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Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by mukthar2000(m): 12:30pm On Mar 05, 2025
Please guys, stop having bad Impressions about signing mothers, though they have different issues that make them to be single mother, they are world best, superwoman, caring and kind not Becos of sex but extraordinary kind and future planers. if u are fortunate to met the good once among them.
Though I have 1 and I understand what I mean better.

Don't badmouth all singles others Becos they are single pls.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Snoolv360(m): 12:32pm On Mar 05, 2025
Some men don't know what they want and are looking for...if you are comfortable with her as stated, take her to your pple and don't turn us to a soothsayer here...
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by IamHonourable1: 12:33pm On Mar 05, 2025
There's no how wey she no go try make una connect well, but I tell you, you go soon see wetin make am a single mother
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by okven: 12:35pm On Mar 05, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
I laughed in Spanish....,

single mothers can be very violence at times do to they wouldn't want to experience what transpired in the past where by they could get hustle with any available man around them in other not to be cheated the second time

They are mostly inclined with self pity but then," very unpredictable
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by tbliss22(m): 12:37pm On Mar 05, 2025
Single mothers can be cool to be with but only if the baby's father is dead grin grin grin
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by TTPAAR(m): 12:39pm On Mar 05, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
Straight!!!!
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by idahme(m): 12:39pm On Mar 05, 2025
Can you be in a polyandrous relationship? If yes continue if no don't try it
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by iamme1234(m): 12:40pm On Mar 05, 2025
Very wise nigga



quote author=Xannadu post=134394416]They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.[/quote]
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by iSense247: 12:43pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
If you marry her, you will be sharing her with the love of her life, her baby Daddy. You are her last choice.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by samfrancis1(m): 12:43pm On Mar 05, 2025
fyneboi79:
No woman truly loves any man...men are just suitable enough for them to be with while still prostituting to men outside.
I agree that women don’t love me but women respect men enough to follow his rule and stand with him in whatever he set as a goal.. then the man shows her love in return
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Validated: 12:43pm On Mar 05, 2025
Bobodee09:
My honest advice if you know you can take lot of BS then continue but if you know you can't just end things.

No football match can ever start from 1-0 and end well.
Okafor law is REAL of natural justice grin grin
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by keymatt(m): 12:44pm On Mar 05, 2025
lilvicky68:
Okafor's Law comes to mind when I hear a single mother is in a good relationship with her baby daddy.
Which one is Okafor's law huh
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Keybliss: 12:48pm On Mar 05, 2025
I dated one for 5years, it didn't end well at all. Despite she knew I was married she dated me, I thought I knew her all not knowing she has other Guys aside me. Think deep bro, yours might be different though
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by happney65: 12:51pm On Mar 05, 2025
Are you a single father yourself? Single father for single mother. I no wan hear single Man with no child go dey marry single mother o. I go curse you ni
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by ekitimanalways(m): 12:52pm On Mar 05, 2025
Carefully consider the commitment involved.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by JesusSaves49(m): 12:55pm On Mar 05, 2025
The greatest mistake is falling in love with a single mother.
Their first love is their child/ children
Second is their baby daddy
Then, you
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Moniya4Real(m): 1:00pm On Mar 05, 2025
Or while she still in search of a better option.
fyneboi79:
No woman truly loves any man...men are just suitable enough for them to be with while still prostituting to men outside.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Nobody: 1:00pm On Mar 05, 2025
I've dated ladies older than me and dated single mothers some older than me.

I've noticed one thing common about these two kind of ladies: They are mostly emotionally damaged ladies due to their past lifestyles (I won't say due to the kind of men they've met because ladies in our society likes bad and wayward men in their prime).

Most single mothers are like deep-rooted criminals who suspects everybody of being a criminal like them no matter how angelic you appear or try to behave. Trying to please most single mothers can break you seriously. They are filled with dramas.

From your comment, I believe she played an emotional script for you which you fell for it and became deeply emotional about or towards her which is very dangerous to you.

