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INTEGRITYA1:
We husbands have responsibility of respecting our wives as well and always treat them with honor. That’s for the good woman.

I agree with you. I like women who are ambitious and men should encourage them but they should also remember who we are as animals.

Feminism has tried to brainwash men and women to believe that men should be attracted to strong, independent women who don’t need them, who will compete with them in the physical, intellectual, or financial realm. But we’re not. We’re attracted to femininity; softness, long hair, shapely figures, women who need and respect us.

Many single women today who are quite successful don’t understand why they can’t get a good boyfriend or husband. They have decreased the pool of men who will be attracted to them and, quite frankly, men to whom they will be attracted. Women want to marry up. But if they have a Ph. D. or are a CEO of a company or a competitive CrossFit athlete, the number of men to whom they will be attracted has diminished greatly. Feminism can’t wipe this out. God wired us this way; yes, it may even be in our hindbrain function.

God created the brains of both males and females and wired them, you might say, according to their sex-specific purposes.

papyjaypaul:
I agree with you. I like women who are ambitious and men should encourage them but they should also remember who we are as animals.

Let men support women to be more independent

24hrPrayer:
Let men support women to be more independent

And then what? Can women bear the consequences of this independence? I am all for a girl child and women going top but each action comes with a consequence. Are you ready for the consequence? Can women answer that question without blaming someone else?

The same men who once shamed women for being jobless and dependent on them are now pissed off seeing a woman who built herself up, with a successful career and high standards. At her level, she won't settle for just any man with little or no value beyond just being called a man.

COOL10:
That's always the excuse they give when men no longer want them because of their disgusting, condescending, silly, rude attitudes. They should get ready to remain single and lonely for the rest of their miserable lives. Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!

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COOL10:
That's always the excuse they give when men no longer want them because of their disgusting, condescending, silly, rude attitudes. They should get ready to remain single and lonely for the rest of their miserable lives. Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!

"Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!"

Dey play!

cr7lomo:
We don't need Natashas .... once a woman has money , she becomes disrespectful and arrogant

Respectful people remain respectful regardless of their status. Your comment makes absolutely no sense; you are indirectly implying that all women are disrespectful and arrogant and that being broke or poor limits women from showing their true colours.

Nobody can predict the future. What if your partner becomes financially independent tomorrow or would you go out of your way to limit your partner and ensure she doesn’t succeed? If you want a respectful wife, simply marry a respectful person.

People often focus more on physical appearance and other superficial factors rather than their partner's personality, which is why they may end up mismatched. Money is not a determining factor when it comes to character. Anyone, whether broke or rich, can be disrespectful and arrogant.

cr7lomo:
We don't need Natashas .... once a woman has money , she becomes disrespectful and arrogant

Nathashas don't need you either. I respect the fact that Senator Nathasha stood up for herself.

Merry100:
Nathashas don't need you either. I respect the fact that Senator Nathasha stood up for herself.

Ndi woke 😂🤣😂.... men are wiser now....liars forming activists ... stood up for her delusional self and her delusional fools ... stand for herself for acting immature like most of u women , always acting b4 thinking like bunch of 10yr old ... stand for herself for breaking the house rules and putting it in disrepute ...more evidence that women leadership is a no no , more reason why women will never be allowed to get that stupid bill of having a number of them in senate.... mumu gender , una no de know when una de even do una sef....lol... she will be suspended and later kicked out of senate and replaced by a man

cr7lomo:
Ndi woke 😂🤣😂.... men are wiser now....liars forming activists ... stood up for her delusional self and her delusional fools ... stand for herself for acting immature like most of u women , always acting b4 thinking like bunch of 10yr old ... stand for herself for breaking the house rules and putting it in disrepute ...more evidence that women leadership is a no no , more reason why women will never be allowed to get that stupid bill of having a number of them in senate.... mumu gender , una no de know when una de even do una sef....lol... she will be suspended and later kicked out of senate and replaced by a man

Think before you comment. She would have been better off if she had put her emotions aside and handled the situation more maturely, but this is not a gender issue. She is not the first political official to break a rule; even presidents in this country and others have broken rules.

