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| Urgent Family Advise by Aladexxx(op): 2:38pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Good day here... Please I have a serious issue at hand. I am married. But I was in a date with a lady before she got married years ago. Now....I don't know what made me rush go chat this lady after I saw her post recently. While chatting her I went ahead of mentioning some of our deep past to d extent of sharing pictures. Unluckily her husband got to see d whole chat, Now the family is in chaos and d lady had to be confessing all mistakes made to the husband. Now I am in d big picture of the problem to the extent that the wife family members put a call across to me that. If the home breaks am in trouble Please what can I do  ?. Am helpless now 1 Like |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by ibechris(m): 2:45pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Nothing to advice here... If i were the man,u would have been arrested by now. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by DemonSlayer: 2:58pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Make dem show you koret pepper, maybe you'll learn your lesson. To be honest, hand suppose touch you, abi how you see am? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by GbemiTrabaye01: 3:14pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Are you sure you're a man? Nah everything una dey fear. If home scatter make he scatter that's none of your business. Zaaazuu Aladexxx: |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by Free2Fly: 3:38pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
ibechris:On what grounds now? The guy may have behaved foolishly, but hasn't actually committed any legally recognizable offence. |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by frozen70(f): 3:58pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Aladexxx:Visit the familys and apologise for everything and promise them that you will stay away from anything that will lead to communicating with her And you too respect yourself 1 Like |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by VTJN(m): 8:21pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Aladexxx:pray for the family not to scatter |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by Tjra: 8:29pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
frozen70:This is the answer you are looking for. Meanwhile, wetin make you chat her? Your wife Toto no do you? Thief 1 Like |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by Meerahbel: 9:11pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
I understand that you're in a difficult situation. Here are some steps you can take: Immediate Action: 1. Apologize sincerely: Reach out to the husband and apologize for your actions. Acknowledge that you were wrong to revisit the past and share intimate details. 2. Explain but don't excuse: Clarify that you didn't intend to cause harm, but take responsibility for your mistakes. 3. Respect boundaries: Avoid further communication with the lady, as it may escalate the situation. Damage Control: 1. Support the reconciliation process: If the couple is willing, offer to help facilitate their reconciliation. 2. Be prepared for consequences: Understand that the husband and his family may still be upset, and be prepared to face any consequences. Personal Reflection: 1. Evaluate your actions: Reflect on why you reached out to the lady and shared intimate details. Identify any underlying issues or weaknesses. 2. Work on personal growth: Use this experience to learn and grow, ensuring you don't repeat similar mistakes in the future. Seek Support: 1. Talk to your partner: Be honest with your spouse about the situation and seek their support. 2. Consider counseling: If you're struggling to cope with the situation or need guidance on personal growth, consider seeking professional counseling. Remember that rebuilding trust and repairing relationships takes time and effort. Be patient, sincere, and committed to making amends. Aladexxx: |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by Helpout12345: 9:20pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Aladexxx:Don't be too hard on yourself. The lady has more of the blame if her marriage collapsed. She is the one with a marriage vow with her husband and she was supposed not to engage in such communication with an ex boyfriend. You are only accountable to your own wife. |
| Re: Urgent Family Advise by frozen70(f): 10:06pm On Mar 01, 2025 |
Tjra:😅 😅 😅 He caused the problem, so he has to solve it. |
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