It's worthy to note that it's very difficult to detect the true character of a 30+ lady, single mother or both who's desperately looking for a man form survival and emotional support in the name of marriage (it's a dangerous path for a man)

If you know yourself that you're an emotional person and you fell in love with her via emotion or pity please end the relationship because a lady knows when you fall in love with her due to the emotional script she played for you. If you want to fall in love with a single mother, please keep emotion as the last option because it's emotion single mothers used to pin men they refer to as 'God-fearing and serious men'

For the part of her still talking with her baby daddy, I laugh you in China, cos the baby daddy go still dey collect
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Oluwaseunomo: 1:03pm On Mar 05, 2025
MaziObinnaokija:
Singing * E kilo fomode* That's All.
Bro abeg no kill me
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by lagosrd: 1:04pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....
What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Do what you have to do. Its all about you.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Miramonica: 1:06pm On Mar 05, 2025
Singo moda of one no good to marry oo. Anything Singo Moda, just run.

You want to settle down with a retired Bed-to-Bed midfielder...nawa for you o
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Oluwaseunomo: 1:08pm On Mar 05, 2025
mukthar2000:
Please guys, stop having bad Impressions about signing mothers, though they have different issues that make them to be single mother, they are world best, superwoman, caring and kind not Becos of sex but extraordinary kind and future planers. if u are fortunate to met the good once among them.
Though I have 1 and I understand what I mean better.

Don't badmouth all singles others Becos they are single pls.
Getout from here everybody dey join hand correct person you dey talk nonsense. Who send am to be single mother should it be at a young man expense. If life turn you to single mama stop looking for innocent man wey just start life to spoil by marrying you it's obvious he'll live to regret it. Instead get your shit together work hustle raise money and train your baby
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by EmperorIsaac(m): 1:10pm On Mar 05, 2025
Xannadu:
They're usually good ladies in the beginning. It's later you'll understand why her baby daddy didn't marry her.
Seconded! grin
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by EmperorIsaac(m): 1:14pm On Mar 05, 2025
Ijaya123:
Women don’t love men. When will you people realise this? They are not wired to love.

Some are only in love with the feelings they derive from being with you.
And as soon as they stop feeling the way they used to feel, it's over. A highly fickle specie.

Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by iamme1234(m): 1:15pm On Mar 05, 2025
Those singles mothers are sucks and trash
Irrelevant issues makes a woman want to feel outside
What makes her to be single
Would soon turn you to single father too

Ogun idile Lohan worry women yen


Better be wise

Or else you will be the last mugu waiting for in hell
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by soccerlite: 1:21pm On Mar 05, 2025
How old are you and the single mother

Was she married to the man or just sex that turn to pregnancy

Why/when did she tell you or was it you that found out

Is the man married to another woman now

How old his the daughter

I can advise you from my experience
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by soccerlite: 1:23pm On Mar 05, 2025
Oluwaseunomo:
Getout from here everybody dey join hand correct person you dey talk nonsense. Who send am to be single mother should it be at a young man expense. If life turn you to single mama stop looking for innocent man wey just start life to spoil by marrying you it's obvious he'll live to regret it. Instead get your shit together work hustle raise money and train your baby
Lolzzzzz 🤣
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by Jefferyhi86(m): 1:24pm On Mar 05, 2025
Shey the times she usually comes u de knack her sha..
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by soundOsonic: 1:26pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
No problem dating a single mother, if you don't wanna marry her don't maintain relationship with her kids because once u do and then disappear it will hurt the child.
If you are planning on marrying her stay committed to her and her kids and don't ignore them.
I will advice you if you can accept her kids go ahead.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by fyneboi79(m): 1:28pm On Mar 05, 2025
nairalanda1:
So my mother, sisters and aunts and grandmother are prostitutes...

OK, thanks for letting me know.
you are welcome my boy.
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by fyneboi79(m): 1:29pm On Mar 05, 2025
nairalanda1:
So, my mother did not love my father, because she is a prostitute eh?

Yes, you said that every woman has a prostitute inside of her.

Mr man, you are saying serious things o.
let it sink....
Re: My Dilemma With A Single Mother by jaxxy(m): 1:30pm On Mar 05, 2025
Mercylike:
Please advise me...

Met her via Facebook and we connected well... She has visited me couple of times and I really enjoyed her but the thing is dt she is a single mother........ Not in bad relationship with her baby daddy but due to some issues, they never got married but have a daughter...

She is a good lady and I really like her.... Just scared of the fact that she is a single lady....


What do I do lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
How long have u known her? Nobody is perfect so know her good and bads or ugly b4 u conclude anything about anybody.

Not later u say I didn't know she was like dis or that.
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