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Married Nigerian men rarely live long these days. Why’s this the case? What’s happening? Do you observe same?

The pressure of marriage, economic woes, moral decadence and the negative influence of social media.

Nigerians are copycats so the ripple effect of the abovementioned has led men to their early graves.

That's because men ignore warning signals from their wives until it's too late and died in the marriage. Men, don't overlook a trouble woman,chase her away now or u pay for it later.

That's from the monogamy point of view.......

Take a look at our forefathers who got married to plenty wives,they lived up till old age and senility came calling

Sometimes I wonder if the civilization that the whites brought to us, Africans have gotten any positive impact on our general lives as Africans or had gotten a negative impact on our culture,and traditions

Their wives don use billings and problems kill them all.

Fear who no fear Nigerian women 🤒

irumole1975:
Married Nigerian men rarely live long these days. Why’s this the case? What’s happening? Do you observe same?

"SOME MARRIED MEN"...not all, this kind generalization no good.

The Nigerian culture puts too much pressure on the man.
You must provide food ,shelter, protection for your wife and children,failure to do that your wife go abuse you tire and compare you to other men and eventually even cheat on you.

They married the wrong partner....can two walk together except they agree?

Marriage is a long walk, the walk that wears the man out quickly where there is no synergy between the man and woman in the marriage.

Marriage no be child play, some of those ladies are not even ready but because they see their friends getting married they just want to belong, and at the end of the day everything goes sour.

When I was growing up. Parents were dropping dead in their 40 from "brief illness" (like Pastor Adebayo son Dare).

The rate of that has reduced by far and these days a 70's old man looks like he is in his 50's.

And 50 years old can be mistaken for late 30's like Sowore that still calls himself a youth.

I know many people that their father died in the early 2000's and 90's but that rate has reduced by far.

Greenlandz:
Their wives don use billings and problems kill them all.

Fear who no fear Nigerian women 🤒

Imagine the social pressure these Instagram generation would put on their husbands?

Have you noticed how SOME youths, soon after marriage join their wives in frequently updating their lives to their enemies? What if they fall in hard times? How much pressure would he be on to meet up with the Jones?

Anyway, thank God for modern medicine, we shall see 70+

faceland:
When I was growing up. Parents were dropping dead in their 40 from "brief illness" (like Pastor Adebayo son Dare).

The rate of that has reduced by far and these days a 70's old man looks like he is in his 50's.

And 50 years old can be mistaken for late 30's like Sowore that still calls himself a youth.

I know many people that their father died in the early 2000's and 90's but that rate has reduced by far.

you sure say you dey this Nigeria. Because you sound funny. Many married men are fustreted because if the hardship. Believe me if some married men know that from 2024 things will skyrocket they won't get married back then.

irumole1975:
Married Nigerian men rarely live long these days. Why’s this the case? What’s happening? Do you observe same?

Our women are no more creatives to help families, so a lot of pressure in resting on the man

Sonnobax15:

That's from the monogamy point of view.......

Take a look at our forefathers who got married to plenty wives,they lived up till old age and senility came calling

Sometimes I wonder if the civilization that the whites brought to us, Africans have gotten any positive impact on our general lives as Africans or had gotten a negative impact on our culture,and traditions

Am practicing traditionalist and polygamist. I don't worry about tithe/offering/church demand, I don't worry about sex, I schedule sexxx with my 2 wives. I don't worry about food because each of them come with food while visiting me.

What kill men is too much worry
I live a life of fulfilment

Exceed15:
That's because men ignore warning signals from their wives until it's too late and died in the marriage. Men, don't overlook a trouble woman,chase away now or u pay for it later.

Gbammm

How will they live long when their wives keep on sucking their blood with constant nagging, ridiculous demands, insults, complaints and cheating?


The worst part is that a lot of Nigerian men are training children that don't belong to them. Of what use is all that hard work if the children your wife made you believe are yours, aren't really yours? 🤷🏽‍♂️

irumole1975:
Married Nigerian men rarely live long these days. Why’s this the case? What’s happening? Do you observe same?

You started with the wrong premises, my friend. My wife's grandfather was married and died at age 105, fully lived in Nigeria. He was still strong and active till he died. Both my parents lived past 75, they were married and lived in Nigeria. My uncle is still married and about 70 years of age.

I don't know where you got your premises and Nigeria may not compete with the first world countries in longevities, this is attributable to slow advances in medical research coupled with superstitious beliefs that are making people die younger in Nigeria.

galantjoe:
Am practicing traditionalist and polygamist. I don't worry about tithe/offering/church demand, I don't worry about sex, I schedule sexxx with my 2 wives. I don't worry about food because each of them come with food while visiting me.

What kill men is too much worry
I live a life of fulfilment

But you are offering sacrifices at a time or carrying sacrifices to the crossroad to appease ya gods

Gboom:
But you are offering sacrifices at a time or carrying sacrifices to the crossroad to appease ya gods

Yea. Onye in awhile, you do sacrifice atime. Not by compunction.

1. Too much starch food
Cassava contains a posion called "RICIN" in little quantity.

Years upon years of consuming cassava products starch and garri

Ricin posion build in body system over the years.
Too much starch in body is breakdown to sugar by insulin. .
When the starch in body is too much it is converted to sugar and too much sugar = diabetes.

2. Nigerians have very poor water intake. People dont drink water in moderate levels. Only when they eat. Or when the get thirsty.

Water intake is very important for kidneys to flush out waste frim body.

Instead they gulp bottles of dry gin and hot drinks fake drinks that destroy kidney function.
Combined with drinking less water
Disaster is loading.

3. Being slave to woman all in the name of being a provider of a family. Mental stress and physical stress to make ends meet.
Too much stress in body causes release of cortisol a stress hormone.
Too much stress = Too much cortisol which is bad for the body in high quantity. Mental stress releases more cortisol than physical stress.

With 8 Years of Buhari's MISRULE (Which Ironically his Supporters on this site have started Denying him)
and more 2 Years of Tinibu's HUNGER regime, How can Men live long

Only Few married men in Nigeria are able to Flex and Enjoy in marriage.

The life expectancy rate in Nigeria isn't up to 60 years. It has nothing to do with one's marital status.

VinnyBaba:
With 8 Years of Buhari's MISRULE (Which Ironically his Supporters on this site have started Denying him)
and more 2 Years of Tinibu's HUNGER regime, How can Men live long
Only Few married men in Nigeria are able to Flex and Enjoy in marriage.

That's what many Nigerians are forgetful of - Buhari ruined the country in its entirety. So it's funny when they lament on social media that rents have increased and their living standards have dropped.

Gboom:
But you are offering sacrifices at a time or carrying sacrifices to the crossroad to appease ya gods

Yes. That one is not by compunction or by threats. But for churchgoers, they give tithe, offering, special project, levy,harvest and bazaar, sacrifice, alms, special project prayer, booking mass, etc . However as a traditionalist I will do sacrifice once in awhile, no Sunday offering, no tithe, no bazaar,and others