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The Only Advice I Can Give Men In Relationships About Women

Try to be the commotion in the house and always eager to leave and start a new life because you've made money and have it in abundance digitally, physically, and in the bank.

Put her in a position where, every morning and evening, she's praying to God to change you into a better man.

If you become a better man without her struggling for it, fighting, praying, crying, begging, going to church to cry to God, etc., you'll realize you've made her way too comfortable and she'll punish you for it.

If you find yourself in this position, you've won the dating or marriage battle.

Women love to work for whatever they get, but our ego as men, foisted on us by white men, made us assume the provider seat.

In the olden days, an African man's job was to protect, hunt for meat and lead, while a woman's job was to provide food.

All your wives and children would farm and provide what you, the king of the house, would eat. When you arrive home, they would take the bushmeat or fish you brought, cook it well, and add it to the food (which they harvested from their farms).

They would serve you multiple meals that you can't even finish. You didn't give them money to buy garri, rice, yams, tomatoes, etc., they produced them all themselves.

Sadly, the white man came and changed it. They added, "Provide for her, worship her, if she slaps you, don't slap back else you're an abusive man, suck her p*ssy, etc." All these things is to make you a SIMP and make her a lazy housewife. It's manipulation because there is a business aspect to it for them.

The 21st-century African woman loves this ideology because it makes her feel free and empowered and nothing more. She doesn't know whatever the white man promotes has a hidden agenda to either enrich themselves or destroy the world.

Unfortunately, when you offer her this white man's ideology, she eventually gets bored at last after enjoying it for years in the relationship or marriage and starts to notice that the SIMPing doesn't match her innate, natural longing, the one nature gave her at birth.

Whatever she responds to now is programming, not her true female nature. In the end, she goes back hunting for men with the old-school African traits and ends up cheating on you with them despite the fact that you're richer.

Good things you didn't work for are boring because they seem way too easy.

Take Davido, for example. As a kid, he ate three square meals, and most times, he probably didn't even finish his chicken and fried rice. (A whole fried rice o! Damn!!!)

Now, another person, also named David, born on the same day as Davido but into a struggling home, would never dare waste fried rice, let alone chicken. What's the difference? One got it easily and the other David tasted it for the first time in 3 months.

This is exactly how women work. To keep a woman, she must not have everything she wants. If you don't want her to work because she has an 80% chances of cheating at her workplace with her boss or one of her fine or bad-boy colleagues, then own a big compound with large free land for farming and hand it over to her.

Let her know that 80% of the food consumed in the house must be cultivated on that land. That is her office for life.

If she proves stubborn and insists on being a career woman, then let that career be work-from-home type, else, let her go and just be her bestie and get a new woman who obeys your rules. Most besties always f*ck, so you didn't lose anything. Afterall you didn't even invest emotions in the first place.

She'll go back to the streets, thinking the grass is greener on the other side, jumping from one bed to another, searching for a new man. Maybe multiple d*cks adventures is what she's been craving and now she finally got it. She belongs to the streets. She can only lead a SIMP, not you.

Now, about you, the man, being the commotion in the house, you MUST do it to be able to have the upper hand. If she does it before you, she'll lose attraction for you because you failed to bring the drama that stimulates her feminine craving for tears, conflict, reconciliation, and then animalistic sex when the drama is over.


This is what she wants. And failure to provide it, no matter how rich, tall, muscular, funny, or handsome you are, will make you boring to her.

Where is the drama? You think humor is all she wants? Without drama, even your sense of humor will soon become irritating, annoying and unfunny to her.

In summary: Always be the one causing the trouble and always be the one more than ready to walk away and start a new life with a new woman.

This is why you should never fall in love, only fall "in-like" because if you do, you won't be able to pull it off since you'll be too emotionally attached.

Real men are never attached to women, properties or money — only their peace of mind, respect and food to eat matter.

And to maintain it, you must be the king of commotion with money, fully capable of being alone. When you die, which you surely will, you'll still end up being buried alone.

So, be a man who can survive alone, without love or favors from anyone, especially women.

When you attain this level, you've conquered women and life. This doesn't mean she won't cheat on you (a whóre is a whóre), but at least, you've conquered life and its emotional baggages.

If you refuse to cause the commotion, she'll start it first and make your life miserable.

Tuface and Ned Woko are prime examples of this post. If you can combine the characteristics of these two people, you've won.

If you refuse to the commotion, she'll start it first and make your life miserable.

End of story.

