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To spice up your sex life with your wife and to find out if she is pretending or not.

Try these tips and thank me later

get her a sex enhancing drugs that will increase her libido to the extreme without her knowledge, put it in her drinks.

during the daytime wen u plan to have fun with her. get her a red wine or alcoholic drink that will make a tipsy or a little drunk

initiate the sex with her by giving her a pre-intimacy. start with kissing her on her neck, shoulder, lips, breast and thight

Then proceed to touching her pussy. make her really wet before going into her.

this will boost your sex life with your wife and the fact that she is already Hot and little drunk she wont stop u from giving her any style u want.

repeat this steps above like 2-3 times anytime u want to sleep with her until she actually adapt.

Odingo1:
Una nodey hear word, my mouth is not smelling. I never have mouth odour. She said is a phobia she developed at teenage age that I can confirm from her ex if she ever agreed to kiss him.

Personally, I’m attracted to guys who smell nice. In fact, that's the first thing that draws me to someone. It's possible she doesn't like your scent.

Be sure to brush your teeth before attempting to kiss her, and a few hours before, avoid eating anything that might leave disgusting particles in your mouth. Make sure you smell good, and try to spice things up a bit.

It’s also possible that she feels insecure about her body or has experienced sexual abuse or molestation. It might be necessary to involve a therapist.

Odingo1:
She is good in other areas like caring, been economical in managing money, doesn’t cheat as far as I am concerned because she call me at any of her movements. She said she is praying to God to overcome the phobia of not kissing, that she hardly kiss anyone or do sex styles that most her relationships is no sex relationship. Don’t know if she is lying ooo or not.

She isn't lying, I am married too, my wife rarely kiss too, just once , once like that but BJ? Na, she frowns at it

Am I bothered? No.

Give her time, let her know what you want and like, she will loosen up with time and enjoy kisses with you.

Also always make sure the sex is good and she enjoys it

Both of you should shower together, tell her you want to give her MouthAction,

Lalami3232:

Normally eeh, I no dey like put mouth for husband and wife matter but I go bend the rules for this one time so that other bachelors go learn. Oga your wife dey tell stories!!!!!
Now let me ask you a question: did you meet her as a virgin or the door was wide open. A girl may be the public car of an area where guys ride fast or slow depending on their driving skills 😋, after getting tired of such lifestyle, she will decide to become celibate. Now she starts dressing decent and possibly start becoming active in a particular religion. One guy sees her and he's like "this babe is so so decent, she looks like someone who will make a good wife". The man goes close to her and she comes with tough conditions, making the man feel she's extremely decent. They tell you that "no sex before marriage". They may give you the kpekus just once, so you get a taste of it and make it seem like they just broke their rules because they love you
Bros na lie oooooooo, no fall for those scam atall. If only you know what her kpekus had gone through during her olosho phase, you go shake head. Forget the tightness of a kpekus, it's not a guarantee that she's decent. The only way she can prove that's she wasn't like the picture I painted about is if she's a virgin. But aside that, bros forget it. Most of una dey pay for the sins of una wife's, girlfriend's and fiancee's ex. A girl can be having sex like 10 times weekly in a relationship and when the relationship breaks, she will say "no man will use me like my ex did anymore". The new guy comes and he go dey think say his babe is super decent, not knowing say he's just paying for the sins of the fathers .
E go shock you say this your woman wey dey deprive you of kiss dey give her ex BJ
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Any girl wey use that line... Of no sexxx before marriage... I will just move forward. I have dumped girls because of that. I prefer a girl in her hoe phase wey get sense pass old news papers wey dey claim celibate.

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

Chai my guy is gone.. Sorry bro

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

She draw tattoo for her kpekus.
There is something she's dodging

I dey tell guys, the moment alady begings to give u a list of i dont do dis, i dobt do dat, just knw dat she dosent see you you as man enoughh. E get some other guy whey she dey with, she go relax all those her yeye rules please the guy well well like a bitch. So bro in this your one chance marriage wey you don enter so, use your tong to count your theeth

Odingo1:
My wife doesn’t kiss, she said she fear exchange of bacteria, I don’t have mouth odour, she only said she have fear or phobia about exchange of bacteria since her teenage age, our marriage is 1 month. We dated for 3 months and kiss few times and had sex once but she insisted that marriage is required before sex. In sex she is not interested in changing styles only missionary and no BJ, she said is a taboo. She is 27 and I am 34.

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

Ok..

Una dey try

Odingo1:
My wife doesn’t kiss, she said she fear exchange of bacteria, I don’t have mouth odour, she only said she have fear or phobia about exchange of bacteria since her teenage age, our marriage is 1 month. We dated for 3 months and kiss few times and had sex once but she insisted that marriage is required before sex. In sex she is not interested in changing styles only missionary and no BJ, she said is a taboo. She is 27 and I am 34.

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

You adjust or forget about it.
Na you see am like that, still marry am. No disturb us abeg.

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

You be mumu I swear

U too na scam

Odingo1:
She is a lab scientist but said is just a phobia, she doesn’t allow kissing, no BJ, sex is only done under the cover darkness. I no understand the whole thing.

