something in the house, he'd tell you to go to the CEO.

That's wrong. Why would he direct you to go to his wife first?
That's the mistake men make

Who's in charge and takes care of the house?

If I come to you to borrow a needle or any kitchen utensils, would you be able to easily locate them without asking the lady of the house?

Quarterpast:
That's wrong. Why would he direct you to go to his wife first?
That's the mistake men make

Samantha125:
Who's in charge and takes care of the house?

If I come to you to borrow a needle or any kitchen utensils, would you be able to easily locate them without asking the lady of the house?

Madam, we are talking about money and not kitchen matters here. So you asked your own blood brother for financial help, and he asks u to go through his wife first? So if the wife says no, it means your brother won't help? Una dey try o.
You are saying this because it is your brother in-law. Wait until it's your brother first

Quarterpast:
I'm Not generalizing this assertion. Of course, it is a hypothesis. It may be True, it May Not. But it's my personal observation.

I observed closely and noticed that women(mothers, wives and girlfriends) aren't really comfortable seeing their sons, husbands and boyfriends being generous. I know of many husbands who cannot help out financially when their wives are around, while some husbands would seek permission and approval from their wives before they can help. There are some men that you can't call on the phone to ask for help at the time they are together with their wives because they might not pick since they already know the reason for the call, and even if they pick, they wouldn't say anything sensible or in that direction.
For mothers, they would prefer you help your siblings instead of an outsider. There was a time I wanted to give out my clothes to someone, but my mum refused when she found out. She said I should give them to my younger brother. She suggests who I can help. Maybe it's maternal instincts, I don't know.
For girlfriends, it's either you're helping them or their families. You don't dare tell some of them that you want to help a friend who is in need cos they will discourage you. They would rather think of milking you off that money. I know women feel they own their men just as mothers feel they own their sons no matter how old they are. They like to domineer...
Personally, I am a man of myself. My mum can't stop me from helping whoever I want to help, even my prospective wife won't dare.

personally if I wan help u I no go tell anyone, I go just help u on a low.

Sharpsharp00123:
personally if I wan help u I no go tell anyone, I go just help u on a low.

Naso e suppose be bro . I sent you a PM

Quarterpast:
Madam, we are talking about money and not kitchen matters here. So you asked your own blood brother for financial help, and he asks u to go through his wife first? So if the wife says no, it means your brother won't help? Una dey try o.
You are saying this because it is your brother in-law. Wait until it's your brother first

see naturally all women are greedy n selfish

I am a married man n I can tell u, women know the right thing but they will never do it unless it involve them

They support all wrongs once it doesn't have to do with them but once it involves them directly then u will know they have senseore than u can imagine

My wife did one little shit n I didn't pay much attention but when her younger bro wife did the same thing she explode, I was d one that called her attention to it.

That girl typing knows it's wrong if a man can't decide on his own but she doesn't care cos it's not affecting her directly, it's d day she will need anything from that man that u will see her think straight n tell the man it's wrong

That's women for u

Men just need sense n diplomacy to deal with them

Sharpsharp00123:
see naturally all women are greedy n selfish

I am a married man n I can tell u, women know the right thing but they will never do it unless it involve them

They support all wrongs once it doesn't have to do with them but once it involves them directly then u will know they have senseore than u can imagine

My wife did one little shit n I didn't pay much attention but when her younger bro wife did the same thing she explode, I was d one that called her attention to it.

That girl typing knows it's wrong if a man can't decide on his own but she doesn't care cos it's not affecting her directly, it's d day she will need anything from that man that u will see her think straight n tell the man it's wrong

That's women for u

Men just need sense n diplomacy to deal with them

You're so intelligent senior man. The way you write, how u analyze situations is really topnotch. I don't regret following you. Pls check PM

Sharpsharp00123:
see naturally all women are greedy n selfish

I am a married man n I can tell u, women know the right thing but they will never do it unless it involve them

They support all wrongs once it doesn't have to do with them but once it involves them directly then u will know they have senseore than u can imagine

My wife did one little shit n I didn't pay much attention but when her younger bro wife did the same thing she explode, I was d one that called her attention to it.