All rise.

Rugged you

Be chaotic like Darwin Nunez

I'm cool with other parts of your write-up except the part where you keep hammering on her 'd1ck adventures and doing things to prevent her from exploring this route"

I honestly will never do a thing to stop anyone from cheating. If the answer to any of our issues is infidelity on your part, then our union is automatically unsalvageable.

EmperorCaesar:
Be chaotic like Darwin Nunez

I'm cool with other parts of your write-up except the part where you keep hammering on her 'd1ck adventures and doing things to prevent her from exploring this route"

I honestly will never do a thing to stop anyone from cheating. If the answer to any of our issues is infidelity on your part, then our union is automatically unsalvageable.

In the words or prophet Ermias of blessed memories
“Get the money, never wife a hoe”

FitCorper:
Rugged you

Abobby, wedah you?

EmperorCaesar:
Be chaotic like Darwin Nunez

I'm cool with other parts of your write-up except the part where you keep hammering on her 'd1ck adventures and doing things to prevent her from exploring this route"

I honestly will never do a thing to stop anyone from cheating. If the answer to any of our issues is infidelity on your part, then our union is automatically unsalvageable.

The day you realize even if a woman is cheating with a mad man who hasn't showered for 12 months, she does it skin to skin is the day you'll take them seriously with infidelity.

If a man ignores, just to prove he doesn't care or he's an alpha, not a SIMP, he should be ready to spend a lot treating infections, curable and incurable ones.

Condom isn't 100% safe either. One day, she'll tell you to remove it that she isn't feeling it and you will.

So, knowing about her secret moves matter, at least, for the sake of your health.

Never you wife a hoe, simple as that

EmperorCaesar:
Be chaotic like Darwin Nunez

I'm cool with other parts of your write-up except the part where you keep hammering on her 'd1ck adventures and doing things to prevent her from exploring this route"

I honestly will never do a thing to stop anyone from cheating. If the answer to any of our issues is infidelity on your part, then our union is automatically unsalvageable.

Seconded!

iLegendd:
Abobby, wedah you?

Who goes you

am I the only one who finds this annoying
https://www.cinema9jaent.com/

Sometimes, I'm thinking about something or going through something and suddenly my boss posts about it. Damn.

So, I have been so careful on using the laws in my book "The Bad Guy's 29 Laws of Dark Psychology and Manipulation To Get Any Woman" but the truth is, sometimes, I have to go full gear on certain laws for some time.

I haven't even gone half past the original post and it's so crazy how its psychological effect cannot be underestimated, so good that I have to drop a comment before I end up writing a full book after reading the whole thing.

I'm currently in a distanced relationship and in less than 2 months, it has faced too many gallops. I noticed how often she's always sending videos explaining how a "real man" should be . I made it clear I wasn't a robot and I wouldn't tolerate being told to act a certain way to be seen as a "real man."

She says I'm the best she's ever seen but I can be stubborn and blablablabla, however, caring about a woman doesn't mean I should throw away my ability to reason. Being in a distanced relationship is something I'd never would have done before, but what's life without different experiences?

The whole point is: she's always trying to start up sh!t and complain about how I'm like and like that. She's always wishing we end up today and how I should "change." That is what keeps her glued. The moment I become that man that can be easily controlled, that moment is when I lose my power.

People are attracted to things they can't seem to figure out, that is why, you might hate a video game for being difficult but would end up going back to it in the next hour. That is, most of us find it extremely difficult to turn away from a decision we had made. We love to remain consistent in whatever we do.

We'd rather focus entirely on one thing hoping it would work than moving from one thing to another. Even when things are falling apart, we go as far as lying to ourselves just so we can keep up with that consistency.

Society has made us believe women are deeply emotional beings, and this belief has been so embedded in us that women have been primed to remain so. So, once she is emotionally invested, she would find it hard to back off.

iLegendd:
Abobby, wedah you?

aro focus dia 😅

how can i get the book

SuperOnyi:






Sometimes, I'm thinking about something or going through something and suddenly my boss posts about it. Damn.

So, I have been so careful on using the laws in my book "The Bad Guy's 29 Laws of Dark Psychology and Manipulation To Get Any Woman" but the truth is, sometimes, I have to go full gear on certain laws for some time.

I haven't even gone half past the original post and it's so crazy how its psychological effect cannot be underestimated, so good that I have to drop a comment before I end up writing a full book after reading the whole thing.

