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I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

Your gut cannot tell you he is struggling like you, if he will not help you, he would have ignored you the first place

Stephenmouka:
Your gut cannot tell you he is struggling like you, if he will not help you, he would have ignored you the first place

He told me he has been working on some petroluem mineral minning big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

Stephenmouka:
Your gut cannot tell you he is struggling like you, if he will not help you, he would have ignored you the first place

we started out chatting and i havent seen him in 18 yrs. So i finally got his number.
He respond to the chats on time until i asked him for little cash.
It is better he tells me no than to play me like this

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

You actually need an urgent brain check tbh.. Do you think people pick money on the ground in the so-called abroad. Dey play. It's still the daily grinding, hustling under unfamiliar weather to make some money which he may desperately need to get the least comfortable roof over his head. Unless if he has used 7 years in the abroad and you are sure he is gainfully employed and doing well. If not, comot body...... Everyone dey on package level because even he tells you, the best you can do is eeyaaahhh and a resounding wicked smile 😊.. Bottom line is Get your facts right.

ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

He is struggling bro
Some people make that 30$ for shift in working place, 30 dollar is not small there

If a pack of 4 doughnut can be less than 5 dollar,
Now weigh it to the 30 dollar you think is small

Johnweeked12:
You actually need an urgent brain check tbh.. Do you think people pick money on the ground in the so-called abroad. Dey play. It's still the daily grinding, hustling under unfamiliar weather to make some money which he may desperately need to get the least comfortable roof over his head. Unless if he has used 7 years in the abroad and you are sure he is gainfully employed and doing well. If not, comot body...... Everyone dey on package level because even he tells you, the best you can do is eeyaaahhh and a resounding wicked smile 😊.. Bottom line is Get your facts right.

someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

This op deh craze ohh,, person never enter naija since 18 years, how you wan make he help you with chikili money,,, over here bro, you gotta pay bills,, that small 30 dolls can go along way,, try again later

Stephenmouka:
Your gut cannot tell you he is struggling like you, if he will not help you, he would have ignored you the first place

See OP and entitled mentality

Your level of entitlement is astonishing, it is even good for him that he didnt give you the money, because you are the type to keep asking once someone helps you. You better respect yourself and hustle for your own money... many Nigerians are too comfortable begging other people for money and too comfortable using other peoples stuff.

You say he dey for Norway, that means there's NO WAY just move on..

hmmm. That your cousin may be going through a lot too. Some people just don't know how to say No. He may be feeling bad he could not help you.
Just let him be and give him time. Pray for him too, it is not easy out there.

Why

Hmmm

Stop feeling entitled. He owes you nothing. You can't simply say his state of mind there and what he is currently passing through.

Respect yourself. Nobody respect beggars . even if I don't have, stay on your lane till help comes. I don't like begging for anything. I sort myself out and God has been showing forth.

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

Nobody owe you anything.......your cousin already passed the message to you. But you seems not to get it. It is " Stop disturbing me"

Leave him alone. Face your life. Everyone is fighting a battle.

So entitled.
Working in frozen condition a joke to you? Every penny is earned.
Go Norway, work and start blessing your hood also.

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

See entitlement.
Who told you this guy will ever come to beg you! Those who thought so of Dangote are still waiting and may wait until they die

Did you give him money to keep for you? Do you know his financial situation at the moment?

You have an entitlement mentality and it's going to make you remain broke.

You can hustle and find your way to Europe so that you don't have to beg for money again.

I'm sure you are a Tinubu supporter

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

That your cousin might be finding it difficult over there, so be patient with him. He has his own challenges too

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

Most likely he is probably broke too.

It's hard everywhere globally nowadays.

Look for alternatives, and try to stop relying on someone.

The act of being an adult is the ability to decipher unspoken words

The guy don dey tell u say him nor get, u still dey pester

E easy nine the OP nor gey the money when the him dey ask for

The guy dey struggle for Cold and winter to make ends meet, bros just burst enter after 18 years dey ask for money

Who you epp

If you are hoping for the best, prepare for the worst decisions.
Let go of the depression and hatred of him.
Mind You, given is a choice not a must.
Also, it takes the Grace of God for someone to give.

Nobody is going to help you until you help yourself, people find it difficult associating with failure but are quick attracted to success.
Keep on grinding and when you eventually hit the right track that same cousin will celebrate and identify with you.

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

If your cousin no help you, e no mean sey your cousin wicked. He might have more bigger problems than yours, but if he asked for help from people like you, una go say him dey use una do caricature.

That should make you hustle harder, no one owes you a thing .All man for himself. No more brothers for brothers

ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧

The way you dey talk sef. Na wa.
You said he hasn't been home for 18 years. Bro make i tell you. That your guy dey struggle over there. 30 dollars no be small money abeg. You think say him intentionally dey there for 18 years without coming home or visiting?
If you think say e dey easy make you go.

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