That girl typing knows it's wrong if a man can't decide on his own but she doesn't care cos it's not affecting her directly, it's d day she will need anything from that man that u will see her think straight n tell the man it's wrong

That's women for u

Men just need sense n diplomacy to deal with them

Check PM

Quarterpast:
Check PM

bro u registered yesterday n u have done a lot online since, u are giving d vibe of etim idongesit nta

Why should you be asking your married brother for money in the first place when he has a wife and children to take care of?

Get a boyfriend or go to your parents and ask for that money.

Quarterpast:
Madam, we are talking about money and not kitchen matters here. So you asked your own blood brother for financial help, and he asks u to go through his wife first? So if the wife says no, it means your brother won't help? Una dey try o.
You are saying this because it is your brother in-law. Wait until it's your brother first

Sharpsharp00123:
bro u registered yesterday n u have done a lot online since, u are giving d vibe of etim idongesit nta

It's ok. Thank you

@op, how old are you? Because if you are adult with experience, you won't have any need to create a thread like this.

Women are naturally self centre, they love comforts, and often fight off anything that can take out of that comforts. It is all about protecting their empire and finance. You are their empire and ATM that other person should not have access to.

As a man, except her family members, you don't need to tell a women what you want to do for others.

Quarterpast:
I'm Not generalizing this assertion. Of course, it is a hypothesis. It may be True, it May Not. But it's my personal observation.

I observed closely and noticed that women(mothers, wives and girlfriends) aren't really comfortable seeing their sons, husbands and boyfriends being generous. I know of many husbands who cannot help out financially when their wives are around, while some husbands would seek permission and approval from their wives before they can help. There are some men that you can't call on the phone to ask for help at the time they are together with their wives because they might not pick since they already know the reason for the call, and even if they pick, they wouldn't say anything sensible or in that direction.
For mothers, they would prefer you help your siblings instead of an outsider. There was a time I wanted to give out my clothes to someone, but my mum refused when she found out. She said I should give them to my younger brother. She suggests who I can help. Maybe it's maternal instincts, I don't know.
For girlfriends, it's either you're helping them or their families. You don't dare tell some of them that you want to help a friend who is in need cos they will discourage you. They would rather think of milking you off that money. I know women feel they own their men just as mothers feel they own their sons no matter how old they are. They like to domineer...
Personally, I am a man of myself. My mum can't stop me from helping whoever I want to help, even my prospective wife won't dare.

Your observations are in perfect order.

verminnel:
lol . its totally dependent on the woman don't generalize.

Aunty, It is general! 98% of women are never happy when their husbands are righteous and good doing.

Samantha125:
Because women are the ones in charge of the house while men are the providers... An unhappy woman can make the house very unpleasant to live in.

One of my brothers in law refers to my sister as the CEO of the house...😂😂😂... If you call him requesting for something in the house, he'd tell you to go to the CEO.

I am sure you are talking about you and your husband.

Anyway, he's a simp and remain small I would say that he is not a man.

Quarterpast:
Madam, we are talking about money and not kitchen matters here. So you asked your own blood brother for financial help, and he asks u to go through his wife first? So if the wife says no, it means your brother won't help? Una dey try o.
You are saying this because it is your brother in-law. Wait until it's your brother first

Can you not see that she is talking about herself? Na audio sister be dat.

Sharpsharp00123:
personally if I wan help u I no go tell anyone, I go just help u on a low.

On the low?

Na so una dey fear una wife? Na so woman don hol una finish? No wonder...

Sharpsharp00123:
see naturally all women are greedy n selfish

I am a married man n I can tell u, women know the right thing but they will never do it unless it involve them

They support all wrongs once it doesn't have to do with them but once it involves them directly then u will know they have senseore than u can imagine

My wife did one little shit n I didn't pay much attention but when her younger bro wife did the same thing she explode, I was d one that called her attention to it.

That girl typing knows it's wrong if a man can't decide on his own but she doesn't care cos it's not affecting her directly, it's d day she will need anything from that man that u will see her think straight n tell the man it's wrong

That's women for u

Men just need sense n diplomacy to deal with them

The Bold
Is Gold!

In that sense and diplomacy add strong hand. And this is where Igbo men win though dem too still dey fall my hand well well. But Edo men try but dem also Kon be b******

Ok.

Dtruthspeaker:
I am sure you are talking about you and your husband.

Anyway, he's a simp and remain small I would say that he is not a man.

Samantha125:
Why should you be asking your married brother for money in the first place when he has a wife and children to take care of?

