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| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by omooba969(m): 10:43pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
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| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by omooba969(m): 10:46pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
tobstarizhia:Oya suck my tongue!  5 Likes
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| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by omooba969(m): 10:51pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
Kenmarine:🙌 Respect to Zim! 7 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Drella: 10:55pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
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| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Drella: 10:57pm On Mar 08, 2025*. Modified: 10:06am On Mar 09, 2025 |
PrinceofAgoAre:Search “Baikoko uchi” online and see the wonders of Tanzanian women from the ensuing videos. 5 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Drella: 10:58pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
lebete3000:Your uncle didn’t talk about helping you to move out of naija😂 2 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by ultim: 11:04pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
AdolfHitlerxXx:Nigerian women are the most beautiful in Sub-Saharan Africa (on a large scale). The real African beauty, not the half and quarter casts you see in those small countries like Gabon, Swaziland, Soutome, etc You probably have not traveled well. 5 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by IHate9jerianss(m): 11:17pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
ultim: 8 Likes
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| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by micflo28(m): 11:32pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
I crave for Ethiopian and Somalian Women. They are damn sweet and clean. 5 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by micflo28(m): 11:34pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
1Sharon:can I kiss the down part of your lips 4 Likes
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| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by SmallmebigGod: 11:42pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
lebete3000:No, I didn't check |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by ASAPFERG: 11:48pm On Mar 08, 2025 |
You blacks and sex everytime  5 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by optimusprime2(m): 12:33am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Women made for men who are into heavy lifting  Chai! |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by lebete3000: 12:45am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Drella:He didn't see the seriousness in me to japa, cos Naija was okay then in 2012 working as a Medical Doctor. Now Yahoo boys are the new "Doctors" in the eyes of these babes. 1 Like |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by spartachico(m): 12:59am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Women from the southern part of Africa cherish and love Nigeria and Ghanian men even to a fault ... I have a high school pal who married a south African lady and they are so good together with peace of mind ... You see these east African women... Those people are the worst these days ... No peace of mind o I have two friends who married Kenya ladies and they are no more in love despite bringing kids into the world.. southy and west Africa all the way. |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Namigotalktru: 1:00am On Mar 09, 2025 |
I sorry for the people in this thread. Naija women wey born you no fine but they are the ones from Africa that keep winning Miss Universe. If you want to explore because you finally made it out of your village, enjoy. No need to put down where you come from or your women for that. My wife is a beautiful Nigerian woman and so are my daughters thankfully they stay away from poverty minded men like the author. Let him catch his cheap tricks with others. Nigerian women are for men who can. 4 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Drella: 1:15am On Mar 09, 2025 |
lebete3000:Never too late to japa tho 1 Like |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Nahunger(m): 2:16am On Mar 09, 2025 |
huptin:Na this part dey vex me, VERY DISRESPECTFUL AND ENTITLED...... Like you can just imagine, how those overused leeches think, with countless body counts they expect to be worshiped and spoilt.. Like WTF who adores a rotten plantain or banana 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by jojothaiv(m): 4:53am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Dogalmighty17:I don't know him but he's damn right. Until the average Nigeria nigga experience love from other nationals, most wouldn't know that they are being served rubbish over here. 2 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by AdolfHitlerxXx: 4:53am On Mar 09, 2025 |
