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Valentine’s Day took an embarrassing turn for a young woman who proposed to her boyfriend at a busy shopping mall, only to be met with rejection in front of a crowd.

In a now-viral video, the woman, dressed red gown and holding a ring, went down on one knee to ask for her boyfriend’s hand in marriage. However, instead of the expected joyous acceptance, the man appeared visibly uncomfortable before shaking his head and walking away, leaving his girlfriend devastated.

The incident, which took place in the full glare of the public, sparked a heated debate online, especially among women who expressed anger over the man’s reaction. Many argued that women should not be ridiculed for proposing, while others believed the man had the right to decline if he wasn’t ready.

“So embarrassing! Why propose in public if you’re not sure of his answer?” one social media user commented. Another wrote, “Men do it all the time, and women say no. Now the tables turned, and everyone is upset.”




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8mwI5326zY

Was his reaction justified or too harsh?

It's a trap...man was wise enough to "jump am pass".

Gen Z!
Everything to them is drama and entertainment. Nothing serious or special to them

If this isn't content,then I must commend the banny on this...cuz doing this really meant she put Alot of effort just to kill the pride in her before she could do this without shame ........

The funniest thing is that this nigha may likely end up proposing to a banny who wouldn't love him one bit like this particular banny......

Me: *long yawn...

So stale!

That’s a man who defeated temptation

When a man has brainless woman as girlfriend or wife, he will always walk the streets prepared for shame and disgrace. In one or the day within 24hrs, she will bring shame to him just like this golden hair lizard in red gown kneeling down there has just brought shame to the innocent gentleman.

Moral of the story; no do pass yourself

I thought you ladies are no longer interested in marriage

It's pay back time.
Nice one from the guy.

The lady is foolish.

It's an abomination in our culture for a woman to propose marriage to a man, for what na?


Is she ready to fund the wedding with joy?

Is she ready to pay the house rent, buy the family first car, pay daily family upkeep with joy and without complain?


She doesn't even know if the guy is financially prepared to get married. That a guy is dating you to quench sexual konji does not mean he is ready to marry.


A reasonable man considers many things before embarking on marriage. You don't know how many people he is owing, how he has been struggling to keep himself afloat financially, boom you went and proposed marriage to your boyfriend because you saw others do it online.


Love is not enough reason to marry anybody. Love is not enough reason to start marriage.


She that went to propose to a full grown man, is she ready to be the husband of the marriage?


Or she thinks marriage is all about fancy proposal, fancy wedding gown, talk of the town wedding reception and uploading pictures and videos on TikTok?


You can ask a guy out for a date but don't go as far as proposing marriage to your boyfriend, it doesn't add up, this is Nigeria.


Serves her right, mumu girl

Fatality 🙊

Thought some guys said it’s cool for women to step up to propose marriage to their men.
Why tag her “desperate”? 😢😩

Hoping it’s a skit.

The lady in white gown trying to be a sister’s keeper. 😭

Causing all these public uproar is not necessary.
Just curdle the babe, accept the ring but still do wetin dey your mind.
Simple. Marriage proposal no get any spiritual or legal implications.

Nedu needs help

Maradona, Pele, Messi, Tb Joshua, Awon iya mi osorongba, Gadahffi, Sadam Hussein, Bill Clinton….

Smart man just dodged a bullet for life

You shall live long

Skit.

The incident, which took place in the full glare of the public, sparked a heated debate online,

Unemployed netizens like Kobojunkie who claims to have a life yet spent the whole of February 14th on Nairaland.

Chai.

The young man’s expression said it all.

He was like:

“Meaning what na Funmilayo? Which kind joke be that? Na you go propose to me, abi na me suppose to propose to you with the ring? By the way, na you want to marry me abi na me go marry you? You want to turn me to woman wrapper if I agree na. Abeg dress far make I pass”.

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His father taught him well

He is not like Ozor the simp

That's a stupid girl Right there

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Desperate kwa!

D

Never marry a desperate woman or woman who tries to fasten the marriage processes due to personal reasons.

Later in the marriage she will still use it to insult you like,

"IF NOT BECAUSE OF THE SITUATION I FOUND MYSELF BACK THEN, I SHOULD HAVE TAKEN MY TIME AND NOT RUSH TO MARRY"

Those gender are really something else... Still wondering how God want a man to cope with EVE.

PerfectStranger:
I thought you ladies are no longer interested in marriage

The brainwashing is strong. It is a stronghold like Christianity, Islam and the other religions.

The table has really turned.In my little point of view,the man did the right thing by rejecting such a disgraceful proposal from a brainless woman.

That lady is a good woman.

That boy should stop disgracing we men biko.

There are 2 types of proposal

1. Will you marry me
2. I'm pregnant.

No. 1 is for guys, no 2 is for ladies.

Guys 1 : 0 Girls