Get a boyfriend or go to your parents and ask for that money.

See reversal and blame shifting meanwhile even uncle married man also asks his brother for money.

Men, do you see why you should be careful not to marry especially a devil like this? She must destroy your family.

And after she has finished destroying you and your family, she will leave.

In all these men will still not hear.

Dtruthspeaker:
On the low?

Na so una dey fear una wife? Na so woman don hol una finish? No wonder...

are u married?

If yes u should know some issues are avoidable, na Wetin u know u fit fight me in top. Wisdom is profitable to direct, once u understand that u won't have problem.

I only tell people what they need to know not only my wife n it's not because I fear anyone but if we all can apply common sense life will b easier n everyone will have peace

Samantha125:
Why should you be asking your married brother for money in the first place when he has a wife and children to take care of?

Get a boyfriend or go to your parents and ask for that money.

I have told u many times that what obtains in south Africa doesn't obtain here, Nigeria has a communal system of living unlike in south Africa where u all want to live like the white man.

Nigerians prefer to help anyone in need than staying aloof n trying to let them solve d problem alone

There are many things u really don't understand about us but u will just want to put mouth

You're right... Let me clap hands for you...👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

Dtruthspeaker:
See reversal and blame shifting meanwhile even uncle married man also asks his brother for money.

Men, do you see why you should be careful not to marry especially a devil like this? She must destroy your family.

And after she has finished destroying you and your family, she will leave.

In all these men will still not hear.

You told me many times? How come I'm seeing your moniker for the first time?

Sharpsharp00123:
I have told u many times that what obtains in south Africa doesn't obtain here, Nigeria has a communal system of living unlike in south Africa where u all want to live like the white man.

Nigerians prefer to help anyone in need than staying aloof n trying to let them solve d problem alone

There are many things u really don't understand about us but u will just want to put mouth

Dtruthspeaker:
Your observations are in perfect order.

Thanks

yemmit90:
@op, how old are you? Because if you are adult with experience, you won't have any need to create a thread like this.

Women are naturally self centre, they love comforts, and often fight off anything that can take out of that comforts. It is all about protecting their empire and finance. You are their empire and ATM that other person should not have access to.

As a man, except her family members, you don't need to tell a women what you want to do for others.

The thread is perfect especially as it is a great reminder of how evil wives are and how many men are lost inside their wives nyash.

Sharpsharp00123:
I have told u many times that what obtains in south Africa doesn't obtain here, Nigeria has a communal system of living unlike in south Africa where u all want to live like the white man.

Nigerians prefer to help anyone in need than staying aloof n trying to let them solve d problem alone

There are many things u really don't understand about us but u will just want to put mouth

Don't mind the evil thing. All Africa including south African are communal but women have always destroyed and torn apart the man's family.

But when it comes to her family's benefit you would not hear any objection at all.

And if you like settle her family with the whole of Kaduna State, she will still protest when you want to pay for your cousin's child's little school fees.

yemmit90:
@op, how old are you? Because if you are adult with experience, you won't have any need to create a thread like this.

Women are naturally self centre, they love comforts, and often fight off anything that can take out of that comforts. It is all about protecting their empire and finance. You are their empire and ATM that other person should not have access to.

As a man, except her family members, you don't need to tell a women what you want to do for others.

Learn how to show respect. No be ur papa born me and u no dey pay my bills.

Sharpsharp00123:
are u married?

If yes u should know some issues are avoidable, na Wetin u know u fit fight me in top. Wisdom is profitable to direct, once u understand that u won't have problem.

I only tell people what they need to know not only my wife n it's not because I fear anyone but if we all can apply common sense life will b easier n everyone will have peace

I understand you and how you are operating.

But one day, you are going to have that unavoidable crossroad between what you know is right to do and what you know your wife expects you to do. And that is when you are going to have the terrible and horrible conflict that you have been trying to avoid with your wife

Or most likely, you are gonna take the easy way out and please your wife.

And that is when all your problems starts because on that day it is either you please your wife and annoy your family or you please your family and no peace for you in your own house.

And to me this is a big stupid rubbish that should never have occurred. Everyone here is the 2 of you's family so if you marry a woman who does not understand that, that woman was never worth marrying in the first place.

“Ohana means family. Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.” Lilo and stitch

But women are just too evil to understand and accept this.