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My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Mercylike(op): 4:08pm On Mar 04, 2025
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


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Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Xannadu: 4:10pm On Mar 04, 2025
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Sonnobax15(m): 4:13pm On Mar 04, 2025
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She's in good relationship with her baby daddy ? shocked. And that doesn't sound somehow before your very ears? shocked. Meaning whenever her baby daddy's head calm down,they can easily come back together, thereby sending your heart to the slum of heartbreaks where it belongs shocked

Bro, just like you said,keep enjoying her kuntus while it last,cuz thats the best you can get from the situationship...
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Fibey69(f): 4:25pm On Mar 04, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
Habbah nah
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Bobodee09: 4:35pm On Mar 04, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
My honest advice if you know you can take lot of BS then continue but if you know you can't just end things.


No football match can ever start from 1-0 and end well.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by mjj2024: 4:35pm On Mar 04, 2025
Run far far away from single mothers.

There is a reason they became single mothers.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by APOPTOSIS: 6:01pm On Mar 04, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
You are not far from the truth.
During weddings, Ladies kneel down in submission to give their heartthrobs (suitors) drink. They profess their loyalty but what happens after the marriage remains a history.
Some even spill hot water on their so called husbands or chop off their manhood after marriage.
Yet millions of ladies don't see this as cheating. 🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's lying under oath.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by APOPTOSIS: 6:05pm On Mar 04, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....
What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
My advice is
Marry a woman that Loves you more than you love her. Then come back later and thank me.
It's only a woman that loves you more that can take your shittt and defend you when the time comes. Marriage is not a Joke.
U can date the ones you are drooling at.
Never make dem feel like you can't live without them. Be a man. Wake-up!
But in marriage, marry the woman that can't spend a day without you. It pays. That's the only woman that can make sacrifices 4u.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by lilvicky68(m): 6:09pm On Mar 04, 2025
Okafor's Law comes to mind when I hear a single mother is in a good relationship with her baby daddy.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by fyneboi79(m): 6:25pm On Mar 04, 2025
APOPTOSIS:
My advice is
Marry a woman that Loves you more than you love her. Then come back later and thank me.
It's only a woman that loves you more that can take your shittt and defend you when the time comes. Marriage is not a Joke.
U can date the ones you are drooling at.
Never make dem feel like you can't live without them. Be a man. Wake-up!
But in marriage, marry the woman that can't spend a day without you. It pays. That's the only woman that can make sacrifices 4u.
No woman truly loves any man...men are just suitable enough for them to be with while still prostituting to men outside.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Pootle: 6:30pm On Mar 04, 2025
the sex is not making you think straight....let your brain do the thinking not your penis undecided
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by APOPTOSIS: 6:49pm On Mar 04, 2025
fyneboi79:
No woman truly loves any man...men are just suitable enough for them to be with while still prostituting to men outside.
Wrong.
Not every woman out there is a prostitute.
That you encounter or patronize prostitutes everyday doesn't validate your standpoint.
Be logical !
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Nicepoker(m): 7:46pm On Mar 04, 2025
Should we tell him? grin
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by AbeeNetwork001(m): 9:02pm On Mar 04, 2025
Interesting
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Nobody: 10:28pm On Mar 04, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Ask her what those issues are and also try to find out the real truth behind those issues. You simps should stop embarrasing the reasonable male folks just because we all have dicks. Where in this world have you seen a single mother who is not "nice" to her new mugu boyfriend? She is nice just because of this your stupid thread. You people will see fire and be asking us whether to put hand in it or not. Mtchew, don't provoke me this night biko.

Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by id4sho(m): 11:31pm On Mar 04, 2025
They've got lots of excess baggages and mostly damaged. Avoid them entirely, your case can never be different 🤷
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Kobojunkie: 12:10am On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me... Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter... She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady.... What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
If the fact that she is a single mother is a red flag for you, why in the world should it matter what others have to say? Na others go come marry her for you, abi wetin? huh
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by fyneboi79(m): 5:16am On Mar 05, 2025
APOPTOSIS:
Wrong.
Not every woman out there is a prostitute.
That you encounter or patronize prostitutes everyday doesn't validate your standpoint.
Be logical !
very illogical!!

There is a prostitute In every female being,depends on how its stimulated with money offers and psychological manipulation . married or single...be wise!
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by BlackfireX: 6:35am On Mar 05, 2025
If I comment they will ban me






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Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by excanny: 7:35am On Mar 05, 2025
You will still be sharing her with her baby daddy. I can guarantee you that.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by thorpido(m):
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Expatiate on the bolded more.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by GbemiTrabaye01: 8:32am On Mar 05, 2025
You're about to pour spit to your own face! You go cry. No let opueh blind u ooooo.... You go cry



Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Baronthecelebri(m): 9:40am On Mar 05, 2025
Mumu man, Bleep her, don't marry her
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 12:00pm On Mar 05, 2025
Ok
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by MaziObinnaokija: 12:00pm On Mar 05, 2025
sad
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by free2ryhme: 12:00pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
we know you are lying but continue...
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by ybalogs(m): 12:00pm On Mar 05, 2025
A single mother giving you joy is not bad once you're sure she's genuine.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by benuejosh: 12:01pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
You're playing.

Her case may be different but it has been established that she will always have bond with the man because of the child.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Thundafireseun: 12:01pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
I pity you….

I have a baby mama so I can speak from experience….

That thing that made her baby daddy run without looking back despite having a daughter already, YOU SHALL SEE IT TOO IJN AMEN
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Orlu13: 12:02pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
No matter how we warn u men to stay away from single mothers, u no go ever hear

Men are d most stupid set of stubborn ppl I have ever seen

Wat happened to all d single gals in ur neighborhood, village, city, social media...na single mother u see to follow...in this hard economy


It's well sha
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