Just like that gal in Ughelli delta state .... She was being used like table tennis balls by club owners. when she wanted to settle down she choose me ,,,my nephew already told me the aza . i collect ...step over

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

You don't even bath together

TemplarLandry:
😂

iOga you are scrammed big time. The truth of the matter remains that the lady never love you, but just wanted to answer mrs

A305:
She's truly not a sex person but on the other hand, you should have figured this out before marriage. You two dating timeframe (3 months) was too short to figure each other's compatibility and mismatch.

Sex greases the friction in marriage and if she can't fulfill that aspect with you, the friction will always be felt even if every other areas of your life is thriving.

You are married to her, that's done, Now be apprehensive towards the issue and press the issue hard with her. Gentle and never raise your voice; Tell her, your marriage may fail if she isn't flexible to change.

Tell her you willing to learn her body with her by fore play to see what set off her mood.

If she declines all these approaches: Go harder with this: She has to find a compromise. Now make her understand you willing to only have sex with her when you two want to pro-create and aside that; she should turn a blind eye when you decide to go satisfy your urge with another willing female outside your marriage.

If she greenlight this idea. Tell her, the marriage should end and file for divorce immediately, you are young and you still have a long way to go in life, you can still get another woman because you can't be paying for what you have freely in the house, Your wife only agreed to get married to you because of her age or because of the financial security you can provide NOT because of affection she has for you.

Failure to take drastic actions now, you will live the rest of your life in regret or broken marriage.

Best comment so far

BJ is not hygienic. Don't insist on it.

seetomorrow:
You are right in a way but are you saying there's no decent girls that never lived such wayward life style during her single she, regardless she is not a virgin?? Does it mean everyone comes from the dark side, so no one is decent I'm this World again irrespective of not being a virgin??

Not a Nigeria 2025 girl bro ...

Odingo1:
She no Dey gree dey for mood only in the night that I don’t see anything. If I on blue light she lock up

op better start looking for wife because this one no follow . I mean how can my own wife don't allow me to see her kpekus on only insist the act must be done in the dark even my girlfriend can't close her kpekus from me I must see where Iam putting my rod before any act must take place
But some marriage dey ohh. If u marry who understand u and u understand her u never know what God has done for u

Odingo1:
She is not a virgin but is been long up to a year that she is not in relationship and have sex. I ask her circle of friends and street boys, they said they have not seen her with any man in the past 1 year and two months she lives in the street. She is tall with big yansh and pretty face. Since I have live with her no suspicious movement or call so far.

See description Abeg oga you're very funny I don't know why she's stressing you oh. Just use your playful part in her I'm sure she would come to accept with time that she's married and her body is for you both to explore and enjoy.

And yours is also for her to explore and enjoy.
It's too early make she reconsider the sex part Abeg.

Odingo1:
She is a lab scientist but said is just a phobia, she doesn’t allow kissing, no BJ, sex is only done under the cover darkness. I no understand the whole thing.

Na wa o

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

Obobs!

Odingo1:
My wife doesn’t kiss, she said she fear exchange of bacteria, I don’t have mouth odour, she only said she have fear or phobia about exchange of bacteria since her teenage age, our marriage is 1 month. We dated for 3 months and kiss few times and had sex once but she insisted that marriage is required before sex. In sex she is not interested in changing styles only missionary and no BJ, she said is a taboo. She is 27 and I am 34.

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

Welcome to endurance walk, unfortunately it's a long one. I am speaking from experience.

Odingo1:
She no Dey gree dey for mood only in the night that I don’t see anything. If I on blue light she lock up

u r d man u make the rules not her if she insist let her b, don't touch her again go get a girlfriend when she come for it u will be d one making d rules

Odingo1:
My wife doesn’t kiss, she said she fear exchange of bacteria, I don’t have mouth odour, she only said she have fear or phobia about exchange of bacteria since her teenage age, our marriage is 1 month. We dated for 3 months and kiss few times and had sex once but she insisted that marriage is required before sex. In sex she is not interested in changing styles only missionary and no BJ, she said is a taboo. She is 27 and I am 34.

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

🙄

Wotoporiously speaking

That's not your wife

Them don scam you bro

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

🙄

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

You dated this person for only 3 months and your marriage is just 1 month old. So you only know this woman for just 4months is that correct?

How old is she and was she a virgin when you married her?

This must be a joke

Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

[b] OP, exactly what you are experiencing is what I experienced in my marriage.

My wife was a Microbiologist. The first 3 years of my marriage was very very very very frustrating sexually! (You can imagine my emphasis).

In my own case, I would attempt to kiss, she would turn her face away. She would not allow me to penetrate her during sex. She would not allow fingering. She said fingering can introduce germs inside of her. Imagine that! Hand wey me dey take chow eba. But, when I want to cum, that's when she would allow me penetrate, so as to release inside of her. Nothing like BJ. Nothing like me giving her a head. She complained that sex was painful and that my D was too hard. Sex was always in darkness. My wife would not allow us bathe together. For her to cum, she would use my flaccid dick to rub her clitoris severally.

I became so frustrated to the extent that I reported to her mum. On getting to hear that, my wife became angry. This was a non-virgin who dated her ex for over 6 yrs and even had abortion. But after 3 to 4 years, sex life changed. As for the kissing, omor, that remained a big issue[/b]