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With all her achievement, I will still woo and bang her! She will love up, I will get 2 baby mamas, she gets challenged and goes to get PHD and become the CEO of Tesla, meets another man, get banged, doscovered the he has a 14 side chicks....and then circle goes on

Women! How does having 2 step children alter the state of their union? And what's wrong if she decides to improve herself? Why is it always all or nothing for them?

BloomingDale:
Why don’t you try taking care of the kids and house full time, let’s see you run your mouth saying a housewife is not a full time job.

You say?

osazsky:
Thank God for hookup so u now have multiple businesses interesting

Just funny.

Just curious, how did you arrive at the conclusion that she's into prostitution?

Why is it difficult for none Christian African man to stay with one woman.

I like her resilience, resolution and maturity in handling the situation. She woke up immediately and showed her worth, value and excellence when she realised her husband wouldn't consider how priceless a jewel he has as a wife all this while.

A woman that loves you won’t mind if you have 3 kids outside the marriage..

Funny that her story is the opposite of her Nigerian counterparts’. Those ones sink into depression and cement themselves further into housewife roles after getting cheated on. I had plenty of neighbours when growing up who rather took out their frustrations on the children. It was childish to see even for me who was a child then.

Thank God it was a Kenyan story. A South African’s write-up would be illegible.

Na you be the biggest fool and loser

Righteousness2:
You term a Man's rightful legal wife a Scorned House wife ?
I just don't know the sort of breeds bring raised these days.

Your brain needs DELIVERANCE, MEDICATION and MODIFICATION!

Be polite when correcting people (Read 2 Timothy 2:23,24)

Okay!

This kind story is for Sunday testimony.....where people open mouth and swallow.....Grade D business bait for SM.

Your first priority is you, the moment you stop nobody regards you anymore, big ups Kenyan Mama, hopefully all these lazy Nigerian babygirl lifestyle people change their ways

Exceed15:
And so? I m sure she's still not happy. Women and pretence.

What are you saying?

Do you prefer she becomes a penniless unhappy housewife after finding out her husband had kids outside?

She made the best of a bad situation.

TONYE001:
It's true that some online stories are just false....and this, here, may just be a marketing strategy...but despite this, if this really happened, I see nothing wrong with it.

I can't cast blames on the lady. She has done no wrong...even if she had decided to leave the marriage, she would still be in her right. Maybe the only wrong she did was to wait for this kind of scenario before diving into person growth and development.

This thing called "full-time housewife" should not be in existence today. There's absolutely no sense in it. "Sustaining the family and training/caring for the kids" are not valid reasons for a female to decide to be a full-time housewife. In fact, no husband should encourage his wife to do this. I remember when I and wifie started. I ensured we both enrolled for MSc together...and she even finished before me. When I went back to study medicine as a third degree, I told her to map out a career-advancement path for her as I would want her to take one or two steps further after my medical training. Today, there are considerations of furthering to a PhD in public health or nursing. And she'll be fully supported.

It's wicked for a man to continue to grow while his wife remains as she was met. Evil. This doesn't define a good wife. I mean, how can there be a life without ambition? If I be woman, I no go ever gree to this thing. In fact, if a husband persistently refuses to allow his wife grow, I will not blame such a wife if she leaves the marriage.

It's women that are not empowered or independent that'll continue to depend on their husbands' permissions before consenting to a medical care like CS. I've seen instances where a woman needed URGENT operation to save her life but would not give consent until her husband permits. It's women that are not empowered that'll continue to take rubbish from their husbands (serial cheating, domestic violence, manipulations, etc)... because they know they can't survive alone. Because my wife is empowered, she was able to support me significantly in the 7 years I trained in medical school. I wasn't doing any full-time job, I was only freelancing. Every month, my wife would send me money...may not be enough to fund all my needs, but was HELPFUL.

Please, women, EMPOWER YOURSELVES. Grow as your husband grows...you can even grow higher sef, no law limiting you. Go to school, do postgraduate training, learn a skill, establish a business. EVERYONE in the home MUST GROW together...the wife, the husband, the kids.

