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Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Leetee123: 12:02pm On Mar 05, 2025
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Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by tiswell(m): 12:02pm On Mar 05, 2025
I'm sorry,but single mothers are damag.ed women sad


Men should run from them.


Except widows!!!
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Father4all: 12:03pm On Mar 05, 2025
Do anything your instinct tells you
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by nairalanda1(m): 12:03pm On Mar 05, 2025
fyneboi79:
very illogical!!

[b]There is a prostitute In every female being,[/b]depends on how its stimulated with money offers and psychological manipulation . married or single...be wise!
So your mother, sisters and aunts and grandmother are prostitutes...

OK, thanks for letting us know.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by ybalogs(m): 12:03pm On Mar 05, 2025
excanny:
You will still be sharing her with her baby daddy. I can guarantee you that.
Not necessarily but then finding out why the guy didn't marry her in the first place will go a long way in helping him make the right decision .
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Wealthoptulent(m): 12:03pm On Mar 05, 2025
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Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by MaziObinnaokija: 12:04pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


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Singing * E kilo fomode* That's All.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by nairalanda1(m): 12:05pm On Mar 05, 2025
fyneboi79:
No woman truly loves any man...men are just suitable enough for them to be with while still prostituting to men outside.
So, your mother did not love your father, because she is a prostitute eh?

Yes, you said that every woman has a prostitute inside of her.

Mr man, you are saying serious things o.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by casualobserver: 12:05pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


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RUN AWAY FROM SINGLE MOTHERS!

The Baby daddy is in a good relationship with her but did not see it fit to marry the mother of his child?

Some men need beating!
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by gigabyte13: 12:07pm On Mar 05, 2025
Match wey don already dey lead you one zero already
You still wan join play......
Hmmmmmmmm, l appreciated her for telling you the truth ahead.
If you think say, you go fit play the match carry Jersey join but if your mind dey doubt your ability to play the match
Runnnnnnnnnm
Single motherhood is not a curse or a disease but, you supposed no loose guard if you decide to join.
Okafor law fit still happen.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by nairalanda1(m): 12:07pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


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Well,
1. If you can't get past the fact that she had a child for another man

2. If you don't want to be her child's stepdad

3. If you are still scared of her being a single mother.

Don't marry her.

Infact if you don't want to be her child's stepdad, don't marry her. Such women judge men by whether they like their child. If they do not, marriage is off the table.(And don't pretend to like the child).
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Ijaya123:
APOPTOSIS:
My advice is
Marry a woman that Loves you more than you love her. Then come back later and thank me.
It's only a woman that loves you more that can take your shittt and defend you when the time comes. Marriage is not a Joke.
U can date the ones you are drooling at.
Never make dem feel like you can't live without them. Be a man. Wake-up!
But in marriage, marry the woman that can't spend a day without you. It pays. That's the only woman that can make sacrifices 4u.
Women don’t love men. When will you people realise this? They are not wired to love.

Women are only in love with the feelings they derive from being with you. They are more loyal to their feelings than to your sacrifices.

Only men are capable of loving.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Britishpea: 12:08pm On Mar 05, 2025
You will cry...avoid single mothers except the one with a deceased husband, maybe... the word maybe
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Bribri: 12:09pm On Mar 05, 2025
was about saying same. knack well then take a break to reason objectively.
Pootle:
the sex is not making you think straight....let your brain do the thinking not your penis undecided
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Dshocker(m): 12:11pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


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Every single mothers are good in character, until you marry them 😂
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by joachimnkenchor(m): 12:13pm On Mar 05, 2025
God help us
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Pawa100: 12:15pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


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Their number ONE Wahala is that , YOU MUST LOVE her daughter like your own daughter ! You must take the whole responsibility of the irresponsible ex on your head grin grin grin

Bro ! You go raise someone's child grin grin grin
While that someone while be waiting to reap the sweat of your labour grin grin cheesy
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Meteng: 12:20pm On Mar 05, 2025
The one wey I get here fine die! She come sweet pussy pass anything. I no know as dem go take comot me for her hand. E come be me like say jazz don enter. Abi why her Pussy come sweet me pass all the girls wey I don knack since
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by OZIOGU1: 12:20pm On Mar 05, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
You are 95% correct
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Kobicove(m): 12:20pm On Mar 05, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
This is not always true
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by OZIOGU1: 12:21pm On Mar 05, 2025
Dont ever try it
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by kareemkamil(m): 12:24pm On Mar 05, 2025
Most of them are good due to the experience they've.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Originalsly: 12:25pm On Mar 05, 2025
Nothing wrong with having a relationship with a single mom. Before trying to find out if she's a "good person" you need to first find out about the baby daddy... his relationship with the child ...his relationship with her th mother and the reason why they are no longer together.
She told you she has a good relationship with her baby daddy. Do you really need to hear more?

And we wonder why some men end up in toxic relationships and keep blaming the women.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Stobenson: 12:25pm On Mar 05, 2025
It seems u no dey read news on social media
Se u no hear wat happened to ijoba lande

I dey pit u
Soon, u go come here again for advise
Wen u c shege
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by advanceDNA: 12:26pm On Mar 05, 2025
thorpido:
Expantiate on the bolded more.
U too like wahala... cool
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by WEALTHOLA: 12:27pm On Mar 05, 2025
"In Good relationship with her baby daddy " That is a good signal you notice The ball is in your court don't be deluded by the facade of love . You will learn later i pray you don't learn the hard way
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by xavuv:
Believe me bro, all single mothers are nice and caring till ...

Be oiling her regularly. Dont let her get pregnant for you, talkless of marrying her. I beg you.


Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


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Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by TrackerSK: 12:28pm On Mar 05, 2025
My advice to you is pipe her and refer to innocent guys.learn or perish
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Gggjhhj: 12:28pm On Mar 05, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
Do you just judge people because you don't like them, I have seen people getting married to single mothers with no complaints and they also have peace of mind, your level of hate is too much, pray your female relatives don't get cut up in such situation
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Meti99(m):
I am a baby daddy and she still allow me size her kpekus whenever we cross paths
If you are a man of steel heart you can marry her.
Mind you some men survive only by enough troubles
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Exceed15: 12:29pm On Mar 05, 2025
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