I'm currently in a distanced relationship and in less than 2 months, it has faced too many gallops. I noticed how often she's always sending videos explaining how a "real man" should be . I made it clear I wasn't a robot and I wouldn't tolerate being told to act a certain way to be seen as a "real man."

She says I'm the best she's ever seen but I can be stubborn and blablablabla, however, caring about a woman doesn't mean I should throw away my ability to reason. Being in a distanced relationship is something I'd never would have done before, but what's life without different experiences?

The whole point is: she's always trying to start up sh!t and complain about how I'm like and like that. She's always wishing we end up today and how I should "change." That is what keeps her glued. The moment I become that man that can be easily controlled, that moment is when I lose my power.

People are attracted to things they can't seem to figure out, that is why, you might hate a video game for being difficult but would end up going back to it in the next hour. That is, most of us find it extremely difficult to turn away from a decision we had made. We love to remain consistent in whatever we do.

We'd rather focus entirely on one thing hoping it would work than moving from one thing to another. Even when things are falling apart, we go as far as lying to ourselves just so we can keep up with that consistency.

Society has made us believe women are deeply emotional beings, and this belief has been so embedded in us that women have been primed to remain so. So, once she is emotionally invested, she would find it hard to back off.

Wande22:
how can i get the book

You can get at

superonyibusiness@gmail.com

for just 5k naira — we will increase the prize very soon. People do not value valuable things that are cheap. This is why I rarely advertise the book because it's too dangerous in the hands of the wrong person and I have daughters, sisters, and female friends.

All the laws in that book are tested and trusted. I sold it on Amazon for $17.99. It was also No. 1 on New Releases.

Kindly paint your face red and white, because you seem like a real clown. You should be smarter than this. Rather than being judgmental and assessing all the women you meet based on your previous encounters or the experiences of some other guys, look out for red flags and take the time to study every women you meet properly before committing to a relationship.

All human beings, including you, have positive and negative sides. Take the time to understand the temperaments and behaviours of the women you encounter, select your preferred type of woman, and learn how to relate and interact with her.

If you are looking for a partner who is introverted, calm, warm, relaxed, patient, easygoing, rational, agreeable, peaceful, not confrontational, slow-paced, unemotional, unmotivated, stubborn, and unlikely to be industrious or hardworking, your best bet is a phlegmatic type.

If you want a partner who is introverted, independent, principled, hardworking, smart, diligent, industrious, a deep thinker, observant, analytical, wise, creative, talented, a neat freak, orderly, organized, overly scheduled, a perfectionist, negative, moody, sensitive, serious, anxious, easily saddened or depressed, touchy, resentful, and vengeful, your best bet is a melancholic type.

If you want a partner who is extroverted, outgoing, energetic, cheerful, optimistic, fun-loving, expressive, entertaining, friendly, nice, kind, generous, caring, warm-hearted, volatile, easygoing, self-sacrificing, a natural people pleaser, optimistic, non-judgmental, open-minded, able to forgive and forget easily, romantic, outspoken, confident, carefree, talkative, too playful, unserious, impulsive, reckless, and lacking discipline, your best bet is a sanguine type.

If you looking for a partner who is extroverted, outgoing, energetic, independent, motivated, passionate, reasonable, self-sufficient, a doer, a natural leader, influential, competitive, often striving to lead or to achieve leadership positions, a workaholic, diligent, serious, disciplined, a visionary, practical, goal-oriented, principled, courageous, ambitious, strong-willed, determined, intelligent, a quick thinker, quick to act, fiery, domineering, direct, confrontational, controversial, fearless, loud, self-important, overconfident, rude, proud, arrogant, bossy, controlling, merciless, demanding, inflexible, manipulative, quick-tempered, struggles with patience, becomes easily upset or angry, shows a lack of sympathy, reacts quickly, is highly resentful and vengeful, uneasy to please, judgmental, toxic and, aggressive, your best bet is a choleric type.

Though people tend to exhibit majority of the traits of their primary temperament, it is rare for someone to possess 100% positive or negative traits of a single temperament because in addition to their primary temperament, most people also have one or more secondary temperaments from which they exhibit traits. Study your partner thoroughly in order to understand their behaviours and temperaments.

FitCorper:
Rugged you

aah aah how "ONLY ADVISE on WOMEN" take enter BROTHERHOOD? na WOMEN nor AWOMEN e Write oo...

@OP na "ONLY" be this EPISTLE, if u come gert like 2 or 3 KPOLOKPOLO nko