We can't determine who is telling the truth and who is lying from the outside, but what’s annoying is that people like you have been making it a gender issue.

Merry100:
Think before you comment. She would have been better off if she had put her emotions aside and handled the situation more maturely, but this is not a gender issue. She is not the first political official to break a rule; even presidents in this country and others have broken rules.

We can't determine who is telling the truth and who is lying from the outside, but what’s annoying is that people like you have been making it a gender issue.

It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ...

cr7lomo:
It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ...

Oh, you are one of those misogynistic people that hate women and dislike seeing women succeed. Keep crying 😂

cr7lomo:
It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ...

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7462016656781348102/

Merry100:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7462016656781348102/

U don't get it...the major problem with most women is when there's a real situation, they really don't know how to face adversity.... and it's because men always come to their rescue, so they really don't know how to deal with troubles.... how she acted with the seating arrangements is the problem men have with women....always acting irrational, especially with trival issues ...

Merry100:
Oh, you are one of those misogynistic people that hate women and dislike seeing women succeed. Keep crying 😂

Hahaha... once a man goes against a woman, he's a narcissist, he's a misogynist , his controlling...the next u hear is " he sexually assaulted me" hahaha...madam, una don cast ... for every woman hater , there are 10 men haters , most women are misandrists , extremely controlling, reason u can't control ur emotions when jealous, and psychopathic narcissist, reason that one de wear shades whenever she speaks to the press like say she be Abacha.... narcissists are those that will do anything to look good to their satisfaction, na who de post pictures for social media pass , no be woman ?? Same will use make up, do BBL...anyone that's obsessed with attention is a narcissist, and that's what women are known for ....

cr7lomo:
U don't get it...the major problem with most women is when there's a real situation, they really don't know how to face adversity.... and it's because men always come to their rescue, so they really don't know how to deal with troubles.... how she acted with the seating arrangements is the problem men have with women....always acting irrational, especially with trival issues ...

You are the one who isn't getting it.

Queen Elizabeth II led the United Kingdom and other Commonwealth realms for 70 years, and there are female presidents and prime ministers leading countries around the world.

The inability to face adversity or deal with problems is not a gender issue. There are men who can't face adversity or solve problems either, just as there are many women who can. If your suggestion that most women can't face adversity were true, it would be due to other factors, such as the environment in which we are raised and the discouragement, belittling, and criticism we receive from your gender.

cr7lomo:
Hahaha... once a man goes against a woman, he's a narcissist, he's a misogynist , his controlling...the next u hear is " he sexually assaulted me" hahaha...madam, una don cast ... for every woman hater , there are 10 men haters , most women are misandrists , extremely controlling, reason u can't control ur emotions when jealous, and psychopathic narcissist, reason that one de wear shades whenever she speaks to the press like say she be Abacha.... narcissists are those that will do anything to look good to their satisfaction, na who de post pictures for social media pass , no be woman ?? Same will use make up, do BBL...anyone that's obsessed with attention is a narcissist, and that's what women are known for ....

"more evidence that women leadership is a no no , more reason why women will never be allowed to get that stupid bill of having a number of them in senate.... mumu gender"

"It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ..."

By their comments, you shall know them. The bolded statements point to you being misogynistic. Look up the meaning of the word 'misogynistic' before making baseless claims.

Which kind yeye talk be this? Narcissists na people wey go dey look good for their own satisfaction. Omo see as dey disgrace your gender with your ignorance. If you be my gender, I go just deny you straight up.

E be like say na my gender dey do penis enlargement and dey hit gym for six-packs o 🤣🤣🤣

Merry100:
"more evidence that women leadership is a no no , more reason why women will never be allowed to get that stupid bill of having a number of them in senate.... mumu gender"

"It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ..."

By their comments, you shall know them. The bolded statements point to you being misogynistic. Look up the meaning of the word 'misogynistic' before making baseless claims.

Which kind yeye talk be this? Narcissists na people wey go dey look good for their own satisfaction. Omo see as dey disgrace your gender with your ignorance. If you be my gender, I go just deny you straight up.