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| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Emeskhalifa(m): 4:55am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Nefort:It's a criminal offence though, to deliberately eat someone's money and nor come through with what's promised. What's the difference between them and scammers? 2 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by franchasng: 5:15am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Dogalmighty17:Not all of them. Yes majority of Nigerian women prioritize money and material things in relationships and marriages, but you cannot blame them for that because they are the Monster we Nigerian men created. The Nigerian society made Nigerian women to become so anxious about money and material things. In Nigeria, we value money and material wealth more than any other thing, so why wont our women follow suit? Nigerian men created the Nigerian women and made them the materialistic women they turned out to be, so we Nigerian men must share the major part of the blame. But then, not all Nigerian women are bad or materialistic and antagonistic in marriage, some of them do give peace of mind if you are lucky to find one 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by AndyCole16(m): 5:35am On Mar 09, 2025 |
pocohantas:Hello Poco, Being a while, you have not being around or something. I was looking for your post like 2 months ago can't get the right spelling of your moniker. Hope you are doing great. |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 5:57am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Nefort:We still need to blow off loads ... We insult them, we don't hate them.. it's not that deep... |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 6:14am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Namigotalktru:Kpele.. Big spender . No Sha allow the money run down make you no see the other side of your wife (the golden Nigerian woman)... 2 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by kushme: 6:22am On Mar 09, 2025*. Modified: 7:26pm On Mar 17, 2025 |
ednut1:ednut1, how far? please. I need help. |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Ilekokonit: 6:43am On Mar 09, 2025*. Modified: 10:26pm On Mar 09, 2025 |
JoeRizzla:When we advised Naija ladies years ago to stop copying from Nollywood how to verbally abuse men and how to be generally cantankerous and unmanageable, dem go begin abuse the messenger but now the chicken has come home to roost and the only Nigerian women worth marrying now are the illiterate or semi-illiterate women as Dem no go begin drag feminism with you and they actually want to stay married and the less a woman's activity on social media, the better of a wife she would be compared to a woman who because her education has deceived her she has turned herself into a man bashing screaming banshee online in the delusional belief that that's what feminism means. When you see a very educated man impregnate his house girl, e get why. 11 years ago (i.e 2014) when i still thought that our women were redeemable and marriageable, I wrote the below article on this same Nairaland advising women from an African mans eye-view and unique vantage point giving them Tips To Keeping A Good African Man. I think Seun was impressed with the advice I gave in the article that he locked it in 2014 and even I the author can not edit it. Looking back now, I think in 2014, I was still having pity on Nigerian women living in London who could not read the hand writing on the wall that UK men were voting with their feet and avoiding dating them talk less of wanting to marry them but now 11 years later with the advent of social media which has exposed to the world what a lot of our women are really like, I no longer have that pity for women who want to get married but can't find a man to trap into marriage. The response I got 11 years ago from my honest advise in my 2014 Nairaland article was that not a few women opened their uncouth mouths to try and insult me for giving them good advice that would have saved them from the shame of eternal spinsterhood and their responses just made me shake my head. My post of 2014 is reproduced below :- Tips To Keeping A Good African Man - © Ilekokonit - 4 Nov 2014 · Recognise that not every westernised idea or norm is good for the longevity of an African relationship · Respect your man, respect his African values · Don’t rubbish African culture for the sake of feminism · Know or learn what being an African man is all about · Recognise that a woman living alone for a long concerted time reduces a woman’s compatibility with a proper African man · Don’t puncture his balloon just to get even or drag him down · Don’t be hateful, spiteful or seek revenge · Be forgiving, Don’t be mean and Don’t be wicked · Recognise that even Beyoncé who sang “independent woman” is still holding tight to her man, likewise the Queen of England and Margaret Thatcher before her death · Keep the parts of your body that are meant to be hidden, hidden and not on public display · Serve as a good role model to his children especially his daughter(s) · Don’t by your way of life / dressing set bad moral examples for his children especially his daughter(s) · Don’t stop him from bringing up his children with good old school African values · Never antagonize him in front of anyone especially his kids even behind his back · Recognize that a boy’s first and everlasting hero is his father and so, never belittle, curse, shout at or castigate him in front of his