This is my 11th year in marriage. While I have 3 degrees, my wife has 2 currently. My wife is also making great progress in career. Our 4 children are growing and they are doing fine. As I continue to grow, my wife would too.

Women, don't be deceived by the so-called African tradition...or by some people's interpretation of the Bible. I beg, grow yourself and be independent. Don't depend on any man, he may disappoint you.

Congrats, it turned out well for you, or rather, its turning out well for you so far. Nothing is cast in stone. People have seen the people they helped support and raise, bury them. Life is not a movie.

Softmirror:
Where those men always shouting DNA DNA DNA like ambulance.?!

🚨🚨🚨🚨

GanagiBitrus:
Issorite, provided she didn't quit being a Wife.

Will you continue being a husband if you found out that your wife had 2 secret kids before marriage? Let's not even talk of during marriage.

MiddleWoman:
Will you continue being a husband if you found out that your wife had 2 secret kids before marriage? Let's not even talk of during marriage.

Not everything that applies to a Woman can equally apply to a Man.
Example Polygamy & Polyandry.

Exceed15:
And so? I m sure she's still not happy. Women and pretence.

I won't be surprised if she also starts dating married men after she stopped being a housewife

TONYE001:
It's true that some online stories are just false....and this, here, may just be a marketing strategy...but despite this, if this really happened, I see nothing wrong with it.

I can't cast blames on the lady. She has done no wrong...even if she had decided to leave the marriage, she would still be in her right. Maybe the only wrong she did was to wait for this kind of scenario before diving into person growth and development.

This thing called "full-time housewife" should not be in existence today. There's absolutely no sense in it. "Sustaining the family and training/caring for the kids" are not valid reasons for a female to decide to be a full-time housewife. In fact, no husband should encourage his wife to do this. I remember when I and wifie started. I ensured we both enrolled for MSc together...and she even finished before me. When I went back to study medicine as a third degree, I told her to map out a career-advancement path for her as I would want her to take one or two steps further after my medical training. Today, there are considerations of furthering to a PhD in public health or nursing. And she'll be fully supported.

It's wicked for a man to continue to grow while his wife remains as she was met. Evil. This doesn't define a good wife. I mean, how can there be a life without ambition? If I be woman, I no go ever gree to this thing. In fact, if a husband persistently refuses to allow his wife grow, I will not blame such a wife if she leaves the marriage.

It's women that are not empowered or independent that'll continue to depend on their husbands' permissions before consenting to a medical care like CS. I've seen instances where a woman needed URGENT operation to save her life but would not give consent until her husband permits. It's women that are not empowered that'll continue to take rubbish from their husbands (serial cheating, domestic violence, manipulations, etc)... because they know they can't survive alone. Because my wife is empowered, she was able to support me significantly in the 7 years I trained in medical school. I wasn't doing any full-time job, I was only freelancing. Every month, my wife would send me money...may not be enough to fund all my needs, but was HELPFUL.

Please, women, EMPOWER YOURSELVES. Grow as your husband grows...you can even grow higher sef, no law limiting you. Go to school, do postgraduate training, learn a skill, establish a business. EVERYONE in the home MUST GROW together...the wife, the husband, the kids.

This is my 11th year in marriage. While I have 3 degrees, my wife has 2 currently. My wife is also making great progress in career. Our 4 children are growing and they are doing fine. As I continue to grow, my wife would too.

Women, don't be deceived by the so-called African tradition...or by some people's interpretation of the Bible. I beg, grow yourself and be independent. Don't depend on any man, he may disappoint you.

Beautiful write up but just so you know the liberation of a woman is a man night mare.
Glad you think different

GanagiBitrus:
Not everything that applies to a Woman can equally apply to a Man.
Example Polygamy & Polyandry.

You can't force a woman to dance to your tune.

Righteousness2:
You term a Man's rightful legal wife a Scorned House wife ?
I just don't know the sort of breeds bring raised these days.

Your brain needs DELIVERANCE, MEDICATION and MODIFICATION!

You need an education

Dzzzz:
A woman that loves you won’t mind if you have 3 kids outside the marriage..

Now, this new.

ono:
Now, this new.

😂😂Since all of us no serious for Naija again..