E be like say na my gender dey do penis enlargement and dey hit gym for six-packs o 🤣🤣🤣

Madam. Get sense na.... ... People gym for health reasons ... go and Google the meaning of a narcissist.... anyone that's obsessed with their looks ...that's what a narcissist is...

At bolded ...what do stated is fact ... if u are wired to think that it means hate for women, then u also prove my point that u guys are never logical .... the gender that is known for not hold themselves accountable for their bad behaviour.... Natasha has still not apologised ...typical woman ....they never accept fault ... Akpabio did same years ago and when he realised , he apologises to his colleagues and the SP saraki ... but look at this one ... first time ever being elected, she don de do like market woman... what a gender

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cr7lomo:
Madam. Get sense na.... ... People gym for health reasons ... go and Google the meaning of a narcissist.... anyone that's obsessed with their looks ...that's what a narcissist is...

At bolded ...what do stated is fact ... if u are wired to think that it means hate for women, then u also prove my point that u guys are never logical .... the gender that is known for not hold themselves accountable for their bad behaviour.... Natasha has still not apologised ...typical woman ....they never accept fault ... Akpabio did same years ago and when he realised , he apologises to his colleagues and the SP saraki ... but look at this one ... first time ever being elected, she don de do like market woman... what a gender

Ignoramus read my comment again, I said "E be like say na my gender dey do penis enlargement and dey hit gym for six-packs o 🤣🤣🤣"

I specifically mentioned "for six-pack", or aren't there guys who hit the gym just for six-pack abs?

Don't mind the screaming bleaching Banshee. If in real life she is like her on screen cantankerous, screaming character then why won't men be carrying and dumping her like a soldier ant infested log of wood.

Obirin sowa nu o ni ohun kori Ile oko gbe (woman wey no get good character come dey complain say no man wants to stay married to her).

Balistic4:
No one is self-made, absolutely no one be it a man or a woman, you simply failed to acknowledge the people on whose shoulders you climbed. That phrase "self-made" is already riddled with lots of ego boldly written on it and true, it is difficult to deal with an ego-driven woman.

Words of wisdom.

Balistic4:
that's it my brother. When you say you are self-made, you have also removed God's help in your life. Even tarzan that grew up in the bush had the help of animals. No one is self-made

I truly find your view on self-made interesting. Please, what of these supposed self made billionaires in tech we hear of, like the bill gates, Elon, mark and Bezos, are they not self made? Cos they didn't inherit anything but built it . If no one is self-made, then none of them achieved that success through their own efforts.
Normally, when the society says someone is self made, it means how much a person was responsible for creating his or her own wealth without family connections, inherited wealth, other priveleges like court dividing a man's money through divorce, stealing public funds to invest in legal businesses.

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kushme:
I truly find your view on self-made interesting. Please, what of these supposed self made billionaires in tech we hear of, like the bill gates, Elon, mark and Bezos, are they not self made? Cos they didn't inherit anything but built it . If no one is self-made, then none of them achieved that success through their own efforts.
Normally, when the society says someone is self made, it means how much a person was responsible for creating his or her own wealth without family connections, inherited wealth, other priveleges like court dividing a man's money through divorce, stealing public funds to invest in legal businesses.

I just did a simple search on Bill Gates and I have attached the first result I got. Even if you did setup a successful business, you need help for it to scale. You leveraged the help of your staff who were diligent in their work to ensure that you all were successful. Also there are investors, who believed in him. Go and check all the men you called, they don't own 100% stake in their business, that simply tells you that they had help. Self-made in real sense only means self-motivated. If we all agree that no one is an island, then no one is self made. There is also a place of divine help and luck. You totally ignore all these when you say you are self-made. Enough said

Tim1212:
Nigerian actress Bukky Wright recently sparked a conversation about relationships and gender dynamics in Nigeria, stating that many Nigerian men find it challenging to handle self-made, independent women
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Read https://degoldenblog.com.ng/many-nigerian-men-cannot-handle-self-made-women-bukky-wright-cries-out

Madam self made independent woman, what do you need a man for? You already have dominant masculine traits. What then is the use of a masculine female to a man?

Nigerian women think making money is a license for them to be mannerless and arrogant. Why not make money as the adult you are and still be humble and mannerful?