children especially his sons. Remember that in almost ALL cases, the boy will remind you in later years how you maltreated his dad when he was young and he couldn’t do anything about it · Recognise that a woman’s crown is her man · Be DRAMA FREE, Don’t be rude, saucy or stroppy · Don’t be selfish or self-centered · Don’t be addicted to TV, fashion, jewelries or your career !!! · Don’t keep up with the jones · Believe in for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health because he seriously does whatever the situation · Don’t be evil or fetish · You Don’t need a pastor or imam to tell you about the future of your relationship · Value his opinion above that of your pastor or imam or even your parents · Realise that 2 cannot work together unless they agree · Don’t compete with him financially or otherwise fully realizing that he is willing to share everything he has with you · Don’t have the erroneous belief that "his money is your money and your money is your money" · Don’t keep secrets from him · Don’t be crafty, evasive, deceitful or manipulative · Don’t try to manipulative him with anything (not even religion) · Don’t be combative, cantankerous · Don’t tear your own home apart with your very own hands like the woman who does just that with her own hands in Proverbs 14:1 and is described by the bible as foolish · Realise that a foolish woman keeps talking but a wise woman understands the power of her words as well as her silence · Realise that it is a FACT when Proverbs 21:9 says that It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house and as such keeps your home peaceful · Don’t be moody, unfriendly or stubborn to him · REALISE THAT PART OF WHAT PUTS A MAN OFF HIS WIFE FOR GOOD IS THE FACIAL EXPRESSIONS YOU USE WHEN QUARELLING WITH HIM · Realise the difference between slapping your man in a film and slapping your man in real life · Keep friends who are family orientated and want to last in their relationships with their other halves · Don’t threaten to harm yourself or drink bleach just to get his attention or win an argument · Faces issues head on without hiding behind non issues · Don’t deny him his conjugal rights · Want to grow old with him together, be in the relationship for the long haul · Don’t be crafty, evasive, cagey or secretive · Don’t have unnecessary male friends · allow him access to your phone if you are not hiding anything · Don’t be deceived by your being young or by your beautiful face, realise that the real beauty of a woman is in your character · Don’t believe that because you are beautiful then you cannot be corrected · Don’t lie to him · Don’t be a combative feminist · Don’t indulge in being married to an inanimate object · Don’t smoke and if you do drink, do so rarely, moderately and only on social occasions and Don’t form the habit of drinking alone (Even most men Don’t drink alone except for alcoholics) · Don’t do drugs · Value the old school family values that our parents held dear · Treat him like your mum treated your dad (hopefully, your mum treated your dad well) · Realise that no man wants to live with a combative quarrelsome woman · Don’t hide behind crocodile tears just to get your way · Don’t always have an answer for everything (nobody does) · Don’t talk at 1000 miles per hour just because you can · Think before you talk · Don’t monopolize the conversation. · Conversation is a 2 way thing. You talk, keep quiet, let him talk, and you listen, then ponder his response before forming your response · Don’t be over-ambitious or money motivated if you want to keep an African man · Don’t strive to keep up with the Jones, Don’t copy your friends especially their bad behaviors including haughtiness and pride towards your man · Don’t copy the way loud, foul-mouthed Nollywood actresses abuse men. Copying them is a recipe for quick divorce · Don’t feel superior to your man and never treat him with disdain or arrogance · Don’t be stingy to him if he is generous to you · Realise that him loving you is not a sign of weakness · Never try to give him orders · Make respect your watch word · Love a harmonious home · NEVER keep grudges, never bottles things up · openly discuss issues as they arise · NEVER discuss your marital issues with your parents, friends or any 3rd party · Be in the relationship for the long haul and Don’t be a serial man changer just because you think your beauty will last forever · NEVER EVER feel that there are many fish in the ocean (not all fish are good. Some are poisonous in the short or long run) · If you get a good man, do your best to keep him irrespective of what your “friends” say as ENOUGH African men are delaying marriage because of the aggression and wild ways of the potential suitors currently available · Realise that the phrase money is not everything did not just fall from the sky. There was a reason it was coined those many years ago · Realise that a lot of “proper” African men see educated African women as too combative and so tone down your “gra gra” when you are in his company · You may be a manager of teacher at work but drop those badges at the door before you enter the house as no African likes being lectured by his woman. You are his woman and not his lecturer. · If you meet a new guy who is honest enough to tell you he is currently unemployed, never assume that he is going to ask you for money as REAL African men never ask a woman for money nor collect such if offered · Never get used to living alone for too long lest you become so used to your freedom, space and singleness that sub-consciously you frustrate every new man you meet because your spirit wants to remain free · Realise that NOT everything that helps you climb the career ladder is helpful to your marriage. Some of them are destructive to African marriages · Never use sex as a weapon · Whenever your hubby chooses a late night hubby away from the home or chooses to go alone to the beer parlor repeatedly instead of staying with you at home and only comes back at around 2am or later on a consistent basis then he is trying to say to you that his love for you is dying a slow death and he can no longer bear your company as you are making his life miserable at home and/or you are no longer listening to him · Don’t neglect your man supposedly because of religious duties, realise that there is a time for everything and Don’t spend too many hours at church/mosque leaving your man lonely at home · Don’t hide behind religion or religious phrases just to control your man, Don’t choose to pontificate and sermonize him instead of discussing real issues with your non-religious hat on · Don’t adopt a holier than thou attitude with him · Don’t lecture him, Don’t sermonize when he is discussing something with you with his rational mind · Don’t form the bad habit of lying to him especially if he is truthful to you · NEVER put your career or business above your relationship !!! · Don’t feel your joint kids are your property or a meal ticket for you in the future and never use his kids as a weapon or bargaining ticket with him · NEVER turn his children against him · Be kind to him · Don’t practice NLP - neuro linguistic programming (or any other type of mind control techniques that Westernised women use to climb the career ladder) on him as most smart men know when they are being manipulated · Never use NLP techniques on him when discussing issues with him in a ploy to put him on the defensive so that you will win the argument · Don’t argue with him unnecessarily or argue with him just to tick your log book of arguments you have won with him · Don’t try to control him IN ANY WAY · Don’t give him orders · Don’t argue with him just for arguments sake · Don’t wind him up or stress him when there is no need for it · If you try to control him or play unnecessary mind games on him or try to control his mind in the first few weeks of meeting him, then chances are that that relationship will not last (that’s even if it starts in the first place) · Remember that unnecessarily or repeatedly stressing your man only quickens the end of that relationship · Realise that “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man” is just a book that Steve Harvey made loads of money from. · A lady should always be a lady in her actions and in thoughts and “Acting Like a Lady and Thinking Like a Man” is not just difficult to maintain, it is deceptive, it portrays the woman as unnecessarily competitive and aggressive and is a sure fire way to a quick divorce or separation · Wishing you all the best as you search for that “Good” African man of which there are loads IF YOU KNOW HOW TO KEEP THEM INTERESTED FOR THE LONG HAUL https://www.nairaland.com/1980592/tips-keeping-good-african-man 4 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by CHAQUR: 7:01am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Nigeria girls took the feminist campaign too much to heart that it affects them unconsciously... Lazy, selfish, highly demanding with an high sense of entitlement yet promiscuous and disrespectful. Never a recipe for peace of mind. 3 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Focusmind: 7:10am On Mar 09, 2025 |
We should stop this habit of bashing our Nigerian women. Millions of nigerians are married to Nigerian women without any problems. Some have lived abroad with their Nigerian wives without any issue. The only thing I agreed with the write-up is the behaviour of nigerians regarding sharing of "progressive " information on jobs and opportunities. I don't know why this is ingrained in our DNA. Some have made it a habit NOT to share some information that would benefit their friends, thinking that the friends will soon become more successful than them. I witnessed that during my stay in UK. People would rather share fliers about their church programmes with you than inform you about a recent recruitment going on in their organisation or elsewhere. Though, not all nigerians. Many are also good in providing leads on jobs and opportunities. 2 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by illicit(m): 7:14am On Mar 09, 2025 |
I love Ibo girls... |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by Germi9: 7:42am On Mar 09, 2025 |
AdolfHitlerxXx:Naija babes can not be beautiful without heavy make up. Even in shape and curves dem no follow. That’s why I went far to East Africa 3 Likes |
| Re: Romance: Zimbabwean Women Take The Centre Stage by otomatic(m): 7:57am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Samantha125:Lol. Based on size, you may use them for gymnastics. |
, now you're kidding breh. 
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